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 whitetigeress
Joined: 7/18/2009
Msg: 1376
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^^I agree
You are hoping to be married by 35. You can marry an older woman, with kids too. It's all possible ..BUT.... it matters big time how she treats you.

And this one.... its' all bad and I don't mean the good kind of bad, sorry dude.
 elitemind
Joined: 12/27/2009
Msg: 1377
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 11:59:02 AM

^^I agree
You are hoping to be married by 35. You can marry an older woman, with kids too. It's all possible ..BUT.... it matters big time how she treats you.



I was hoping to be married by 25, and have a few kids, I'm 27 No kids and no wife.....




Someone made an ignorant statement about women with kids, some people are at different stages in life and some people have different opinions, I cannot understand why people lump everyone in to one bucket.
" All women with kids are not worth dating" Please so not true

"All men that are 6'3" and tanned are more likely to cheat" What it's true I saw it written on a forum on pof, and people even agreed.



Look from my own warped perspective, I Love kids, and when I am with a woman that I care for and plan on loving, well I accept her and everything that goes along with her, (such as kids) A child is a blessing, and so many people talk like women with children are so bad and like you need to stay away from them.

I certainly hope these women, do not let the views of immature boys trapped in mens bodies affect them in anyway shape or form.

Ladies,women,girls,chicks, You keep doing what you're doing and realize you're all Beautiful in one way or another and don't let idiotic pessimistic people bring you down.
Rock On Gals
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1378
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 12:04:18 PM
Magyarsteve, Leave her!! She sounds like a big burden and you frankly deserve better!! Don't be shy to just bail on her lol Or just explain to her whats on your heart and let her hear it!!!!
 thumperitis
Joined: 5/29/2009
Msg: 1379
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/4/2010 9:22:50 PM
magyarsteve's post is one major reason....why we don't date younger men!! You don't have the responsibilities we have yet, though you will one day when you grow up.

she works 6 days/week, has 3 kids, a house to keep up but she hasnt had any time for me in the past 3 weeks WHAT DO YOU DO TO HELP HER? ???

which leads me to believe that either there is someone else WHEN WOULD SHE FIND THE TIME??? TRUST ISSUE?

or she is just super busy and has no time for me in her life but is holding on to me as long as she can until her crazy busy life untangles itself a little bit which makes me wonder if 1) that will ever happen or 2) if I am willing to wait as long as it takes.... GROW UP!

I dont have time to sit and wait around, I was willing to more than happily take the package that she comes with which is a lot, her ex husband still being in the picture (understandable for the kids), ex boyfriend that she dumped 2 years ago still calling and texting her and her male best friend whom she said was like a brother to her but than mentioned that about a year ago they kissed on the lips a few times and it was awkward and never spoken about again. SHE HAD 10 MORE YEARS OF A LIFE BEFORE SHE MET YOU, DEAL WITH IT, EITHER YOU DON'T TRUST HER IN THAT CASE WHY ARE YOU STICKING AROUND. IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS HER HANDS FULL AND YOU ARE SITTING AROUND WHYNNING!!
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1380
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:16:55 AM

SHE HAD 10 MORE YEARS OF A LIFE BEFORE SHE MET YOU, DEAL WITH IT, EITHER YOU DON'T TRUST HER IN THAT CASE WHY ARE YOU STICKING AROUND. IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS HER HANDS FULL AND YOU ARE SITTING AROUND WHYNNING!!


In other words, what thumper is saying along with myself and the rest of us, is leave her, you clearly deserve better. This lady has her own issues!!!! Find and date someone else, who is better for you!!!!!!!!!
 Leagueofextraordinarymen
Joined: 3/24/2008
Msg: 1381
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/5/2010 6:23:06 AM
I see many women received horns for Christmas gifts....toot...toot.....toot....
 meggy1234
Joined: 7/19/2008
Msg: 1382
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/11/2010 8:43:04 AM
Because most older woman are looking for someone who is actually mature and most 19 yr old are not.
 Nu2010
Joined: 1/3/2010
Msg: 1383
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Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/11/2010 4:56:26 PM
I have no problem dating younger men as long as they are not younger than my kids and 19 is too young.
 amillio-bello
Joined: 10/22/2009
Msg: 1384
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/11/2010 5:01:10 PM
A good statement if you think that young and beautiful ( a totally subjective term)and seemingly conceited are attractive. I have actually known some young men who put personality and intelligence first, and if the woman happens to be pretty or cute that is a bonus, although they have been perfectly content with women who are seen as average to most. Even as a younger woman I avoided any man who said he was good looking, as to me there is a difference between self confidence and arrogance, and I prefer the former over the latter. I seemed to miss the memo that stated that middle aged women were all washed up and ugly.


A good statement because I am in love with the women that posted that!! Her and I have always clicked, and she is sexy personaified.

You got that "warrior" ...no no don't worry I ain't from the "dark side" lol

You think you can fool us with your pic!! I sure hope you ain't her whoever you are!!

Anyways, it was nice being on the forums , so I am out of here. It was fun, I had fun, and good luck to everyone!!!!!!!!!!!
 AbstractZen
Joined: 1/8/2010
Msg: 1385
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/13/2010 7:25:54 PM
The last girlfriend I had lasted one year and a bit and she was 33.

I am interested in older women, it's just hard to meet them and convince them you aren't some punk when you're 22.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 1/13/2010 7:40:52 PM
It's not about being a punk. It's about not being old enough. She was 33, huh? Well, I don't know any details but from own experience and from what I've heard and seen, I can't even imagine that she saw a future with a 22 year old, and most likely met older guys next to you. Sometimes women, as well as men, like to experiment only to realize that it's a waste of time to live in an illusion. In 9 out of 10 cases it's ALL up to her. She sees nothing but a kid in front of her to play around with a little while. The fun almost never lasts long. An age difference like that means that the two involved are at completely different stages in life.
 GuessStar19
Joined: 1/10/2010
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Posted: 1/14/2010 3:01:26 PM
i think maybe because most of older women are either married, have kids, and dont want men, goin through a divore still stuck on themselves or career. things like tht but again this is just opinion.
 wheres r u
Joined: 12/25/2009
Msg: 1388
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/15/2010 3:16:06 PM
probably because they are usually only after one thing and they think older woman can teach them what someone their own age cant? Not always true, I llike the banana's lol
 elitemind
Joined: 12/27/2009
Msg: 1389
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/15/2010 7:02:37 PM

probably because they are usually only after one thing and they think older woman can teach them what someone their own age cant? Not always true, I llike the banana's lol



Nothing better than peeling something back to get to the good stuff huh...lol
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 1390
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/15/2010 8:37:03 PM

probably because they are usually only after one thing and they think older woman can teach them what someone their own age cant?


But sometimes, we can.

The younger men that I have dated often say that older women are less into playing games than younger women. I disagree: older women just play different types of games.
 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
Msg: 1391
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Posted: 1/15/2010 10:21:59 PM
I could have a child who was 19 so no way would I of dated a 19 year old, that is still a kid to me. When I was looking my cut off point was around 25, any one younger than that I'm robbing the cradle...lol The legal drinking age here is 21 so 19 is just way too young.
 baron1914
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 1392
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/25/2010 10:20:03 PM
I have to disagree with this forum subject. There are some older women who are into younger dudes for example an ex-marine friend of mine who is 31 is dating an older woman of 44 years of age. Personally i would not as i am into younger woman but i will say this older women are more experienced and know what they want in a partner.
 lamborgini13
Joined: 1/1/2010
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Posted: 1/25/2010 10:44:11 PM
I believe that older women eventually choose to settle down with older men because of their idea that it's more stable. The older man is usually a lot more financially stable, pretty much established in his career or perhaps is a small business man. The older woman may flirt and even go out with a younger man during the "sexual peak" stages of her life and that's simple gratification/need. I guess it depends on what we determine as "older woman". I'm talking more about women in their lates 40's and 50's.

Just my point of view...

 spicynicegirl
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 1394
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/25/2010 10:45:34 PM
It would really depend on the guy but as a rule I wouldn't date anyone in their twenties or thirties.

Besides I love the way older men come with all that wisdom and life experience.
 Sensibly Sweet
Joined: 1/22/2010
Msg: 1395
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/26/2010 8:25:06 PM
Nothing in common and their skin is firmer than mine!!!!!!!!
 tick tock
Joined: 7/30/2006
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Posted: 1/27/2010 12:47:39 AM
^ Sadly, this has been the most honest comment yet.
 shellza75
Joined: 1/17/2010
Msg: 1397
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 1/27/2010 7:25:46 AM
Well i,m 34 and i prefer younger guys and i think it,s because i was with an older guy from been 15 till i was 24 and did the grown up stuff with him.He did treat me very badly aswell so that could be another reason ,so when i left him when i was 24 i let my hair down and dated younger guys and have done ever since .My longest relationship was 5yrs with a guy 6 yrs younger my shortest was with a man 1 yr younger and that finished because i found out he was married . I seem to have a higher sex drive now than i did when i was younger .I had 2 kids with my 1st partner and had them when i was in the relationships and all the guys i,ve dated were brilliant with my kids they actually did more with them than there own dad did .I,ve 3 kids now and have been single for 3yrs since i split with the guy who i found out i was married and most encounters i,ve had have been with younger guys.
 lovemysox27
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 1398
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Posted: 3/24/2010 12:19:39 PM
I prefer younger men. Im just not physically attracted to guys in their 30s and most older guys have baggage with kids and ex wifes and stuff no thanks. Bring me younger men
 cdukshnow
Joined: 3/19/2010
Msg: 1399
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/25/2010 5:38:12 AM
Where are they?

Thom
 2heat
Joined: 3/23/2010
Msg: 1400
Why are older women not into younger guys???
Posted: 3/27/2010 1:28:44 PM
I actually prefer men around my age and younger men up to a point. However I probably wouldn't date any man that is more than 15 yrs younger than me.
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