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Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 83
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Well i am a tansexual n its nice to see that we have some support out there, its been a very lonley life for me havin to avoid relationships with guys cuz i am so misunderstood n judged so harshly for just being me
Joined: 6/10/2009
Msg: 84
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Posted: 11/9/2012 6:22:23 PM
Aww thats really sweet thanx
Joined: 1/19/2012
Msg: 85
Posted: 11/10/2012 9:31:18 AM
I only want one.
Joined: 3/25/2012
Msg: 86
Posted: 11/10/2012 9:37:12 AM
I agree that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Lets get past being judgemental and let people be with whom they want to be with.
Joined: 11/11/2012
Msg: 87
Posted: 11/16/2012 11:55:36 AM

I am confident in myself to say rikkita is "very attractive" and that I would take her out on a date if I knew her. And I wish their was a selection for mtf and ftm to make the dating process easier for everyone.
Joined: 2/12/2013
Msg: 88
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Posted: 2/20/2013 11:58:02 AM
i thank shemal are verry sexy where do i find one
Joined: 1/18/2013
Msg: 89
Posted: 2/21/2013 6:29:33 PM
you are speaking absolute ignorant nonsense beacuse of your disaproval about trans females,

this crude heartless opinion is not going to change your attraction towards them, lol

female hormones and a sex change operation do change ones body drastically,

if you dont gelieve me take some and tell me if you still feel look act the same, lol

if it didnt, then they would not bother to take these measures,

hormones drastically change muscles and make them much weaker and bones as well,

a vaginoplasty creates a functional orgasmic vagina that looks feels smells the same as a woman in menopuase

its why these women are put in women jail if arrested, and after medical evaluation its evident that they are now psychically female as well ad mentally which is why they are female on license birth certificate etc
Joined: 1/18/2013
Msg: 90
Posted: 2/21/2013 8:07:15 PM


bed me down lol.

clearly the only one on here with a problemo to get laid is you

seriously, who would want to be with someone that has your face/body lol.

im sure you get 1 message a month, and your considered in your opinion a * NORMAL* yet you are failing in the dating pool more than others you claim are messed up lol. how bout them apples eh? lol

i dont meet nobody off here i get enought attn from men in real life thank you

it amazes again what an ignorant jerkoff you continue to be with how little you try to understand people, you only see things from your own ignorant non accepting arms folded point of view

transgender people are not guys, they never have been as far as who they are, sure they were forced to dress a certain way, and where born with male genitalia, but i think there is more to a person than 1 body part, all you base people on is their genitals? * TYPICAL PIG*

if you were as educated as you put out to be you would have known that everyone is born with a vagina that eventually constructs to a penis, so this theory you have of male and female being born soooo diffrent is a lie as they are the same body at one point, these are facts which is why theres many hermaphrodites,

and some are born with the wrong genital and need surgery,

its very clear that from a young age you can clearly seperate them from guys as they are always the ones that are hyper femminine where they are basically wired the same way girls are, it has also been proven by doctors/scientist that the gender they are wired in their brain is the gender they identify as,

and im sorry but your not a as qualified as these people to speak such ignorance as if your some qualified gender specialist as you are clearly just talking out of your ass beacuse you dont approve of them, its clear from your words you have some problem with these people...

and if in fact you are a doctor or scientist i would love to know where you work so we can discuss this in person in front of gid specialist to see if you can prove your theroies to be more correct than people with over 50 years of studies on these people...

these people have always accepted who they truly are inside, which is why they go to unbeliveable life threatning lengths to match the outside with they inside,

the one that is not accepting them for who they really are is YOU!!!

transexuals, the ones that have gender surgery have never felt like homosexuals but people born with the wrong genital, dont you get it? fool....

if they where homosexuals why would they wanna get rid of there parts that enable them to have gay sex?

you clearly are very misinformed about what a true transexual woman is,

you speak more of transvestites,

you need to brush up on your level of education


do you really think hormones and a sex change operation dont change the body and just change how it appears? lol. wow,

do me a favor, go get a sex change and take hormones, and let me know if your body still functions the same,

of course you would not do that beacuse obviously it would change you

your pretty dumb,
Joined: 1/16/2013
Msg: 91
Posted: 2/22/2013 7:51:48 PM
Misty much respect to you and the other transgendered people on here.
My best friend is TG and went thru the process in early 80s, and fortunately things have improved within society in regards to acceptance in the UK as well as the treatments themselves.

People like Jeffery will never change, their ill informed opinions based on psuedo theories will never stand up to real science, however they are far too closed minded to ever try and learn about something they have no understanding of.

In the 30 years since K had the op attitudes have changed drastically and will continue to change, education and understanding are the key, and people like Jeffery dying off and being replaced by a younger and more accepting generation.

Be Happy be positive, and love yourself! xx
Joined: 10/20/2014
Msg: 92
Posted: 11/16/2014 7:09:08 AM
im in trenton nj and looking for a ts or cd
Joined: 7/29/2014
Msg: 93
Posted: 11/17/2014 3:48:18 AM
LOL, sounds like the OP is curious and is interested in dating a shemale....:-)
Joined: 12/23/2014
Msg: 95
Posted: 5/21/2015 11:43:08 AM
We are all humans and have the right to do what we must to feel good in our our own skin.
I have met people of all gender and persuasion and some of the most beautiful and intelligent individuals I have met have been cross-dressers or Transsexuals.
If you feel beautiful and happy as who you are then you tend to attract others who feel the same themselves.
Thus yes...I have met a few that I have felt an attraction for and would be inclined to enjoy personal interaction with them.
The human body is a sensual sexy work of art to enjoy in every way.
Joined: 4/16/2015
Msg: 96
Posted: 5/21/2015 3:27:20 PM
zol asks

i thank shemal are verry sexy where do i find one

i'm not really sure as I am a REAL man but why don't you start looking at the first grade SPELLING SCHOOL down the street? you might find your lover and learn some basics at the same time captain of the douche canoe!
Joined: 10/12/2013
Msg: 97
Posted: 5/21/2015 7:42:46 PM
I have no interest in shemales, tranvestites etc. To each their own.
Joined: 9/14/2013
Msg: 98
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Posted: 5/30/2015 10:53:06 PM
Go to gay-friendly bars in your city. Go out and about in nearly any major city on the weekends. We out there. Just be decent and friendly as you would with a genetic girl. It really is that easy.
Joined: 9/14/2013
Msg: 99
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Posted: 5/30/2015 11:08:58 PM
They turn to porn and prostitution because:

Nobody will hire them. Nobody will rent to them. Nobody will accept them. Why? Because of ignorance, prejudice and/or stupidity. Same thing people did to blacks 50+ years ago. Many of us transsexuals are professionals. I'm in the medical field.

Our doing a sex/gender change is nothing more and nothing less than seeking treatment for gender dysphoria which is a bona fide, legitimate medical condition. You get diabetes? You get treatment. You get cancer? You get treatment. You get hypothyroidism? You get treatment. We are merely getting treatment.

Other than that, we are completely normal, decent, worthwhile people just like most people. Many of us are smart, loyal and loving. People are missing out on what could be a very, very good thing for them. Peace & Joy
Joined: 9/14/2013
Msg: 100
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Posted: 5/30/2015 11:17:36 PM

I think they're hot too but most are into guys so the last thing I need is to develop a crush on someone who there is zero hope of ever getting together with.

I knew of one guy who had a lesbian girlfriend which I thought was cool. Apparently she was very supportive of him getting the operation completed.

But I don't like chics so I REALLY don't want someone who aspires to lose his equipment.

Actually, about a third of us are into women. I know I am! Most of us DO NOT have the sex-change surgery. At age 59, I have not and have no desire to. You will find that many of us are accomplished, kind, smart, decent, ordinary people ... just like most of you.

Finally, you are right about some of us being hot. I can show you several younger transsexuals as hot as any born-woman supermodel, and that's no lie. Some call us a bisexual's dream come true. The younger generation generally has no issue dating/marrying us. These kids have evolved on this issue way, way above my generation, thank God.
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 101
Posted: 6/4/2015 5:41:20 AM

I truly have to wonder why this isn't common mainstream
knowledge!? I dont even consider it a disorder under these

Transsexual Brain Development

How does the MtF Transsexual?

Like the normal male embryo, the male to female Transsexual brain starts out female. Then between the 8th and 24th weeks, the ‘XY’ chromosomes introduce testosterone hormonal changes, but the hormonal washes as faulty. They are either insufficient or ill timed. When this happens, the fetus develops a male body. However, some of the default (original) female brain processes remain intact. Thus, the brain’s gender identity remain intact. Thus, the brains gender identity remains female. This means that Transsexual males whose process of brain masculinization was incomplete, Their default female brains still function. The degree of arrested development can vary. The orgininal brain circuitry that was missed in the masculinizing process provides a continuing feminine influence. This explains why many Transsexuals, biological males know, from as early as 3 years old, that they are actually members of the opposite sex.

What can be known about Transsexuals?

Transsexualism does not rise from being exposed, in childhood to the clother, toys, activities, and goals of the opposite sex. Nor are Transsexuals; sex addicts, morally corrupt or mentally ill. Transsexuals are simply people who have the body of one sex and the brain wiring of the opposite sex.

Being Transsexual IS NOT A CHOICE!

We are all born differently and that is OK!

Knowledge is power and judgement based in
ignorance and religious dogma is just plain inappropriate!
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 102
Posted: 6/4/2015 5:52:46 AM

i'm not really sure as I am a REAL
man but why don't you start looking at the
first grade SPELLING SCHOOL down the street?
you might find your lover and learn some
basics at the same time captain of the douche canoe!

Wow,you are such a rude,intolerant, judgemental SOB!

A REAL MAN doesn't look down his nose
at everyone he deems beneath him!

A REAL MAN is someone who is educated
tolerant,open minded and decent enough to
acknowledge,accept and respect that not everyone
fits into his small brained perception if reality!

Grow the "f" up!

You are TOO OLD to be this ignorant!
Joined: 1/25/2017
Msg: 105
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Posted: 6/15/2018 2:36:34 PM
Hi Lady's..mlooking for someone special
Joined: 5/11/2017
Msg: 106
Posted: 6/16/2018 6:27:18 PM
There is no such thing as a female or male brain. Reproduction is a function of the GAMETES, not of the brain. That's why when you make a baby you don't NEED a brain, just spermoza and ova in a petri dish

Gender is a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT, that's why it varies between eras and cultures. The brain is a mosaic of traits, gender is LEARNED as we age, it is NOT innate. Baby & child brains do not show gender wiring like adult brains.

Females have ovaries, period. They aren't a brain type, they aren't an identity, they aren't a fetish, they aren't a costume. They aren't failed men, they are members of the reproductive class which gestates. I am a female - no man, EVER, can join my class, no matter how much lip stick he wears.
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 107
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Posted: 6/16/2018 8:21:12 PM
I think that many men who 'want to be women' (and the same the other way around) aren't necessarily trying to be a female with ovaries, they just want to be in a woman's role in certain respects...whichever those respects are.

Also, I've suspected that some are cases wherein according to the genetics they were supposed to be the gender opposite of what they developed as, but didn't because of how development happens sometimes...and maybe there's some feeling within themselves that they can't explain which stems from this developmental discrepancy.

I think that I've decided that the questions of gender, gender identity, and whether or not someone has the right to try and be one or the other different than how they were born...really is not a simple black-and-white issue. It depends on what we're talking about. When we talk about this, we're not talking about just one thing. There are a few different and separate issues wrapped up as one, mistaken for one, and treated as one. So discussions about it will be confusing.

Clarification? - "Gender is a SOCIAL CONSTRUCT", then "[females] are members of the reproductive class which gestates. I am a female - no man, EVER, can join my class". These two things potentially contradict each other. But then, I think that it's because two separate things are being addressed here but treated as one, as I am referring to above.
Joined: 12/17/2011
Msg: 108
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Posted: 6/16/2018 9:40:32 PM
Why are we back on this again? Who cares what someone wants to do with their own body? Does it really matter?

What is this necro thread even about anyways? The beauty of shemales? Plastic surgery and makeup can do a lot of things, I guess.
If they got the skills, no problem with them flaunting it. It isn't my cup of tea, and it does nothing for me, but to each their own.
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