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 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Oral Sex is a fossilized remnant of mankinds genetical ancestry..........so that should make it exempt from the cheating concept due to world-wide ancestry acceptance.




"fossilized remnant of mankinds genetical ancestry?"
"exempt from the cheating concept due to world wide ancestry acceptance?"



Man, you are swaying the ladies with your velvet tongue..whew..
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 668
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/17/2011 12:24:20 PM

If you hide it from your partner...its cheating...........


My ex-wife hid her pvssy from me almost all the time. Wish I'd thought to raise that cheating definition in court.
 licoricecat_1
Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 669
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/17/2011 12:26:07 PM
Oral sex is cheating. You would not do this with a friend and have your present partner know about it and not be upset.
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 670
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/17/2011 12:29:12 PM
Well - Duh-h-h-h-U-h-h-h..!! . . Yes!
Having sex with ANYone other than your betrothed is Cheating....
...Unless...permission is given and/or witnessed by the partner..!!
 northwoods57
Joined: 7/17/2007
Msg: 671
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/17/2011 5:13:41 PM
if your not getting at home, be oral. Maybe the wife does not like oral. So seek elsewhere.
 viper1j
Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 672
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/17/2011 10:59:54 PM

I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it! I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!
Like most guys say that when they get married that part of the relationship (oral) is not happening.................
I wonder if the majority of women say YES,
or what the thoughts are------be honest!


I hate that word. Technically, one can only "cheat" IN a game, or ON a test, so which category would you place a relationship into?

Now, if you're asking if getting a BJ is being unfaithful to the one who is supposed to provide Bjs, Then I would have to respond by saying that no one goes to McDonalds when there's steak at home..
 GWSmith
Joined: 12/18/2008
Msg: 673
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/17/2011 11:06:49 PM
If its not something you would want your SO to find out than its not something you should be doing.
 ROCK07
Joined: 8/2/2007
Msg: 674
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/17/2011 11:44:39 PM
I defer to Bill Clinton.
 HAWKEYE4997
Joined: 12/7/2010
Msg: 675
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/18/2011 10:48:47 AM
Of course it is cheating. Sex is sex. My ex-wife loved it.
 mrcs84
Joined: 12/9/2008
Msg: 676
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/18/2011 10:56:07 AM
Why is this thread as long as it is?!

If your partner is not comfortable with you doing it in their presence, it's cheating in their eyes. For most partners, oral sex is going to be considered cheating (giving OR receiving). If the partner -is- comfortable with it, then they are probably the type that will only allow it if they are in your presence and they are getting some action as well (i.e. swingers).
 Shadowcat7
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 677
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/19/2011 2:03:46 AM
Wait.. I see the word sex in there. I guess you answered your own question. It's cheating. If you even kiss someone on the lips unless it's part of their culture, I consider it cheating.
 viper1j
Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 678
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/19/2011 5:02:01 AM

Wait.. I see the word sex in there. I guess you answered your own question. It's cheating. If you even kiss someone on the lips unless it's part of their culture, I consider it cheating.


And when you kiss your kid good night, it's incest..
 capth4u2009
Joined: 6/8/2009
Msg: 679
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/19/2011 3:15:56 PM
hell yes ....silly question.... I dont get how some people have to even ask such a thing...its it common sense ...good lord people
 classy_country
Joined: 11/3/2009
Msg: 680
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/19/2011 3:38:42 PM
I think that is something that is defined by each couple, but the way I look at it is...

If it is something I could not tell my partner I am doing then it is cheating in the relationship whether you think it is "technically" cheating or not... if the other person would not approve then you are not playing by the rules of the relationship and therefore it is cheating...
 viper1j
Joined: 11/30/2005
Msg: 681
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/19/2011 6:26:46 PM

If it is something I could not tell my partner I am doing then it is cheating in the relationship whether you think it is "technically" cheating or not... if the other person would not approve then you are not playing by the rules of the relationship and therefore it is cheating...


You can only "cheat" IN a game, or ON a test, so which category would you place a relationship into?
 johnnyj218
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 682
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/20/2011 1:46:40 AM
As long as you're in a different area code from your residence, it's NOT cheating.
 Globalwarming1
Joined: 7/17/2011
Msg: 683
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/20/2011 4:11:10 PM
Is oral sex with someone else considered cheating? now that is a loaded question.

That's just called eating out!

but I certainly don't want a kiss when he gets home after his dinner with someone else!
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 684
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/20/2011 5:12:41 PM
it's not cheating if you are doing it with your partner, or, with your partner's knowledge

& informed consent

anyone, else, sorry, yes it is cheating; thus former Pres. Bill Clinton was indeed cheating with various women (notably Monica Lewinsky on her knees honking on bo-bo, unless, the second party, the First Lady Hilary Clinton, did in fact have fore-knowledge of her husband inserting his penis into one of the White House intern's mouth and approved of and/or condoned the behavior.
 buckeye1332
Joined: 5/19/2011
Msg: 685
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/20/2011 5:21:35 PM
Cheating extends far more than just intercourse. Any kind of sexual interaction giving or recieving is cheating.....sex, oral sex, making out. There's emotional cheating, where they may not be any acts of sex, but there is still a deeper emotional relationship/connection.

Not sure where you get your definition of cheating crazeegyrl, but you need to rethink your previous thoughts on the subject. No man other than one looking for a friend with benefits, would tolerate you getting or giving oral or any of that.
 larissan04
Joined: 5/14/2011
Msg: 686
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/20/2011 7:51:18 PM
Look, cheating isn't just having intercourse. The rule of thumb should be: can I do this in front of my spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend without them being hurt/angry/feeling betrayed? If the answer is a resounding, "no," then perhaps one should re-think what he or she is doing.

If I were married and my husband was getting a blow job from some other woman I'd be very hurt and I would certainly consider it cheating. I would also consider it cheating if he was kissing another woman.
 SweetKiwi1
Joined: 6/26/2011
Msg: 687
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/21/2011 9:21:43 PM
Cheating. PERIOD.
 Easygoin68a
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 688
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/22/2011 12:04:16 PM
the real question here is.. are you still single, and ever make to florida?
 Easygoin68a
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 689
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/22/2011 12:05:24 PM
*facepalm* - over here too..lol
 julbev
Joined: 5/22/2011
Msg: 690
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/22/2011 7:49:45 PM
Are you serious??? Turn it around....If you partner was having oral sex with another person how would you feel about it???? Stop and think how you would feel if it was turned around on you. What an idiot!!!!
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/22/2011 8:11:11 PM

"technically" cheating


Is that like "a little pregnant"?
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