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 Gotapulse
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 1095
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
There's this cat called a cougar...apparently there are more and more of them out there. So many in fact that they've begun encroaching on OUR habitat.
 icare500
Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 1096
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:06:38 PM
Hey, so tell me, do ya'll think sex is a sport or what?
 northeast25
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 1097
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Posted: 12/30/2007 7:10:26 PM
Not all older women refuse to date younger men. Yes there are older women who think younger men are immature, only looking for sex or a Mommy figure, or feel they ( older women ) would have nothing in common with younger men. There are other older women who would date and even prefer younger men. They generally have the same interests and lifestyle with younger men. BTW there also some older women who want use a younger man for sex. Being with a younger man makes them feel more attractive or it is an ego boost to them.
 Hazel eyes 57
Joined: 4/9/2007
Msg: 1098
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Posted: 12/31/2007 9:13:53 AM
Northeast- are you kidding? "makes them feel more attractive or an ego boost?"

Is that why older guys like the younger women? To make them feel good?

Any man can make a woman feel attractive no matter the age--all it takes is a little sincere caring, attention and tenderness. You would be amazed at the results-- and by the way, it goes both ways! My mom always said you get more with honey than vinegar.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
Msg: 1099
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Posted: 12/31/2007 9:23:37 AM
RE: First post.

Wait... they're not? lol Thats not been my experience.
 bsg789
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 1100
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/31/2007 9:41:13 AM

Northeast- are you kidding? "makes them feel more attractive or an ego boost?"


He simply stated some older women ( not all or most ) date younger men for this reason. I think that is a reasonable statement. To answer the question, I am currently dating a man that is 12 yrs younger than me. Our relationship is great. IMO age can become a factor if the age difference is really large such 20-25 yrs.
 Just 4 You
Joined: 1/25/2005
Msg: 1101
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Posted: 1/15/2008 7:00:04 AM
Well for you, being 19 means you probably work at McDonalds
rather than a real job, making the money she needs for those
vacations you're going to take her on.

You can forget going to bed together as women in their 30's and 40's
have a list of prerequisites before you go there. They aren't as easy as
women in their teens who do it just for fun.

So go to University, get a degree, get a job with some Legal Firm,
and when you become a successful Lawyer with tons of money,
women will be wishing they were with you... and all that cash!
 Gems Brilliance
Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 1102
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Posted: 2/7/2008 4:32:56 PM
"My words of wisdom"

During those younger years there was a strong desire to mate and have children. The desire to procreate is really strong. Mate selection varied from person to person. Most of the young women married on earning potental......looks and security played a large part of the selection process.
And don't forget.........there was lust.

Second time round changes everthing. Finding women who really understand what a real relationship is about seems elusive.
 Lil Brooker
Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 1103
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Posted: 2/7/2008 9:48:31 PM
Older women are not into younger guys because they have experienced older men. The best lover, the best dancer, the most intelligent, kind and generous man I had the pleasure of knowing was over 50.

Yes, you do need to grow a few years to develop the finesse of love and life that older women have come to appreciate.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 2/7/2008 9:54:25 PM
Older women are not into younger guys because they have experienced older men. The best lover, the best dancer, the most intelligent, kind and generous man I had the pleasure of knowing was over 50.

That's heresy to the majority of the women on POF and grounds to get you banished from any future girls night out. I wish you well.
 locs604
Joined: 1/30/2008
Msg: 1105
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Posted: 2/8/2008 12:48:18 PM
i am young man, i like older women, not older like 65, but between say 30-45 if therye good looking, they know what they want and dont play dumb games, and they have almost more stamina then i do, lol
 dancinglight
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 1106
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Posted: 2/8/2008 3:19:55 PM
Bring em on is what i say hahhaha.. I am goin fishin ...
 ~Myth~
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1107
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Posted: 2/8/2008 11:11:57 PM
Because the young ones refuse to take VIAGRA!!!


~Myth~
 1frantastic
Joined: 9/15/2007
Msg: 1108
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Posted: 2/8/2008 11:27:43 PM
and just why is
not older like 65, but between say 30-45 if therye good looking
the age given of 65 as if it's a zombie???
Do you mean a certain amount of years older than you??? You do get older every year you know and someday 65 may be younger than you! and much better looking then too! ....... says a 65 year old woman....Duh!
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 1109
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:05:04 AM
GUYS come on really who wants to date an older women. saggy boobs, lowered libido stretch marks, celulite should i go on?

LOL...I probably have things older than you in my freezer.

I have zero desire to play with boys and it creeps me out when 20-somethings write to me or IM me here on POF. Blech. I don't find it flattering at all, I simply find it creepy. I have no desire to be some young guy's Mrs. Robinson fantasy (not that anyone in their 20's would even KNOW who that is, would they?)
 onlyfortheforums
Joined: 1/21/2008
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:08:41 AM
lololol - I see nothing wrong with you young pups!! I have on myself!! lol

In order to catch an older womans' eye THEY need to be adventurous, and YOU need to show them yor intellectual side ... and yes, you do have one - use it to your advantage and gain thier thoughts this way - and you'll get your goal :)

Good luck!!
 _dreamweaver
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 1111
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:14:53 AM
Ok, lil dude, I will answer this one for you from personal experiences.... I am 40 NOW, and have dated older women without a problem MANY times.... when I was 36, I met a woman who was 52 and we clicked RIGHT off... We wound up living together for 2 yrs... The age difference was NEVER a factor... and I was (am) 16 yrs younger than her...

Its all in how you carry and portray yourself, Son... If you are 19, dont ask an older woman if she wants to go drinkin, to play video games, or act what you and your buds think is "kewl' in front of her...

I gotta ask, though... how much older of a woman are you trying for...?
 bkg07
Joined: 12/25/2007
Msg: 1112
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:21:29 AM
have you tried any school teachers?
i hear several of them like boys.
ok i know that's off the chart in sarcasm but...
an older woman for you could be a 25 year old. maybe that is what you should try?
 excalibur19
Joined: 10/10/2004
Msg: 1113
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Posted: 2/9/2008 9:25:04 AM
I have some good answers for this one.
I have seen it all but here are a few. Put into a few words.
1. Women who like young guys..........
Wanna appear younger.
Life in the fast lane.
Sex.
Ego.
Revenge.dumps the fat ole man for a younger stud.
Showing off, as in going to your 35th high school reunion with a "boy toy"
Extream makeover,losing a lot of weight,new hot tight short skirts implants,cute hair cut etc and the older guys are still looking ..well "old".
2.Women who like older guys.............
Stability.
Material things.
Boat.
Nice car.
Good job.
Money.
Prestege.
Travel partner
Don't have to "preform" as much
Will collect pensions and bank accounts,when the old guys croaks and then go for the younger guy.
Just a little insight can anyone add more??
 ~Myth~
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1114
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Posted: 2/9/2008 10:29:34 AM
Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze "excalibur19"

If . . . AGAIN . . . IF . . . . (more like not-heheeee) . . . your expertise were unchallenged . . . and I had to opt for one of your assumptions . . .I would definitely pick option #1 . . .

I would much rather have the FREE sex . . .than EARN my SEX!

Moral to the story: "Young men LIKE woman . . . . Old men don't like women just NEED them. . . ."


~Myth~
 jf468
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 1115
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Posted: 2/9/2008 11:49:45 AM
The question should be why are some older women not into younger men? There are a segment of older women who think younger men are immature or are only looking for sex. They might also think that younger men are not compatible with them. However I know some women in their late 30s and early 40s who usually date men in their 20s or early 30s.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 2/9/2008 12:20:05 PM

Moral to the story: "Young men LIKE woman . . . . Old men don't like women just NEED them. . .

Yes, you've summed us all up with your stunning brilliance.
 Larissan04
Joined: 4/28/2004
Msg: 1117
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Posted: 2/10/2008 11:33:33 AM
it's simple... women don't want to be a novelty, or an "experience" that they guy goes back and tells his buddies... to high fives, and whoo hoos... nope. most women are looking for love... not a fling... and we aren't interested in being teachers... nope... and we certainly are not interested in being used by anyone... especially some kid that we could beat in scrabble...

so how long before demi moore's husband leaves her for a younger woman? and what about madonna's husband? how long before he splits as well?

lol!

lar
 memethree
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 1118
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Posted: 2/10/2008 1:09:51 PM
I can't remember the last time I wasn't attracted to a younger man or he to me. After a certain age everybody's younger. I say, if the hearts are in the right place . . . loving it. Of course there may be some insecurities but they can be worked out if it's a real thing. I am all for the woman being slightly older than the man as long as there's spiritual and mental maturity.

Age is nothing but a number when the heart is for real.
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
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Posted: 2/12/2008 3:10:41 AM
Ohh? Depends upon the woman...

I knew an older woman whom greeted me at her front door in a sexy long nightgown when she asked me to come by for "a cup of coffee"...

You think what YOU want to think, then...
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