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 LetsBuildSomething
Joined: 6/8/2012
Msg: 741
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I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it!

what... so if your women gets eaten out by another guy, you are fine with that?

Like most guys say that when they get married that part of the relationship (oral) is not happening.

Relationship is over.
You need to keep doing the same thing you did to get the person in the first place.
 PurpleStar687
Joined: 5/30/2012
Msg: 742
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/19/2012 10:24:38 AM
Hell yes its cheating!
 jeffh19
Joined: 7/2/2011
Msg: 743
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/19/2012 9:21:03 PM
oh come on of course it is

what's next, asking if intercourse is cheating?

Sadly lots of women don't think its cheating or wrong if you love the person lol
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 744
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/20/2012 10:28:45 AM
Yes,You are giving an intimate part of yourself.
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 745
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/20/2012 11:02:02 AM
well it might not be if your partner dont mind .its just fun ..actually it was a birthday present once ..my wife got one of her friends to help her give me a blow job .. and it was much better than the 3 white shirts i usually get
 jed456
Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 746
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/20/2012 1:06:00 PM
Is oral sex cheating? Yes!!!!!!!!!!
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 747
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/22/2012 7:37:46 PM
yes, of course it is cheating. anything that you wouldn't or couldn't do openly in front of your partner without them getting upset is crossing the boundaries of the relationship. if you are doing something, whether it is physically acting out or just phone sex, if your partner would be ticked, then yeah, it's something you have to HIDE. it's unfaithful, it's wrong, and it will damage your ability to be close with your partner. i am guessing that you are really young ( haven't checked your profile) otherwise you wouldn't be asking such a question. there may be those that have open relationships, and in such cases, obviously, the question is irrelevant.
 bigcalm
Joined: 3/14/2012
Msg: 748
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/22/2012 7:44:30 PM
Is kissing cheating? yes, saliva swapping.

Is Oral cheating? No, it's just your****in her mouth, that's all.
 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 749
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/22/2012 8:01:43 PM
The definition of cheating is that there is deceit and lies involved with the sexual activity with someone else. If the partner knows, then it is not cheating. It is still infidelity if you like. But many live that way as there are other elements to their relationship to keep it going. I for one, would never give oral sex to a man that I didnt have feelings for. It is still intimacy.
 chicachocolate
Joined: 6/19/2012
Msg: 750
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/22/2012 9:43:39 PM
Heck yes it is cheating!! you have been in the situation where your boyfriend received, and you didn't mind. Maybe it was just you OP. I would have dumped him right then.
 Oncetwice57
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 751
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/9/2012 5:54:53 PM
Come on!....its cheating when your having any kind of sex with another other than the girl friend or wifey....and as for that if you kiss another its the same.....!!!
 ChocoMamicita123
Joined: 7/3/2012
Msg: 752
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 7/13/2012 6:27:12 PM
No way of course not aint nothin wrong with that neither is a little ball jigglin here and there nothin wrong with "testing the waters" let em tea bag ya once or twice too thats all fine and dandy...sigh what is this world coming to :/
 shy2anne
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 753
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2012 5:58:23 PM
when did oral ex stop being sex? oh wait, don't answer that :)
oral sex is sex. actually, i consider it more intimate than intercourse.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 754
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2012 6:24:28 PM

I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it! I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!

Like most guys say that when they get married that part of the relationship (oral) is not happening.................


I wonder if the majority of women say YES,

or what the thoughts are------be honest!


Turn the tables around - if your partner did it, would you consider it cheating?

What is your agreement with your partner? Would you do it in front of them? If it violates your agreement with them, it's cheating.

If there are problems in your relationship, why not fix them? And if the partner refuses, then give them a choice: you can end the relationship, or they can accept that you are going to do it on the side and the question is, do they want you to be open or secretive about it?

Time to start some serious conversation with the partner.
 crystalj77
Joined: 8/1/2009
Msg: 755
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2012 6:31:44 PM
I THINK ANYTIME YOU GIVE YOUR ATTENTION TO ANY ONE
BESIDES YOUR PARTNER IT IS CHEATING;
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 756
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2012 6:35:42 PM
I think you should have good right to the top, and asked Bill Clinton,, but yes oral sex in cheating,, I think you should ask your self some much better questions,, Like what do real relationships mean to you and the population as a whole..figure that out and you wouldn't have wasted your time asking is oral sex cheating..
 coderedjulia1
Joined: 5/27/2012
Msg: 757
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/16/2012 7:51:35 PM
oral sex is still sex..lmao
 jennifer-t
Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 758
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/17/2012 4:28:27 PM
Wow, really? You have to ask if it's cheating? Would it be cheating if your partner did it to you? Thought so. Question answered.
 ZombiezRock
Joined: 8/7/2012
Msg: 759
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/17/2012 6:06:08 PM
Ive never seen so many stupid people in one place...... If you have to ask this, which you shouldn't have too your stunted..... severely..... find someone who gives great oral and stick with em instead of trying to devise ways in your mind that its okay to cheat. . idiots!!!
 Kathyew
Joined: 5/14/2012
Msg: 760
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/18/2012 1:52:05 PM
Yes it is cheating, its sex.
A friend of mine was getting it from his 1st wife but his 2nd wife won't give it to him and he's been remarried 15 yrs and wants it bad but says cheating on his wife isn't worth giving her half of his stuff.
 HappyRocker
Joined: 8/13/2011
Msg: 761
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/18/2012 2:04:51 PM
Talking about sex (oral sex) is that cheating???

We all must be cheating our asses off!
 SpittyKitty
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 762
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/18/2012 3:28:27 PM
I didn't read any of the posrs but here is my off-the-cuff answer.

UH...YEAH! That's why they call it Oral "SEX".
Because of the SEX in it.
Wise up people!
Duh.
 schlafbaer81
Joined: 7/4/2011
Msg: 763
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/19/2012 4:29:44 PM
Your brain is the part of your anatomy that does the cheating !
 newbie774
Joined: 6/25/2012
Msg: 764
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/20/2012 6:39:34 AM
lol.. of course it is
 rdcnorm
Joined: 3/7/2007
Msg: 765
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/20/2012 9:17:16 AM

Your brain is the part of your anatomy that does the cheating !

LMAO really,, then why do some women say we men think with our other head,, now have thought 2 heads are better that one,, I am just playing...
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