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 Mr Bain
Joined: 12/6/2004
Msg: 680
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This woman who cut my hair, a few weeks ago, was very attractive. Evidently, she could tell what I was thinking, so she made a point of introducing me to her son who was only about five years younger than me. At that point, I knew I was being put in my place.
 HomesteaderWoman
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 681
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:27:54 PM
I am looking for a younger guy, but not too young. If he looks like my neighbor's kid, that is too young. I can go ten years younger if everything else is ok. Of course I want him to be mature, but not a fossil.
 tanner
Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 682
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:36:41 PM
i prefer younger men....they're the only ones that can keep up with me.....
 Ric589
Joined: 1/14/2007
Msg: 684
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/15/2007 9:46:04 PM
HAHAHA.. that is funny. It depends on the age. I have found older women could keep up quite well and younger women had no idea what they where doing some times in a relationship. Their experience just in life was not enough to be on the same page as well as maturity. Now i will not put them all in the same boat because it is not fair and there are mature and life experienced younger women out there . So that was a tongue and cheek comment you made. I have dated older women and perfered it for a time because i found that older women where more stable, but as i have been on my own for some time i have found my self looking for women my own age or some times slightly younger. If an older women would want a really young guy you know its only for one thing from what i have seen in my life. I think it would be difficult to even be on the same page in many areas if the man was too young to the women. Also it could cause many different uncomfortable situations with her kids , family etc. Imagine being 12 years younger and you are only 8 yrs older then her son or daughter.. that would be a little bit different for the kids. so i guess it depends on how much younger, maturity levels, and life experiences.

Ric
 gypsyloves1069
Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 687
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 10:57:57 AM
Hello champ,im glad you have a great date,if you have a great time let us no,Now I have decided to date a man for how he talks to me not age its just a # and i have had some email me and normally i would just ignore not now i am finally not cancel at the last min out of not dating for 24 yrs,i was almost 16 when i got married so im a dating ............ thank you patricia
 lovely_Tina
Joined: 9/20/2006
Msg: 688
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 12:28:55 PM

girls/women mature faster than boys/men. Many BOYS may act mature but that does not mean that thay are.
The same goes for men some act mature but still arent
as a med school student who has taken some major psychology courses, I do not have a clue what this means.
 smiliegirl15
Joined: 7/15/2006
Msg: 690
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 12:42:35 PM
Younger women are not interested in younger men for the most part. Younger women want older men because they seem more worldly, experienced, wise, whatever. Older women, once they've hit 30, will date younger men. It's all about life experiences and being on the same page, going in the same direction. I usually date younger men now but I wouldn't have 10 years ago. I have a +/- 5 years guideline but will make exceptions for the right guy. If a guy is too much younger then pretty much all he wants is sex.
 junipermoon
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 691
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 12:49:45 PM
i find that younger men want to sleep with me.

and older men want to sleep with me.

and men my age want to sleep with me.

and there are only so many hours in a day.

take a number and get in line.
 wrangling-cowgirl
Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 692
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 1:24:46 PM
The last time I treated a younger guy(my son)lol we went to see "TOY STORY",Dinner,popcorn,video games it cost me well over $100.00.their expensive dates.
 The_Champ_Is_Here
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 693
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 5:36:29 PM

i find that younger men want to sleep with me.

and older men want to sleep with me.

and men my age want to sleep with me.

and there are only so many hours in a day.

take a number and get in line


Ok I have number 3, 7, 9 and 10...can't find the guys with numbers 1 and 2 so I may have to bud in line if that is ok...
 BeerShark
Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 694
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 5:59:27 PM
Older women dont like younger men? Do the names Ashton & Demi mean anything to you!
 gypsyloves1069
Joined: 11/28/2006
Msg: 695
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2007 7:53:26 PM
I hope junipermoon you were playing,were you talking about the horse,I cant see you,but since you meant your horse go get em,
 eb3267
Joined: 1/29/2007
Msg: 696
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/20/2007 7:03:19 AM
take a #..

Yeah, that says it all !!

I dated a younger man. He is 26 and wanted kids, I have a soon to be 21 year old !! This baby maker's done !!

But now I've been asked by a 19 year old, a 21 year old and a 32 year old if I was "interested" I haven't replied back to the last 2, but the 19 year old I told, No way !! You're younger then my daughter.. The thought of the 21 year old is scary !!
I'm going to be 40 next month !! But I had a great time with the 26 year old. I had been married for 20 years and was in the " Old and decrepit " mind set. He was fun and we did have allot in common. Being with him made me remember that age is just a # and that going out and riding quads on the beach was fun !!
 The_Champ_Is_Here
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 697
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/20/2007 6:29:00 PM

Older women dont like younger men? Do the names Ashton & Demi mean anything to you!


Who cares about celebs? They are not what I think we all should follow by example. Or is that what most like to associate themselves with these days.

I think for myself because I am not at all really sexual and out to care about getting it on I feel I won't be a match for anyone older than me. I know women my age, 38, and older are starting their sexual prime and for sure look for a partner who will be on par with them. Makes some sense going younger for these women. But for those who do, is it more sexual attraction that matters or is there also compatibility in other areas? I know most women say the sex is amazing with the younge rman, makes sense as they are in their rpime and will usually rock your world. But is there more to it than that, that makes these younger men more desirable than men closer to your age?
I know many of us look old or do look our age but is that a bad thing, looking your age?
 teri short for theresa
Joined: 11/16/2006
Msg: 698
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/21/2007 4:21:33 AM
too much DRAMA..lack of abilty in lots of lots of areas.....

 1lonelymama
Joined: 12/26/2006
Msg: 699
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/21/2007 4:50:22 AM
i am a 45 yr. old woman and i date younger men. not 19 but i will date someone who is 28 yr. old or older. i cannot date a 21 yr. old it would be like going on a date with my 23yr. old son. ich. try fining a woman who is around 25 to 30. i am sure u will have more success. keep truckin' big guy. and i like the banana, i use him all the time
 wonderbrah
Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 700
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/21/2007 5:15:11 AM
I have usually dated younger men mainly because i look younger than i am and because all the men my age group are into the 19-25 YR old "accessory g/friend."the one that looks good on their arm, serves little or no purpose but has all their mates saying " gee, where can i get one of them!!"
 wingedstar
Joined: 8/23/2006
Msg: 701
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/21/2007 6:03:45 AM
ok the banana represents peanut butter jelly time. He's necessary even when we find him annoying. He's got that sometimes cute/ sometimes annoying thing going on.

AND

actually I prefer younger men and I will tell you why.

Most of the time I have been treated far better by younger men than older men or men my age, ESPECIALLY during first contact. Most older men or men my age are like "wanna do it? hee hee hee" during the first 10 min of talking to them. That annoys me. This is the MAIN reason.

My boyfriend is 27, I met him here and he makes me very happy. We enjoy each other's company immensely.

 wingedstar
Joined: 8/23/2006
Msg: 702
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/21/2007 6:13:55 AM
And wonderbrah - YES thank you

Oh and another perk of younger guys (which I am suprised on but so, so thankfull)

Most of them like a little extra padding on their women. They like a woman to have breasts and a big butt. Many of them have told me various reasons for this.

The younger guys (most) are going against the hollywood/television plastic ideal of a woman's body.

Bottom line is, most younger guys like my shape.

Guys my age often have some wierd hang ups about a girl having too big of a bottom and want someone that is shaped like a twig. It came from our era and they just don't let it go.

I have an hour glass figure and younger guys not only love it, they try to feed me for heaven's sake half the time.

But, oddly when I'm thin they are fine with that too.

My boyfriends brother seems to not even LIKE thin women he constantly says "give that girl a sandwich" when he sees one and he's a pretty good looking cat.

idk, there are just a lot of benefits to younger guys.
 CityGirl66
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 704
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/21/2007 7:25:34 AM
I got an e-mail from a perfectly sweet 20 year old the other day. The second I realized I was old enough to be his mother I lost interest.

'nuf said.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 705
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/22/2007 5:38:25 AM

Most older men or men my age are like "wanna do it? hee hee hee" during the first 10 min of talking to them. That annoys me. This is the MAIN reason.


Yes...and the younger men just think it but lack the balls to say it.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 707
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/22/2007 8:11:41 AM
Yes...and the younger men just think it but lack the balls to say it.

Which is good...we don't want to hear it. LOL If/when we want sex, we'll let them know. Less is more.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 708
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Posted: 2/22/2007 8:22:46 AM

Which is good...we don't want to hear it. LOL If/when we want sex, we'll let them know. Less is more


Agreed. That's the great thing about older women... we all know that waiting period is substantially less.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 709
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/22/2007 9:09:20 AM

Agreed. That's the great thing about older women... we all know that waiting period is substantially less.

That's true, the less you mention it, the less you wait for it.
 The lastresort
Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 710
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/22/2007 11:58:49 AM

I would love to meet a nice woman with some meat on her bones. I love a woman with large breasts. In fact it is my biggest fetish. I am always looking for new adventures and excitement. Always looking forward to meeting new people. I am very adventurious and love being outdoors. I'd love to find someone who would be interested in sharing such activities with me.I have been a diabetic since 2001. in the beginning I was on just on pills but now i'm on pills and insulin.


Dude, did I miss a translation here about why older women are not into younger guys? Or is this an addy to your profile!????
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