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Joined: 1/21/2005
Msg: 86
Minute MenPage 4 of 8    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8)
Used to date a minute man,later he could improve himself to be hours man with me
Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 87
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Minute Men
Posted: 7/23/2005 4:01:34 AM
The best way to cure Minute Man syndrome...if you're with him for a have more sex. I have had my fair share of trigger trouble, but that is easily enough remedied.

I have learned ways to pleasure women that most of my friends won't even try. I enjoy them. I win. And if it really comes down to it, the more I get, the better control I have.

I have found that the psychological excitement that comes from being with someone new is often enough to set me off. Once I get over that giddy, kid in a candystore feeling, I can concentrate more on her pleasure, and less on just trying to "hold it back".

That, or thinking about the bathrooms in truckstops.
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 92
Minute Men
Posted: 7/23/2005 9:40:03 AM

The only minute man I want is, 60 minute man!

Let me guess, Mike Wallace or quite possibly Andy Rooney?
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 98
Minute Men
Posted: 8/25/2005 9:01:24 AM

Beleive it or not...the average time for sex lasts around 12 to 15 minutes, this is the point of insertion to orgasm.

This is 1 area of human sexuality that has much variation in data.
Average Time to Orgasm (male)
Kinsey found that 75% of all males reach orgasm within 2 minutes of penetration, and felt that it was normal, though he does note that it "may be most unsatisfactory to a wife who is inhibited or natively low in response." Way to state the obvious, doc.

Average Duration of Orgasm (male)
3-5 seconds.

Average Time to Orgasm (female)
Females in Kinsey's studies averaged a little less than 4 minutes to reach orgasm during masturbation, though for coitus it took anywhere from 10 to 20 minutes.

Average Duration of Orgasm (female)
5-8 seconds. Orgasmic contractions in both sexes occur at intervals of 0.8 secon

According to pharmecutecal comapny Johnson and Johnson which did a study and timed over 1500 couples the average time to male orgasm=7.3 minutes:

So it would seem that average for a man is 2-10 min while average for a woman is 10-20

This is 1 major reason many women have never or rarely experience vaginal orgasms

Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 99
Minute Men
Posted: 8/25/2005 9:22:37 AM
...I'll be right with you....gimme a minute.....
Joined: 6/8/2004
Msg: 101
Minute Men
Posted: 8/25/2005 9:53:57 AM
sometimes im jealous of those guys LOL
Joined: 8/23/2005
Msg: 105
Minute Men
Posted: 8/26/2005 8:10:59 AM
I've never had this problem... I always last long enough to satisfy. At least thats what i've been told.
 Simple Majik
Joined: 9/15/2005
Msg: 107
Minute Men
Posted: 10/16/2005 1:56:03 PM
You have to be kidding me. 3 Strokes? That is just crazy!
Joined: 9/24/2005
Msg: 116
Minute Men
Posted: 10/16/2005 8:53:21 PM
I don't believe there's a guy out there that can't learn to control it. It all depends on practice.
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 118
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Minute Men
Posted: 10/17/2005 6:58:48 AM
With one of my Ex's I would always give her oral until she got off then we would go at it till I got off which is usualy quick the 1st time. Aftyer I shot my load into her I would get her off orally again. By that time I was always hard again, and could usualy go 1-1 1/2 hours before shooting another load. Gotta go at it bare back to do this method though because **** is nasty rite after havind a condom inside of it
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 131
Minute Men
Posted: 11/13/2006 12:52:18 AM
I am a recovering minuteman.

Apparently if you start doing cardio exercise and getting good nutrition (maybe become vegetarian) then you will start lasting longer. I'll be honest.. These days I still can't last an hour, but I can last a couple of half hours
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 133
Minute Men
Posted: 11/13/2006 8:26:16 AM
lol im so shure like a man can realey get off that fast my shortest time is 20 min if a woman can get a man off that fast she must half to be realley good in bed but i realey dont think it is posable for a man to get off with in 20 min sorey
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 135
Minute Men
Posted: 11/13/2006 8:57:04 AM
ok i have read some of what women have hade to say and yes some of it is verry hurtfull so comeing for a man that knows how to go a long time with out getting off i will tell you how it works i dont care what others think of what i am about to say becous i do give great sex and long sex with my wife but ok here we go you dont half to tell eaney one you do it but when you have time alone do your thing about 2 to 4 times a day and bye your self some books here are the names of books i have they work great(Satisfaction guaranteed what women really want in bed)(The healing power of sex )(the 10 secrets to great sex)(hot relationships)and my fave (Massage for lovers) all thows books are amazing and you will see the next time you have sex and if you want to plees her dont forget to do your thing you know what i meen she will love you for all this good luck
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 142
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Minute Men
Posted: 11/13/2006 10:10:35 AM
Hi could any one tell what on average duration is useful.... 5 min 10 min..... ???
Joined: 11/27/2003
Msg: 148
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Minute Men
Posted: 1/7/2008 5:09:24 PM
I wouldn't have a problem with that (((feelinlucky))), that's really cool you are not picky like many other women, lol
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 149
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Minute Men
Posted: 1/7/2008 5:11:27 PM
A minute man? Wow. I'm an all-night kinda girl. One minute? Are you serious???
Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 152
Minute Men
Posted: 1/7/2008 8:59:25 PM
well i dono if one min ...i guess it was a lil longer but yeah i guess he wasnt a record holder didnt bodered me at all though...not only because he knew how to make up for not lasting TOO long ..but also coz i liked him enough not to care :)
in my case ..if i get to have feelings for someone wouldnt really matter coz i would be happy to have him as he is BUT there are women out there that might/will be really upset if its not long enough :P lol
good luck !
Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 153
Minute Men
Posted: 1/7/2008 9:08:51 PM
in the words of dave chappel

im a speed ****er - if i cum, I CUM RIGHT ON TIME!
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 154
Minute Men
Posted: 1/8/2008 9:01:43 PM
Hmmmm when does the timer start?
Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 155
Minute Men
Posted: 1/8/2008 9:10:45 PM
My only recomendation is go and talk to a doctor....
Joined: 10/14/2004
Msg: 164
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Minute Men
Posted: 1/9/2008 9:32:53 AM
.....3 pump chump...
Ever hear the saying "2 pumps and a squirt"?
Just for the record.....I am NOT like these guys.....quite the opposite actually.
Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 167
Minute Men
Posted: 1/9/2008 10:17:01 AM
It so hard to find a woman thats into rodeo sex. You just can't make them happy even when you do ride for the full 8 seconds
Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 168
Minute Men
Posted: 1/9/2008 10:22:38 AM

HEY.. I hear ya! I was dating a guy who would ejaculate while he was eating me... he would not make it to the intercourse. So.. we talked about it...and finally after about a month or so I learned how to slow him down.. not blow his load.. while still keeping him excited. .... Learning experience for both of us.

We have been dating for over a year now and he seems to be able to control his premature ejeculation. Good news for me cause I love the guy.

After reading so many negative and bitter posts, I finally found this 'gem'. It's so good to know that there are still people on this planet who can contribute something positive to this world. Good on ya!
Joined: 10/13/2009
Msg: 176
Minute Men
Posted: 10/17/2009 3:26:51 AM
Funny thread

If I was with someone I was into or in a relationship, I'd use my tongue to make up for being a 2 pump chump lol. Usually after the 1st orgasm, I could get it back up quickly then go for 30 min or so during round 2.

Now if the girl was a random hookup, I didn't care how fast I went, and what was worse was if you could get dressed & out the door just as quickly as u came. Sometimes I would do it just to piss them off.

Yes, I was evil
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