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 maggie538
Joined: 5/21/2009
Msg: 692
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i was told eatin aint cheetin ..... but only if its known. I reversed it and asked my self if he was eatin was it cheetin and yes it was. sooooo double standard .. but thats the way it is if I said yes go ahead he would just like I did . I think kissing someone else is cheating too but there has to be a disconnect between the standards and what you want. If life is lived that way then so be it . to each his own and all that crap . more power to ya
 Daisyrose73
Joined: 9/23/2010
Msg: 693
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/24/2011 6:12:42 PM
Anything done out of the context of a relationship that takes your affection/attention away from your SO and is not mutually agreed upon is cheating. That can be anything from cyber relationships to full on sex and anything in between. Different people have different limits/expectations of a relationship.
 NutellaKing
Joined: 3/29/2009
Msg: 694
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/25/2011 3:19:40 PM
I don't even see how this thread could have reached 40 pages...
 norlap
Joined: 4/18/2011
Msg: 695
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/25/2011 3:23:19 PM
I totally agree, esp if the partners both want it. (It is actually a turn on if my girl will instigate it)
 howrya2day
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 696
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/5/2011 2:33:22 PM
yea i cant see it now. hey honey im going to the doc, then the bank, i also have to stop by and get gas, oh and while im out i might as well get some oral sex. ill be back as soon as i can. Love you! tell the kids i love them to! wtf are you people thinking lol what is the world coming to. is there not anything sacred about sex now days?
 kingjames622
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 697
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/5/2011 5:43:42 PM
I think it is because i wouldn't wnt my companion 2 do it 2 me as well... U feel me???
 Mr. B from Dallas
Joined: 7/10/2010
Msg: 698
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/5/2011 7:42:02 PM
The only time it wouldn't be cheating is if your girlfriend was also participating in giving you oral.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 699
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/15/2011 6:51:30 PM
this is hilarious.


clearly the OP is on the giving end of those BJ's...

to a married man and she thinks its cute and exciting...



just wait to see how she feels when HER man is on the business end of some jezebel vacuum....


lol
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 700
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/15/2011 6:56:02 PM
It is the new 21st century social greeting to replace a handshake or hug.... LOL
 Sunflowers123
Joined: 3/29/2008
Msg: 701
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/15/2011 7:44:50 PM
Seriously??? Does this question really have to be asked? C'mon people!!! If you are in monogomous, intimate relationship with someone, then intimate contact of ANY kind IS cheating!
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 702
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/15/2011 8:14:43 PM
If you are in any kind of committed realationship and your partaking in any sexual act with anyone other than the person you are in that relationship with, it's cheating. There are three exceptions to this; 1. You are in an open/swinger type relationship; 2. You can suck your own; 3. You are Bill Clinton. It also depends on what the definition is is.
 alpine0skier
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 703
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2011 7:59:13 AM
If I hug a female friend, is that cheating?
If I kiss a female friend on the cheek, is that cheating?
If I kiss a female friend on the lips, is that cheating?
If I hug a female friend with my hand on her butt, is that cheating?
If I hug a female friend with my hand on her breast, is that cheating?
If I hug a female friend with my hand on her crotch, is that cheating?
And on and on and on...
W H E R E I S T H E L I N E ?
 MagikMan59
Joined: 8/2/2011
Msg: 704
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2011 3:33:27 PM
Cheating is like beauty, it's in the eye of the beholder. If your spouse thinks something you're doing is cheating, then it's cheating, at least to them because it hurts them when you do whatever it is they don't like. Never mind if the rest of the world doesn't think it's cheating, they do. And so it's cheating, so either you need to stop doing "it" or find a new spouse.
I had a girlfriend that felt "thinking" about another woman sexually was cheating. I never touched another woman while we dated but she would tell me how it would hurt her if I even thought about it. I broke up with her because I thinks she was nuts. And yes, by her standards I cheated with multiple women, including Halle Berry, Salma Hayek, and a few others, lol. If only I had cheated with those women in real life instead of just thinking about doing them!
 MRobi21
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 705
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2011 10:51:15 PM
Anything you wouldn't do if your significant other was in the room is cheating... if you would normally pull down your pants and let someone go to town when you're bf is right there... then sure, it's not cheating lol...

ridiculous that people even say it's not...

All you guys out there..... I'm pretty sure you don't want a guy going down on your girl. So don't friggin answer no to this.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 706
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2011 11:49:33 PM
For most people the obvious answer is going to be yes. I would chop it off if I found out he did that behind my back.

But I am fine with him getting a blow job by another girl as long as we are all playing together. But its a turn on for me. So to each their own really. Its cheating based on personal individual relationships and the rules agreed on.
 boredintheboonies
Joined: 7/27/2011
Msg: 707
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/17/2011 6:12:47 AM
LOL, physical intimacy of any kind with a person other than your partner without permission is cheating. Emotional intimcay of any kind with another person other than your partner without permission is also cheating.
 nowordscandescribeme
Joined: 7/29/2011
Msg: 708
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/17/2011 11:01:53 AM
What a silly question, To me even kissing someone else while you're in a relationship is cheating, let alone performing or receiving oral sex.
 LabradorOokpik
Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 709
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/17/2011 11:34:52 AM
Haven't read all the posts, but...for me a rule of thumb is if I do ANYTHING I wouldn't feel comfortable telling my SO about, then it's cheating. But that's just my 2 cents.
 goodquestion
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 710
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/1/2011 12:14:58 PM
Lets be realistic anything done outside of a relationship that is not open and is sexual in any nature is definately cheating.
 fetishcdaz
Joined: 8/18/2011
Msg: 711
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/1/2011 9:38:38 PM
they say head don't count.

they also say eating isn't cheating.

 sweetblue62
Joined: 10/16/2011
Msg: 712
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/1/2011 10:33:00 PM
Yes of course it is cheating! It is sex, DUH!
 nitemonger
Joined: 4/7/2012
Msg: 713
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/5/2012 10:25:19 PM
if it's something you don't want your significant other to find out about, it's cheating... it doesn't matter if you're not doing anything, and the other person is going down on you (you're receiving) or if you're the one going down on them. it's still ORAL SEX!!! or to put it simply, and answer your question directly, you TROLL....

YES YOU DUMBF!CK, IT'S CHEATING!!! of course it is. TROLL....
 marie2107
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 714
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/6/2012 1:32:54 AM
Yes absolutely, Of course it is cheating!!! I am female. :)
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 715
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/6/2012 3:50:47 AM
what is the definition of "IS" ?
 The_zeitgeist
Joined: 2/27/2012
Msg: 716
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/6/2012 12:51:05 PM
Seriously stupid question...
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