Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Dating Experiences  > Why are older women not into younger guys???      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 christy22
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 951
Why are older women not into younger guys???Page 39 of 58    (18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37, 38, 39, 40, 41, 42, 43, 44, 45, 46, 47, 48, 49, 50, 51, 52, 53, 54, 55, 56, 57, 58)
I draw the line at 30...well except for one individual, but he is so mature and he's almost 30, lol. But seriously, I prefer men who are a little older but take very good care of themselves and are healthy emotionally and physically. I would date a man younger than me in a heart beat if we had enough in common.
 Spirit Eternal
Joined: 10/28/2006
Msg: 952
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/9/2007 9:39:12 AM
I don't think its about older women not being into younger guys. Its more about how young is the younger guy and in comparison to the woman's age. Nineteen is very young, and unless you are just seeking sex, a older women has accomplished things in life that you are yet to do. Such as marraige, kids, wisdom, etc. That may be why they would not consider you for anything serious. And really, do you want a woman to just use you for one thing?

I personally would not date or consider a man for a serious relationship unless he was at least 33 or 34 at the youngest. And that would only be if he has children or does not want them. I seek the maturity and wisdom of a man who knows where he is at in life, where he has been and learned from it, and knows where he is going and what he wants now. That comes with age and wisdom.

Don't worry, one day you will understand.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 953
view profile
History
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/9/2007 9:45:21 AM
If you act the same age as they do, they are happy to. If you act your age and they do, then there's not much there.
 White Gardenia
Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 954
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/9/2007 11:04:09 AM
All i have to say is this..

MY mother is 69yr old she has been with her boyfriend for over 24rys.. And they are not married.. but love each other very much..

Now.. he is 13yrs younger...

I have dated men 10 yrs older.. men 18yrs older and men younger also then me.. most of the time men my same age give a year or so..

it is never the age.. it is the look between two people.. it is who is going to stick it out and who is not willing to do this.. that is all..

in the end... age is nothing but a number.
 tink35
Joined: 12/21/2006
Msg: 955
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/9/2007 12:38:56 PM
I love younger guys...they keep life interesting!!! I am using a friends profile just to read the forums but I am 33 and my bf is 21...we have a blast and I truly care about him!!! He adds so much to my life!!!!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 956
view profile
History
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/9/2007 3:23:16 PM
because, they are more into home renovation than sex or fun
just generalising,
 GTechnician
Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 957
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/10/2007 1:06:37 PM
sex... duh! older men want younger women cause that's all they can keep up with. older women need younger men cause their libido is goin off the hook and need someone who can keep up with them too. it's god's cruel twist... just like how he made women become more and more energized with each orgasm, yet a guy just wants to fall asleep. hmmm....
 Gems Brilliance
Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 958
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/10/2007 1:40:36 PM
I've stumbled into this forum. I don't know how this works. I didn't know where I should say something. All of you ladies have given me an interesting perspective.

Itake responsibility for this statement.

I prefer women around the age of thirty eight. Preferrably with children.
Only asian or possibly south american.
It is so easy to touch them. Here we get accused of being perverts.

All relationships are OK. jim



 christy22
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 959
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/12/2007 7:30:16 PM
^^^???^^^

that is too funny...sorry but it had to be said. So I have decided maybe...just maybe drawing the line at say 34 would be better. I hesitate to invite anyone younger than that out to a function with my colleagues. I know how shallow of me ...but still. Ok 30 but he has to be a mature 30:)
 evermine
Joined: 6/6/2006
Msg: 960
view profile
History
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/14/2007 7:54:55 PM
I totally agree with you, its the person that matters, i am married to a man who is 6 years younger than me.. always had dates who were younger than me why not?? if they are mature enuf to handle it.. cant understand the "Male" "Female" thing here.. why is it that the guys have to be older?? pity, we havent realized they dont grow older in their minds ..lol... age is not the criteria...so if you find a great compatible guy go for it !!
 LaDolceVita21
Joined: 7/3/2007
Msg: 961
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/14/2007 10:12:04 PM
I don't know about you, but I've had tons of luck. Use the three "C's", charm, charisma, and class.
 ElizaDoes
Joined: 6/27/2007
Msg: 962
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/15/2007 12:55:27 AM
I just don't like grey pubic hair - simple!
 ElizaDoes
Joined: 6/27/2007
Msg: 963
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/15/2007 12:58:02 AM
oops - thatsshould have read 'I just don't like grey pubic hairs, simple! So I adore younger guys within reason!
What could a 25yr old do for me that a 35 or 45 yr old couldn't?
 abq_youngblood
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 964
view profile
History
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 4:22:11 PM
Why don't you try out a 25yr old and see?
 abq_youngblood
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 965
view profile
History
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 4:36:33 PM
To answer the very first post here.

Older women aren't going to want to date a 19 yr. old, period. It's more of a matter of asking "How long has this 19 yr. old actually been out of the house, if at all?"

For all any one knows you still live with your parents and are probably far from being independent. There is only a VERY small number of people who have been on their own well before their 20's.
 Sea_Town
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 966
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 4:49:10 PM
Because we have our own brats, we dont need somebody elses!
 Slightly Imperfect
Joined: 3/4/2007
Msg: 967
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 4:51:28 PM
I like younger guys, so long as they can at least present themselves as relatively mature and someowhat intelligent. OP, I would have a hard time taking you seriously with the sheer amount of netspeak you used in your post, unless you were able to send me an intelligible message. But that's just me. Good luck in your fishing expedition.
 Taysider
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 968
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 5:27:19 PM
Arent they ? Having a dilemma just now, but I can live with it

My ex was nine years younger, so hard decision !
 Taysider
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 969
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 5:35:56 PM
Oh well , just call me threadkiller


Why do women not like younger men then, I try to limit five years younger :)
 TwoTrackMind
Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 970
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 6:06:52 PM
Bomber,

There are plenty of us older women who prefer younger men.
Maybe you aren't looking in the right places
 dguin
Joined: 9/22/2006
Msg: 971
view profile
History
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 6:15:06 PM
I like younger guys.
Guys older then me seem too much like my Dad.
However I think you need to be able to go anywhere with them and since a 19 yr old can not get into alot of bars or Clubs I would not date a guy that young.

Good luck though there may be women out there that will.
 prettyinpinkxo
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 972
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 6:15:34 PM
Hate to have to "teach" a younger guy EVERYTHING!! That's why I like guys my own age or older. Already broken in for me.
 whatagirlwants07
Joined: 1/27/2007
Msg: 973
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 6:31:28 PM
I think it depends on what the older woman and the younger man is looking for.

I think my reason has to do with the fact that it's not likely to be a longterm relationship.....

Not to say that it hasn't happened but lets be honest...I've been married and had my children...There will come a point when a younger man will most likely want to have his own...

Plus the fact that it may be hard to find things that you have in common.

When it comes to how mature a person is depends on the person not so much their age.
 mystryNtxxx
Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 974
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 7:41:21 PM
I have dated and even married a younger man. But there is young, and there is younger and there is TOO young. Anyone in the age bracket of my sons (the oldest being 42 and the youngest 27) is wayyyy too young for me. Actually, 10 years older OR younger is about my limit. Course, never say never lol.
 velvet thorn
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 975
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/16/2007 7:50:39 PM
I just can't imagine going out with a boy that is younger than my own son. But as for you, I had too difficult of a time trying to figure out the online chat language and felt it reflected a bit on your inteligence quotient. Cussing always turns me off. If you would put it online then I shudder to think what in-the-live might pop out of your mouth. Plus to attract an older women then dress from head to toe like a mature man that can show a mature woman and nice evening. Make it worth her time in other words and it could very well be worth your time.
Show ALL Forums  > Dating Experiences  > Why are older women not into younger guys???