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 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 101
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The stuff that woman sent you is bull. I have never been on hormone therapy and I love sex (I'm 58, nearly 59). I get incredibly horny. Your informant doesn't understand hormone production. Menopause does not mean cessation of female hormones (estrogen & progesterone) ; it does mean the reduction of female hormones, but just as men have a small amount of estrogen produced in their bodies, so women have a small (varying quantities) amount of testosterone (responsible for libido). So the reason some women who go off sex in menopause is not because they have the equivalent of castration, but other reasons (psychological, whatever). Hormone replacement therapy is really only useful for slowing the thinning of vaginal tissue. It isn't about boosting sex drive.

As for having bad relationships/ bad sex lives: again, nonsense. I have had bad relationships and some jolly good ones. The bad relationships were ultimately about the men not having much sex drive and me having to find good sex elsewhere.

So, stay with sexy older women. We like it.
 statemachine500
Joined: 8/25/2011
Msg: 102
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 12/24/2011 4:13:12 PM
You're one of those guys that should keep his shirt on.You look like you're playing with yourself....
 rrolf
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 103
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Posted: 12/24/2011 5:32:55 PM
just looking for fun
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 12/25/2011 8:12:40 AM

well,most of them can`t keep up,very few can.So knock a few years of and get a younger guy for really good sex


If an older woman experiences vaginal dryness the man is justified, now, in looking for younger women, right?????
 The Waiting Knight
Joined: 8/24/2008
Msg: 105
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 12/25/2011 8:32:51 AM
I agree with the shirt. That is repugnant.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 106
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 12/25/2011 9:20:29 AM

a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.


hahahaha what planet does this person live on? then why do women over 30 spend all day and a good chunk of money trying to make themselves look younger?

this is just another thread where angry and bitter old women get to bash us older guys. Then they wonder why we want younger ladies.
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 107
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Posted: 12/25/2011 9:24:15 AM

Both men and women still have a sex drive when they get older. Post-menopausal may not get lubricated enough and men may suffer from diabetes or other illnesses that may cause them not to be able to have an erection. These are the medical issues. People can work around these issues however. The most important thing is for 2 people who love eachother to try to satisfy the other in a variety of ways and they are not always sex. Be creative and enjoy eachother.


this lady being an exception to what I just wrote. Thank you licoricecat. Kudos to you.
 statemachine500
Joined: 8/25/2011
Msg: 108
SEX AND WOMEN OVER 40 OR 50?????
Posted: 12/25/2011 12:03:52 PM
Guys over 50,just get on TRT.This will make life far easier as regards sex,controlling your waistline,mood,maintaining muscle mass.Just do it.
 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 109
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Posted: 12/25/2011 12:25:53 PM
Do women over 5o actually have sex?

I have to admit I kind of assumed they wouldnt
 Want_You_2010
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 110
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Posted: 12/25/2011 12:46:41 PM
Sad that us men get bashed and are nothing to women when we hit our 40's. Ahh to be in my 20's and 30's again. These times seem that all the women in their 40's and 50's want the 20's and 30's guys. And they all seem to make their minds up painting us guys with the same brush.
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 111
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Posted: 12/25/2011 5:05:56 PM
This morning my friend and I had fantastic, frantic, luscious sex - twice. The last 4 or 5 mornings we had fantastic, frantic, luscious sex twice, after a short break of cuddling. Both of us are in our late 50s. How good can it get!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 112
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Posted: 12/25/2011 9:04:26 PM

Sad that us men get bashed and are nothing to women when we hit our 40's. Ahh to be in my 20's and 30's again. These times seem that all the women in their 40's and 50's want the 20's and 30's guys. And they all seem to make their minds up painting us guys with the same brush.


Not all us women think this way...
I have always loved an older man....and even now that I'm almost 49, I still enjoy an older man. (and by older I mean my own age and older )
I find their comfortable confidence in their abilities to be sexy as hell.
They know how to laugh and have a good time, and know that the destination isn't the be all - end all of the ride......but taking the windy, slow backroads to get there is!

There are definately advantages for both men and women that come with age,
and sex is one of them.
 southernbabe03
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 113
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Posted: 12/25/2011 11:04:35 PM
I will be 49 on Dec. 28. I absolutely love sex and I love younger men. I have a high sex drive. I have not been able to have kids for 20 years and that made it better back then.
Now that I am older, it is only better as I am. I have been told that by an ex I was with for a second round, lol
 Want_You_2010
Joined: 8/31/2009
Msg: 114
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Posted: 12/26/2011 7:23:52 AM
Sex isn't the be all to end all. But these days women brag about how they are bangin these studs that are young. And if old guys say they are bangin anyone most times women say they are full of it. Who cares if anyone is having sex over 40 or 50?
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 115
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Posted: 12/26/2011 9:01:14 AM
Women on here must be the exception. I went on Web/MD to get accurate information. they had two gynocologists, one man and one women who are supposed to be nationally known authorities on the subject. Both said women's sex drive is physical and emotional. but they both agreed that when a woman no longer ovulates, the physical part of the sex drive decreases. the vaginal walls get thinner and easier to tear. Basically, you can't beat father time. That applies to men and women.

The emotional part of a woman's sex drive is obviously not as affected with age, so an older woman can still be a "horndog. lol Testosterone does affect the libedo, but it has side affects like a "moustache" and hair growth. so I guess a woman with a mustache might potentially be a good time!
 2Sweet4U2
Joined: 5/29/2011
Msg: 116
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Posted: 12/26/2011 12:42:52 PM
Your the type of woman that I would go down on for a series of multiple O's very sexy looking woman atractive and beutiful all in one
 matchlight
Joined: 1/31/2009
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Posted: 12/26/2011 2:35:19 PM
None of the women in that age group that I've known has had the least problem with a low sex drive. Sometimes it's almost a little scary--like they were going into some sort of strange fit. The thought of calling the paramedics may even pass through your head. "Yeah, it looks like another case of hyperactive clitoris, all right. We see this all the time in women this age. We'll just give her some basic treatment--she'll be fine."

I met one woman about fifty who could have an orgasm after nothing but a few minutes of doing sit-ups on her floor. I'd read about things like that, but I thought it was nonsense--until I saw (and heard) it. When it happened, I naturally thought she must be disappointed at not being able to finish her workout. So I went over and sat down next to her to console her. But despite my good intentions, that only made her more emotional, and she never did finish the rest of her sit-ups.
 cin____dy
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 118
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Posted: 12/26/2011 6:28:25 PM
Okay that is bunk about the women issue and menopause. That simply is NOT true. There is NO study that will say that!! Women's sexuality does not stop because of menopause. Actually women's sexuality increases with age.!
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 119
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Posted: 12/27/2011 7:48:55 AM


love hardcore sweat till you cant breath anymore sex,



wrap you up in a quilt on 100 degree farenheit dat with a gagg?

sounds like something Pol Pot would do!....no no no ..... we need to be a little more comfy dan dat!

how about a thlightly thawed daquiri rockin' backwards and forwards in a hammock by the beach watching the setting sun on the water, no-one around (just one English backpacker secretly videoing us on her HTC iPhone and upload to face book or sumfink)

a couple of chilly flutes of champers (champagne) and slaves like in iSpartacus. you be Cleopatra and I'll be .....ummmmm Frank Thring...
 imacpc
Joined: 11/3/2009
Msg: 120
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Posted: 1/8/2012 9:15:25 PM
kinda bothers me that most women say older men cant keep up!
i have to date younger women just keep me on the level
maybe im not the average
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 121
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Posted: 1/8/2012 10:14:13 PM
Just to update my situation. The last two sex sessions with my lover we had sex not twice but three times, after short breaks between them. My 54 year old guy had never experienced a second erection, let alone a third. I am 59 today. So there you are, we older birds just get better.
 WorldBfreeLOL
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 122
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Posted: 1/9/2012 12:17:50 AM
The message I take from all these posts is "Keep hope alive!"
Or "Hope is alive!"
 BLoNde__ANgeL
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 123
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Posted: 1/9/2012 5:35:00 AM
I am 52 & due to a lifetime of high estrogen, have taken natural compounded progesterone for over a year...

the only diff b/w me now vs years ago is that I won't tolerate nonsense just to get laid.

an honest, straightforward (yet tactful) man gets my attention over a slick player type
 lauramae18
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 124
40.5; in trouble!
Posted: 1/9/2012 2:42:02 PM
I'm40 & a half now and have trouble finding someone to keep up, I'm not looking forward to 50
 Naughty Nights
Joined: 2/8/2010
Msg: 125
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Posted: 1/10/2012 12:48:42 PM
Yep, Gimmie a nice middle aged broad any day..
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