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 leftturnclyde
Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 176
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two times a dime see a man kiss an alligator,one more time around free on the ferris wheel ride. . yes for sure you would need the rite partener.
 Kel2969
Joined: 7/28/2006
Msg: 177
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/25/2007 9:34:35 AM
I do not agree at all, I agree with Irisheyes, I think women love it more..but then again I can really only speak for myself..

I suppose that when some women don't enjoy it, there maybe a serious reason behind it, she may have been abused, raped etc.. I'm sure that would change any woman's opinion about sex...
 OnetoCatch
Joined: 10/16/2006
Msg: 178
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/25/2007 10:11:44 AM
You must be meeting the wrong women. I've heard men complain about women not wanting sex as much as they do; and I'm sure there are those that don't enjoy sex. My last boyfriend told me I wasn't the "normal" women because of my high sex drive. I believe if the chemistry between you is an amazing one that you will have an incrediable sex life; it's only natural you want to be intimate with them. I've discussed this with my friends and the majority of them are like me and love sex - mind you I do have friends who are the exception (but there are stories behind that also). If your partner is sexy; and turns you on - man or women - you want to have sex....that's just my opinion.
 nom deplume
Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 179
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/25/2007 11:51:35 AM
Is this thread still here????
I cringe everytime I see it!
Who writes these things?! Where does this misconception come from??
Whoever wrote this has obviously not been with the right girls .... OR he's been with too many girls and never been with a WOMAN. *sigh* 'S all I'm saying.
 NotUrAverageGurl
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 180
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/25/2007 8:35:34 PM
Um someone has steered you terribly wrong, the girls I know tend to tire their boys out.. Mebbe the person who did tell you this is the guy who can't seem to do anything right in bed and the chicks just lose interest, hmmm all a matter of perspective I suppose...
 Alice666
Joined: 6/12/2006
Msg: 181
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/25/2007 8:38:40 PM
I think my reply still stands at "WHATEVER!!"
 Blueeyed_Cutie
Joined: 9/16/2006
Msg: 182
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/26/2007 5:47:19 AM
I cannot believe this has gotten so much forum time...

I agree with Alice666 "WHATEVER"
 pearl13
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 183
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/26/2007 6:12:06 AM

if it wasn't considered slutty or whorish to just grab the next guy that walks by and ride him hard and put him away wet and move on to the next i would



Other than hallway sex - "**ck you!" "**ck you too!"


And here I thought these two went together.... attack your partner in the hallway, ride him hard, and put him away wet...... oh well, my mistake.

 rowdycowboy
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 184
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/26/2007 12:10:15 PM
Women are sexual creatures and far out number the drive as compared to men.

It is the lack of inspiration, creativity, high standards and listening where men go wrong with women.

Ladies like to linger over the fact that she cannot figure out where he is coming from, if she knows she can have you, where is the fun in that?

I'm willing to bet that almost any woman can be sexual if the chemistry and sexual tension is created.

Just think of what it must be like to be a woman. Seriously. Take a moment. (don't feel your boobies either) What must it be like to be hit upon day after day with the same old boring lines, routines or lack of planning when interacting with a woman.

Why do you think that the #1 selling books are Romance Novels? Women dream of things, they just want the man to have that spark like no other male.
 Danteslnferno
Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 185
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why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/26/2007 12:52:32 PM
I still think the person who originally posted this thread and any man who agrees with this thread title should take a look in the mirror to see WHY THE WOMEN THEY DATE DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THEM!!!! Why don't women like to have sex as much as guys? The question should be:

Why don't girls like sex WITH ME????

Big sucks ... Women love sex, so long as it is with someone they are attracted to. If there isn't an attraction, there shall be NO SEX ...
 prof_chaos
Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 186
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/26/2007 12:55:29 PM

Why do you think that the #1 selling books are Romance Novels? Women dream of things, they just want the man to have that spark like no other male


Yeah and look like that damn Fabio.
 ~Noella~
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 187
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/27/2007 7:30:16 PM
Have to admit, I had that spark with my husband, married 10 years and it still felt good and did the trick, but this is what I found out...

You figure out what the favorite kiss is, the favorite touch, the favorite position etc...

THEN, you do it again and again. Why not? It's the best for both right? That's great, for now.

THEN you don't bother doing it any other way because you have found the best for both of you. same same same

UT OH, now you are getting bored, try new things, but revert back to the old ways 5-10 minutes into the sex. This is why some may get "unwanting" of sex with some.

Of course it just may be you do the same thing a bad lover did in the past..who knows?

BTW, THIS GOES FOR BOTH GUYS AND GIRLS
 Stargaazer
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 188
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 2/28/2007 11:08:43 AM
The real question is why aren't women interested in impersonal, detached mutually masterbatory sexual wrestling.

(some) woman: physical attraction -- trust (and relationship potential) first -- then sex.

(some) men: physical attraction first -- then sex -- relationship? Do I have to...

Personally, there have been times when I've been horney but had no energy or inclination to get into a relationship. You can find women in the same boat sometimes, but mostly not so much.
 nikirosie
Joined: 10/15/2006
Msg: 189
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/1/2007 9:45:39 AM
we do enjoy sex but we are not pigs about it, or make it obvious to the world. We are also pre-occupied with a real LIFE and not with sex all the time.
This is called a balance. Someone has to think with the other end and since women don't have the "dick" then its up to us to maintain that balance. haha
 one of eight
Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 190
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 10:30:33 AM
RMAO.....
1st you have lots to learn.....

2nd it a case of, who ,what, when, when, and how.... lol I think
 musicnut46
Joined: 2/21/2006
Msg: 191
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 1:54:07 PM
Could it be the possibility of what could happen if you're still capable of having them and it be unprotected? How can it just be for fun if the result be a kid down the line. Could also depend on the stage of the "relationship". You know should "friends" have it. It shouldn't be something you just up and do with someone you don't even "know". Meet,meet again,have a "date",decide if you be that interested.
 finenikki9
Joined: 12/16/2006
Msg: 192
Why Don't Girls Like Sex As Much As Guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 6:04:30 PM

We have as much sex drive if not more than you do. The difference is, with us it has to be the right guy.


I totally disagree with this statement. Sorry seekingafinespecimen. I respect your opinion, but I disagree with it.

Speaking from experience, having a high sex drive just increases with age I'm finding. Maybe I'm lucky that I don't have kids to tire me out and wear me down. Sex drive is also stimulated by being 100% comfortable with your own body and KNOWING what you can do to it. I can make MYSELF just as excited and stimulated, as I become with a man. I can have fantastic sex with a man, and he doesn't have to be "the right guy!" I'd have to say that I was with "the right guy" (a few of them in fact - LOL!), and in fact my sex-drive was lower then cuz as a "couple" sex just becomes routine. When you first start dating someone is when your sex-drive is the highest, as your senses are much more intune as to how you want to pleasure your lover, and how you want him/her to pleasure you. I've had FANTASTIC sex with men who weren't "the right guy" and for the sole reason that it's not the "guy" who brings out my sex-drive, it's me!! When I feel sexy, I AM sexy, my mind becomes sexy, followed by my body! When I'm extremely turned on, my sex-drive is through the roof!!

Anyway, now that I need a cold shower......the point I was trying to make is that isn't not "the right guy" who brings out your sex-drive, it's you!!
 ~UnderCoverBlonde~
Joined: 2/10/2007
Msg: 193
Why Don't Girls Like Sex As Much As Guys?
Posted: 3/2/2007 6:08:13 PM

Big sucks ... Women love sex, so long as it is with someone they are attracted to. If there isn't an attraction, there shall be NO SEX ...


Dante, you are so right! Women love sex just as much as guys! wooot!! But the attraction and chemistry and respect have to be there or it's a no go.
 Branem
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 194
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/5/2007 7:18:30 PM
Well...JackBNimble...I couldn't have said it better myself! As long as the spark is there, the love for someone and the total attraction...a woman will desire you and not be able to get enough of you. You hit the nail right on the head when you said to let them find you...when a woman seeks you out, you're in big trouble!! lol
 jovijan
Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 195
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/6/2007 8:09:46 PM
First... to those who can't beleive this forum is still here (why post on it)?

Now back to the statement. I think most of us can agree that women can and do like sex as much and some more than some men. I think the originator of this forum (being so young) truly didn't understand WOMEN..more like girls. and Kudos to Dante.. for stating the fact that the real question should've been why don't they want it with me.

Throughout this post.. so many myths, beliefs have been brought up. Such as the young boys who seem to think that they are the worlds best lovers (especially for us older women).. GROW THE F*$K UP. In my experience I find young boys are like puppies that need to be trained and it's just too much work to train a puppy.. really not worth the effort.

Then we have the married men boo hoo poor me syndrome.. Again.. stop whining. I know just as many married women who aren't getting it as much as they would like. Thankfully though, it seems that our toys are sooooo much better than your hands are for you.

As Dante stated and others previously... there needs to be an attraction, and this attraction can be strictly physical - and hopefully from this there is great sex. Attraction can also be attributed to the person's personality, and as stated earlier.. Communication is the key to any good relationship, physical or otherwise.

So yes as a woman IN HER PRIME... I love sex...as for the poor boy who started this whole thing.. hopefully he took some good advice from here and has found himself a lovely lady who loves to get it from him, as much as he loves to give it and get it from her.
 trucndbabe-taken
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 196
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:26:58 PM
I actually read once in a magazine... I don't rememeber which one, I think it might have been a Cosmo.... that a women has a bigger/stronger sex drive than most men. I think its true, we just aren't horn dogs like men. LOL
 Onaturel
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 197
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/7/2007 4:59:00 AM
ah yes, even the kama sutra says that women in their 30's think about sex more often then even a teenage boy! Even with having had kids, once I hit my 30's POW! What a change!




Women do need more then just a body infront of them to get them going. Theres the build up, flirting, talking, showing her how attractive u think she is, showing her respect. ETC
As well women have a zillion things going on in their minds that need to be put aside..... could be house work, kids, deadline etc... thus the need for the build up to distract.
This is why the romance novels are a hit (with most, can't stand them myself).

 Sole Survivor
Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 198
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/7/2007 1:50:19 PM
I think you've been dating the wrong women! The females I know love it as much or as more than some of the guys! There sexual prime is in there 30's while some guys are starting to need the viagra at that age!
 Dman84u
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 199
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 10:49:21 AM
Just one question?

What the heck is SEX?
 ~Noella~
Joined: 5/16/2006
Msg: 200
why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 3/8/2007 12:52:40 PM

I actually read once in a magazine... I don't rememeber which one, I think it might have been a Cosmo.... that a women has a bigger/stronger sex drive than most men. I think its true, we just aren't horn dogs like men. LOL


PHEW There is absolutely nothing wrong with me then...tee hee

Loved it back then, love it more now, and just can't seem to get enough. Maybe I'm just reverting back to the animal instinct when a good smelling man grabs a hold of me.
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