HEY.. I hear ya! I was dating a guy who would ejaculate while he was eating me... he would not make it to the intercourse. So.. we talked about it...and finally after about a month or so I learned how to slow him down.. not blow his load.. while still keeping him excited. .... Learning experience for both of us.
We have been dating for over a year now and he seems to be able to control his premature ejeculation. Good news for me cause I love the guy.
After reading so many negative and bitter posts, I finally found this 'gem'. It's so good to know that there are still people on this planet who can contribute something positive to this world. Good on ya!