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 pearl13
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 151
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That's actually not what I meant - by mental stimulation I was referring to the huge portion of sex that is mental as opposed to physical...specifically - TALK...DYNAMICS...adventure...understanding your partner...sexiness in day to day life...

I totally agree with you ..... you just say it much better than I did.... there is definitely a mental aspect to sexuality that happens to be very under-rated. There IS a sexiness in day to day life.... like the examples that Dante listed. I am one of those who rolled my eyes at the post soliciting sex..... I have blocked more of those than I would care to count. I also agree that far too many people try to change their partner.... and they start the attempts almost right from the beginning. There are those who try to get their partner to quit smoking, diet, or spend more time with them... or less time with them. Bottom line - if he/she wants to change a habit or mannerism or spend more/less time with you, or have more/less 'play' time together .... they will do it because they want to..... and that is when the right mix of "togetherness" comes in - however you choose to define that, as a couple.

 Love~Monkey
Joined: 1/2/2007
Msg: 152
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/3/2007 12:29:47 PM
ok, this is to all the girls and to the guys that know why girls don't like sex as much as guys do? is it because guys have a higher sex drive?



maybe ur pickin the wrong girls.....or maybe it the other way around...or maybe its something altogether different....

but, if i was with the right guy, i wouldnt get outta bed

hmmmm..did someone say something about a cold shower??
 0rgan donor
Joined: 4/18/2006
Msg: 153
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why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/3/2007 12:37:46 PM
i still cant figure this thread out. i dont mean to brag... but... dont woman usually want more, more, more? and dont get me wrong, im not a one minute wonder or anything, but it seems to me that if you satisfy someone, they dont mind having that experience again
 JeepRennie
Joined: 11/27/2006
Msg: 154
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/3/2007 12:53:25 PM
Sex is like anything else. You just can't generalize. Some women can't get enough and others just don't like it. I've encountered both kinds. If one version or the other affects your basic compatibility, find someone more compatible. A healthy sex life is as important to a long-term relationship as anything else.
 MsChar
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 155
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 6:22:24 AM
wow ... no thats a real dirty rumour ... wonder who started that ????
charla
 markusmarkus
Joined: 1/8/2007
Msg: 156
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 7:16:22 AM
The world is a strange place at times due to the judgements of others people given labels to each other. Such as alot of the replies you are receiving here people are seeming angry cat calling going on about your age immaturity---and to keep it simple all they need do is answer the question asked. The truth is people call women who engage in sex acts like males do names they give them labels-slut-tramp-whore-pig-sleeze-woe-madam-etc etc. If you were being called those things would you go around being open about your sexaul desires? Young girls they usually hide the truth and say dumb things like they don't care about sex they do it to try to be superior to their male counter partner. There is a reason why the world is the way it is and why revelations is written people are stuck like they were during the great flood. Sex is designed to be a pleasurable closeness between husband and wife that has gone astray. It was sex that sent Adam Eve out of paradise that destroyed Bombay that brought about the flood that will cause the next event as well. Put your focus on the important things in life transportation, shelter, things like that and the sex will come it always does.
 Caressa45
Joined: 1/17/2007
Msg: 157
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Posted: 2/6/2007 12:22:27 PM

ok, this is to all the girls and to the guys that know why girls don't like sex as much as guys do? is it because guys have a higher sex drive?



You're right, girls don't like sex, WOMEN do


It was sex that sent Adam Eve out of paradise that destroyed Bombay that brought about the flood that will cause the next event as well. Put your focus on the important things in life transportation, shelter, things like that and the sex will come it always does.


Wow all that from eating an apple!!! Imagine what would of happened if Eve had enticed him with a banana...hmmmm.....???

Bottom line, women enjoy sex when its good sex...
 violinlover
Joined: 10/31/2006
Msg: 158
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 12:49:02 PM
Hey, I resent the comment that being a slut is a bad thing. And sex is NOT designed for married couples only. Sorry, but I know too many married people who just don't have sex. At all. Other than hallway sex - "**ck you!" "**ck you too!" LOL
I think, when we release ourselves from the Puritanical restrictions and definitions of "relationship, commitment, and sex", (read Puritanical to mean neurotic), and as long as we remember to treat everyone with respect, and dignity, and to find connections that are deep and long-lasting, regardless of the definition of "relationship", then, perhaps, we might actually find that we all like sex. A lot. And want to engage in it as often as possible.
Just my thoughts on a question that seems to have no answers, other than, women like sex, A LOT. Maybe the woman you have been dating have ulterior motives, or are being manipulative, and using sex as a weapon. Wrong. So wrong.
Joanne
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 Onaturel
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 159
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 2:51:25 PM

if it wasn't considered slutty or whorish to just grab the next guy that walks by and ride him hard and put him away wet and move on to the next i would




OMG I about spit my tea out!!
 wutzupnow
Joined: 1/18/2007
Msg: 160
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 3:05:56 PM
Thatz because it's just SEX.....

When we guys think from the head on our shoulders and put our mind and heart into it...
It becomes something that sends chillz through your body.... It becomes making love...
Sex is one of the greatest things on earth... Love is the best....

The problem is finding someone who is in the same frame of mind....... think about that one..
Because most guys wont even get....
Sorry but true...... trust me... I learn the hard way..... so I know .......

Dan... or ?
 paddle my own canoe
Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 161
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 3:19:31 PM
Chef..... who are these girls? Have you been hanging out with the nuns again?
I have never had this sex that you speak of, but...I'm sure women like it as much as guys.
 Whip it good!
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 162
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 4:40:19 PM
I have met girls/woman who have not really known what good sex was...or even experienced a true orgasm. Well they do now! :)
 archangeloflove
Joined: 1/8/2007
Msg: 163
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 5:43:34 PM
I think that libido shouldn't be stereo typed. It's an individuals own thing. There are plenty of men and women with great libido and vice versa. It boils down to 2 people who want to be together. Intimacy is the most beautiful experience 2 people can share. There is a lot to be said for just a nice touch or kiss too, preparing a meal and being kissed or touched is a great thing. I think some people have taken making love and ruined it. I may be a little old fashioned- so be it!!!

It's also about doing the little things for your love, going out of your way, leaving them a note, accepting each other for who you are and respecting that. Some people out there want to change people- what's with that. If there are things that you're not crazy about maybe you should have a look within. They say that things that we are dissatisfied with our partner/loved one, are things we need to work on ourselves.

I don't buy that girl's aren't interested in sex as much as we do- that's crap. Both men and women are equal. Some people grow, evolve, learn, are more open/receptive... than others.
 nom deplume
Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 164
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/6/2007 6:59:33 PM
Why is this thread still here? I thought we took care of this misconception ages ago . . . Baby, if you don't think girls like sex, then you've just been hanging with da wrong girls! Try a woman.
 magicmirror
Joined: 1/16/2007
Msg: 165
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/12/2007 7:54:47 PM
I beg to differ...If the guy worked all day, made dinner, helped with homework, listened to the kids (especially teens) problems, did the laundry so the kids had the right clothes to wear to be cool, drove the kids to all their activities and would not snore in the night so we could get the proper amount of sleep or got up with the sick child (or nightmare) for the same reason and allowed us time to have a relaxing bath and showed us some intimacy of touch and caressing so we could get out of mom mode and into sexy mode I think you would find we LOVE sex................however that all sounds like too much work for most guys. You would much rather complain you don't get it enough!!
 VainH
Joined: 3/7/2006
Msg: 166
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Posted: 2/13/2007 10:52:45 AM
Someone stick a fork in this thread already. It's done, burnt around the edges, and starting to go bad in the fridge.
 Just Me1966
Joined: 1/15/2007
Msg: 167
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/24/2007 10:36:09 AM
Well Magic the real men do
and for the op maybe your just not doing it right
 Blue_Eyes25
Joined: 7/4/2006
Msg: 168
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/24/2007 10:51:33 AM
Hmmmm...well I'm definitely not one of those girls!!
 Crystal_1
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 169
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/24/2007 10:55:35 AM
why don't girls like sex as much as guys? if that's what you think, then maybe, you're dating the wrong women, lol. if there's chemistry between a man and woman, the sex should be amazing.
 ~Noella~
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 170
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/24/2007 2:14:41 PM
SEX = CHOCOLATE just because you really wanna eat it up all the time, doesn't mean you should. We women have images to protect, respect to maintain. After all, the women who are NOT getting it, get real mean when they find out. But when the right man with the right skills comes along, and actually listens when a woman tells them what they want, LOOK OUT!! Because the earth WILL most definately move.

Making love however is a very special thing for a man and woman in love. This is where the long term couples come in, then the bordom comes in, therefore, REVERT BACK TO THE PLAIN OL' "TAKE ME AND HAVE YOUR WAY WITH ME" SEX, WAKES YA UP YA KNOW?

 Lady_hpm
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 171
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/24/2007 2:36:26 PM
i love sex then it becomes lust then love, wow its like a chore for some but its really pleasurable for me but if u dont have the right tools to garden in then get out of the garden or get the blue pill ( miracle grow ) i hear it works wonders ......wink wink do you know who you are
 afreakatheart
Joined: 12/28/2006
Msg: 172
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/24/2007 3:46:03 PM
dude not sure what makes you say that but sorry I don't share your views...

girls love sex just as much as us guys...even more....they just keep it inside for the right situation to arise then WATCH OUT....

cheers
afreakatheart
 sickntired2
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 173
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Posted: 2/24/2007 3:54:45 PM
we don't like sex as much as men do? You obviously don't know the right women!
 thebestforlast
Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 174
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/24/2007 4:38:18 PM
no
we have as much sex drive if not more than you do
the difference is, with us it has to be the right guy. i think to some guys...(i said SOME not all) it doesn't matter who it is, as long as it is!!!

i would reckon that you find any woman a man that "does it" for her and she will show you that women do, indeed have a more intense sexual drive than men.
 ~TrueBlood~
Joined: 1/17/2006
Msg: 175
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Posted: 2/24/2007 4:43:35 PM
Sorry - this should be in the HUMOR forum LOL

Too funny, that some people actually believe this LOL
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