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 goofycutie21
Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 101
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hahah funny.... I could talk even louder if you want....
 Domeroth
Joined: 2/6/2005
Msg: 102
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 4/20/2005 8:30:43 AM
If the title is a serious question...

I've got to agree with the communication problem. But, so long as she could write on a peice of paper, or I could learn sign language, or find SOME WAY to communicate. I don't see why I couldn't.
 goofycutie21
Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 103
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 4/20/2005 3:23:13 PM
it was a serious question... it seems like all the nice guys are here... mm i feel all safe and warm...
 suthrncharm
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 104
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 4/20/2005 4:58:28 PM
when your in basic training you will recieve a card with sign and morse code on it, only the truly serious use it, and it comes in handy during blackout training, no noises and flash surpressors, but going to linguistics at ft irwin califoirnia i learned spanish and military sign...so it would still be hard, but id still date a deaf girl even a mute, pen and paper are readily availible whenever voices cant be used
 Lonelostsoul
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 105
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 4/20/2005 5:16:29 PM


I've got to agree with the communication problem. But, so long as she could write on a peice of paper


Pondering the sight : durring intercourse female scribbling frantic and quickly passing notes "faster!" "deeper!" "no..not there"


Sometimes it just wouldn't cut it
 goofycutie21
Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 106
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 4/20/2005 5:28:00 PM
lol you could tell what she'd want by looking at her... Or her rolling over on top of you and getting what we want.. :-)
 garyo1954
Joined: 5/18/2003
Msg: 107
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why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 4/20/2005 5:34:30 PM
When is your flight to Texas arriving, goof?
 goofycutie21
Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 108
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/3/2005 1:35:04 PM
peace and quiet is what I know of in the morning and night as i sleep. during the day I talk. like a normal person. I can hear like a normal person, just not as good. I remind myself, not to take it all for granted for without the gift of my implant, I would always remain in the world of simply peace and quiet and just spoken words.
 Alias788
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 109
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/3/2005 2:10:49 PM
I think dating a deaf girl would probably be a great thing for me. Im not so good with words when im nervous, but I can drawl really good. Having a conversation based on pictures could be kinda fun, but I would definiately learn how to sign ASAP.
 random4
Joined: 5/1/2005
Msg: 110
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/3/2005 2:24:08 PM
I think it would be hard to date a deaf girl only because whatever she did with her hands I would wonder what she might be saying.
 cheekybugger
Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 111
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/3/2005 2:39:37 PM
Being deaf myself I have to say i have never had problems dating however, I had many problems with people being ignorant assumming that because I am deaf I must be dumb. They soon found out the truth!
 SarGasm
Joined: 5/2/2005
Msg: 112
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/3/2005 10:21:13 PM
i've got no reason to discriminate...it's all about the person...not the problem.

years ago i dated a girl who was 80% blind. the only part where i laughed at her was when she told me i was the best looking guy she ever dated. maybe it was mean...or maybe i'm one hell of a hot blur!
 nick23
Joined: 2/4/2005
Msg: 113
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/4/2005 12:35:21 AM
i'm border-line legaly blind so i'd defanetly date a deaf girl. bigest problem with that would be sence my vision is so bad i don't always look at people when i talk to em but i'd be wiling to lern. least i'l be able to sing al i want an not scare her off with my bad voice
 BulldogMedic
Joined: 12/31/2004
Msg: 114
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/4/2005 12:44:49 AM
It's hard enough to date a hearing girl, too.
 goofycutie21
Joined: 6/17/2004
Msg: 115
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/11/2005 1:35:24 PM
Its hard enough dating anyone and figuring out what they're all about and if you can trust them....
 wantingagoodwoman
Joined: 4/22/2005
Msg: 116
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/13/2005 6:15:39 AM
I would not have a problem dating a deaf girl. There are many ways of communicating with someone. It is being in the presence with someone that you care about, and enjoying their company, and not their disability. If you choose to judge them by their disability, then it is you who is the loser !
 lucky2206
Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 117
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/13/2005 5:15:02 PM
because girls are very clever and they are mostly frud.
 WeaponBoricua
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 118
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why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/27/2005 10:29:18 PM
I DO NOT NOW WHY? BUT I TELL YOU SOMETHING A I WILL STABLISH SOME COMUNICATION WITH YOU IF YOU REALLY LIKE IT. I REALLY WOULD LIKE TO HAVE A FRIEND LIKE YOU IT WOULD BE MY PLASURE TO TALK TO SOME ONE LIKE YOU I HAVE NEVER HAD A FRIEND THAT IS DEAF LET'S HAVE SOME CONVERSATION OK
 vespa chick
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 119
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/29/2005 1:34:06 PM
Being a deaf woman myself .. I find people are intimidated .. too worried about" what could I possibly say?" ... can she understand the english language .. If people would just take the time .. they soon would "SEE" .. it's easier than it seems!
 vespa chick
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 120
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/29/2005 1:40:15 PM
How about a tap on the shoulder to get her attention? .. sure it may a second out of your time .. but taking that very second could mean alot to that woman! .. speaking in a clear voice without exaggerating your words .. use body language..facial expressions .. she's not daft .. she just can't hear ... even hearing people use gestures on a daily basis .. they just don't apy attention to them... go ahead give it try ! .. you may end up with your soulmate!
 vespa chick
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 121
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/29/2005 1:58:25 PM
Not sure I want to see anyone get a new ***hole ripped for themselves ... but hey totally "hear" ya!
 vespa chick
Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 122
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/29/2005 2:03:33 PM
Not sure I want to see anyone get a new ***hole ripped for themselves ... but hey totally "hear" ya!
 Absalom
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 123
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/29/2005 7:04:46 PM
Well, I myself have perfect hearing and dated a deaf girl, We are still friends and keep in touch through email. My best friend married a deaf girl and has learned the language, they have 4 kids. I like deaf people, they are more honest than people who can hear for some reason. BTW, I myself learned sign language while in school and have been involved in efforts to help people with varying dis-abilities
 cheekybugger
Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 124
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/31/2005 3:28:11 AM
Absalom
Thank you for your comment! " I like deaf people, they are more honest than people who can hear for some reason." Now everyone here Pay attention !

Lisa
 OptimumTaurus
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 125
why is it hard for guys to date a deaf girl
Posted: 5/31/2005 6:44:21 PM
I dated a female who's partially deaf.

It didn't bother me too much, except sometimes, I had to repeat things so she wouldn't misunderstand me, or I'd ask her to repeat stuff 'cause I couldn't understand her all the time. Our relationship didn't dissolve because of that, so I suppose I'd date another female who was hearing impaired.

I did learn how to communicate with her pretty well, eventually, though. I'd date another female who was hard of hearing. Just not that one. Wouldn't bother me.
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