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 barriekam29
Joined: 1/1/2009
Msg: 213
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Shocking how this thread got so many responses. Is this one of the PoF's most successfull trolling threads?
 aGent Lemon
Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 214
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why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 8/11/2009 11:57:57 AM
Since we're on this topic... I guess what should've have been asked is... what keeps most women away from having sex... aside from that personal monthly visit from mother nature... even though some don't even care if she's around, especially when there are those of us who try to do everything possible to get you ladies very much in the mood and even after several months have gone by... we usually hear from those we have that wholesome desire for that they don't know if it would be better to wait a bit longer, which would go on for several more months or even years. I guess there's also the fear of getting pregnant by somebody who might not take up on the responsibility of being a father... so there's that fear factor... but isn't it the vast majority women who have quite the list of restrictions such as simply saying hi to you ladies while walking the opposite direction along the sidewalk... most of us men get shot down on just that account alone... yet told by numerous of others who are in a relationship already that they can't understand how those of us are still single... and they sometimes feel quite convinced that we're "probably" not trying hard enough, haha!
 Anestis
Joined: 6/11/2009
Msg: 215
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 9/4/2009 9:46:42 AM
women like good sex so id start with checking out your performance. remember sex isn't about interecourse only for a woman.
 Willow Witch of the North
Joined: 5/7/2009
Msg: 216
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 9/7/2009 9:47:10 AM

Since we're on this topic... I guess what should've have been asked is... what keeps most women away from having sex...


Making a sweeping generalization here but this is my thought.....guys can perform on a dime! Women (most times) need lots of warm up time. Unless you can communicate openly, honestly and with love, someone is not going to get their needs met.

Over time, that someone could potentially get cranky....

The Art of Communication should be taught in every grade from JK on up...
 smilin blue eyes 68
Joined: 6/27/2008
Msg: 217
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 9/7/2009 2:57:40 PM
*****women like good sex so id start with checking out your performance. remember sex isn't about interecourse only for a woman.*****

Good answer!! Men and women want good sex. What's the point of having sex if it's going to be bad. Sex for women, generally, starts outside the bedroom as well.

I've heard from some of my girlfriends that men they've met aren't interested in sex, so it's not just women.

If I had a partner that wasn't interested in sex, first I'd have them see a medical doctor to make sure everything is ok, and if a physical exam checks out, might be time for some therapy/counselling as a couple and on their own to get to the root of the problem.
 .REE.
Joined: 8/5/2009
Msg: 218
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 9/12/2009 7:36:49 PM
are you crazy????!!!!!!! I had to almost beg my ex for sex sometimes. Other exes of mine were always like "once a day's enough". gimme like 5 times a day every day, and I am a very happy person lol
 alitheia
Joined: 8/26/2009
Msg: 219
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 9/13/2009 7:52:09 AM
Women attach themselves a lot more emotionally to their intimate relationships than men do. A lot of things can factor in as to why they choose not to have as much sex as their male partner would like.

If you are in an emotionally stressful relationship, chances are, sex is a no-go on the female perspective. If you are keeping your woman happy, she will want to share that happiness in return.

I think women have strong, healthy sex drives, more-so than men sometimes... We focus on our partner, and pay more attention to his wants and needs than he does for ours.
Its not that he's aware of his negligence, women are just more naturally intuitive. LOL

 Farid_tiger
Joined: 9/22/2009
Msg: 220
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 12/4/2009 1:14:01 PM
the sex drive could definitley be a factor. but i think it is mainly due to the fact that for every girl there's always plenty of guys trying to sleep with her and that makes the girl to be selective. Just imagine that the rules of nature were the other way around and you, as a typical guy, were in a club where every single girl in the club wanted to take you home and have sex with you , yes you will definitly enjoy that but, wouldnt you egnore some of the girls and take the cute ones first, furthermore, since you know that the other girls never go anywhere and they are always awailabe whenever you want them to be, you would take your time, and never rush things. But unfortunately this is the other way around. and mostly it is the poor male you have to go fishing. i hope that i've answered your question. enjoy fishing
 And thats country!
Joined: 12/1/2009
Msg: 221
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 12/7/2009 10:43:02 PM
What a crok I agree us gals just keep going and going I have only found one lover in my lifetime who had a good chance in keeping up with my pace, and he called me Killer:
 missjk
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 222
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Posted: 12/8/2009 7:30:12 AM
I like my sex. I have a pretty high sex drive, but when I get too much sex, it hits a low. Its weird.
 Dr. Gazebo
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 223
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Posted: 12/9/2009 12:14:36 AM
Its biological. Man needs to sow seeds. Everywhere. All the time.

Women need to select which seeds to cultivate.

Thats biology.
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 224
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 12/11/2009 1:13:23 PM
In short, sexuality is very personal to different people. I don't know, but apparently my previous posts from a few weeks back were alittle "R" rated perhapes, I will just say my opinion on this very 'nicely'. Many people will experiment and some are more bold about trying people out then others. I mean, first off, if you are not married, the idea is always to have a condom. I don't know, maybe where I was brought up, it is different then here, but I tried to give many ladies a chance and we offcourse played it safe. Here in North America, this would be classified as "cheating" or "playing". I honestly don't like those terms. But I beleive in giving ladies that I have some interest in sexually and otherwise, a chance. So therefore, there are not too many that I turn down assuming I think they look good and I can see them naked and enjoy it etc. But in Countries like Austria, Romania, Hungary and Turkey for example, it is almost considered ok at times for a guy while NOT being married to be testing the waters with more then one lady at a time.

So evidently they do things differently here, but thats ok, nobodies perfect lol. But I think the better thing to do to prevent these kinds of questions and situations, would be to explore and be with more then one lady at a time, assuming again that you are not married!!!!, then it's a NO NO!!!!

By the way I also agree about the genders, there is a biological difference also.
 Gal_From_NS
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 225
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 12/18/2009 5:09:10 PM
WHAT the!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm not saying anything more. Okay one thing. WHAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 Firmbear8
Joined: 2/12/2006
Msg: 226
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 12/18/2009 5:35:42 PM
Well I don't know which women some of you guys are dating that don't like sex !
But maybe its just you they say that to as maybe your no good in bed.
I've never had any lady I dated that didn't want sex !
And maybe its just the ones I date but they all wanted sex .
Cause every lady I have ever met & dated were the ones who wanted sex and were not afraid to say so !
So like I said maybe its who you guys are dating or its you they find not good in bed !
 MysticalM
Joined: 1/19/2009
Msg: 227
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 4/14/2010 7:28:26 PM

The fact that men almost always get an orgasm, and women don't as often might have a lot to do with it...


Yup. That and also the fact that women can pretty much get laid any time they want... finding a willing male partner is nowhere near as difficult for us as it is for men to find a willing female partner.

It's just the way the balls... er... ball bounces.


 aGent Lemon
Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 228
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Posted: 4/15/2010 7:44:44 PM
In comparison, I feel that it's somewhat a different level of intensity, that although it gives many of us men quite an ultimate sensation, it seems like the ladies take a quite bit more pleasure in it than we can, especially when their nerves are making them naturally do what I believe is called... the happy shake... which on average tends to last for more than 10 minutes even without any further contact, but only some girls find themselves to reach such a climax.

Speaking of which... according to what I've heard... surprisingly enough... some women are only able to climax with men as opposed to the use of any vibrator... and... vise-versa. Therefore I guess it really depends on what else would be on their mind to cause that certain disconnection... meanwhile... some of us men are able to overcome much more of our stress by having great sex.

I realised that even gorgeous women can fall absolutely in love with the men who in their opinion were far below their preferences simply by having a cheerful personality.

Now a little off topic... did anybody else notice the mainpage forum link went missing? I figure these forums are excellent to learn about eachother more in depth.
 Sandy Bachman
Joined: 4/15/2010
Msg: 229
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 4/20/2010 4:28:32 PM
Did it ever occur to anyone that women are capable of becoming pregnant via sex, so perhaps its not that they don't enjoy it, but rather they have pregnancy concerns. Some women may not be able to take the pill and have to rely on other methods and every time they have sex, this might be in the backs of their minds.

As an example, I had pregnancy scare once in a new relationship when I was 23 and living on my own for only 6 months..I had just started taking the pill for the first time...my period was a week late and I went through so much fear and anxiety during that week, worried to death that I might be pregnant. It turned out I wasn't thankfully. But this could be why maybe a woman has difficulties, having that fear in her mind.

It's very easy for men, isn't it??
 aGent Lemon
Joined: 11/10/2005
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Posted: 4/20/2010 4:55:18 PM

Did it ever occur to anyone that women are capable of becoming pregnant via sex, so perhaps its not that they don't enjoy it, but rather they have pregnancy concerns.

Yep... in Msg: 288... I sort of already pointed that one out, but said it's usually from the fear of their partner might not be an ideal father figure. I was going to rephrase myself to add in "...especially by those who...".
 grandmas_boy
Joined: 3/27/2010
Msg: 231
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Posted: 5/27/2010 6:57:17 AM
its boils down to the fact that men are more open about sexual needs and want to get it done and over with...and then generally leave or fall asleep lol. For women, most anyways, they can just point at a guy and pick him with no problem (unless theyre lacking in the looks department as men respond visually to attraction more than emotionally - hence makeup).

nature of the beast, that said it also depends where you live. Here in Toronto women behave a lot differently than in my european country and im always amazed how much of a difference in terms of looks and attitude there is between the 2. Over there being hot doesnt equate to being frigid to everyone except the 1 guy you pick and overall people are willing to talk for the sake of chatting if nothing else. Here i was in a club back 3-4 years ago and turned around to ask a girl what the time was because i didnt have my watch on me and she just turned her back. As if that was a pickup line lol...

Different worlds.
 Big_OH
Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 232
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Posted: 6/3/2010 10:42:49 AM
I don't know where he met these girls he spoke of maybe in church... Oops what am I saying even the church girls I've met wanted lots of sex... Maybe while married but most of the women really love GREAT SEX ... There I've said my piece....

Keep humping all...



 internetdatingscaresme
Joined: 6/10/2010
Msg: 233
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Posted: 6/14/2010 7:39:04 AM
I think you must be meeting the wrong women.
Convents don't count.
 kissmyasthma
Joined: 12/4/2009
Msg: 234
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Posted: 6/14/2010 12:36:13 PM
I think all women like sex BUT it has to be with the right person, men are not as picky about who they get their rocks off with.

And this is because as another poster stated women can find a willing man easier than a man can find a willing partner so we don't waste the opportunity and can mange to get off most times. Level of alcohol permitting.
 SFX Group
Joined: 2/20/2008
Msg: 235
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Posted: 6/26/2010 10:38:29 AM
easy this, all about maths...

100 men, 1 women...

100 men all THINK they can have that women
1 women KNOWS she can have any man.

Men, not picky
Women, can choose.

If you dont see women as wanting sex then you are not the type women will do sex with, tough life, live with it (i am the same).

Find the thing your really good at in life and do it well, earn loads of money and buy loads of stuff with it, mentally better for you than trying to get what you will never have.
 BFLP
Joined: 7/25/2010
Msg: 236
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Posted: 8/20/2010 1:40:31 AM
If you think about it men reach sexual prime at 18 and women about 38 so yes when younger men might on average want more sexy but later in fifties or even late forties average woman wants it more I am just saying averages but also women have more concerns whothey have sex with doesnt mean dont want it just because they dont throw it around like lot of men do
 Michadee
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 237
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 8/3/2011 10:09:33 PM
we do lol...we just dont like to feel used.
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