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 hb111
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 1128
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I made some grammar mistakes in my previous post. I should have wrote this.


It is fine to state that you aren't compatible with younger men. But not all or most younger men want to use an older woman for sex.
 chickalina
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 1129
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:27:55 PM
I think it's a stigma that keeps us old ladies away from younger guys - lol I think that if someone wants an older woman that they either think we are easy or desperate and will do anything that a younger man wants - not. Either that or they are looking for the mother they never had. Stick to woman your own age - us old babes can do well enough on our own
 Spacechickadee
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 1130
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:33:02 PM
Now how could any woman resist that kind of foul, and misspelled, language?

Yes, you need to grow up, not in years, but in maturity. Well, years for me also, but for women near 30, you need to be more mature. I hope you don't use the word "dude".
 PostPunk
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 1131
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:42:40 PM
Now what is wrong with saying dude, "space chick"?
 queenie467
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 1132
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 5:13:28 PM
I am 30 and have a tendency to attract younger guys. I won't go under the drinking age but everything other than that is fair game. Age is a mentality.
 razornpc1
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 1133
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:07:27 PM
if im ignoring my gf for video games im not that in to her anyways so why would i care if she gets mad?????

thats why people have problems with video games and relationships.
 Blk_Archangel7
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 1134
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:12:59 PM
I've fallen for women older than me and I can still have the best of fun with them. There are some women out there that are into young guys.
 Blk_Archangel7
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 1135
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:14:02 PM
for the record I wouldn't give a woman a bag of chips when I can cook her a meal.
 MsTreeWmn
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 1136
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:27:24 PM
Things are all a matter of degree. It would not be comfortable, for me, to date someone who's younger than all my kids. I enjoy someone who can share some common experiences. They don't have to be exact. Just in the general ballgame. How much older are you talking about? So many women have devoted lots of years taking care of their children. Most of us don't want to date anyone who resembles that.
 divared
Joined: 10/24/2006
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Posted: 2/16/2008 10:27:38 PM
The hottest, most passionate, longest and most intense relationship I had was with a younger man 14 years younger than me. It lasted 10 years. It did not end because of his age, it ended because of his behavior.

Big difference. You can fall in love with anyone, it is not an age, it is an attitude. I would still be interested in a younger man if we were compatible in all ways. Most of all, it is how a man treats me that is the thing, not the age.
 lucilou
Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 2/16/2008 11:00:39 PM
This is for "12 BUCKS"
Sweetheart who told you that all older women have saggy boobs, lower libido, and cellulite? Maybe you have been turn down by older women. Your scoring about older women are definitely wrong, dont generalized them all.There are high 50's who looks a lot better than 30 yrs old woman. Its not the age, its how one looks and how one takes care of thier body. I can guarantee you that I dont have saggy boobs, saggy butt, lower libido and much more I dont have any celulite lol. Its the attitude that counts and the way they look, I am not saying I like dating younger guys but just defending our age group. Wake up and how sad that you say that, its like your insulting your mother.
 drmmergy
Joined: 10/25/2007
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Posted: 2/16/2008 11:12:29 PM
My Daughter just turned 18,and I'm 36.
Now I don't consider 36 to be old,not by a long shot.
But the thought of hooking up with a 19 year old,
young woman is not doable.Not at all.
Just enjoy being 19,and if you meet a 20,21 year old woman,
consider yourself lukcy.
You have a long time to grow,
and for lack of better words "cook".
 travel851
Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 2/16/2008 11:25:53 PM
I LOVE younger guys, but 19 is WAY too young for me! Why do you want an older woman? Are you hoping to gain "experience"? A person changes A LOT from 19 to 21, and then from 21 to 30... you have the rest of your life to be with older women -- don't rush it! (and yes I hate that bananna!)
 julus
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 1142
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/17/2008 10:07:30 PM
i am 19 would you dATE GREEN EYES
 1frantastic
Joined: 9/15/2007
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Posted: 2/18/2008 12:17:12 AM
Older WOMEN are into MEN...younger...same age or older....but MEN.....

Younger guys....like you....need to look for gals......younger would still be older than you...cause you are still a boy.......and girls always date boys older than they are in order for the boys to be even close to the girl's age of maturity.......

so hun...dry behind the ears before asking for a date with a WOMAN!
 Maverick97
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 1144
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/28/2008 10:27:44 AM
This is a funny thread Because:

No woman will admit they like younger guys.
No woman will dignify the response in any way shape or form without looking like a dumb ass in front of all her friends.

I've been hit on by plenty of married/single girls because i take lead in my groups and ya, They DO like younger guys because we have less problems then "will i see mykids this weekend" im sorry but most of the guys i see 40ish aren't mature but "messed up from married life"

I think the allure we offer is freedom for older chicks.

This is my opinion lol, oh and if you want to see older chicks Macy's and the Piggly Wigglies is your best bet !! hahaha


I would say more but in fear of being tracked down and beaten by purse's I wont
 captain-jack
Joined: 10/3/2006
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Posted: 2/29/2008 7:10:38 AM
Maybe they just want to teach a youngster a few things for their younger sisters to enjoy. In my 50s and find the ladies in their 40s & 50s to be much more fun. They know what they want and exprerience counts. Just like a guy, a woman can find a romp with a younger person a fun interlude. Older guys do not want kids and many have had a vasectomy too. An older guy takes the time to make the experience memorable.
 larwilliams2
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 1146
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/29/2008 1:35:49 PM
I guess I didn't get a recent memo. Since when have older women not been into younger men? I already seem to attract them. Does that mean I look old or something??
 Arugula
Joined: 11/5/2006
Msg: 1149
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:47:53 PM
Sure some women are very into younger guys. And I think it's becoming much more common. But for "some" of us, if you're young enough to be our child, it becomes yucky to think of you that way. I have 25 year old twin daughters. It's creepy...as if I'd lust after her boyfriend or husband. Plus, if a significantly older (man or woman) thinks they can have a truly long-term relationship with the younger one, they're kidding themselves. Eventually, the young one wakes up and realizes they're sleeping with Granny or Papaw.

I also agree that age isn't a predictor of whether or not you'll get along. It's really common in this area for the young guys to go "cougar hunting." And my friends and I often have more fun with them when we're out than we do with guys our age who seem intent on talking about their b*tch ex wife and all the child support they're paying, or whining about some other crap that we're just not interested in during a GNO. My regular group of friends never takes it to a sexual level though. But those young guys are a freakin blast most times. I just got back from a trip to Key West with 3 girlfriends and we were doing the Duval Crawl with a group of people of all ages. A couple of the younger guys used their camera phones to take pics of themselves with us to send their buddies and tell them they were "slaying cougars." lol...first time I'd heard that one.
 Country Music Fan
Joined: 9/21/2007
Msg: 1150
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/29/2008 2:38:09 PM
Possibly because they don't want to have kids and you probably due they don't want to waste anyones time.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 3/1/2008 4:06:12 AM
This whole thread is a pathetic attempt at landing cougars or silverbacks in the sack because no group is easier to bed than these two categories. Nice ploy, OP.
 Suthn_Boy
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 1152
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Posted: 3/1/2008 5:13:32 AM
Why are older women not into younger guys???

They ARE!! Big Time!! It's a midlife crisis kind of thing.. It's like the guy who turns 50 and buys a red conventible!

Plus women want what they feel men always had in the past, and that they were denied.. In one way that's only fair. But dating that way just isn't the answer. For one thing, It's b-o-o-r-i-n-g.. Couples need to have some sort of intellectual compatibility, other than that of a parental kind of relationship. And there's a lot to be said for sharing of life-experiences, with only one way to get them. Living.

Even the musical preferences alone are tough to deal with. Hip Hop 24/7, leaves a lot to be desired.. It abuses one's artistic sensitivities.

-Suth'nBoy

 moondust65
Joined: 1/16/2008
Msg: 1153
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Posted: 3/1/2008 12:43:43 PM
Here's the thing.....women who are say late 30's and up have usually beem married and have kids. We are not into and more than likely can't go out everynight, drink, go away for a weekend. We have kids to look after, drive to hockey, dance, a house to maintain, yard work, look after the dog,work full time and do it all in one day by ourselves. We aren't looking to start having kids again this late in the game and a alot don't want to get married again. YOunger guys are still in the party mode and hanging out with the guys or they are ready to settle down and now want kids and marriage. we are looking for something permanent at our age not someone to fill the gap. This is when age is an issue, when you both want different things in life. Why put time into a relationship when it wont last.
 DAZMAN87
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 1154
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Posted: 3/6/2008 1:48:34 PM
19-24 wow where are you living thats messed I have been livining on my own since like 16=17 Im mature for my age
 crimsonblue87
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 1155
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Posted: 3/8/2008 12:59:11 AM
I for whatever reason I feel like 40 is way too old, but 39 is like in your prime and I have no idea why and I'm sure I just made some friends and enemies with that statement.
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