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 Larissan04
Joined: 4/28/2004
Msg: 1126
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it's simple... women don't want to be a novelty, or an "experience" that they guy goes back and tells his buddies... to high fives, and whoo hoos... nope. most women are looking for love... not a fling... and we aren't interested in being teachers... nope... and we certainly are not interested in being used by anyone... especially some kid that we could beat in scrabble...

so how long before demi moore's husband leaves her for a younger woman? and what about madonna's husband? how long before he splits as well?

lol!

lar
 memethree
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 1127
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/10/2008 1:09:51 PM
I can't remember the last time I wasn't attracted to a younger man or he to me. After a certain age everybody's younger. I say, if the hearts are in the right place . . . loving it. Of course there may be some insecurities but they can be worked out if it's a real thing. I am all for the woman being slightly older than the man as long as there's spiritual and mental maturity.

Age is nothing but a number when the heart is for real.
 Artistee
Joined: 7/24/2006
Msg: 1128
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/12/2008 3:10:41 AM
Ohh? Depends upon the woman...

I knew an older woman whom greeted me at her front door in a sexy long nightgown when she asked me to come by for "a cup of coffee"...

You think what YOU want to think, then...
 constancespry
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 1129
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/14/2008 5:46:34 AM
Well, from an older woman's perspective (50 yrs), I enjoy the company of older men simply because they're interesting. They've experienced more of life and like sharing thier experiences. They tend to be more respectful of women, know themselves better, and are more romantic than younger men. I disagree with the material attraction theory....unless you're referring to the type of woman who needs to be taken care of.
 brummie_gal36
Joined: 11/13/2007
Msg: 1130
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/15/2008 12:12:05 AM
no way 19 is to young, my 16 year old dates guys that age. and wot would ur mother say young man lol
 aManWithNoHat999
Joined: 2/7/2008
Msg: 1131
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/15/2008 12:20:26 AM
maturity. period.
 flamstermeister
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 1132
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/15/2008 2:00:31 AM
Younger men are great. They know there is no future, esp. if really young like 20. They just want recreation like most of us ladies....Enjoy!!!
 flamstermeister
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 1133
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/15/2008 2:06:41 AM
Ummmm....I love to do high fives!!!! Try it....
 PostPunk
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 1134
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 2:04:34 PM
My younger man was a once-in-a-lifetime event. We fell hard and it nearly killed both of it when it ended.
 TishaG
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 1135
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 2:16:56 PM
I get hit on by alot of younger men, but I tend to not dip below about 8 years younger..or 8 years older than me for that matter. People don't usually think I'm as old as I am, so I'm guessing me looking a bit younger than I am causes that. (Thanks for passing on the good genes Dad. He turns 70 in a few days..and looks 55) I had to laugh at "cougar snacks". That was too damn funny! I'll have to remember that term..he he.
 hb111
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 1136
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:17:13 PM

it's simple... women don't want to be a novelty, or an "experience" that they guy goes back and tells his buddies... to high fives, and whoo hoos... nope. most women are looking for love... not a fling... and we aren't interested in being teachers... nope... and we certainly are not interested in being used by anyone... especially some kid that we could beat in scrabble...


Why do some older women generalize all younger men? It is fine to state thet you aren't compatible with younger men. But not or most younger men want to use an older woman for sex. I'm 29 and I would have NO problem seriously dating a woman in her late 30s or early 40s if she is reasonably attractive and is compatible with me. Some older men want to use a woman for sex as well.


so how long before demi moore's husband leaves her for a younger woman? and what about madonna's husband? how long before he splits as well?


A marriage might not work out because of many possible reasons that have nothing to with age. When an older woman dates a younger man, she was often previously married to a man that was around her age or older. Maybe some of these women left their husbands because they wanted a younger man. Some older women will use a younger man for sex as well. It's a two way street.
 hb111
Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 1137
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:27:29 PM
I made some grammar mistakes in my previous post. I should have wrote this.


It is fine to state that you aren't compatible with younger men. But not all or most younger men want to use an older woman for sex.
 chickalina
Joined: 12/5/2007
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:27:55 PM
I think it's a stigma that keeps us old ladies away from younger guys - lol I think that if someone wants an older woman that they either think we are easy or desperate and will do anything that a younger man wants - not. Either that or they are looking for the mother they never had. Stick to woman your own age - us old babes can do well enough on our own
 Spacechickadee
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 1139
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:33:02 PM
Now how could any woman resist that kind of foul, and misspelled, language?

Yes, you need to grow up, not in years, but in maturity. Well, years for me also, but for women near 30, you need to be more mature. I hope you don't use the word "dude".
 PostPunk
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 1140
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 4:42:40 PM
Now what is wrong with saying dude, "space chick"?
 queenie467
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 1141
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 5:13:28 PM
I am 30 and have a tendency to attract younger guys. I won't go under the drinking age but everything other than that is fair game. Age is a mentality.
 razornpc1
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 1142
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Posted: 2/16/2008 7:07:27 PM
if im ignoring my gf for video games im not that in to her anyways so why would i care if she gets mad?????

thats why people have problems with video games and relationships.
 Blk_Archangel7
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 1143
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:12:59 PM
I've fallen for women older than me and I can still have the best of fun with them. There are some women out there that are into young guys.
 Blk_Archangel7
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 1144
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:14:02 PM
for the record I wouldn't give a woman a bag of chips when I can cook her a meal.
 MsTreeWmn
Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 1145
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 2/16/2008 7:27:24 PM
Things are all a matter of degree. It would not be comfortable, for me, to date someone who's younger than all my kids. I enjoy someone who can share some common experiences. They don't have to be exact. Just in the general ballgame. How much older are you talking about? So many women have devoted lots of years taking care of their children. Most of us don't want to date anyone who resembles that.
 trinicity
Joined: 2/17/2007
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Posted: 2/16/2008 8:24:26 PM
Hey i am 31 years old and I like younger men..19 is as young as i will go because i want them to be drinking age.....
 divared
Joined: 10/24/2006
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Posted: 2/16/2008 10:27:38 PM
The hottest, most passionate, longest and most intense relationship I had was with a younger man 14 years younger than me. It lasted 10 years. It did not end because of his age, it ended because of his behavior.

Big difference. You can fall in love with anyone, it is not an age, it is an attitude. I would still be interested in a younger man if we were compatible in all ways. Most of all, it is how a man treats me that is the thing, not the age.
 lucilou
Joined: 3/18/2006
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Posted: 2/16/2008 11:00:39 PM
This is for "12 BUCKS"
Sweetheart who told you that all older women have saggy boobs, lower libido, and cellulite? Maybe you have been turn down by older women. Your scoring about older women are definitely wrong, dont generalized them all.There are high 50's who looks a lot better than 30 yrs old woman. Its not the age, its how one looks and how one takes care of thier body. I can guarantee you that I dont have saggy boobs, saggy butt, lower libido and much more I dont have any celulite lol. Its the attitude that counts and the way they look, I am not saying I like dating younger guys but just defending our age group. Wake up and how sad that you say that, its like your insulting your mother.
 drmmergy
Joined: 10/25/2007
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Posted: 2/16/2008 11:12:29 PM
My Daughter just turned 18,and I'm 36.
Now I don't consider 36 to be old,not by a long shot.
But the thought of hooking up with a 19 year old,
young woman is not doable.Not at all.
Just enjoy being 19,and if you meet a 20,21 year old woman,
consider yourself lukcy.
You have a long time to grow,
and for lack of better words "cook".
 travel851
Joined: 10/14/2007
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Posted: 2/16/2008 11:25:53 PM
I LOVE younger guys, but 19 is WAY too young for me! Why do you want an older woman? Are you hoping to gain "experience"? A person changes A LOT from 19 to 21, and then from 21 to 30... you have the rest of your life to be with older women -- don't rush it! (and yes I hate that bananna!)
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