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Msg: 78
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Hi hun how r u doing
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 79
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Posted: 10/19/2012 1:48:25 AM
ok i have been on this site for a very long time and as someone who is also in the transgender catagory i feel there is need to clear some false or missconceptions up about what transgender means, those that fall within this classification are almost all born with this condition much like a birth defact that does happen as with any child born into this world, but technically we all start out as females in the mother's womb and male or female hormones are what determines our sex marker that appears on the outter part of our bodies but however because our brain is the the first to develop as it is what sends electral signals down nerves going throughout the body it is therefor gender identity is developed in the brain and its what makes up our true gender but once again as birth defects do happen some people are born with both sex markers, for all of us who have been born as trangender did not and still don't have a choice about this but also the feelings that are triggered by this do not become aware of varying from different age levels, for some it become active at a very young age starting around 5 yrs old and others it can become active very late in their life well into their 50's, anyways there and several different classification for transgender people which are cross-dressers,transvestites,transexuals and transsexuals, starting with cross-dressers i will state that almost all transexuals that begin transition by taking hormones,seeing a therapists and whatnot started out as cross-dressers but for them they felt like they are women trapped in the wrong body so they take those steps to fix majority of the issue if not all, while others that remain cross-dressers are the ones that have no intention of becoming the opposite gender for either because they just dress for the sexual thrill or as a fetish, and then for transvestites also known as dragqueens/kings they dress as the opposite gender for shows/contests/charities/profit/impersonations(this refers to someone such as RuPaul and famous dragqueen celebrity), and last are transsexuals which are those that are a very high health risks to themselves as they hate their every part of their bodies that they were born with to the highiest degree and are known to be suicidal and go through major depression which leads to immediate action to seek emergency transition along with lots of deep therapy, so the only thing i need to ask myself or for other transgendered persons is how do i feel and where will i go from there, for me i see myself as female in a male body, have i done anything to fix the issue yet the answer is no but it is not by choice that i have not began, do i want to start , answer is yes very much so, and i also want to know that i do dress as the opposite gender and have gone out in public tons of times and it does feel more natural to me than simply trying to fit in as just another typical male and it also makes me more happier with my life and gives me a nonstressful freedom to truely be who i really am, so honestly for those that actually want to understand transgenderism better to have that knowledge to better approach the subject i recommend google sites with medical information on it, but for those that don't or refuse to understand out of digust and hatred just remember it is not our fault you choose not to understand or accept others for being who they are as human beings that bleed the same you do, we just choose not to live with a mistake that we felt needed to be fixed so we are able to be live being our true selves regardless if society expects us or forces us to live with that mistake, as a closing note transgenderism is equal to a birth defect so hating on someone for having a birth defect is like hating on a child born physically crippled or very deformed or mentally challanged even if they act and appear perfectly normal
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 10/19/2012 9:53:18 AM
sorry that you were unable to read my post but i did infact use the proper punctuations and as far as paragraphing goes, i did use them, not all pragraphs have to be short or broken up into sectional lenghts, i do know how to type and use the proper methods of which to place when writing or typing anything from letters to mere commentary notes, so you should either trying looking a bit closer or you may have a slight vision issue that may result in not able to read my post
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 81
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Posted: 10/19/2012 1:26:36 PM
i never claimed to be prefect and as it may seem to you, there are many ways to write/type something without the need to use capital lettering, periods, punctuations, and so forth, plus it is also not so hard to see that regardless of age or education that a person has to continue to be required to be absolutely perfect at writting/typing, we all tend to loosen up and stop trying focus on being graded on writting/typing skills that we had to endure while in school.
Also i would like to add since you seemed to need to be pointing it as if it is needed, i too will seem to point out that you fall into that area of what people deem a "grammer natzi" that thinks people are required to be prefect in detail. either way what you are addressing has clearly nothing to do with the topic of this thread, so what you are attacking towards my posting is irrelevant and not needed to be cleared up uless i decide to go back and re-edit to make the changes to suit your needs.
Joined: 10/18/2012
Msg: 82
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Posted: 10/25/2012 9:23:16 PM
Well like anyone else beauty is in the eye of the beholder.many transsexuals(TS) are stunning. Also study's show that several men like TS because they can be o more feminine than actual women. Lots of men who seek the company of a TS do not consider themselves Bi or gay.
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 83
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Posted: 11/9/2012 6:14:18 PM
Well i am a tansexual n its nice to see that we have some support out there, its been a very lonley life for me havin to avoid relationships with guys cuz i am so misunderstood n judged so harshly for just being me
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 84
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Posted: 11/9/2012 6:22:23 PM
Aww thats really sweet thanx
Joined: 1/19/2012
Msg: 85
Posted: 11/10/2012 9:31:18 AM
I only want one.
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 86
Posted: 11/10/2012 9:37:12 AM
I agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Lets get past being judgemental and let people be with whom they want to be with.
Joined: 11/11/2012
Msg: 87
Posted: 11/16/2012 11:55:36 AM

I am confident in myself to say rikkita is "very attractive" and that I would take her out on a date if I knew her. And I wish their was a selection for mtf and ftm to make the dating process easier for everyone.
Joined: 2/12/2013
Msg: 88
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Posted: 2/20/2013 11:58:02 AM
i thank shemal are verry sexy where do i find one
Joined: 1/18/2013
Msg: 89
Posted: 2/21/2013 6:29:33 PM
you are speaking absolute ignorant nonsense beacuse of your disaproval about trans females,

this crude heartless opinion is not going to change your attraction towards them, lol

female hormones and a sex change operation do change ones body drastically,

if you dont gelieve me take some and tell me if you still feel look act the same, lol

if it didnt, then they would not bother to take these measures,

hormones drastically change muscles and make them much weaker and bones as well,

a vaginoplasty creates a functional orgasmic vagina that looks feels smells the same as a woman in menopuase

its why these women are put in women jail if arrested, and after medical evaluation its evident that they are now psychically female as well ad mentally which is why they are female on license birth certificate etc
Joined: 1/18/2013
Msg: 90
Posted: 2/21/2013 8:07:15 PM


bed me down lol.

clearly the only one on here with a problemo to get laid is you

seriously, who would want to be with someone that has your face/body lol.

im sure you get 1 message a month, and your considered in your opinion a * NORMAL* yet you are failing in the dating pool more than others you claim are messed up lol. how bout them apples eh? lol

i dont meet nobody off here i get enought attn from men in real life thank you

it amazes again what an ignorant jerkoff you continue to be with how little you try to understand people, you only see things from your own ignorant non accepting arms folded point of view

transgender people are not guys, they never have been as far as who they are, sure they were forced to dress a certain way, and where born with male genitalia, but i think there is more to a person than 1 body part, all you base people on is their genitals? * TYPICAL PIG*

if you were as educated as you put out to be you would have known that everyone is born with a vagina that eventually constructs to a penis, so this theory you have of male and female being born soooo diffrent is a lie as they are the same body at one point, these are facts which is why theres many hermaphrodites,

and some are born with the wrong genital and need surgery,

its very clear that from a young age you can clearly seperate them from guys as they are always the ones that are hyper femminine where they are basically wired the same way girls are, it has also been proven by doctors/scientist that the gender they are wired in their brain is the gender they identify as,

and im sorry but your not a as qualified as these people to speak such ignorance as if your some qualified gender specialist as you are clearly just talking out of your ass beacuse you dont approve of them, its clear from your words you have some problem with these people...

and if in fact you are a doctor or scientist i would love to know where you work so we can discuss this in person in front of gid specialist to see if you can prove your theroies to be more correct than people with over 50 years of studies on these people...

these people have always accepted who they truly are inside, which is why they go to unbeliveable life threatning lengths to match the outside with they inside,

the one that is not accepting them for who they really are is YOU!!!

transexuals, the ones that have gender surgery have never felt like homosexuals but people born with the wrong genital, dont you get it? fool....

if they where homosexuals why would they wanna get rid of there parts that enable them to have gay sex?

you clearly are very misinformed about what a true transexual woman is,

you speak more of transvestites,

you need to brush up on your level of education


do you really think hormones and a sex change operation dont change the body and just change how it appears? lol. wow,

do me a favor, go get a sex change and take hormones, and let me know if your body still functions the same,

of course you would not do that beacuse obviously it would change you

your pretty dumb,
Joined: 1/16/2013
Msg: 91
Posted: 2/22/2013 7:51:48 PM
Misty much respect to you and the other transgendered people on here.
My best friend is TG and went thru the process in early 80s, and fortunately things have improved within society in regards to acceptance in the UK as well as the treatments themselves.

People like Jeffery will never change, their ill informed opinions based on psuedo theories will never stand up to real science, however they are far too closed minded to ever try and learn about something they have no understanding of.

In the 30 years since K had the op attitudes have changed drastically and will continue to change, education and understanding are the key, and people like Jeffery dying off and being replaced by a younger and more accepting generation.

Be Happy be positive, and love yourself! xx
Joined: 10/20/2014
Msg: 92
Posted: 11/16/2014 7:09:08 AM
im in trenton nj and looking for a ts or cd
Joined: 7/29/2014
Msg: 93
Posted: 11/17/2014 3:48:18 AM
LOL, sounds like the OP is curious and is interested in dating a shemale....:-)
Joined: 12/23/2014
Msg: 95
Posted: 5/21/2015 11:43:08 AM
We are all humans and have the right to do what we must to feel good in our our own skin.
I have met people of all gender and persuasion and some of the most beautiful and intelligent individuals I have met have been cross-dressers or Transsexuals.
If you feel beautiful and happy as who you are then you tend to attract others who feel the same themselves.
Thus yes...I have met a few that I have felt an attraction for and would be inclined to enjoy personal interaction with them.
The human body is a sensual sexy work of art to enjoy in every way.
Joined: 4/16/2015
Msg: 96
Posted: 5/21/2015 3:27:20 PM
zol asks

i thank shemal are verry sexy where do i find one

i'm not really sure as I am a REAL man but why don't you start looking at the first grade SPELLING SCHOOL down the street? you might find your lover and learn some basics at the same time captain of the douche canoe!
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 97
Posted: 5/21/2015 7:42:46 PM
I have no interest in shemales, tranvestites etc. To each their own.
Joined: 9/14/2013
Msg: 98
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Posted: 5/30/2015 10:53:06 PM
Go to gay-friendly bars in your city. Go out and about in nearly any major city on the weekends. We out there. Just be decent and friendly as you would with a genetic girl. It really is that easy.
Joined: 9/14/2013
Msg: 99
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Posted: 5/30/2015 11:08:58 PM
They turn to porn and prostitution because:

Nobody will hire them. Nobody will rent to them. Nobody will accept them. Why? Because of ignorance, prejudice and/or stupidity. Same thing people did to blacks 50+ years ago. Many of us transsexuals are professionals. I'm in the medical field.

Our doing a sex/gender change is nothing more and nothing less than seeking treatment for gender dysphoria which is a bona fide, legitimate medical condition. You get diabetes? You get treatment. You get cancer? You get treatment. You get hypothyroidism? You get treatment. We are merely getting treatment.

Other than that, we are completely normal, decent, worthwhile people just like most people. Many of us are smart, loyal and loving. People are missing out on what could be a very, very good thing for them. Peace & Joy
Joined: 9/14/2013
Msg: 100
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Posted: 5/30/2015 11:17:36 PM

I think they're hot too but most are into guys so the last thing I need is to develop a crush on someone who there is zero hope of ever getting together with.

I knew of one guy who had a lesbian girlfriend which I thought was cool. Apparently she was very supportive of him getting the operation completed.

But I don't like chics so I REALLY don't want someone who aspires to lose his equipment.

Actually, about a third of us are into women. I know I am! Most of us DO NOT have the sex-change surgery. At age 59, I have not and have no desire to. You will find that many of us are accomplished, kind, smart, decent, ordinary people ... just like most of you.

Finally, you are right about some of us being hot. I can show you several younger transsexuals as hot as any born-woman supermodel, and that's no lie. Some call us a bisexual's dream come true. The younger generation generally has no issue dating/marrying us. These kids have evolved on this issue way, way above my generation, thank God.
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 101
Posted: 6/4/2015 5:41:20 AM

I truly have to wonder why this isn't common mainstream
knowledge!? I dont even consider it a disorder under these

Transsexual Brain Development

How does the MtF Transsexual?

Like the normal male embryo, the male to female Transsexual brain starts out female. Then between the 8th and 24th weeks, the ‘XY’ chromosomes introduce testosterone hormonal changes, but the hormonal washes as faulty. They are either insufficient or ill timed. When this happens, the fetus develops a male body. However, some of the default (original) female brain processes remain intact. Thus, the brain’s gender identity remain intact. Thus, the brains gender identity remains female. This means that Transsexual males whose process of brain masculinization was incomplete, Their default female brains still function. The degree of arrested development can vary. The orgininal brain circuitry that was missed in the masculinizing process provides a continuing feminine influence. This explains why many Transsexuals, biological males know, from as early as 3 years old, that they are actually members of the opposite sex.

What can be known about Transsexuals?

Transsexualism does not rise from being exposed, in childhood to the clother, toys, activities, and goals of the opposite sex. Nor are Transsexuals; sex addicts, morally corrupt or mentally ill. Transsexuals are simply people who have the body of one sex and the brain wiring of the opposite sex.

Being Transsexual IS NOT A CHOICE!

We are all born differently and that is OK!

Knowledge is power and judgement based in
ignorance and religious dogma is just plain inappropriate!
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 102
Posted: 6/4/2015 5:52:46 AM

i'm not really sure as I am a REAL
man but why don't you start looking at the
first grade SPELLING SCHOOL down the street?
you might find your lover and learn some
basics at the same time captain of the douche canoe!

Wow,you are such a rude,intolerant, judgemental SOB!

A REAL MAN doesn't look down his nose
at everyone he deems beneath him!

A REAL MAN is someone who is educated
tolerant,open minded and decent enough to
acknowledge,accept and respect that not everyone
fits into his small brained perception if reality!

Grow the "f" up!

You are TOO OLD to be this ignorant!
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