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 Walkingrain
Joined: 7/20/2008
Msg: 64
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Are you referring to East Indians or Native American women?

Some of the most beautiful women I have seen are East Indian. Come to think of it, some were Native Americans, too. The few East Indian women I have met were reserved and cautious. My guess is it would take a long time to woo one. There are some real cultrual differences. I would love the opportunity to put that to work!

I live in New Mexico. There are many Native Americans here. I have never found any of them approachable. That could just be because we are seperate people who communicate differently. I do not know but would like to.
 Mrpbody44
Joined: 10/21/2009
Msg: 65
indian women
Posted: 11/8/2009 8:25:51 PM
I dated and Indian woman in college and she was great. Her family hated me but we had lot's of fun. Maybe because it was taboo she went out of her way to be as wild with me as possible knowing that kind of behaviour would get her in trouble with the conservative guy her parents liked. Too bad we all just can't get along.
 acuddler
Joined: 10/30/2009
Msg: 66
indian women
Posted: 11/15/2009 1:35:23 PM
Are you talking India Indians, or Native Americans? I suppose the Native Americans may dislike hooking up with descendents of The White Devils who massacred their families for generations. Women from India know more about sex at age 5 than most American men know at age 55. It may bore them to associate with morons. Read The Kama Sutra Of Vatsyayana, and The Ananga Ranga, to touch up your sex skills. These Indian texts will enlighten you, and make you a more fitting sex partner for Indian women.
 tutu_cute
Joined: 1/4/2012
Msg: 68
indian women
Posted: 3/5/2012 5:29:58 PM
Well, I'm Indian, and I do date Caucasian men. I actually prefer dating Caucasian men and I don't go for Indian guys. There are lots of Indian guys I know who have married Caucasian women, and they are still married. And, the Indian family welcomed her with open arms. Not all of us are closed minded. I will say that it comes down to preference. There are some Christians who will only date Christians. I came across one profile and the guy clearly stated that he only dates Caucasian women and that Asian women are out for him. It's a preference for a racial group with respect to love/sexual interests. I don't really see that as a person being racist though. If a person is attracted to only Indian women, so be it. It doesn't make him a racist. It's a special liking for that particular ethnic background.
 African15
Joined: 2/28/2012
Msg: 69
indian women
Posted: 3/5/2012 6:50:17 PM
Namastee Saab
Learn few indian words and u re in
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 70
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Posted: 3/5/2012 8:39:31 PM
^^^me thinks the words are Hindu words...not Indian....
 tutu_cute
Joined: 1/4/2012
Msg: 71
indian women
Posted: 3/5/2012 8:48:17 PM
Depends on the language....meaning which State within India. The national language is Hindi. The word Hindu refers to a person who practices the Hindu religion (Hinduism). In Punjab, they speak Punjabi and Hindi. In Gujarat, they speak Gujarati, but are taught Hindi in the schools as well. In the South of India, some speak Telegu. Sanskrit is the equivalent to what Latin is to English. This is what the priests use during the wedding ceremonies at Hindu weddings.
 Sereneselena
Joined: 2/8/2012
Msg: 72
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Posted: 4/30/2012 10:29:06 PM
Prefer to date an Indian that has grown up here or overseas. Nothing to do with family more of common ground
with someone that understands fundamentaly how I grew up... slim pickings here in Los Angeles.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 73
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Posted: 5/1/2012 8:43:40 AM

Prefer to date an Indian that has grown up here or overseas.


That pretty much narrows it down to the planet Earth. So you wouldn't date an Indian from another planet? That's discriminatory.
 Sereneselena
Joined: 2/8/2012
Msg: 74
indian women
Posted: 5/1/2012 10:09:44 AM
lol..thanks ;)... ironically Indians from India discriminate against me for not being "authentic" enough ....
 emptyvases
Joined: 4/4/2012
Msg: 75
indian women
Posted: 5/1/2012 4:02:01 PM
I date an Indian woman in college, and she was both gorgeous and brilliant.
I really screwed up because to this day I'm convinced that of all the ladies I have had,
she was THE ONE.
She looked like Kristin Kreuk and she was incredibly bright as well.
I often think about her....
Indian women will date whites guys.
 RyJFa
Joined: 4/28/2012
Msg: 76
indian women
Posted: 5/1/2012 8:52:27 PM
Somebody mentioned earlier on that Asian women occasionally avoid white men for fear of their family's disapproval. Though I'm sure it's not always the case, I can vouch for that theory firsthand - I had a brief and casual relationship with a girl from Pakistan when I was a bit younger. Her family didn't even know that we were going on dates, because she wasn't supposed to be talking to or socializing with men outside of her household.

Needless to say, we never got very serious and our relationship gradually fell apart. I know the difference between Pakistani and Indian culture is immense, but I've had similar experiences with women from both groups - I'm odd in the sense that I've never been overly attracted to white women. I've always preferred Middle-Eastern, Mediterranean, and Indian girls, though personality obviously is a mitigating factor.
 gerry38
Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 77
indian women
Posted: 5/16/2012 9:02:59 PM
I guess it depends on what part of India too...I have talked to some people from India previously (due to working in a certain workplace that hired many of of them here in the USA). From what I gather, there are different versions of language, different dress-choices and different "rules" among people (as to what part of India they are from). If an Indian lady becomes "Americanized", then she will more than likely not follow what she was brought-up with also. Some Indian women could become more relaxed and independent once they move to Canada or the USA. Basically, too many of them feel oppressed-- and I admire the women who break away from that crap.
 Scotti1989
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 78
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Posted: 7/11/2012 8:32:03 PM
Because their family finds it disrespectful, and their father will cut their head off with a sword for disgracing the family name.

It's true. I read it in the newspaper.

(truly a shame though. IMO some of the most attractive women are the Indian / middle eastern girls ...and they put up with such rubbish treatment because it is their 'culture'? Get outta here!)
 Scotti1989
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 79
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Posted: 7/16/2012 6:16:08 AM
Are you asking me?

I don't know. I'm not an American idiot.

http://mobile.news.com.au/world/dad-beheads-daughter-over-affair/story-fn6sb9br-1226402335354
 MrsLeafsfan
Joined: 9/21/2011
Msg: 80
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Posted: 7/17/2012 8:11:46 PM
that happen in Mississauga and a father on and a step mother killed the fathers daughters and their mother because they had boyfriends they all 3 was found guilty of murder and they are all appealing
 JoeClyde0853
Joined: 6/22/2012
Msg: 81
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Posted: 7/24/2012 6:48:33 AM
come on. that was a little bit funny.
 jbball50
Joined: 4/23/2012
Msg: 82
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Posted: 8/1/2012 8:58:03 AM
One of my friends from college was Indian and dated some white guys/asians. I just know from her family aspect, her family wouldn't approve of a white guy or asian for marriage. She never even told her parents that she were dating these guys in college. I think she's actually been dating this asian guy out of college for 2 years and hadn't told her parents about him yet.
 lad3da
Joined: 7/26/2012
Msg: 83
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Posted: 8/6/2012 4:14:35 PM
It has nothing to do with racism, it's simply a matter of preserving culture, traditions etc
Indian women DO date outside of their race if they want to.
I have, in fact I have a child with someone who is not Indian. NOW I understand 100% why my parents would always suggest keeping within the same race. Interracial dating is difficult in trying to find a middle ground, not to mention there are different morals, ethics etc. which also come into play.
Even though I am "westernized" there are certain things ingrained in me, which my child's father has a hard time wrapping his head around sometimes, and I him.
Every Indian woman is different, however most are very family oriented and do not want to lose their family over a man. Again, it has nothing to do with racism, it's simply a matter of preserving culture, traditions etc
Also for prior posters, "Indian" is not a language. smh.
 vancitygurl78
Joined: 7/6/2012
Msg: 84
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Posted: 8/26/2012 8:48:00 PM
Um, I think that's an understatement to say indian women don't want to date white guys!

In my past I have asked few white guys and they rejected me for fear of getting caught by my dad with a gun(which is not tru, my dad doesn't own a gun at all), and the second being that they don't want to get beat up by indian guys.

Which I think is bullshiet really. I have always liked white guys but because of 2 guys in my past rejecting me on those basis I never bothered to ask another white guy out again and only dated brown guys.

Furthermore, I have come to realize that brown man have done nothing but played with my emotions, played me and never treated me well. The 2 white guys (persian and spanish and no not at the same time), that I did date, treated me so well that I am willing to give it another go with white guys. Am currently interested in a white guy at the moment but so far no date has been set. But i've heard and see alot of white guys treat their gf's very well as opposed to brown men who are seriously off my radar for a very long time.

White men, come on down! lol
 SportyTraveler07
Joined: 8/26/2012
Msg: 85
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Posted: 9/10/2012 6:57:11 PM
I know a few Indians and I can tell you that a lot of them only date within their race its just the culture, but if they dated outside their most would go after white men.
 abmccray
Joined: 8/3/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 9/11/2012 6:37:53 AM
That's not exclusive to Indian women at all - it's that way among most of the Eastern cultures, since they tend to be more homogeneous. A large percentage of people from the Asias/India/Arab countries have families that firmly prefer people of their culture, with a slight exception by some (or a lot in certain Asian countries) allowing for Caucasian dating due to perception of upward mobility by doing so.

It's good when people with those backgrounds break free from that mold, and quite commendable, especially given the familial pressure many of them feel.
 BikeMike312
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 87
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Posted: 9/11/2012 5:58:36 PM
I'm white. I dated an Indian lady who only dates white guys. It happens
 roopster84
Joined: 10/20/2010
Msg: 88
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Posted: 1/26/2014 9:39:21 AM
You DO REALIZE THAT So far there is only ONE Race of humans to the know scientific world what You MEAN IS ETHNICITY
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