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 stephntx
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 784
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It is just a preference with me or just my choice. The youngest I dated was 8 yrs younger than me and I wont do it again.
For some it works but for me.....uhh no
 Bekk68
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 785
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 8:39:47 PM
I don't have a problem dating younger guys.... I prefer younger guys because I can train them.....LOL just kidding. All I can say is Keep trying or look me up
 HighonLif3
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 786
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Posted: 3/1/2007 9:41:10 PM
What if it's only a few years difference, say +- 2 to 3 years. A lot of women say that younger guys are immature and want older guys. By the same logic, the guy would think the girl is immature.
 thats_hot
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 787
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 11:27:04 PM
Well First I'd have to say I prefer to talk to men who are intelligent and most I've met who are,are not young.Another thing I'm not a patient teacher so I'd have to say I prefer a man over a boy.When I say man I don't mean someone as old as my father but a couple of years older is fine with me.I'm very young at heart and guys who are alot older are not appealing to me anymore than a guy too young.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
Msg: 788
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/1/2007 11:56:06 PM

Personally, I see just the opposite. I don't know how many womenI've seen online who were very close to my age that are looking for nothing but younger men.


The answer lies within your post. The internet is a magnet for the refuse of society.
 freebird22
Joined: 9/30/2006
Msg: 792
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 6:00:03 PM
I'm into younger guys.
 KCzilla
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 793
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:08:54 PM
Hi everyone, my first post. Looked like a good one for me to comment on. I noticed this is kind of along the same thread as the “Why do women only want to date younger guys.” My opinion? First off, I dont know why the OP is worried about it, his time will come and then he will wish he was 19 again. Secondly, this is kind of like the don’t ask don’t tell scenario. It really doesn’t matter what age the person is we are dating, but when these older gals come on here and just say that they like young guys, it really sounds kind of pervy to me. The attraction of youth is universal, of course everyone would like to be with a younger person, its just that when you say it, it makes it sound as if you need to see a psychoanalyst . But that’s just my observation....
 *cee~cee*
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 794
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 7:26:32 PM
I was in a LTR with someone a lot younger than me and it was the best one of my life to date. We had a lot in common and he actually surprised me with his ability to be emotionally mature and quite intelligent about the things that mattered to us both. Many times I questioned what the hell I was doing... but the more we got to know each other the closer we felt in age and we bonded on levels I didn't even know existed. I look, feel and am mentally about 29ish. I can't even reconcile my age in my head. When I'm talking with someone and say I'm turning 40 this year their jaws hit the floor and they ask for ID. lol That doesn't mean I'm immature, it just means that I'm young in the way I think and was blessed with young looking genes lol.

I certainly don't seek it out and I don't have the cougar mentality ~ I just naturally get along and relate to people younger. My two best friends are 10 and 16 years younger than me, and the majority of co-workers I get along best with are in their 20's or early 30's as well. As to whether a guy in his mid-late 20's can seriously want a long term serious relationship that will lead to marriage? I don't know. It's just funny when someone in their early - mid 30's emails me and asks if I'm into younger guys lol... to me they're the older guy being that they're older than the last one I dated!
 sweetgirltech
Joined: 2/14/2007
Msg: 795
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Posted: 3/19/2007 7:56:58 PM
You young ones are pretty to look at and fun to play with...but then what? You didn't live thru the crazy times we did, you don't know the 60's, the 70's, the music, the craziness. Nothing personal, but I would rather go to a car cruise with someone who knows how to dance to the music they are playing!

I have had a couple of relationships with younger men who were mature beyond their years, but sweetie...do ya REALLY wanna be changing my Depends in 20 yrs...lol
 dinky-di
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 796
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/19/2007 8:09:24 PM
Honestly....the guys in their 30s are usually intelligent, considerate, romantic and put their concentration on common interests. For some reason I get more emails from that group than any other.

The men in their late 40s and 50s (just talking about the ones I've encountered) focus on the 'sexuality' right off the bat. I thought at first I was imagining it. Buttttt... nope. When I was on here before and wound up on 100 plus Favs list (most of whom I have NO clue who they were)... I noticed when contact was made via the early to mid 30 yrs of age men...they were much more interesting to communicate with. I had to block and ended up deleting out that profile due to the obnoxious behavior of the late 40s and older men.

And people wonder why more and more women in their 50s are dating/getting in relationships with men in their 30s - early 40s. Not rocket science. Intelligence/Communication skills, etc. All that and a bag of chips.
 manny541
Joined: 9/12/2006
Msg: 797
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/23/2007 2:45:25 PM
LOLOLOLOL...what a crock....Why do I see in here that women don't want a man in his 40's or older because he can't "do it" like a younger man can? then I see this about how men in their 40's and older that is all they want....That's a REAL LAFFER
 The_Champ_Is_Here
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 798
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/23/2007 8:31:53 PM
You will read that women in their 30's saying men in their 30's can't keep up, is why they like guys in their 20's. Women in their 40's will say men in their 40's can't keep up, is why they like guys in their 30's, women in their 50's will say men in their 50's can't keep up, is why they like men in their 40's.
All contradicting and bs big time.
Don't forget the "Oh they are set in their ways" but remember women never are...or are allowed to be.
Weird how a woman in her 30's will say a guy her age is set in his ways and then women 40's say the samething about men their age and so on. What gives? I guess women are perfect is what it comes down to?
 Allritenow
Joined: 5/26/2006
Msg: 799
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/23/2007 8:42:25 PM
Only for me because a 20-30 year old guy, as cute as they may be, is looking to have a family eventually. I have already had my kids and don't want to have more.

There are men in their 40's that rock, especially those who take care of themselves. I'd rather have a 40 year old man, with the experience that he's had, than a 20 year old who is still learning.

Finding that 40+ guy who is in shape, isn't a couch potato and is still energetic & fun has become harder & harder. Probably the same vice versa. If my only choice is to look at a younger guy I will.
 intrugedintuned
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 800
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/23/2007 9:04:39 PM
personaly yeah don't cear for the banana. what your doing wrong? you barking up the wrong tree. ok think about it this was a male friend in uniersity was sinterasted in a 30 year old, he was 26, althought thay would cook dinners for each othere, and go for drinks it was ovious that she was not interasted in him just him being interasted. when he asked another female in the same courses about it, she said that he was not the type of guy you date, hes the type you marrie when your in your 30's and wanting to settle down. fact is man older women ten to be more picky and sturben, as i find my self to be geting my self. will be 30 this year, and realy i can't see my self with a 26 year old. but its cause i live a diffent life style then most females at 26. there is allso experence, if a female is geting to emocheanl wit me, i tend to get anoied eventaly. it is not so much the age man, its the mantality, and it has nothing to do with how mantoure you are, it has to do with there experances, there past. so don't take it persionaly. you 19 right, don't be in a rush man. it moves to fast as it is. and every thing changes. just got to keep your head on stright, and be flexible with what is going on at the time.

or look at me i never look my age, there for i hardly find a female my age interasted in me, dame the last one that i know of was 23, not a chance. she had a lot of experence, and growth to do mentaly. or my longest relationship 3 years younger then me, keeped asking me out for a fue months, then stoped. but she only asked when we were out at a bar. two years latter things developed and she asked me why, i told her she was 18 when we meat, frist year collage. she need to experence that part of life, she need to devlope as a persion. it has little to do with who you are, but rather where you are. not finnachaly, but where you are in your heart and mind.
 BrownShugguh
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 801
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/24/2007 12:00:07 AM
Im wondering what it is you are looking for in that older woman. Is it the mother you dont have or wish you had? Is it financial security? Is it the fact that she will teach you a lot more than you know about sex so you can use that knowledge on "your friends closer to your own age",which will make you appear smarter or more manly? What exactly else could it be? Is it because you heard or have seen that older women "reward" their young lovers handsomely, or is it because they can buy alchohol? ...I cant for the life of me fathom any other reason besides the ones here. I know if I were 19 again...these would ultimately be my only motives. And dont gimmie that crap about "in love with her mind"!! A 19 year old will NEVER understand or even CARE what an older woman is thinking or sayin!!! Hell!...they dont even listen to their own MOTHERS at that age!!!!... Im not being mean...Im keeping it real. Most older women see a young stud...and they run...unless they are just dirty old women!!
 SimplyMichael
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 803
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/24/2007 1:41:21 PM
maybe they ARE into younger dudes... just not the sorts that when they aren't misspelling, they're ghetto spelling.
 Leigh AKA PL
Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 804
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Posted: 3/24/2007 1:50:44 PM


The question is how MUCH older? ? I can certainly understand how most women would be reluctant to date anyone who is their son's age. I'll admit that I see loads of beautiful young 20 somethings around all the time and it makes me wish I was 20 years younger but I could never actually date one as young as my sons. That would just be too wierd


tigger59 precisely.... how much younger? I am nearly 39(three weeks time) No I wont date anyone under 30,highly unlikely under 35,I have it on my profile that I am not going to be a momma ...... I wan't a man not a boy... I do prefer older men,why? they have (most not all) had there time messing around and know how to treat a lady,simple as that.... yes I still get loads of messages from 19-29 year olds and some are beautiful,but no way to young for me.... MICK are listening?
 lovableladywanted
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 805
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Posted: 3/25/2007 3:43:42 AM
Dinky di I find your experience with older men fascinating . I date older women sometimes 20 or so yrs my senior if they are telling me the truth lol . Most of the older women tell me that older men are not into sex at all. You are stating the opposite. I am not doubting you because your experiences are uniquely yours . I just find it contrasting, at the very least, women I have dated and/or older women I have talked to .
 humancondition
Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 806
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Posted: 3/25/2007 4:11:43 AM
May as well post on this encyclopedia of a thread :D Looks like the rest of the pof users have.

So ya like older women.Dont blame U a bit.Oldest woman Ive had a relationship with was 52.And yikes what a woman.I was like 30 at the time.Well couple of things.Wheres your pic ?Says right in the pof advisement.That people with pics.Get 10x the number of views.

I mean are U fugly bro ?If U are,are the older women your hitting on fugly ?I mean no brainer there.Your post seems to indicate.That your not a dummy.And have a sense of humor.And Im sure that everyone will agree.When women are laughing.Sometimes their panties fall off :D

But U chose the high road here 2.Its no doubt true.That younger guys.Dont have the life experience.Under their belts.And the same mentality.As femmes alot older than themselves.Your best bet.Is to try to be charming.Hope U can endear yourself.And then rock their world in the sack.To the point.That they are willing.To put up with all the other areas.Where your going to come up lacking.Compared to people in (or nearer) their own age group.

Not like anyone has to tell U.Womens brains function completely differently than mens.And the social stigma.And emotional shock.Of having sex etc.With someone the same age.As their children.Is obviously,going to freak them out to the idea.

Woman I mentioned.Has a son(now in the US army.)Who was like 1yr younger than I was.Was the sense of humor.That won her over.I kept her laughing until ( see above).
Guess theres something to be said.For the way to a womans heart.Is through her funny bone.Or through her fecking ribcage.Depending on the woman. :D

But ok theres another 5mins of my life I will never get back.Good luck and dont worry.When U hit my age.U will probally want to start chasing 20yr old femmes.
So it all equals out in the end.Ying/Yang.

And yes I hate that fecking banana.Its gayer than micheal jackson.Sucking on a teddy bear.LOL.Kill the fecking gay banana !!!

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 Fizzzy
Joined: 2/28/2007
Msg: 808
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/25/2007 6:50:12 AM
I prefer the youngins =)
As long as they are legal...
 69cobra
Joined: 7/28/2006
Msg: 809
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Posted: 3/25/2007 6:54:45 AM
You will understand what you are doing wrong....... in a few years!!

 maryj_35215
Joined: 1/13/2007
Msg: 810
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/25/2007 11:03:33 AM
Younger guys are fine with me, as long as they don't want me to be their mama. Don't know if I could date someone who is close to my son's age - just kind of creepy. But someone in his mid to late 20s or older - sure.
 The_Champ_Is_Here
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 811
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/25/2007 9:25:15 PM
If someone told me when I was in my early/mid 20's that when I am in my late 30's, women cloer to my age will not be wanting me their age, I would have told them they do not know what they are talking about.
If someone had told me that the women who would be interested in me when I am in my late 30's will be women in their 50's I would have laughed.
Now I get rejected more by women in their 30's and 40's the past few years and I get contacted mostly by women old enough to be my mom. Now not knocking them, but for me, 50's is too old for me. And if that is all I can get to show an interest in me? I think I will never date again.
Just not interested in someone with that many years of life experience on me is all.
Again NOT putting them down, there are lots of men my age who like women alot older.
 diamondeyedangel
Joined: 3/22/2007
Msg: 812
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/27/2007 11:02:05 PM
Guys tend to be more immature then girls; I've seen it time and time again. And, in response to the comment "Am sick of birds my age!!" I am 19 (going on 20) and I'm a mature, responsible adult... we're not all bad!
 The_Champ_Is_Here
Joined: 10/12/2006
Msg: 813
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/27/2007 11:06:44 PM
Women in their 20's these days seem to stick with that age range of the 20's. And then the older women come along and you have a competition for these young studs it seems. Must be awesome to be a guy in his 20's these days.
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