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Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 8
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well considering im 24, i dont date younger immature

but i know lots of "older" women dating younger guys...women i think are more comfrotable with their sexuality as they get older so they want someone to keep up that dosent need viagra
Joined: 8/26/2004
Msg: 12
Older Women with younger Men
Posted: 4/14/2005 5:41:41 PM
they are prob thinking wow what a lucky lady lol

kinda a reverse thing..when i was 18 i dated a guy who was 35..everytime we went out people thought i was his daughter

im not old...yet..but when im older...i wanna be like demi moore dating ashton...its ok for men to do it..but when a woman does..its a scandal!
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 36
Older Women with younger Men
Posted: 1/16/2013 11:42:10 AM
Older women are smarter, wiser and more fun and experienced in bed.
Joined: 8/21/2008
Msg: 37
Older Women with younger Men
Posted: 1/16/2013 11:56:48 AM
Hey Feistynfit I would say go for it. He is older then your posted min age. I really got no idea why you ask if you should go out with him or not. He might be one of those very few guys that like older women.. Or he might be one the most guys who wants to get into your pants.. Go for it.
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 40
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Posted: 1/17/2013 4:16:28 AM
First, define older/younger!

I'm 54 and I would not call someone a "younger man" if he were 53, or even 43. So I suppose in my mind there has to be at least 10 years, maybe 15.

In the past I have had LONG lasting relationships with men 12 years my junior. One I lived with for 5 years. He was very mentally mature, 22 to my 34 when we met.

Recently I have been persuaded to date men of 30, 35. There is never a second date. We speak a different language, almost. They are not on my level emotionally and I am not on theirs physically. Nothing in common whatever. And, because of brainwashing-by-porn, they all seem to think I am going to be a nymphomaniac. They leave sorely disappointed.

One of the most upsetting dates I ever had was with a man who was nearly 30 yrs my junior but who begged to be "given a chance" to take me out for a coffee in a cafe near my house. Stupid as it may be, I decided to meet him. He was gorgeous to look at, which was nice for me, but he seemed really nervous. I had to start and carry every topic of conversation the whole time... finding out his interests and hobbies and building my conversation and questions and comments around that. After we parted he sent me a really nasty email saying that I had "Chewed his ear off" with my non-stop chatter and didn't I realise he was only there because he expected to be asked back to mine for sex? Now, I refuse to meet anyone under 40.

Something that happens a lot when older woman is in LTR with younger man is she hits the menopause and goes off sex, while he is still in his 30s and wants loads of sex. By the time her sex drive returns (IF it does) a few years later, he's left her.
Joined: 2/15/2010
Msg: 41
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Posted: 1/17/2013 6:59:07 AM
I find older women with younger men very sexy. I'm a younger man and i would very happy if i got msgs from older women showing interest in me (hint hint) lol
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