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 oldsoul
Joined: 3/10/2007
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"Why are older women not into younger guys??? "

Some are...specially them ol' promiscuous chain smokin' ones ;)



 icare500
Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 1102
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2007 10:47:17 AM
if yer into sex fine, go with younger, me, I happen to love sex, I just want MORE!
 Gotapulse
Joined: 3/21/2005
Msg: 1103
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Posted: 12/30/2007 10:51:13 AM
Why are older women not into younger guys???
There's this cat called a cougar...apparently there are more and more of them out there. So many in fact that they've begun encroaching on OUR habitat.
 icare500
Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 1104
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:06:38 PM
Hey, so tell me, do ya'll think sex is a sport or what?
 northeast25
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 1105
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 12/30/2007 7:10:26 PM
Not all older women refuse to date younger men. Yes there are older women who think younger men are immature, only looking for sex or a Mommy figure, or feel they ( older women ) would have nothing in common with younger men. There are other older women who would date and even prefer younger men. They generally have the same interests and lifestyle with younger men. BTW there also some older women who want use a younger man for sex. Being with a younger man makes them feel more attractive or it is an ego boost to them.
 Hazel eyes 57
Joined: 4/9/2007
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Posted: 12/31/2007 9:13:53 AM
Northeast- are you kidding? "makes them feel more attractive or an ego boost?"

Is that why older guys like the younger women? To make them feel good?

Any man can make a woman feel attractive no matter the age--all it takes is a little sincere caring, attention and tenderness. You would be amazed at the results-- and by the way, it goes both ways! My mom always said you get more with honey than vinegar.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 12/31/2007 9:23:37 AM
RE: First post.

Wait... they're not? lol Thats not been my experience.
 bsg789
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 1108
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Posted: 12/31/2007 9:41:13 AM

Northeast- are you kidding? "makes them feel more attractive or an ego boost?"


He simply stated some older women ( not all or most ) date younger men for this reason. I think that is a reasonable statement. To answer the question, I am currently dating a man that is 12 yrs younger than me. Our relationship is great. IMO age can become a factor if the age difference is really large such 20-25 yrs.
 Just 4 You
Joined: 1/25/2005
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Posted: 1/15/2008 7:00:04 AM
Well for you, being 19 means you probably work at McDonalds
rather than a real job, making the money she needs for those
vacations you're going to take her on.

You can forget going to bed together as women in their 30's and 40's
have a list of prerequisites before you go there. They aren't as easy as
women in their teens who do it just for fun.

So go to University, get a degree, get a job with some Legal Firm,
and when you become a successful Lawyer with tons of money,
women will be wishing they were with you... and all that cash!
 trudysky
Joined: 6/18/2006
Msg: 1110
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Posted: 1/16/2008 12:54:44 AM
Yes i do hate this banana and why is it green?
well i love younger guys !!!!!!!!!! and im 56 but............. i had a fling with a 25 year old and whilst he loved the "IDEA "of it all he was just so worried about his "street cred" with his mates and that he felt like a "weirdo" or "perv" for fancying, and heaven forbid even enjoying his times with me which he did very much!!!! we had this amazing connection and the sex was fantastic. it was such a shame that he had such issues about it and in the end he finished it .
Also i have chatted to many on here and been assured that its what they want and what happens ? it usually turns out to be a game and they just " do the rounds" on this site playing at it but dont ACTUALLY get on with it and put there money where their mouth is .
I do wonder if other older woman have experinced the same, i would love to know come on girls do reply to this one . lol
I think also that for older woman the worry is always going to be there that in reality this younger guy is going to feel one day that the novelty (which i really think is what it is) is going to wear off and that these young guys will go back to wanting someone nearer their own age, because they will want to have children of their own etc, older women know this and fear being left "high and dry " after "falling this lovely young guy where as men are happy to just "be " in a sexual relationship, and we as woman are made differently to men in that we connect perhaps more deeply and quicker to the opposite sex, and end up wanting more than is realistically practicle.men are not quite the same in that they can just take it or leave it.
Of course i know everyone is different and it depends on what individuals are looking for but its very hit and miss, if you both just want a short term thing then and thats understood from the start then thats fine,i feel sure there must be younger men that are mature enough to want to stay and make a future with a much older woman but i bet there arn't many that will last the course as the differences will show up sooner or later.
So in answer to your question i think maybe woman know they might become attached to their younger beau's and fear loosing them!!!! also they know their looks are fading and that make you feel rather insecure which is only natural , again there arnt many woman who dont worry about that, its not something that you want to go through when you are older you are looking for surity and stability at this age.
so YOU Bomber, are not doing ANYTHING wrong its all in the above i hope this helps you. steph.xx


 Gems Brilliance
Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 1111
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Posted: 2/7/2008 4:32:56 PM
"My words of wisdom"

During those younger years there was a strong desire to mate and have children. The desire to procreate is really strong. Mate selection varied from person to person. Most of the young women married on earning potental......looks and security played a large part of the selection process.
And don't forget.........there was lust.

Second time round changes everthing. Finding women who really understand what a real relationship is about seems elusive.
 Lil Brooker
Joined: 12/29/2007
Msg: 1112
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Posted: 2/7/2008 9:48:31 PM
Older women are not into younger guys because they have experienced older men. The best lover, the best dancer, the most intelligent, kind and generous man I had the pleasure of knowing was over 50.

Yes, you do need to grow a few years to develop the finesse of love and life that older women have come to appreciate.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 2/7/2008 9:54:25 PM
Older women are not into younger guys because they have experienced older men. The best lover, the best dancer, the most intelligent, kind and generous man I had the pleasure of knowing was over 50.

That's heresy to the majority of the women on POF and grounds to get you banished from any future girls night out. I wish you well.
 locs604
Joined: 1/30/2008
Msg: 1114
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Posted: 2/8/2008 12:48:18 PM
i am young man, i like older women, not older like 65, but between say 30-45 if therye good looking, they know what they want and dont play dumb games, and they have almost more stamina then i do, lol
 dancinglight
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 1115
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Posted: 2/8/2008 3:19:55 PM
Bring em on is what i say hahhaha.. I am goin fishin ...
 ~Myth~
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1116
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Posted: 2/8/2008 11:11:57 PM
Because the young ones refuse to take VIAGRA!!!


~Myth~
 1frantastic
Joined: 9/15/2007
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Posted: 2/8/2008 11:27:43 PM
and just why is
not older like 65, but between say 30-45 if therye good looking
the age given of 65 as if it's a zombie???
Do you mean a certain amount of years older than you??? You do get older every year you know and someday 65 may be younger than you! and much better looking then too! ....... says a 65 year old woman....Duh!
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 1118
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:05:04 AM
GUYS come on really who wants to date an older women. saggy boobs, lowered libido stretch marks, celulite should i go on?

LOL...I probably have things older than you in my freezer.

I have zero desire to play with boys and it creeps me out when 20-somethings write to me or IM me here on POF. Blech. I don't find it flattering at all, I simply find it creepy. I have no desire to be some young guy's Mrs. Robinson fantasy (not that anyone in their 20's would even KNOW who that is, would they?)
 onlyfortheforums
Joined: 1/21/2008
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:08:41 AM
lololol - I see nothing wrong with you young pups!! I have on myself!! lol

In order to catch an older womans' eye THEY need to be adventurous, and YOU need to show them yor intellectual side ... and yes, you do have one - use it to your advantage and gain thier thoughts this way - and you'll get your goal :)

Good luck!!
 _dreamweaver
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 1120
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:14:53 AM
Ok, lil dude, I will answer this one for you from personal experiences.... I am 40 NOW, and have dated older women without a problem MANY times.... when I was 36, I met a woman who was 52 and we clicked RIGHT off... We wound up living together for 2 yrs... The age difference was NEVER a factor... and I was (am) 16 yrs younger than her...

Its all in how you carry and portray yourself, Son... If you are 19, dont ask an older woman if she wants to go drinkin, to play video games, or act what you and your buds think is "kewl' in front of her...

I gotta ask, though... how much older of a woman are you trying for...?
 bkg07
Joined: 12/25/2007
Msg: 1121
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Posted: 2/9/2008 7:21:29 AM
have you tried any school teachers?
i hear several of them like boys.
ok i know that's off the chart in sarcasm but...
an older woman for you could be a 25 year old. maybe that is what you should try?
 excalibur19
Joined: 10/10/2004
Msg: 1122
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Posted: 2/9/2008 9:25:04 AM
I have some good answers for this one.
I have seen it all but here are a few. Put into a few words.
1. Women who like young guys..........
Wanna appear younger.
Life in the fast lane.
Sex.
Ego.
Revenge.dumps the fat ole man for a younger stud.
Showing off, as in going to your 35th high school reunion with a "boy toy"
Extream makeover,losing a lot of weight,new hot tight short skirts implants,cute hair cut etc and the older guys are still looking ..well "old".
2.Women who like older guys.............
Stability.
Material things.
Boat.
Nice car.
Good job.
Money.
Prestege.
Travel partner
Don't have to "preform" as much
Will collect pensions and bank accounts,when the old guys croaks and then go for the younger guy.
Just a little insight can anyone add more??
 ~Myth~
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 1123
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Posted: 2/9/2008 10:29:34 AM
Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze "excalibur19"

If . . . AGAIN . . . IF . . . . (more like not-heheeee) . . . your expertise were unchallenged . . . and I had to opt for one of your assumptions . . .I would definitely pick option #1 . . .

I would much rather have the FREE sex . . .than EARN my SEX!

Moral to the story: "Young men LIKE woman . . . . Old men don't like women just NEED them. . . ."


~Myth~
 jf468
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 1124
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Posted: 2/9/2008 11:49:45 AM
The question should be why are some older women not into younger men? There are a segment of older women who think younger men are immature or are only looking for sex. They might also think that younger men are not compatible with them. However I know some women in their late 30s and early 40s who usually date men in their 20s or early 30s.
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 2/9/2008 12:20:05 PM

Moral to the story: "Young men LIKE woman . . . . Old men don't like women just NEED them. . .

Yes, you've summed us all up with your stunning brilliance.
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