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 WalkingInLondon
Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 567
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?Page 34 of 35    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35)
God I hope so!
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 1stevens
Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 569
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Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/25/2009 8:31:31 AM
I've never cheated and never will...I've had it done to me and I could NEVER do it to someone else....
 farscapeprincess
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 571
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/25/2009 9:01:19 AM
Nope. I've never cheated. I look at like this: if I'm in a monogamous exclusive relationship with someone cheating is not an option. I'm not respecting the relationship if I do otherwise. OP, please don't paint all women with the same brush. You can and will find a woman who values monogamy the same as you do.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 572
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/25/2009 9:32:16 AM
Somehow, I get the feeling that if the thread's title was... "Are there ANY women who do CHEAT?, there wouldn't be so many testimonials.


It's a dating site for chrissake. Who's going to advertise infidelities here?
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 574
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/25/2009 10:09:31 AM
Aahahahahha ....Its been quite amusing reading this thread and I felt I needed to throw in my own 2 cents so, for what its worth, here it goes...always remember karma is the great equalizer!! we may think we will escape it or it doesnt matter...but in the end it gets us all....I for one have never cheated period...period...and I would never disrespect myself in such a manner...there are lines in life/relationships that I just dont cross. Maybe thats what it comes down to...self respect.

have a groovy day and play nice in the sandbox kids....venus
 belledejour1
Joined: 6/21/2009
Msg: 579
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/27/2009 8:55:36 PM
never cheated on my hubby for 15 years, till last week when i went to Paris! hard to resist french men, sorry...
 FresnoChevrolady
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 586
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/30/2009 7:47:30 AM
I have never cheated on my man, and NEVER would. I was cheated on, and would never want someone else to feel like I did. If it's over, it's over. Men cheat, women cheat. It's not gender specific ! It's all a matter of values, and maturity, and remember: No Expectations = No Frustrations. Hope for and do your best, and don't let the stupid s**t-for-brains get to you. Difficult, I know. But as you can tell by all the replies on this thread, alot of us have been through it.
 dlb47
Joined: 2/19/2009
Msg: 587
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 6/30/2009 2:47:06 PM
Never cheated...never had any desire to cheat..If its not working, end the current relationship first before moving on. Maybe you need to take a look at the kind of women you are choosing to be with. I don't necessarily think cheating always has to do with not being satisfied sexually in their current relationship. Some women and men just do not commit...for lots of reasons. But please don't put us all "in that category"
 GREATEST LOVER
Joined: 2/10/2009
Msg: 589
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:52:48 PM
whenever you find a woman you really like you have to do some background checking beforee you get engaged. the best resources are old high school friends, they are the most honest people, they will tell you exactly how they were in high school.
once a hoe, always a hoe.
 tbuddha
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 590
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 9:57:57 PM
Given that there are tons of women who cheat, isn't amazing that every woman on this thread claims to always be faithful?
 HazelRose
Joined: 6/15/2009
Msg: 591
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:28:10 PM
OK Cheaters form a line over here near the naysayers, and Non-cheaters form line away from the Cheaters. Wait a minute! Why are there Non-cheaters trying to cut in line?! Funny, there are no linejumpers in the Cheaters line...
 tbuddha
Joined: 2/28/2005
Msg: 600
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:10:13 PM
Incuubus2113-

Nice that at least you have the balls to admit that you cheated, unlike at least half the women on this thread who have jumped on the defensive.
 zangie
Joined: 5/30/2007
Msg: 601
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Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/20/2009 11:34:13 PM

Nice that at least you have the balls to admit that you cheated, unlike at least half the women on this thread who have jumped on the defensive.


So, if it happens that it is true that we haven't cheated...we are automatically assumed to be lying just because you know some women who have...isn't that similar to saying all men are lying when they say they aren't looking for just sex...because we have known men who did and are?

I'm sure that some women ( and men) who have wouldn't be advertising it..but, I also think they would just be less likely to post on this thread, rather than lie about it..the real implication seems to be that all women and liars and cheats...and you can't take anyone at their word because of your pre conception that all women behave like the ones you have known..I'd say some may be lying, but, most, probably aren't..just like in real life I know more good people than bad...I tend to think it is also true of most posters...

Of all the women I know very personally/intimately...I only know of one who cheated...well, two if you count swinging as cheating...lol...but , he knew then...so, my assumption would be that more don't than do..regardless of what the statistics may say..they don't poll everyone in the country..it is a sampling...
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 602
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/21/2009 6:08:59 AM

I'm sure that some women ( and men) who have wouldn't be advertising it..but, I also think they would just be less likely to post on this thread, rather than lie about it..


Only a few cheaters, I suspect, brag about it. Lol


Of all the women I know very personally/intimately...I only know of one who cheated...well, two if you count swinging as cheating


At best, you (or anybody) can only offer is a "sampling", and even then, what makes you think none of your friends ever lie? lol


In their minds all women cheat


Yeah, but so do I (well, I'm single, so it's just violating others without their knowledge, lol), so I don't point fingers. Lol. I kinda blame Jimmy Carter for this seemingly excessive sensitivity (even though he had some biblical authority for punishing himself for, "I have lusted in mah heart").
 IsabelK
Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 607
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/29/2009 9:33:19 AM
I think saying, "I don't cheat" is like saying, "Trust me." It's more a walk than a talk issue.
 samanthadreams
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 608
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/29/2009 9:52:21 AM
I can understand being a little gun shy at this point. I personally could never cheat, but I have been cheated on. The problem is once u have been cheated on or hurt everyone else has to pay for the mistakes of the others. If u are accused of the crime enough u finally break one way or another. Some people commit the crime just because they are tired of being accused falsely. Some people walk away from it figuring they can never truely get out from it and earn ur trust. It is difficult to find the ones that are willing to prove u can trust them. Holding it against all of us wrong, yet how can u help it? I have found my way though placing the blame on all of u for the mistakes of in my case 1 man.
 ~$Brittney$~
Joined: 9/15/2005
Msg: 609
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 1:58:20 AM
I have never once cheated on someone...because I know what it feels like..I would'nt wish that pain on my worst enemy..
 CharmedinKtown
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 610
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 2:06:45 AM
I think the common theme for the OP in his situation was HIM. Not all women cheat, but perhaps he attracts women who are sexually driven who need more than one man (no, I don't think its right... just voicing an opinion). Much like women who jump from one abusive partner to another. Perhaps they feel they don't deserve any better, or perhaps they only attract that type due to their personalities and submissive nature.
 xFuriousx
Joined: 12/19/2008
Msg: 611
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 8:25:44 AM
I have never cheated nor would I.....BUT.....I would like to bring up something to the women that do cheat......There is such a thing called cuckolding and there are many men into this.....So instead of cheating on people behind there back and someone getting hurt why don't you try this instead?......There is no reason to cheat and hurt someone.
 CharmedinKtown
Joined: 5/25/2009
Msg: 612
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 9:22:55 AM
I agree with Furious... my husband and I are in that situation. He has a low sex drive, not much interest and its not a true cuckold situation but if more people were honest (men AND women) there would be a decrease in cheating.

My husband doesn't view me with others as cheating since he knows. Its not for everyone but hell, its available out there if you look with purpose.
 IsabelK
Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 616
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 1:25:38 PM
humbergirl:

What does "dealing" mean?
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 618
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 7/30/2009 1:39:28 PM
Amazing! 35 pages in a dating forum thread asking the question "Are there ANY women who don't Cheat?"
Who wudda thunk it?

I wonder how many pages of testimony a thread asking the opposite would garner?
That's the thread I want to read. I'd do it myself, but I'm apparently too dangerous
and controversial to have full forum privileges... I guess I can understand that.
 Inego Montoya
Joined: 9/9/2009
Msg: 624
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/29/2009 10:57:43 PM
In a word, NO. Well, maybe there are. Might still be some passenger pigeons and dodos, too.
 bruto
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 625
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 9/30/2009 8:43:30 AM
Women think with their P U S S Y's. don't let them fool you to think that they don't. they can't help it, it's just the way they are. At one time in history they might have been more lady-like, but not in today's society. just have fun with them, why do you need to marry them. Women are very over-rated anyway.
 Inego Montoya
Joined: 9/9/2009
Msg: 630
Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT?
Posted: 10/3/2009 7:14:40 AM
Bravo! A girl after my own heart. When a woman is willing to hop in the sack immediately I usually doubt it's my irresistable charm and figure she just does it a lot. Tends to make you doubt thier supposed long-term relationship plans
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