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 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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RE: First post.

I know many older women who are into younger MEN... maybe you don't come across as... ahem... full grown? lol
 heavysoul
Joined: 6/13/2008
Msg: 1219
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:14:55 PM
older women are not into younger guys because younger guys haven't watched enough porn yet to be any good at sex. ha!
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 8/3/2008 10:27:44 PM
^^^ That is quite possibly the funniest thing I've read all night... thank you.
 startle
Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 1221
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Posted: 8/4/2008 3:33:35 PM
if you are interested in a relationship with an older woman just keep trying until you find one who is also interested in you. not every woman is going to say yes but the right one will say yes and be glad you offered.
 diet7up
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 1223
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/10/2008 3:51:25 PM
19, omg I wish I was that age again,lol. Older women are out there my friend waiting to meet a young good looking man like you. Always put yourself in their shooes is the key for finding them :)
I was 19 as well and was dating a 41 years old professional that was separated and had a son 5 years younger than me,lol

Try the library, subway and buses works too,lol
 NWIsfinest
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 1225
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/10/2008 4:53:50 PM
I like men younger than myself. 19, hahaha my sons are older than that! I have dated some men older than myself......but, I am not ready to just sit back and watch the world go by. However, I don't want to have another child to raise either! If I wanted another child, I will have one. I am looking for a friend as well as a mate. Someone who can think for himself and respect my thoughts as well. He doesn't have to agree, just respect my thoughts.
 july16ladybug_08
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 1226
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 10:04:35 PM
I think that it is very frowned upon in society. Ridiculous that older men can date younger women and no one thinks it is wrong. I have dated many younger men and it is fun but not so much fun being out in public. Just try walking down the street hand in hand and all you get are dirty looks and mostly from other women. I think it stinks that men my age can date younger women NO ONE blinks an eye. I do it and Im called a cougar....
 cuddles1961
Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 1227
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 10:19:59 PM
Well , that depends on how much older the women are. I have dated younger guys as much as 15 years younger than myself, I am 47. But I would never date a 19yr old, thatst he same age as my son!!! I have had 19 yr olds ask me out but I do have a limit on how young I would date, I am sorry but there is no way in heck I would have anything in common with a 19yr old, we are in 2 completly different times in our lives mentally. Now on the other hand my 19 yr old is way more mature than some of the 50yr olds I have dated as our other guys that age. In most cases age is just a number except if you are 47 and the guy is 19,lol.
 The rock man
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 1228
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Posted: 9/4/2008 11:08:38 PM
Well if you are looking for someone to be"into" younger guys maybe Michael Jackson has an opening ! You'll know it's time to go to be when the big hand is on the little one!
 gossipgirl_2010
Joined: 8/27/2008
Msg: 1229
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:18:34 PM
depends on what you want to do... if you just want to sit around and do nothing then that would be a problem. but if you are out doorsy person such as u like walks in the beach & park or going to Robson Street or Downtown vancouver in general then that would be okay.
I myself, is an older woman who had gone out & been engaged with older men when i was younger now that i am older been going out with Younger men. So as I said it all depends on what you like to do on your spare time. I myself spend time playing with video games as well seeing I have younger brothers too but on a date find something more Productive. gettting drunk isn't something good to do on a first date either....
 hufnagel
Joined: 4/8/2007
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:34:46 PM
I'm an older woman and all I date is younger men,I will not date older men they are never as cute as the young ones.
 jadegreen
Joined: 2/3/2006
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:43:49 PM
I just like someone that is at the same level or stage of the game as myself...
Also maybe some younger guys are "trying" to hard these days b/c is "trendy" to be with older ladies...just wait the trend will change and we will be "old ladies " again...
 boredwithpgh
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 1232
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Posted: 9/7/2008 10:18:01 AM
Well, I'm almost 30. I can tell you why I don't date younger men for a few reasons...
*Not much in common. Need to have something to talk about
*Most are not out of the party phase
*Especially @ 19..you are an adult.. though you are venturing into adulthood. Ten years ago.. things were so different!
*Men are more casual at 19.. When you're 10 years older or such.. not so much for a female.
If you just want to have fun.. different story.
 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 1235
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Posted: 9/7/2008 6:41:52 PM
Q - Why are older women not into younger guys?

A - Because they are really annoying and ask alot of stupid questions.
 SweetnSassyNatureLover
Joined: 4/11/2008
Msg: 1236
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Posted: 9/7/2008 6:58:37 PM

Q - Why are older women not into younger guys?

A - Because they are really annoying and ask alot of stupid questions.




I am amazed when asked out by young guys, it just seems weird to me and I have a son the OP's age. I am not wanting to be a future episode on Jerry Springer. I prefer men that know what they're doing, that have some maturity.
 WannaCStarz
Joined: 4/5/2007
Msg: 1237
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Posted: 9/8/2008 3:08:53 AM
i had an Indian guy approach me at a festival and follow me and my kids all around simply because i had spoke to him when no one else WOULD!

maybe that is why. some people dont want so much the dating, but they want to know they are cared for as a human being.

No one could understand his language and didnt want to be bothered. I am a very caring person and my heart really felt for him as he struggled to get his message across.
I explained to him he needed to SLOW down and take his time to talk and people would very much hear him.
(oops. hard to drop the tail after that. ) lol

I think that kindness plays an important role in how we feel.

I think POF needs to weed out the older messages and/or let new ones be posted on the same topic because by the time you get to these OLD topics the OP is long gone~~~

ANYONE agree?? That after a couple years and the OP is gone that a new thread on said topic be allowed???
HAVE AN AWWWWSUM DAY!
 ~Lizzi~
Joined: 8/21/2007
Msg: 1238
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Posted: 9/8/2008 11:21:10 AM
^^^^message 1229^^^^

Summer Lee, you are absolutely right!
 zestyvirginia
Joined: 1/14/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 9/8/2008 11:22:33 AM
Jobs{still working and brown nose and dinner parties etc etc Alarm clocks, kids, baggage, ex's """""list goes on and on,"""",,I want a retired older man , as I have done all this and do not want to do it again.So, I will pass on a younger man and all their baggage.
 fallsgirl31
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 1240
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Posted: 1/28/2009 2:27:06 PM
Actually,...I have always liked younger guys.
 RaiderMom
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 1241
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/28/2009 5:49:20 PM
A girlfriend of mine told me awhile back that this is the way she decides if a guy is too young to date:

"If you are young enough to have come out of my vagina... you are NOT getting into it now!!!"

And honestly other than eye candy and stamina, younger men have NOTHING to offer me.
 blonddolly
Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 1242
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Posted: 3/2/2009 11:10:37 AM
I perfer younger men for several reasons...50 to 60....I seem to relate to them better,maybe because I raised 6 children??...Just kidding...LOL..I have never liked older men ,not even when I was young...I would never consider anyone younger than 50...
 Dancing_4_You
Joined: 1/21/2006
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2009 1:16:26 PM
i find milfer's very annoying. want to ground them and give them a lecture on "today's world". my platonic single friends are mostly in their 40's and 30's (male and female). in the past, i have "dated" up to ten years younger. when i was much younger, it proved to be foolish. lately i've tried for five years difference, but not on the same wavelength. not sure why. way too many fuddy duddy men around or that i have been attracting. i have a lot of "inner child" that needs to be expressed.

i think ten years or so, is okay. i am talking more about the developmental stages of life, not about just sex. i would fear growing older, with someone too young. i am addressing that fear, more on a spiritual level. my male friends remind me that men die sooner, age faster, that i tend to be youthful (even with a disability), etc. i think women worrry more about the longer term. i don't "need" a man, but i do have only child syndrome and extroversion issues! so, i am leaving it up to the universe, but not willing to date someone way too much younger. i think it's different when you meet at a younger developmental stage, such as our friends demi and ashton. i think they have a good and special connection, but who knows? i do know another couple like them, but he has aged faster, even though younger.
 Javex
Joined: 1/31/2009
Msg: 1245
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/2/2009 3:11:23 PM
It depends on your definition of "older" women. However there is a 30-something group of men who want to "learn" or "experience" an older woman. Well, here's the lessons.

1. There are no older women. Rather, there are "mature" women.
2. Mature women are not "easy", "experienced", or "grateful". However, they have been known to respond to basic respect.
3. Mature women do not enjoy allowing their bodies to become classrooms.
4. Mature women have names - "Alice", "Joyce", "Rhiannah", and so forth. They are not a population segment, but living, breathing human beings with feelings (did I say that?)
5. Mature women know they are being played, even if it can be flattering. Ultimately, Stella got divorced, which I think is kind of a downer.

If you want a fling before proposing, bring in a top of the line professional and let her teach you a thing or two. Until then, play with someone else.
 little fin
Joined: 1/6/2009
Msg: 1246
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Posted: 3/2/2009 3:56:38 PM
never been into younger guys really...well maybe one about 15 years ago.. I like men in their 40's... they just seem sexier to me... younger men usually want younger women as they get older anyhow... I think
 bikenhikeblonde
Joined: 12/24/2008
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Posted: 3/3/2009 5:20:24 PM
There are just too little things in common. Also, how does one explain to the family " this is my new boyfriend." Contrary to popluar belief most women are not "cougars."
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