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 BB123
Joined: 3/31/2005
Msg: 53
I attract needy women who want to be supported.Page 3 of 22    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22)
I guess I attract the needy. In two days, I got email from women, one said point blank that she loved her ex so much she coudln't make a committment to anyone else, and 24 hours later said that he told her to hit the trail, so what was I willing to do for her.

Same day I got a message from another needy woman...she needed a place to live, a car and a job...and she was bored?

pathetic.
 TLeo85
Joined: 1/23/2005
Msg: 54
I attract needy women who want to be supported.
Posted: 4/13/2005 6:15:15 PM
I tend to attract older guys for some reason, thus the reason why I had to put an age limit on who could mail me. sorry but I'm only just turning 20 this July and I think it's a bit sick when a 39 year old guy is trying to come on to me.
and for some reason I tend to attract, and always have, tall skinny guys. I'm 5'8 myself, so no problem there, but I happen to be a curvy young woman(not fat or anything, just healthy I work out). and usually they're the "nerdy" type but I'm nice and give them a chance *shrugs*
 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 55
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/13/2005 9:34:52 PM
Blondie1967

You're a hottie. Great smile, beautiful face, articulate (not that it matters when you're screaming "Oh, God harder!"), but it is attractive. I bet you attract all types of men, not just the married ones. I bet it's just that you notice the married ones more because it's irritating to you.

Sorry, but I'm afraid you're just stuck with a magnetic personality and good looks. I feel for you. :)

Phuque Monkey
 berrysweetncgurl
Joined: 8/2/2004
Msg: 56
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/13/2005 9:43:52 PM
lol i attract weirdos that act half their age....they always are soo sweet to begin with
then they start with name calling and being verbally abusive
then that always leads to physical abuse
augh.....anyway long story short
i attract older men who are usually married and looking for a fling
i attract black men for some damn reason i guess its my ghetto booty lol
no offense guys but i am just not into chocolate men
dont take me for a racist though b/c some of my best friends are black...i just am not attracted to them
i attract guys who are all around bad boys
LOL
or the kind that say "come mere lemme halla at chu shawty" lol or " when we gonna hook up"
LAME

i wanna attract a good italian boy to fall in deep mad love with
lol they dont necc. have to be italian but have a good head on their shoulders and know what they want in life at least partially
 phuquemonkey
Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 57
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/13/2005 10:01:05 PM
Okay, you attracted another weirdo. It's just that you seem like such an easy girl. That's a good thing in my book (see procreation strategy under why have sex on the first date).

Why would you be attracted to guys that abuse you in any way?

Phuque Monkey
 Lonelostsoul
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 58
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 12:13:24 AM
From this site? *shudder*, it wouldn't be fair to say...or nice.
 romanticbob
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 59
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 12:32:51 AM
Well, I've been on a few sites. And normally only older women respond to me, and that's okay.

Sometimes, though, really young women send me messages (when I show personal pictures), like in their mid 20's to early 30's. A lot of it depends upon the kind of messages you send out.

I don't get wordy in profiles and, when not showing personal pictures with profile, don't send personal pictures until I get e-mail addresses. However, when I message, I do write a lot, and sometimes get a little more personal. So, I guess I attract ladies all over the board, from 25-60 (I would say 65, but I haven't noticed any 65 year old women on any of the sites). There seems to be a trend for older women wanting guys anywhere from five to ten years younger than they are. At least that's the experience I've had. Heck, jump on for the ride, and enjoy it, and don't worry about it.

As for big women, slim women, athletic and non-athletic, and all those in between, I guess it depends upon you and how restrictive you are. I've had some fine dates with overweight women.

I know this is an old cliche, but it's not what is on the outside that counts, it's what is on the inside. As my momma used to say, "Don't judge a book by its covers."
 Lonelostsoul
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 60
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 12:37:34 AM
So true.....some of the best books are torn and tattered!
 Melodic Euphoria
Joined: 3/22/2005
Msg: 61
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 1:11:38 PM
<------------------- attract aliens!!!
 berrysweetncgurl
Joined: 8/2/2004
Msg: 62
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 1:29:23 PM
i dont know how i attract guys that are soo abusive
they are soo sweet to begin with and woo me with their charm
then usually about 2-3 months down the road they start to show their ugly side
soooo
phuque i seem like an easy girl
mmmm maybe ?? but in my eyes im not......i do what i like to do...and whether i have someone criticize me for it or not
Dont Really Care

i have been told the reason i always attract abusive guys is b/c i grew up in such an abusive household, somewhere where my mother had to take me and my sister out of the house 3-4 times a week b/c her boyfriend would beat on her and me
she stayed with him and is still with him (thats her mistake) but i had to leave home at 13 and have taken pretty much total care of myself since
i dont continue to date a guy after he puts his hands on me harmfully.. that is just a vow i made to myself when i started dating...
but i do admit as strong as i may come off to be i am still very vulnerable sometimes
 7times
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 63
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 1:32:46 PM
by the empty mailbox, I"m guessing I attract nothing.
 stevens
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 64
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 7:34:29 PM
u look just like ben affleck
just pretend ur him then u would get some mail.
 Eric46
Joined: 9/2/2004
Msg: 65
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 9:43:49 PM
What do I attract?

I haven't a clue ...
but I've been here so long now, moss is starting to grow on my Northern slope.
 ladydi8
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 66
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 9:53:11 PM
<~~~~~that guy^^^^^attracted this gal....cuz hes got a heart bigger n texas.....and i saw it...........................
 romanticbob
Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 67
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 11:13:28 PM
berrysweet: I e-mailed you an explanation and a solution that will, I believe, resolve this problem of selecting abusive males.
 Lonelostsoul
Joined: 3/30/2005
Msg: 68
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/14/2005 11:45:52 PM

I haven't a clue ...
but I've been here so long now, moss is starting to grow on my Northern slope.




Then you're like 90% of us...moss!
 WeekendHuntressKatelynn21
Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 69
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/15/2005 1:24:11 AM
Old men who think they stand a chance.
 WeekendHuntressKatelynn21
Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 70
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/15/2005 1:48:36 AM
or people who say... *you seem like an honest person down to earth open person... blah blah blah... wanna have a 3some??*
 Passinthru
Joined: 2/3/2005
Msg: 71
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/15/2005 1:49:23 AM
I seem to attract some very nice, down to earth, morally grounded, straight laced women. Too bad I'm such a freak at heart...
 stevens
Joined: 10/6/2004
Msg: 72
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/15/2005 4:30:19 AM
olga from latvia
poiana fron bucherest
svetlana from moscow.
i,m still trying to figure out which one to send the visa money too.
man,i'm blessed
 grubeci
Joined: 10/30/2003
Msg: 73
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What do you attract?
Posted: 4/15/2005 6:19:47 AM
Realize women are always trying to catch too. So, for some reason you must attract or hunt.

Sorry. Welcome to the friend lounge and welcome to the fat girls like me and stupid girls and foreign girls club.

American women want pierce brosnan meets brad pit (imagine if brad pitt didn't have any money..he'd just be some short sensitive guy hahahhh)

that dont work
 DavidBrian
Joined: 12/7/2004
Msg: 74
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:50:37 AM
I attract fat women by the dozen.....
 usanzac
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 75
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/17/2005 6:14:12 AM

olga from latvia
poiana fron bucherest
svetlana from moscow.

You mean Svetlana is two-timing me? That byatch! (yeah, more than two, I'm sure)
 usanzac
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 76
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/17/2005 6:17:53 AM
Well this thread has been therapeutic for me. I posted earlier lamenting my observation that I appear to be a psychobabe magnet. Now that I have read several pages of observations from others at least as bitter and twisted as I am, I don't feel so bad. The whole world is off its rocker! Yay!
 Paradoxx
Joined: 3/5/2005
Msg: 77
What do you attract?
Posted: 4/17/2005 11:36:15 AM
Stable, intelligent, professional men :)
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