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 tuxqueot
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 717
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I'm gonna go one step out of the norm here.

I realize these days oral is, to alot of younger people at least, just slightly more than kissing.

to me, there is no more intimate thing you can do with another person than put your face in their crotch. Period. You are seeing their boy/girl parts upclose and personal, you are using your mouth on those parts in a way to stimulate and simulate sex. It's the most intimate thing you can do. And letting someone else do it to you is saying you want that person being that intimate with you.

So yes, oral sex is cheating. Giving or receiving, it doesn't matter. If you don't want to cheat, keep it in your pants and don't let anyone else see/touch/whatever it.
 sexycouple74
Joined: 4/5/2012
Msg: 718
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/7/2012 10:52:02 AM
of course oral is cheating any time u touch another person intamitly if its not ur mate its cheating.
 DeerTaint
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 719
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/7/2012 10:53:34 AM
Probably the same people oral isn't cheating are those who think only doing anal means they are a virgin. Crazy kids.
 saveta
Joined: 4/23/2012
Msg: 720
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/7/2012 9:47:08 PM
It isn't the sex act (whether penis in vagina or oral sex or anal sex, for that matter) that defines cheating - it is whether you're with another person apart from your partner (unless, of course, it's an open relationship). In other words, the question of cheating is not the modality of the sex act, but the being with another person. If your giving/receiving oral sex with somebody else apart from your declared partner, you are cheating. It is impossible to receive oral, without encountering the rest of the human being (body and mind).
 tuxqueot
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 721
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/7/2012 11:52:31 PM

It is impossible to receive oral, without encountering the rest of the human being (body and mind).


ummm, I have to debunk this statement. One word... Gloryhole. which is still cheating.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 722
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/7/2012 11:59:11 PM
oral is sex, cheating is 4 losers who gamble, homeo sapien is not monogomy animal.
 tensail
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 723
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2012 12:00:44 AM
wrong women use sex withdrawl as a punishment n a controling, vey use it in n out of rels- its women whjo have v power in socity, feminism is wrong.
 cashleys
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 724
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2012 12:48:18 AM
YES, YES, YES. Kissing, touching, even chatting in a sexual manner is cheating!!! I think with Bill Clinton we have disposed of that silly question.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 725
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2012 7:55:10 AM

Kissing, touching, even chatting in a sexual manner is cheating!!!


I used to live in OKC, kinda close to Yukon, and there's whole herds of social conservatives runnin' free around there. Lol My guess is, that if the Repubs win in November, "kissing, touching and even chatting in a sexual manner" will be lumped into the sort of "high crimes and misdemeanors" that can get a guy impeached, and any of the rest of us jailed 'n railed, lol.


I think with Bill Clinton we have disposed of that silly question


What the "Clinton case" defly determined was that "oral" really is sex, and "is" really only has just the one meaning. To know whether the Monica-0n-Bill oral was "cheating", well, only Hillary can answer that, and she ain't talkin'.

But, yeah, the cat's kinda outta the bag on the oral thing as fer shur sex. But anal, the new "oral", is still out there, largely undefined (by the Authorities, at least- we can prolly guess what the Church ladies think), still a "grey area". lol
 HeartOn64
Joined: 2/9/2012
Msg: 726
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2012 8:06:06 AM
To know whether the Monica-0n-Bill oral was "cheating", well, only Hillary can answer that, and she ain't talkin'.


Obviously not because she has Bill's d i c k in her mouth,but because she wanted to find out what it's like to get oral in the oval office herself!
 MZ.Willis27
Joined: 3/13/2012
Msg: 727
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2012 3:26:45 PM
i agree with you. some men like for there woman to do it to them and then some would rather for a hooker on the street to do it in replace of there girl. which to me is crazy ass hell because if i'm suppose to be your girl i should be the only hoe pleasing you
 yassina
Joined: 6/19/2006
Msg: 728
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2012 4:07:36 PM
I follow the golden rule dont do anything I wouldnt want my partner to do . I believe cheating depends on the two people and what is within their comfort boundries . With that being said I think its important for two people while in the dating stage and before entering the relationship stage should have an open conversation on what is acceptable or not , comfort zomes etc.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 729
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/9/2012 5:03:27 AM
No, it's not cheating in any way shape or form.

Now if I could just convince my SO of that, I would be in pig heaven.
 36steveo
Joined: 5/8/2009
Msg: 730
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/9/2012 6:17:13 AM
many people out there have to agree with sometimes others are better at somethings and vice versa. now what if this lady gave dream massages n in return she esaid you have to oralize the kitty til she would cum. thats pleasure to her sexually but a massage to the man. what would be wrong with that
 starofgaia
Joined: 4/11/2012
Msg: 731
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/9/2012 9:36:24 AM
If it isn't with your S.O. Or spouse and you've not sought their permission, whatever you done or was done on you consents ally is cheating.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 732
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/11/2012 3:39:21 AM
Oh yes. It definitely is. Anything involving penis is.
 readers1
Joined: 7/30/2009
Msg: 733
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/11/2012 9:10:01 AM
Perhaps the best authority to answer this question might be your partner. Why not ask him?
 solofish07
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 734
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/11/2012 2:01:22 PM
Ummmm yes it is. Its still a sexual act so technically it is.
 cassand
Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 735
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/11/2012 5:33:51 PM
idk no im not married still single
 cassand
Joined: 4/27/2008
Msg: 736
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/11/2012 5:35:18 PM
but i like to meet woman in here though
 aceof718
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 737
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/11/2012 6:55:07 PM
yes it is cheating
 TheReason_
Joined: 5/16/2009
Msg: 738
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/11/2012 7:31:58 PM
Yes it is.


It would be a wonderful world if it wasn't, but it is.
 joemetro3
Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 739
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/13/2012 2:15:04 AM
o hell ya.............duh
 therunningarends
Joined: 4/28/2012
Msg: 740
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/18/2012 6:32:33 PM
Cheating is when you do something with somebody of the opposite sex that you wouldn't do in front of your significant other or tell them about. I suppose it could be done with someone of the same sex as well, if you're into that sort of thing.
 LetsBuildSomething
Joined: 6/8/2012
Msg: 741
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/18/2012 6:56:06 PM

I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it!

what... so if your women gets eaten out by another guy, you are fine with that?

Like most guys say that when they get married that part of the relationship (oral) is not happening.

Relationship is over.
You need to keep doing the same thing you did to get the person in the first place.
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