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 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 11
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What if you're partner is blind? Doesn't mean they are feeling any less just because they cannot look into your eyes ... right? Of course not.

Any man who knows me well knows that I will generally have my eyes closed ... because often it's the only way I have of focusing on that moment ... there are no visual distractions, just feelings. And anyways, if it's totally dark, we can't see into each others' eyes even if we wanted to ...

On the other hand, I also enjoy seeing my partner's face and looking directly into his eyes when he comes to orgasm, so while I do close my eyes a lot, I make it a point to open them as I also reach orgasm just because it occurs to me that he would want that eye contact as I do.

If I see that he has his eyes closed ... no offense is taken at all. People have different reasons for keeping their eyes open or closed. As long as the two of you are enjoying yourselves and no one feels slighted ... then proceed. What's most important is that the two of you are experiencing something deep and moving.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 12
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Eyes wide...shut?
Posted: 1/2/2007 7:40:47 AM
well, I don't pay big attention to my partner's eyes while we are exploring and indulging in in our -sh 'gusto'.
On my part I can say that if my eyes are shut, this visual feast is transferred to other senses and it doesn't diminish pleasure I'm experiencing with my partner, nor raise any questions on his part. But ... if something parts my lips ... these wide shut eyes get sneaky narrow peek
 colt8301
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 17
Eyes wide...shut?
Posted: 1/2/2007 10:35:04 PM
more than likely they probaly are imagining they are with the the person of their dreams.
 billingsmason
Joined: 2/3/2012
Msg: 18
Eyes wide...shut?
Posted: 9/22/2012 11:41:00 AM
Electrocution face isn't always the sexiest pose...

Had a girlfriend that would hide her face under a pillow when she came. Always made me smile when she started groping around for something...

To each their own.
Funny that the poster said it was in relationship to him not being into those women. Seems like it would be the other way around.
 NOCLOWNING
Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 19
Eyes wide...shut?
Posted: 9/22/2012 11:59:22 AM
I think, it depends on how comfortable you are with that person. Now I know, some people are gonna say, if your not comfortable with someone, you shouldnt be having sex with them, But, I know when I was younger, It took time.
On the other hand, keeping my eye's close, I can concentrate on nothing, but what I am feeling. I dont like the tv, or music on, when I am having sex. Now that I am older, I do open my eye's, sometime, and look at him. When I am about to cum, my eye's are closed, and just enjoying every moment. Do what every it takes to enjoy the moment. Everyone is different.
 MAB54
Joined: 7/3/2009
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Eyes wide...shut?
Posted: 9/22/2012 12:09:41 PM
I keep mine wide open, lights on! I want to see everything and take mental pictures to relive later...who needs to watch porn to masterbate when you have personal mental images to enjoy!!!
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 21
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Posted: 9/22/2012 4:38:04 PM
Chances are they are fantasising about someone else. But everyone is different but to have eyes closed the whole time I would find offputting and disturbing.
 Phil_an_derer
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 22
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Posted: 9/22/2012 4:47:25 PM
I would definitely keep my eyes closed if I was on the bottom looking up at myself....ewww!
 TD625
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 23
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Posted: 9/22/2012 5:08:51 PM
There are times my eyes are shut while I'm deep into the moment but I DEFINITELY like to look into the eyes of the person I'm with.. I think it makes it that more intense and personal. :)
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