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Joined: 5/15/2004
Msg: 141
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Well Bungalow Bill said it was not I must believe the President if says its true.
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 143
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/6/2007 6:35:33 AM
:: a conversation::

"But it wasn't cheating! He just tripped and accicentally shoved his junk in my mouth... twice... once in the car, and... wait! it was three times!"

"Oh, that's ok, honey... as long as I still have your heart!"
Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 144
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/6/2007 8:01:29 AM
If you are talking about sex and mean oral that way, NO.
If you have your mouth wrapped around or someone's mouth is wrapped around your penis-

I guess if you think the answer is NO, it wouldn't be cheaping in one of you was wearing a condom since no one actually touched each other.
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 148
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/6/2007 11:28:21 AM
If someone is dating me then I am the only one they should be kissing, faking, licking
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 158
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/7/2007 3:29:51 AM
"If you cant do it in church in front of your mother and family..its cheating"

I don't mind an audience... but performing in front of my mother? Good Lord, I can hear the nagging now.

"She doesn't look like she's enjoying it, dear... try putting it in there. Dear God, you have no rhythm, you're just like your father!"
Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 162
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Posted: 3/7/2007 2:01:40 PM
^^^^ right on, angel! great post.
Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 170
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/8/2007 7:32:54 AM
learn the rules of the game before you play it, its that easy!
Joined: 6/20/2006
Msg: 174
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/8/2007 8:50:39 AM
eaten ant a cheaten
Joined: 7/2/2006
Msg: 177
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/8/2007 6:37:36 PM
Well I have to agree with the concensus by saying that oral sex with someone other than your better half and they were unaware of it would be cheating. Here's the kicker, would you or your other half be ok with the notion of having the said escapade with the counterpart knowing? I must say I was a jealious guy in the day and it all changed when we opened up. Our sex life couldn't be better! "Well if it's so great why are you here?" To feed my Hyper-sex drive dummy! I say if you truely love the person you are with, don't lie cause it's cheating. Also, everyone can achieve an orgamism whether it's with yourself or another person. So, know when the intimatcy really counts and when it's just for a release.
Joined: 3/22/2006
Msg: 181
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/8/2007 9:53:26 PM
Yes, giving or receiving!
Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 183
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Posted: 3/9/2007 7:08:23 AM
wow... i cannot believe we are still having this discussion, i cannot believe POF, whose administrators are always so happy to delete threads willy nilly, let this one go... sheesh!
Joined: 1/19/2007
Msg: 197
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/13/2007 8:45:24 AM

Like school on Sundays... NO CLASS
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 204
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/13/2007 10:40:13 PM
I havent read this whole thread ... but i gotta ask the orginal poster how old she is...

any kindof sex is cheating ... when your SO is sharing an intimate momment with someone else, thats cheating.
When your SO is having an orgasm with someone else, whether it be intercourse or orally ... Thats cheating!!!

I can almost guarantee that if you were in a loving relationship with a man you absolutly loved and you found out that man you loved allowed another woman to suck on his****you would be outraged! Just because he doesnt love that other girl doesnt make it alright.

Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 205
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/14/2007 8:08:23 AM
I'm not sure I share that view, Nick ... eloquently as you have stated it.

What I view as intimate may not be what others perceive as such. I give female friends and male friends hugs when I see them... I try to be as open and honest with others as they care to have me, although sometimes people have a hard time with hearing the truth.

What I see on this thread is that people are not afraid to be intimate with other people, but they view sexual acts as certain forms of intimacy. And for some, including myself, oral sex is a very intimate act.
I feel that if the one I love performs it on someone else while we are in an exclusive relationship, then yes... one could view it as treason or betrayal.
If the person I am seeing is dating other people? Well... I'm not too keen on the idea of her moking someone's cannoli, but women do what they will do.

Don't be in such a hurry to paint everyone with such a broad brush...
Joined: 2/6/2007
Msg: 206
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/14/2007 8:17:30 AM
My mistake... I stand corrected.
Joined: 4/11/2004
Msg: 207
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/14/2007 11:07:51 AM
Yes, it is cheating!

If you are in a committed relationship, you should not do ANYTHING intimate or sexual with anyone else. It doesn't matter who is giving or getting.

Here's a good rule to follow; If you are doing something that you wouldn't feel comfortable telling your significant other about, it's probably wrong.
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 210
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Posted: 3/14/2007 3:46:29 PM
havent had a blow job 28 nyrs ,because i think it is cheating
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 215
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/19/2007 12:19:08 PM
Send your B/F over here, I will let him give me some, I will send him back home.....I will call you to see how I taste, and I will ask you this same question......."Is oral sex really cheating?"
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 218
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Posted: 3/19/2007 12:52:01 PM
Wow buddy, relax.......sounds like someones' ex didn't think it was cheating, and he hasn't worked through the pain yet......can I get you something? Water, aspirin, maybe a Prozac?....but no oral, we are fresh out of that!
Joined: 7/19/2006
Msg: 219
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/19/2007 1:15:06 PM
Yes, of course I think its cheating.
It's nothing to do with the sexual part in it. It's the emotional aspect.
Sex, whether we like it or not, has an emotional connection to it. Love, anger, depression. ect. Some do it because we love the parties involved, some do it because they need validation. This goes with all forms of sex. Oral, intercourse, masterbation...
If you are in a serious, committed relationship, then the (possible) cheater should have enough respect for the others feelings and emotions.
It's disrespectful. And I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who is disrespectful towards me.
Joined: 3/16/2007
Msg: 220
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/19/2007 2:23:48 PM
I love your attitude

Joined: 7/2/2005
Msg: 231
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Posted: 3/24/2007 9:58:34 PM
........are you honestly at odds with this question? Do you think that sex is only penetration?
Performing and/or recieving ORAL SEX is indeed CHEATING!!!!!!!!
Joined: 2/20/2007
Msg: 235
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 3/25/2007 8:43:03 AM
I haven't read in detail every post in this thread however I did scan through a few.

For me oral sex is by definition a form of sex and therefore I consider it cheating. I would certainly not give it or receive it other than with my girlfriend and if I were to find out she had either given it or received it then I would bail.

However the others no doubt will see it differently based on their beliefs and of course the relationship they are in. In a serious committed relationship I would think so. What if it's an "open" relationship (whatever that means?). What about a FWB or FB relationship where there is no exclusivity, is it cheating? Maybe not. In a marriage I would think so.
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