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 Blueeyed_Cutie
Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 126
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I cannot believe this has gotten so much forum time...

I agree with Alice666 "WHATEVER"
 Danteslnferno
Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 127
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why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/26/2007 12:52:32 PM
I still think the person who originally posted this thread and any man who agrees with this thread title should take a look in the mirror to see WHY THE WOMEN THEY DATE DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM!!!! Why don't women like to have sex as much as guys? The question should be:

Why don't girls like sex WITH ME????

Big sucks ... Women love sex, so long as it is with someone they are attracted to. If there isn't an attraction, there shall be NO SEX ...
 prof_chaos
Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 128
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/26/2007 12:55:29 PM

Why do you think that the #1 selling books are Romance Novels? Women dream of things, they just want the man to have that spark like no other male


Yeah and look like that damn Fabio.
 ~Noella~
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 129
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/27/2007 7:30:16 PM
Have to admit, I had that spark with my husband, married 10 years and it still felt good and did the trick, but this is what I found out...

You figure out what the favorite kiss is, the favorite touch, the favorite position etc...

THEN, you do it again and again. Why not? It's the best for both right? That's great, for now.

THEN you don't bother doing it any other way because you have found the best for both of you. same same same

UT OH, now you are getting bored, try new things, but revert back to the old ways 5-10 minutes into the sex. This is why some may get "unwanting" of sex with some.

Of course it just may be you do the same thing a bad lover did in the past..who knows?

BTW, THIS GOES FOR BOTH GUYS AND GIRLS
 Stargaazer
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 130
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/28/2007 11:08:43 AM
The real question is why aren't women interested in impersonal, detached mutually masterbatory sexual wrestling.

(some) woman: physical attraction -- trust (and relationship potential) first -- then sex.

(some) men: physical attraction first -- then sex -- relationship? Do I have to...

Personally, there have been times when I've been horney but had no energy or inclination to get into a relationship. You can find women in the same boat sometimes, but mostly not so much.
 nikirosie
Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 131
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/1/2007 9:45:39 AM
we do enjoy sex but we are not pigs about it, or make it obvious to the world. We are also pre-occupied with a real LIFE and not with sex all the time.
This is called a balance. Someone has to think with the other end and since women don't have the "dick" then its up to us to maintain that balance. haha
 one of eight
Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 132
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 10:30:33 AM
RMAO.....
1st you have lots to learn.....

2nd it a case of, who ,what, when, when, and how.... lol I think
 musicnut46
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 133
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 1:54:07 PM
Could it be the possibility of what could happen if you're still capable of having them and it be unprotected? How can it just be for fun if the result be a kid down the line. Could also depend on the stage of the "relationship". You know should "friends" have it. It shouldn't be something you just up and do with someone you don't even "know". Meet,meet again,have a "date",decide if you be that interested.
 finenikki9
Joined: 12/16/2006
Msg: 134
Why Don't Girls Like Sex As Much As Guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 6:04:30 PM

We have as much sex drive if not more than you do. The difference is, with us it has to be the right guy.


I totally disagree with this statement. Sorry seekingafinespecimen. I respect your opinion, but I disagree with it.

Speaking from experience, having a high sex drive just increases with age I'm finding. Maybe I'm lucky that I don't have kids to tire me out and wear me down. Sex drive is also stimulated by being 100% comfortable with your own body and KNOWING what you can do to it. I can make MYSELF just as excited and stimulated, as I become with a man. I can have fantastic sex with a man, and he doesn't have to be "the right guy!" I'd have to say that I was with "the right guy" (a few of them in fact - LOL!), and in fact my sex-drive was lower then cuz as a "couple" sex just becomes routine. When you first start dating someone is when your sex-drive is the highest, as your senses are much more intune as to how you want to pleasure your lover, and how you want him/her to pleasure you. I've had FANTASTIC sex with men who weren't "the right guy" and for the sole reason that it's not the "guy" who brings out my sex-drive, it's me!! When I feel sexy, I AM sexy, my mind becomes sexy, followed by my body! When I'm extremely turned on, my sex-drive is through the roof!!

Anyway, now that I need a cold shower......the point I was trying to make is that isn't not "the right guy" who brings out your sex-drive, it's you!!
 ~UnderCoverBlonde~
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 135
Why Don't Girls Like Sex As Much As Guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 6:08:13 PM

Big sucks ... Women love sex, so long as it is with someone they are attracted to. If there isn't an attraction, there shall be NO SEX ...


Dante, you are so right! Women love sex just as much as guys! wooot!! But the attraction and chemistry and respect have to be there or it's a no go.
 Branem
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 136
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:18:30 PM
Well...JackBNimble...I couldn't have said it better myself! As long as the spark is there, the love for someone and the total attraction...a woman will desire you and not be able to get enough of you. You hit the nail right on the head when you said to let them find you...when a woman seeks you out, you're in big trouble!! lol
 jovijan
Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 137
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/6/2007 8:09:46 PM
First... to those who can't beleive this forum is still here (why post on it)?

Now back to the statement. I think most of us can agree that women can and do like sex as much and some more than some men. I think the originator of this forum (being so young) truly didn't understand WOMEN..more like girls. and Kudos to Dante.. for stating the fact that the real question should've been why don't they want it with me.

Throughout this post.. so many myths, beliefs have been brought up. Such as the young boys who seem to think that they are the worlds best lovers (especially for us older women).. GROW THE F*$K UP. In my experience I find young boys are like puppies that need to be trained and it's just too much work to train a puppy.. really not worth the effort.

Then we have the married men boo hoo poor me syndrome.. Again.. stop whining. I know just as many married women who aren't getting it as much as they would like. Thankfully though, it seems that our toys are sooooo much better than your hands are for you.

As Dante stated and others previously... there needs to be an attraction, and this attraction can be strictly physical - and hopefully from this there is great sex. Attraction can also be attributed to the person's personality, and as stated earlier.. Communication is the key to any good relationship, physical or otherwise.

So yes as a woman IN HER PRIME... I love sex...as for the poor boy who started this whole thing.. hopefully he took some good advice from here and has found himself a lovely lady who loves to get it from him, as much as he loves to give it and get it from her.
 trucndbabe-taken
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 138
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:26:58 PM
I actually read once in a magazine... I don't rememeber which one, I think it might have been a Cosmo.... that a women has a bigger/stronger sex drive than most men. I think its true, we just aren't horn dogs like men. LOL
 Onaturel
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 139
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/7/2007 4:59:00 AM
ah yes, even the kama sutra says that women in their 30's think about sex more often then even a teenage boy! Even with having had kids, once I hit my 30's POW! What a change!




Women do need more then just a body infront of them to get them going. Theres the build up, flirting, talking, showing her how attractive u think she is, showing her respect. ETC
As well women have a zillion things going on in their minds that need to be put aside..... could be house work, kids, deadline etc... thus the need for the build up to distract.
This is why the romance novels are a hit (with most, can't stand them myself).

 Dman84u
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 140
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 10:49:21 AM
Just one question?

What the heck is SEX?
 ~Noella~
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 141
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 12:52:40 PM

I actually read once in a magazine... I don't rememeber which one, I think it might have been a Cosmo.... that a women has a bigger/stronger sex drive than most men. I think its true, we just aren't horn dogs like men. LOL


PHEW There is absolutely nothing wrong with me then...tee hee

Loved it back then, love it more now, and just can't seem to get enough. Maybe I'm just reverting back to the animal instinct when a good smelling man grabs a hold of me.
 cheshirekitten
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 142
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 3:59:17 PM
I think it depends on with whom the woman is having sex with, wouldn't it?
I mean...if a guy knows how to please a woman..knows how to make her feel sexy--feel beautiful---all that stuff without making her do all the work AND making her feel like it's all about them ..... I think she will want to have sex at any given moment.... IMHO--more men need to read REAL books about sex and sexuality--(not porno stuff--no, we aren't like those women in those movies).........or be willing to ask the woman what she wants and listen for "cues" to what makes her feel good....trust me...she will more more than happy to reciprocate if she feels like you are totally into her pleasure and making her feel good....trust me...

too much info???

and I suppose I can only speak for myself.....
 Alice666
Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 143
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 4:21:45 PM
And survey says....."WHATEVER!!"
 ERsunshine
Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 144
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 4:34:05 PM
oh... we don't????? nobody told ME!
 kellysi
Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 145
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 5:17:41 PM
I think you may be correct in some cases. When your teenager and first experimenting a girl wants sex because its new. Then when your a young women you don't want as much because there is other things to think about like a busy career or young kids. I don't think it is until a women becomes good with herself and knows what she wants in life that sex becomes great and then our sex drive goes up from there. To say women don't want sex as much as men is incorrect just we want it more at different times and security levels in our lives than men.
 Dman84u
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 146
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/9/2007 7:44:16 PM
In my next life I soooooooooooooo want to be a girl!!!!!!!!!
 citymoose
Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 147
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/10/2007 6:23:25 PM
it's cause girls like to be friends first, and don't like to go all out on a first date, and when girls go out to clubs they usually go with friends and won't usually just go home with you, at least that's what it's like in Toronto seemingly
 Yoyanna
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 148
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 6/17/2007 8:30:10 PM
I get no pleasure from sexual intercourse whatsoever. I don't feel anything. I wish I knew why.
 ~Sugar n Spice~
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 149
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 6/17/2007 8:47:37 PM
Ridiculous!!! lmao.... we like it just as much as guys!
 Kel2969
Joined: 7/28/2006
Msg: 150
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 6/18/2007 2:11:01 AM
^^^^ I got to agree with U there Blondie....(we like it if not more)
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