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 madamebuterfly
Joined: 6/23/2008
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May I ask you a question.. What does a 19 year old teenager have in common with any older woamn..

I like younger MEN NOT CHILDREN and that means 40 age group not some child interested in asking cretinous questions regarding my sex life or life in general..THINK...

I am sure there are lots of lovely girls YOUR AGE that you can chat with etc...etc...
Myself.. I was Never into any kind of Pedohilia.. LMAO...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 1202
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/13/2008 12:04:40 AM
I don't want to date younger guys for some reason I don't need a toyboy,I want a matured,successful,well experienced man who knows how to treat and dine and wine his woman right. Focus on yourself on how to be financially succesful, focusing dating a Cougar is a cheap shot...
 curlyboop
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 1203
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/13/2008 3:33:33 AM
I lke younger men but I wouldn't want to date anyone so young that I could have given birth to him.
 cat2252
Joined: 5/31/2008
Msg: 1206
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/13/2008 9:42:23 AM
Okay bottom line, youngs are fun, but that's all us older gals think of. You have not had the life experiences that a person that has had. Marriage, children, losses and gains in life. It would be hard to relate to a person in their early 30's if a person is in their middle to late 50's. Just as a 30 year old to relate to a 19 year old. Some day your gonna want children a family, and all the things that go with it. Some 15+years older is past that, done it. When you are 30 they are going to be 45+ and when you are 45 they are going to be 60+. You will be wanting a younger woman. Thats the way the majority of the world is. Sorry kiddo, you need more living of life, and that includes women of your own age and go through what older gals have already done.
 indehills
Joined: 2/23/2008
Msg: 1207
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Posted: 7/13/2008 9:45:29 AM

This is siucha a great thread for ├│lder'womne to fish with ├Żounger'guy profiles!

I can't see why it didn't get deleted right off, because that was the whole point of the OP: to get older women to view his profile. He's LONG gone, so maybe it worked. His post made him sound more like he was 14, not 19.
 vincerich
Joined: 5/24/2007
Msg: 1208
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Posted: 7/13/2008 10:22:57 AM
Think of the question in a different way: Why do women of all ages usually date men that are older than they are? The general way that the female to male dynamic works is that women are raised to look for a person who can lead them and who they can look up to...Someone powerful who can take some of the stress that comes with accountability and decision making away from them. I believe that both men and women naturally want these things but in most societies, only women are allowed (or forced) to take on the follower role without being criticized. Even if they claim to be "independent," watch closely and you'll see that a lot of them are looking for exactly what I said above. Since you're younger, they may not believe that you are accomplished enough to be a suitable mate for them.
 soniajam
Joined: 7/4/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/13/2008 11:34:21 PM
Well due to maturation.....47/57 is not such a streach as say 19/44. Big difference there. I would not date anyone toooooo close to the age of my oldest (26). The youngest has been 30. I find that I am in a different place than they are. The only thing we really have in common is sex. The sex drive is somewhat similar as with the older man and younger woman. Think about it. That is about the only thing that sticks. Now there are the exceptions. What ever floats your boat.
 MrAaronSamuel
Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 1210
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 7/14/2008 12:19:40 AM
You mean why are older women not into YOU??? Are other women into you but just not older women...or are women in general just not into you? Maybe you'd have better luck with older MEN...lol.
 doesitmattertou
Joined: 12/8/2007
Msg: 1211
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Posted: 7/14/2008 12:26:21 AM
Im ok with dating younger men. I tend to not like older men. So younger works out quite well for me as long as they are not just into having a one night stand.
 ml456
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 1212
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Posted: 7/14/2008 9:07:36 AM
I'm not an "older" woman ( unless I was dating a 18 yr old LOL ). But these are the most common reasons that I have seen, read, or heard why a segment of older women wouldn't date a younger man.

1. Not compatible
2. Younger men are immature
3. Younger men are only looking for sex or a moomy figure.

The first reason is understandable. I think most serious relationships between a younger man and a much older woman ( such as 15-20 yrs age difference ) wouldn't work out. Although there are a few exceptions to that. I know a 42 yr old woman who is having a serious relationship with a 26 yr old man. I think the other 2 reasons are stereotypical. After a certain age ( such as late 20s or early 30s ), maturity has nothing to do with age. I think many people from both genders and various age groups ( not just younger men ) are only looking for sex.
 latinoNsingle
Joined: 1/27/2008
Msg: 1213
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Posted: 7/30/2008 10:27:20 PM
so do u date younger men
 alwaysinthought
Joined: 6/1/2008
Msg: 1214
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:07:55 PM
It depends...how old of a woman are you looking for? 20? I myself have dated younger men, however only a few years younger than myself.

Oh...and the banana ROCKS!
 mgb123
Joined: 5/28/2008
Msg: 1215
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:27:41 PM
I think older women are in to younger guys who are ok with it too. but often I think younger guys hitting on older women are only interested in sex. even though in my experience I have enjoyed the company of much younger men and had great friendships with them. what I like about younger men is that they dont seem to think about the bigger picture that it might not work out long term but just enjoy the time you spend together.
I am 49 and have had short term relationships with a 24 year old very sweet young man, a 38 year old man and am still enjoying a friendship with a 28 year old very interesting young man. Now I do think 24 was pushing it even though I wouldn't have wanted to miss it. I did not meet any of these men on plenty of fish. most of them I met when I was out dancing and having a good time with my girl friends. what I've noticed is that younger men often come on the dance floor and start dancing with me and my girl friends and friendships have started from there. I also have girl friends of all ages. from 22 - 55. they are all great people that I love spending time with. good luck to you and keep me posted. . . and yes I hate the banana
 thecollector_70
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 9:30:03 PM
I say no for a lot of reasons one i have a son almost 20 yrs old and for numero two I've went out with a younger guy before and they are too immature.
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 8/3/2008 9:48:58 PM
RE: First post.

I know many older women who are into younger MEN... maybe you don't come across as... ahem... full grown? lol
 brilliant is lonely
Joined: 3/22/2006
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/3/2008 10:07:57 PM
age is not an issue , attitude is.
 heavysoul
Joined: 6/13/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2008 10:14:55 PM
older women are not into younger guys because younger guys haven't watched enough porn yet to be any good at sex. ha!
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 8/3/2008 10:27:44 PM
^^^ That is quite possibly the funniest thing I've read all night... thank you.
 startle
Joined: 7/22/2008
Msg: 1221
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Posted: 8/4/2008 3:33:35 PM
if you are interested in a relationship with an older woman just keep trying until you find one who is also interested in you. not every woman is going to say yes but the right one will say yes and be glad you offered.
 diet7up
Joined: 2/9/2008
Msg: 1223
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Posted: 8/10/2008 3:51:25 PM
19, omg I wish I was that age again,lol. Older women are out there my friend waiting to meet a young good looking man like you. Always put yourself in their shooes is the key for finding them :)
I was 19 as well and was dating a 41 years old professional that was separated and had a son 5 years younger than me,lol

Try the library, subway and buses works too,lol
 Fishermanorfish
Joined: 11/12/2006
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 8/10/2008 4:43:14 PM
Women Like to be with younger guys and you will find out when you will be around 26. Lots of 40 years old women will be happy to date you. As you are 19 women don't want to be with someone who is IDed every time he orders a drink.
 NWIsfinest
Joined: 7/11/2008
Msg: 1225
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Posted: 8/10/2008 4:53:50 PM
I like men younger than myself. 19, hahaha my sons are older than that! I have dated some men older than myself......but, I am not ready to just sit back and watch the world go by. However, I don't want to have another child to raise either! If I wanted another child, I will have one. I am looking for a friend as well as a mate. Someone who can think for himself and respect my thoughts as well. He doesn't have to agree, just respect my thoughts.
 july16ladybug_08
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 1226
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Posted: 9/4/2008 10:04:35 PM
I think that it is very frowned upon in society. Ridiculous that older men can date younger women and no one thinks it is wrong. I have dated many younger men and it is fun but not so much fun being out in public. Just try walking down the street hand in hand and all you get are dirty looks and mostly from other women. I think it stinks that men my age can date younger women NO ONE blinks an eye. I do it and Im called a cougar....
 cuddles1961
Joined: 12/2/2007
Msg: 1227
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Posted: 9/4/2008 10:19:59 PM
Well , that depends on how much older the women are. I have dated younger guys as much as 15 years younger than myself, I am 47. But I would never date a 19yr old, thatst he same age as my son!!! I have had 19 yr olds ask me out but I do have a limit on how young I would date, I am sorry but there is no way in heck I would have anything in common with a 19yr old, we are in 2 completly different times in our lives mentally. Now on the other hand my 19 yr old is way more mature than some of the 50yr olds I have dated as our other guys that age. In most cases age is just a number except if you are 47 and the guy is 19,lol.
 The rock man
Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 1228
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Posted: 9/4/2008 11:08:38 PM
Well if you are looking for someone to be"into" younger guys maybe Michael Jackson has an opening ! You'll know it's time to go to be when the big hand is on the little one!
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