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 Bikeman_
Joined: 10/8/2005
Msg: 40
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Honestly I am thinkin' it lessens his chances of getting you pregnant!!
hate to break it to you but if you ever paid attention in grade 9 health class you'd know a woman can still get pregnant if the guy pulls out
Hate to break it to you but they teach READING COMPREHENSION in Grade 9 along with sex ed. You seemed to skip right over the word LESSENS. The earlier poster didn't say it was FOOLPROOF.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 2/2/2007 3:18:11 PM
the man enters in triumph, victory flag waving proudly like a fist extended in the air.

he retreats, spent, in decrepitude, shrunken and defeated.

therefore, when man pulls himself out before the guns go off, he does so still in his proud state.

so he doesn't have to suffer the loss until he can go down in a blaze of glory amidst all the rockets red glare.

or something like that.


And the dumbest post of the year goes to...

Let me break it down for you crazy broads that like to overanalyze everything...we don't care if we cum in you, on you, around you or in the general vicinity of you...as long as we cum. Yes, we have our preferences because no guy likes interupting the frenzy of the build up and some place just feel better than others, but not one male feels the way you just described above...LOL!
 canicu2
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 42
he pulls out
Posted: 2/12/2007 10:53:39 PM
I really think he does that as a form of birth control.

I understand that a man that does that for a long period of time will have trouble getting an errection in the future. It is a psyc thing. It will effect his performance later on.

I would not encourage this act at all. If he wants to ejaculate on a women then let him but don't let him pull out. There needs to be some communication about this serious subject.
 ridddder
Joined: 11/14/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 2/13/2007 12:36:35 AM
This seems like a biased, and sexist question which suggests men are emotionless zombies who treat sex as a release rather than a emotional connection. While I am sure there are many who feel either way, I have found as many women who are just as casual about sex as men. Trying to equate ejaculation during penetration or without into something deeper or not depends not just on the person, but the place, time, and sitsuation.

If history has proven us anything we can most likely prove that we humans are creatures of habit, and that we like to emulate sitsuations based on powerful experiences we've had or seen. Given that many people like to disassociate any connection with sex, emotions, or pleasure suggests that where one "cums", as a place really doesn't have anything to do with a particular reason.

A few suggestions here may be: examples in porn, fetishes, experiences with others, etc.

Experience is subjective as they say, and while I have personally known just as many ladies who like the feeling of hot cum on them, as those who prefer it in them. Of course your mileage may differ, but never forget the most important thing. If you need to ask why to validate unresolved questions, I believe the answer you will find will never meet your expectations until you first understand that why is never as important as doing, living, and enjoying. I have found that the answer to why the grass is green is alot less satisfying than just enjoying the grass, and all that i gives you.

 txbootsy
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 44
he pulls out
Posted: 2/18/2007 9:23:37 PM
You dont deserve a man that has another woman. Get a man that ONLY wants to be with you
 ScientistGuy
Joined: 12/1/2004
Msg: 45
he pulls out
Posted: 2/19/2007 4:37:44 AM
Well, it works like this for me. I feel less than fully accepted by my partner if I'm not leaving a little bit of myself inside her at the end. Heck, if there's not been complete fellatio in the relationship (or recently), I feel that way. That goes triple for intercourse where I don't finishe inside her sans condom. I'd just as soon skip actually having sex as do that.

For those who think I'm at major STD risk, let me give you this thought. There is sex and sexual relationships where condoms are appropriate, and sex where they are not. I give the first type a miss, seeing not much point to them.
 aliven28
Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 46
he pulls out
Posted: 2/19/2007 10:10:57 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ I agree it doesnt matter where he cums it matters that he does! If he doesnt then u know theres issues! Love or emotions shouldnt be based on were ur man cums!
Making a mess is always hot and maybe extra excitement for round 2!
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 48
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Posted: 2/19/2007 10:16:02 AM
^ Yes, there is no better feeling than discharging in the ol' velvet glove, but I really couldn't care as long as I cum in the end.
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 49
he pulls out
Posted: 3/9/2007 1:05:31 PM
holy moly batman!
i need a new outlet
yikes at this thread!
 Backcountryme
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 50
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Posted: 3/9/2007 10:33:06 PM
Well, I had the snip 7 years ago, so I have no problems cumming inside a woman. The only reasons I didn't before was because of pregnacy. I do enjoy cumming inside a woman though. There is something about letting go. Feels better, and I enjoy it when she likes what is going on. That is why I enjoy going down on a woman too.
 Tstarr123
Joined: 2/23/2007
Msg: 51
he pulls out
Posted: 3/10/2007 8:58:27 AM
the guy pulling out is defintly a fear of getting the girl pragnet! nothing to do with the emotional side! i beleive that guys take longer to mature actully its a known fact! guys believe they are more mature then they actully are they want the fun but not the responsabilities so yeah there gonna pull out but thats cuz they dont want to put there self in the crisit of having a child, he may not be ready,and he also may not think your ready! so there is no emotional part into him pulling out!
 Backcountryme
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 3/28/2007 7:45:37 AM
Holy cow Dr.
That is some interesting reading. I got the snip already, so I guess it really doesn't apply to myself, but wow. I never reaslized that there were NO sperm in pre-cum.
 acgoat
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 53
he pulls out
Posted: 3/28/2007 7:53:41 AM
I've never been one to pullout, I say stay in til the deed is done.
The be a proper lesbian and lick her clean.
Birthcontrol, she best be on the pill or fixed.
 ab07
Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 54
he pulls out
Posted: 3/28/2007 10:29:22 PM
Be assured ...

If a women, with any consistancy, asks you NOT to come inside of her does not consider you a serious boyfriend and certainly does not love you. Sorry.
 DrewBond007
Joined: 6/27/2006
Msg: 56
he pulls out
Posted: 3/31/2007 10:43:11 PM
inside = baby maker

outside = less chance

unless it is planned there is nothing wrong with it
 southernhighlander
Joined: 3/30/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 4/3/2007 1:36:52 AM
i think it should be up to each other i have a friend and she will only let certain guys cum in her i use to be one of those guys too.but will text her tomorrow to see why she likes it in her instead of a condom.
 _Duchess_
Joined: 8/28/2006
Msg: 58
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Posted: 4/3/2007 1:53:24 AM
Are you kidding me?, the main reason men cum on their women is so later on when their with their mates they can gloat about painting their girls faces..There I said it ! it's been said .. I personally don't do it because well there's no masculinity issues here, and man butter makes the face look old and used after a few paintings ..
 southernhighlander
Joined: 3/30/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 4/7/2007 5:40:15 PM
I don't know about what a man thinks on this topic...but I definately feel more connected to a man if he is willing to cum inside me. Emotionally, it makes me feel secure that he KNOWS something could happen, but is willing to take that chance with me because he is in it for the long run. JMO


i do like to cum inside a woman if she lets
 Mission-impossible
Joined: 4/1/2007
Msg: 60
he pulls out
Posted: 4/8/2007 7:53:04 AM
It's a DOMINANCE issue, just like an animal marking it's territory.
 Shylent
Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 10/7/2007 11:31:35 PM
One possability is he is a caring and sensitive person and most or all the women in the past didnt want him to cum in her and thinks you want the same.

I would much prefer to cum inside of my partner, but respectfull enough to pull out if she doesnt want it in her.

If you want him cum in you or dont mind if he does. you might want to tell him its ok or ask him to fill you up instead of painting your belly.

If he still doesnt then ask him why not and see if you can do something to change his mind.
 Backcountryme
Joined: 10/5/2005
Msg: 62
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Posted: 10/10/2007 11:46:50 AM
Both ways are ok. I got fixed several years ago, so the whole birth controle parts is taken care of. I usually ask beforehand, while things are in progress. That way she can make the choice if she wants it in her or on her.
 RR Man
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 63
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Posted: 10/10/2007 7:17:40 PM
what guy doesn't want to give it up inside? that is beyond intense
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It certainly is. I enjoy giving a woman oral sex. But she doesn't have to return the favor. I'd much rather get up there and finish inside her. It's so much more intimate.

And, ladies, I've had a vasectomy
 sephx82
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 64
he pulls out
Posted: 10/10/2007 8:48:32 PM
Facial moisturizer, we don't like to waste things.
 higgie2006
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 65
he pulls out
Posted: 10/10/2007 10:14:55 PM
personally, if we're not using a condom... i prefer for him to pull out and shoot it all over me.

or if we've been together for a while, i like to suck him off and let him cum in my mouth.
 RR Man
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 66
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Posted: 10/11/2007 12:03:13 AM
RESULTS: None of the preejaculatory samples contained sperm.
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Maybe not, but you timing had better be precise anyway. Otherwise it's about as effective a birth control method as Vatican Roulette. LOL. One second too late and you can knock her up. And it's a hard thing to control. The natural tendancy is to leave it in. God designed it that way so the race would go a little further than Adam and Eve.

I've been snipped too. Even if I hadn't been, I'm at the age where I probably will never date a lady young enough to get pregnant anyway. So if a lady likes me to come inside her, I'm very happy to oblige :-)
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