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 Stonewolf_II
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 260
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Hmm what is the word...oh yes I was being fecesious


Fecesious? Meaning full of shit?
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 261
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 11:14:09 AM

The only problem with older gals for me is when their ex comes looking for me. That is the only thing I hate becuase older woman usually have some baggage in the form of an ex and that ex usually is one jelous mo fo when he sees his ex with a younger guy.

The ex thing does not discriminate to age. We've all got em, and most of em suck.
 The lastresort
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 262
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 11:15:53 AM

Fecesious? Meaning full of shit?
quite!
 onegreatm8
Joined: 7/18/2006
Msg: 263
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 2:21:53 PM
Wow, has this thread gone down the crapper quickly, started by a maladjusted horny cant get laid 19 year old, to bashing older people for choosing and some who cant take rejection

Champ, Im a little surprised at you guy? Ive read in another thread where you come across as a solid guy but Im reading and correct me if im wrong here, someone who is bitter? yes, no, maybe??

Champ, people are people, no two people are the same right? some women will go for younger, some will go for older some will go for someone their age, Last time I checked its a person's right to choose, we cannot help that who are we attracted to? nor should we condemn someone for their choice? listen I love to meet Halle Berry, but since I dont live in La La land among the beautiful people I wont be pissed off at Hollywood actresses, no.

To make sweeping generalizations about older women well isnt exactly smart on your part guy

Just my 3 cents.
 *Babydoll272*
Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 264
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 3:53:41 PM
^^Champ^^

Are you still at it?? What have I been telling you? Didn't you hear anything I had to say to you?

(shaking head)...I guess you just like to complain and after all the time I spent trying to convince you differently..."Forget last Summer... Move On!!"
 The lastresort
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 265
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 4:02:22 PM

Didn't you hear anything I had to say to you?


no babydoll272, he didn't hear anything...he's developed 'selective hearing' syndrom an an early age....

 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 266
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Posted: 12/30/2006 4:08:17 PM
I don't know about champ being bitter, maybe insecure?
This thread isn't about him, though, so can we try to steer it back on topic.
Usually the men who start these threads are just whining because they haven't been able to attract the women they want. So they have to label it "older women/younger men" if it's not that it's the other tired out redudant, height issue, weight issue....ad nauseum. Just have to find something to mask their insecurity because it couldn't just be THEM, now, could it?
 The_Champ_Is_Here
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 267
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 10:08:47 PM
I could probably attract 18 yr olds...maybe 20 yr olds if I am lucky...is that acceptable? I think not. LOL...
I had a laugh today at work, was talking to a woman and she is 41, she had overheard some of us talking about New year's and what we are all doing. Well she pipes in that "Oh I will party with some hot young guys, they are way more fun than old guys"...then she says "I hope none of you are close to my age, if so sorry."
The guys I worked with today are all 23-25 and they looked at me and laughed after she walked away.
Oh found out I have a 23 yr old who likes me at work...now 14 years is just a little too much, but then again beggers can't be choosers right? LOL
 ladi
Joined: 5/15/2006
Msg: 268
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 11:17:15 PM
I often date younger men. But not THAT much younger - is that legal. lol
 White_mask
Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 269
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2006 11:54:40 PM
well i too am a younger man and you know what, im not looking for a 40 year old woman. and i dont think the OP is either, its just that some of us young guys are actually mature. ive been at the get slammed play Xbox for hours on end. when i was 13, i have been drunk to the point of incoherence when i was 15. i went to the bar for the first time when i was 16. and I've lived on my own since 17. i dated a single mother and helped (a small part) in raising her son. so what now, ive done what everyone my age is just getting into, now i dont drink. i dont do drugs. because hell i've done them all. so now what? im 19 and ive had more life experiences than most 25 year olds i know, so how the hell could i be happy with someone whoz 19? how the hell can i do things with someone whoz never really done anything. so thats why there are some of us "young guys" looking for a older woman. so i defend the OP because im at the same door. so all you woman out there looking at us young guys and saying well hes to young and imature, well i got something for you. have you ever raised a kid? have you waken up 20 times a night to comfort an infant then go to work the next day to a job you hate because you have to feed your "family"? i didnt think so. so the next time you pass judgment on us "imature" young punks maybe think hey maybe this guy has seen and done somethings that i havent maybe he is a mature man. so yah im not to sure where im going with this except go OP kick ass and find that older girl.

and thats all i have to say about that.
 mystykchyk
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 270
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 12:40:42 AM
I don't know why this is the case but ever since I got divorced 7 years ago, it seems like younger guys are all I attract. Since then, I only went out with one guy who was older than me: (and we only went out twice). All the others were younger (by 7, 15, 1, and 11 years). I don't know why - I seem to attract younger guys but that's ok, because I tend to find younger men more suitable for me.

It's not a question of maturity for me at all. I guess it's like that saying, just because you age, doesn't mean you have to get old. I have continued to develop as far as emotional maturity, spirituality, and intellectual growth, but hey, my interests and energy level are just not stale! For instance - I'm 39 and just now finding myself interested in comics & graphic novels. My 16 y/o son listens to saner music than I do. If I picture myself as an old lady - it's the zany eccentric one with the wacky loud clothes and big floppy hat - the one all the grandkids love because when mom and dad leave her house, she cusses, has a crazy cackle when she laughs (a lot), and takes them on the most magical adventures!

Nah. I'll never be "old"!
 MRWonderfulThug
Joined: 9/20/2006
Msg: 271
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 12:57:55 AM
Dude, honestly? Older women want MEN, men who are responsible, financially secure, emotionally stable, independent, mature, & not live with mommy or daddy. Sorry dude, but that's reality...trust me, enjoy the young birds while you still can.

yea i hate that f#$%^&g banana too
 mystykchyk
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 272
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:00:33 AM
Why is it I never hear us ladies complaining about that banana?

Uh oh, it couldn't be banana envy, could it?



(sorry, I couldn't resist)
 lucidmoments
Joined: 11/8/2006
Msg: 273
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:27:08 AM
Thank you MrWonderfulThug: that's it in a nutshell. Most of us "older women" are that too: WOMEN, financially secure, emotionally stable, mature, etc. Plus we don't want to:
1. Explain every song from the 60's & 70's to you
2. Pay your irresponsible debts for you
3. Have someone near or at our childrens age-we already raised them-don't need to raise you too
4. Train you in anything-including sex/lovemaking and teaching you the difference

BTW: to all posters bashing anyone else's preferences: it is still anyone's choice!

I hate the banana/cucumber/pickle/penis enviable thing too. It's downright fugly!

lucidmoments
 sweetandreal
Joined: 10/7/2006
Msg: 274
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 4:30:29 AM
Seriously, because it is just wrong to want to date someone is at an age where they could be your child.

Plus, most young men - 19-24 are still living at home, and in the "drama" world where everything is an issue - the ones I have seen on the forums seem to think that women shoudl drop everything and spend 24/7 with them to the exclusion of their friends/families....this isn't necessarily a bad thing at your age, when lust plays a factor......but at our ages, it is too much to ask.

The other issue is that most young men just don't have it together enough to handle a woman in her mid 30's who is not going to put them first before her children/career/life and friends. They are still finishing University, or haven't settled into a career yet....I like men who are established, have lived a bit and know what maturity, commitment, and integrity is - this comes from life expereince, not age, so please don't take that as an offensive statement, it isn't meant to be.
 *Babydoll272*
Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 275
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Posted: 12/31/2006 5:33:06 AM
^^^Champ^^^
Bucsgirl is right...this thread is NOT about you. The subject is as I've correct someone else in a previous post, "Why are older women NOT into younger guys?" and I think you misread the subject and think it says, "Why can't The Champ get any women?" Get off of YOU and get on to the subject the OP's started.

Start your own thread to get answers to your "wah wah" problems.

On subject: I WILL date men 38 and up, depending on their maturity level...so to answer your question OP...I AM into younger guys as well as guys around my age and WILL date younger guys if they can keep up to me intellectually and are financially independant.

Last day of 2006...HAPPY NEW YEAR, EVERYONE! Stay safe and DON'T drink and drive. See you next year.
 The lastresort
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 276
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:38:55 AM
I have dated younger men who were/are at least 4-5 yrs younger, but I had a 5yr relationship with an older man who was 6 yrs older. It's not a matter of younger men over older men, it's a matter of choice. And, like what babydoll272 said as well as numerous others on this thread (banging head on wall!), no matter what the age, it's the intellect and maturity of that man.

EVERYONE HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR and stay safe!

Now onto more important things.....got my outfit tonight, car gassed up, party favours in check! I'm good to go!
 The lastresort
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 278
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 6:59:44 AM

Its not about the men in my life...its about the life in my men!


well said **freak** very well said....

 hapeenurse
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 279
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:27:49 AM
are we talkin a couple years younger or mary kay letourneau young?

I can handle a couple/few years younger but at this stage in my life (almost 30) I'm not really into a lot of the things that a 20/21 year old might be (clubs etc)
 carpaccio
Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 281
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Posted: 12/31/2006 7:39:32 AM
How old are the older women you're trying to date. The problem you're facing is that women do mature faster than men as a rule, so even a woman in her mid twenties is likely going to be much more mature than a nineteen-year old. Honestly, honey, what would a grown woman have to talk to you about (unless you're an incredibly mature nineteen-year old)?
 GAZEUPONME
Joined: 7/10/2006
Msg: 282
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 7:45:40 AM
19 is not even legal age to drink...and how much older are these women you are talking about?? 21 0r 30 plus. The major factor here is that it is against the law for someone your age to drink!!
 The_Champ_Is_Here
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 283
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 10:34:58 AM
Well I still like to go out and party, I go to lots of gigs.
I think I am too much like hard work for older men to cope with ( no-one can keep up with me)
I actually genuinely enjoy the company of younger men, but I think thats cos I have a young outlook maybe myself.

Dont knock it unless you have tried it.


There is that phrase again "no-one can keep up with me" ya whatever honey. You for sure will never be able to keep up with me I will bet on that and I am 37...oh nooo I am not considered younger am I? Being 4 years younger. Usually younger is like 10 years right?


Start your own thread to get answers to your "wah wah" problems


Start your own thread too about the youngins you would date if they could impress you..wait that is what the 10 million older women/younger men threads are about.
LOL Others make a mention about themselves in a thread and it is never touched on, and I made a "sarcastic" comment and I get the rocks thrown at me for talking about me. Will not mention anything of my experiences then in a thread...but then is that not how you get your views from?

On topic:
Wherever someone got this older women are not into younger guys from must be living in a town of 300 and limited access to the internet and TV. It is well known, popular, socially acceptable, and more common to see this nowadays.
Women will more and more prefer younger men...for the politically correct ones out here I will word it this way ..NOT EVERY WOMAN WHO IS OLDER WILL DATE YOUNGER...MANY OLDER WOMEN WILL PREFER DATING YOUNGER..notice no generalization there.
Reason those WHO DO DATE YOUNGER MEN is usually from past experiences with men their age who do not impress them so those guys or just that one guy even will set the precident for that/those women's views about men their age and the guys or guy that they date who is younger and does impress them will set the precident for the that/those older women views about younger men.
So guys watch American Pie and at the end the one cop says "Stifler's mom, what a MILF" and that was just before that label became popular as now it is commonly used and is all thanks to the internet for that.
Also when women say 'I don't know why I get all these young guys liking me' you cannot tell me that you ladies are that naive at all. No way. You all know why those young guys like you. There is no way you don't know why.
 NancyC123
Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 284
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Posted: 12/31/2006 12:12:43 PM
Been there, done that --- it's called a fling. It suited the purpose for the time, but as far as having things in common (other than sex), we were worlds apart!

Sometimes it can work if both parties, despite their age difference, are really on the same page. That's a rarity, but when it happens, I'm sure it's amazing!
 meowmix
Joined: 1/16/2005
Msg: 285
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 12:18:16 PM
well i do go out with younger guys, and i am into them, mom or dad at home still is ok with me. lol

MM
 not so new too alb
Joined: 12/26/2006
Msg: 286
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2006 12:37:23 PM
it all comes down too life experience......an older woman has probably been through the possessive realationships, jealousy blah blah blah......now she is looking for a stable realationship......and truthfully a 19 old just can't offer her that. Are you ready too make sure the mortgage is paid? You thinkin about RRSP's or do you have them? Have you watched your kids grow?.....A more mature woman has probably been through this dating shite before and wants out of the pond where you should be swimming still.......have fun with these 19 year olds man cause soon they will want nothing too do with you!LOL....HAVE FUN WHILE YOUR YOUNG!!
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