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 savepolarbears
Joined: 12/27/2009
Msg: 1354
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amilio bello, You are so wrong. I've been dating models and actors. They are the hottest looking guys even in LA. They could go out with almost any girl but they chose to go out with me. (I was not chasing them at all btw lol) I asked them why they were interested in someone who is much older than them and they said girls around their age are usually immature and too demanding. But the funny thing is they are immature themselves too lol
Btw they left me when they realized that there's no chance to have sex with me without commitment. So dating much younger guys is complete waste of time for me.
 _basgeti_
Joined: 11/19/2009
Msg: 1355
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 9:07:10 PM
Fabio.....and you actually believe that?????
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1356
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 9:12:22 PM
Uniquesoul1011-Well I am part right, you did mention that they mentioned that girls their age can be immature and too demanding. That echoes alot of what I've said above. I mean sure even beautiful young women go with older men, and handsome young guys may date older women. I feel ussually there is an alterior motive. Lets face it, guys love sex and they would sometimes go to whoever has the highest sex drive to fulfill it for them.

Unfortunately it seems there are more times then not, that there are only interests and no real friends when it comes to this. People alot of times seem to want something in it for them.
 elitemind
Joined: 12/27/2009
Msg: 1357
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 9:12:38 PM

I think the young guys that date older women most of them have been rejected or constantly turned down over looks or whatever other reason by women their age and therefore feel the older ladies are more mature and less judgmental and that they would understand them better and women who are at the age where they would think looks would matter less and so forth. Simple as that really!!



I think this is odd, because imo it's the complete opposite.
although I can't speak for all younger guys, I know what I want and I am very confident strong, decent looking (attempting to be humble) and Alot of women my age and younger are usually immature, and unsure of who they are as a person or what they want, also alot of them are too stuck on themselves, and like to party too much.


Age doesn't matter but in general older women to me seem to know who they are more, know what they want and also are more apt to go after what they want.
Their more comfortable sexually, and they are usually done with the games, and drama and the whole party scene, and are really looking for companionship and they often seek the true qualities of a man, and value a good man alot more than younger women do.

Like I said that's just me, but I'm also not your ordinary 27 year old man.


Really though to each his own, many people worry way to much about petty things like such, and lose focus on themselves whats important to them, and get caught up in other peoples lives and business, do what works for you and be you. Plain and simple
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1358
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 9:26:48 PM

^This should get some interesting responses.


lol You know, lol I can just hear you probably in your mind or even maybe verbally silently chanting "Amillio!!... Amillio!!... Amillio!!... Amillio!!..." hoping that what I said above and the reaction you are hoping for, some how ends up working for you guys in your age group (40's). j/k lol
 Eye Of The Tigger
Joined: 9/23/2008
Msg: 1359
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 9:33:51 PM
Hmmm, let me list the reasons....

IN MY EXPERIENCE
They just want sex
They begin talking about sex or my body parts within the first IM/Email/text/phone convo
They're clueless sexually
They don't care about the woman; they just want to experience sex with a milf/cougar
They're self-absorbed, self-centered, full of entitlement, impatient and judgmental
 elitemind
Joined: 12/27/2009
Msg: 1360
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 9:45:07 PM

IN MY EXPERIENCE
They just want sex
They begin talking about sex or my body parts within the first IM/Email/text/phone convo
They're clueless sexually
They don't care about the woman; they just want to experience sex with a milf/cougar
They're self-absorbed, self-centered, full of entitlement, impatient and judgmental




The only thing that saved this user from a crash course on reality was that she mentioned in her experience.

I try to be very careful exactly what i say so I'm not held accountable for making foolish comments.

Advice for the above poster, seek out men who are compatible with you, who are more mature, who carry more substance, one's that actually are educated and well mannered.

Now age has no bearing on determining the worth of a man.

Everyone has experienced different things in life.

This lady may have had a ton of bad experiences with younger men, and some women have had excellent experiences with younger men, and will say the complete opposite.

Noone is right or wrong it isn't about age, it's about compatibility.
 944man
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 1361
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 10:13:02 PM
^^^ Yeah Bello, got to hand it to you for having the balls to speak your mind. Look out for those cougar claws swiping at you. lol! Certainly would agree with your posts on this page, make a lot of sense.
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1362
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/3/2010 10:46:36 PM
^^^ Yeah Bello, got to hand it to you for having the balls to speak your mind. Look out for those cougar claws swiping at you. lol! Certainly would agree with your posts on this page, make a lot of sense.


Well, as long as they're attractive I wouldn't mind that lol. But more women over 40 like and would date men who are younger then men who are their own age or older it seems. I think thats true. They see men over 40 as "not having it" anymore as some of them say it. I feel most women in their 40's and up won't date a guy unless he looks like he did in his 20's, atleast that is how I am interpreting many of the posts on here from women 40 years old and older.
 eurosteve
Joined: 9/24/2009
Msg: 1363
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 4:34:36 AM
This is NOT always the case.

I am 31 years old and I am with a 41 year old which I now am starting to regret, the first two weeks was awesome, super & fun but now everything is rollin down hill, she works 6 days/week, has 3 kids, a house to keep up but she hasnt had any time for me in the past 3 weeks which leads me to believe that either there is someone else or she is just super busy and has no time for me in her life but is holding on to me as long as she can until her crazy busy life untangles itself a little bit which makes me wonder if 1) that will ever happen or 2) if I am willing to wait as long as it takes....

I'm 31 years old and would like to be married or at least engaged by the time i am 35

I dont have time to sit and wait around, I was willing to more than happily take the package that she comes with which is a lot, her ex husband still being in the picture (understandable for the kids), ex boyfriend that she dumped 2 years ago still calling and texting her and her male best friend whom she said was like a brother to her but than mentioned that about a year ago they kissed on the lips a few times and it was awkward and never spoken about again.
 944man
Joined: 6/9/2009
Msg: 1364
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Posted: 1/4/2010 5:13:35 AM
^^I do think that's the perception us guys get on here. We have to keep in mind that this is only a small percentage of women on this site responding, and some do say they like guys their own age. It's probably true for guys as well, some like younger women, some don't. For me, my interest in younger women is limited because i have no desire to have any more kids. Been there, done that, don't really want to go through it again and i think the life experiences of equally aged people are more the same. But to each their own, whatever makes you happy.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 1366
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 6:16:12 AM
magyarsteve: I read your story and all I can say is that she's using you. You're 10 years younger and it was fun while it lasted. Now the fun is over, therefore your company isn't desired anymore. She got what she wanted - maybe you, too, but you want more...

As for being close with an ex (with or without kids), male friends, ex this or that bullsh.it, I know exactly what you're talking about. It's nothing but nonsense, bullshi.t lies. Just walk away from it. Do yourself a favor and find a younger woman and one who doesn't have kids or "ghosts" from her past still haunting her mind.
 whitetigeress
Joined: 7/18/2009
Msg: 1367
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 7:29:28 AM
^^I agree
You are hoping to be married by 35. You can marry an older woman, with kids too. It's all possible ..BUT.... it matters big time how she treats you.

And this one.... its' all bad and I don't mean the good kind of bad, sorry dude.
 elitemind
Joined: 12/27/2009
Msg: 1368
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 11:59:02 AM

^^I agree
You are hoping to be married by 35. You can marry an older woman, with kids too. It's all possible ..BUT.... it matters big time how she treats you.



I was hoping to be married by 25, and have a few kids, I'm 27 No kids and no wife.....




Someone made an ignorant statement about women with kids, some people are at different stages in life and some people have different opinions, I cannot understand why people lump everyone in to one bucket.
" All women with kids are not worth dating" Please so not true

"All men that are 6'3" and tanned are more likely to cheat" What it's true I saw it written on a forum on pof, and people even agreed.



Look from my own warped perspective, I Love kids, and when I am with a woman that I care for and plan on loving, well I accept her and everything that goes along with her, (such as kids) A child is a blessing, and so many people talk like women with children are so bad and like you need to stay away from them.

I certainly hope these women, do not let the views of immature boys trapped in mens bodies affect them in anyway shape or form.

Ladies,women,girls,chicks, You keep doing what you're doing and realize you're all Beautiful in one way or another and don't let idiotic pessimistic people bring you down.
Rock On Gals
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1369
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:04:18 PM
Magyarsteve, Leave her!! She sounds like a big burden and you frankly deserve better!! Don't be shy to just bail on her lol Or just explain to her whats on your heart and let her hear it!!!!
 thumperitis
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 1370
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 9:22:50 PM
magyarsteve's post is one major reason....why we don't date younger men!! You don't have the responsibilities we have yet, though you will one day when you grow up.

she works 6 days/week, has 3 kids, a house to keep up but she hasnt had any time for me in the past 3 weeks WHAT DO YOU DO TO HELP HER? ???

which leads me to believe that either there is someone else WHEN WOULD SHE FIND THE TIME??? TRUST ISSUE?

or she is just super busy and has no time for me in her life but is holding on to me as long as she can until her crazy busy life untangles itself a little bit which makes me wonder if 1) that will ever happen or 2) if I am willing to wait as long as it takes.... GROW UP!

I dont have time to sit and wait around, I was willing to more than happily take the package that she comes with which is a lot, her ex husband still being in the picture (understandable for the kids), ex boyfriend that she dumped 2 years ago still calling and texting her and her male best friend whom she said was like a brother to her but than mentioned that about a year ago they kissed on the lips a few times and it was awkward and never spoken about again. SHE HAD 10 MORE YEARS OF A LIFE BEFORE SHE MET YOU, DEAL WITH IT, EITHER YOU DON'T TRUST HER IN THAT CASE WHY ARE YOU STICKING AROUND. IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS HER HANDS FULL AND YOU ARE SITTING AROUND WHYNNING!!
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1371
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:16:55 AM

SHE HAD 10 MORE YEARS OF A LIFE BEFORE SHE MET YOU, DEAL WITH IT, EITHER YOU DON'T TRUST HER IN THAT CASE WHY ARE YOU STICKING AROUND. IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS HER HANDS FULL AND YOU ARE SITTING AROUND WHYNNING!!


In other words, what thumper is saying along with myself and the rest of us, is leave her, you clearly deserve better. This lady has her own issues!!!! Find and date someone else, who is better for you!!!!!!!!!
 Leagueofextraordinarymen
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 1372
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:23:06 AM
I see many women received horns for Christmas gifts....toot...toot.....toot....
 meggy1234
Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 1373
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/11/2010 8:43:04 AM
Because most older woman are looking for someone who is actually mature and most 19 yr old are not.
 Nu2010
Joined: 1/3/2010
Msg: 1374
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/11/2010 4:56:26 PM
I have no problem dating younger men as long as they are not younger than my kids and 19 is too young.
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1375
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/11/2010 5:01:10 PM
A good statement if you think that young and beautiful ( a totally subjective term)and seemingly conceited are attractive. I have actually known some young men who put personality and intelligence first, and if the woman happens to be pretty or cute that is a bonus, although they have been perfectly content with women who are seen as average to most. Even as a younger woman I avoided any man who said he was good looking, as to me there is a difference between self confidence and arrogance, and I prefer the former over the latter. I seemed to miss the memo that stated that middle aged women were all washed up and ugly.


A good statement because I am in love with the women that posted that!! Her and I have always clicked, and she is sexy personaified.

You got that "warrior" ...no no don't worry I ain't from the "dark side" lol

You think you can fool us with your pic!! I sure hope you ain't her whoever you are!!

Anyways, it was nice being on the forums , so I am out of here. It was fun, I had fun, and good luck to everyone!!!!!!!!!!!
 AbstractZen
Joined: 1/8/2010
Msg: 1376
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/13/2010 7:25:54 PM
The last girlfriend I had lasted one year and a bit and she was 33.

I am interested in older women, it's just hard to meet them and convince them you aren't some punk when you're 22.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 1377
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/13/2010 7:40:52 PM
It's not about being a punk. It's about not being old enough. She was 33, huh? Well, I don't know any details but from own experience and from what I've heard and seen, I can't even imagine that she saw a future with a 22 year old, and most likely met older guys next to you. Sometimes women, as well as men, like to experiment only to realize that it's a waste of time to live in an illusion. In 9 out of 10 cases it's ALL up to her. She sees nothing but a kid in front of her to play around with a little while. The fun almost never lasts long. An age difference like that means that the two involved are at completely different stages in life.
 GuessStar19
Joined: 1/10/2010
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Posted: 1/14/2010 3:01:26 PM
i think maybe because most of older women are either married, have kids, and dont want men, goin through a divore still stuck on themselves or career. things like tht but again this is just opinion.
 elitemind
Joined: 12/27/2009
Msg: 1380
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/15/2010 7:02:37 PM

probably because they are usually only after one thing and they think older woman can teach them what someone their own age cant? Not always true, I llike the banana's lol



Nothing better than peeling something back to get to the good stuff huh...lol
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