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 Entertain me PLEASE
Joined: 4/5/2007
Msg: 242
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Lets think about what the word actually means. It means to deceive, deprive, or to mislead. Those are the basics. So then, lets apply that to a person receiving ...or giving for that matter, oral sex to someone other than the person that they are bound to. If the person knows that their significant other is fooling around and doesn't care, then it's not cheating. If the significant other doesn't know....then they are being deceived into believing that they are the only one receiving intimate relations by cheater, they are being deprived of the truth of the matter and they are being misled into believing that all is well in their relationship. So it is in fact, if you want to go by the heart of the definition of cheating,......CHEATING.

But you weren't sure so i'm sure you'd be forgiven. LOL
 Dannyboy64
Joined: 2/9/2007
Msg: 246
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 4/9/2007 8:08:32 PM
Here are a few questions with a similar theme. Discuss:

If someone punches me and breaks all my teeth is that assault?
Is lipstick a form of makeup?
If I poison someone's food is it murder?
If a teacher has oral sex with a student is that just extra-curricular oral instruction?

Crazy, would you feel OK if your boyfriend had oral sex with another man?
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 248
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 4/9/2007 8:31:53 PM
NO!!!! not as long as one closes their eyes and are on a deserted island and open the eyes and it's a monkey thinking you're their mom...
This I would except...
Other wise YES IT'S CHEATING
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 249
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 4/9/2007 8:59:00 PM
you're kidding me?

16 pages for this thread?

how on EARTH did this get past the moderators?

OMG -- it makes no sense at all, the ones they allow to persist and those they delete. aarrgghh!
 molly__blooming
Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 251
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 4/9/2007 9:51:34 PM

Here are a few questions with a similar theme. Discuss:

If someone punches me and breaks all my teeth is that assault?
Is lipstick a form of makeup?
If I poison someone's food is it murder?
If a teacher has oral sex with a student is that just extra-curricular oral instruction?





thank you for the laughs, dannyboy!
 DigitalRtist
Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 252
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 4/10/2007 2:30:26 AM
Yes, it's totally cheating. Active participation whether giving or receiving with someone whom is not your partner or significant other is still sex.
Shouldn't be any question about it at all...that's my opinion on it anyhow.
 Walking in Memphis
Joined: 9/1/2005
Msg: 257
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 4/10/2007 10:10:31 AM
The only way it is not cheating is if giving and or recieving oral is something your S/O is accepting of. I for one have no issues with it. And if my S/O wanted to do that for someone and we discussed it first and I was made aware of it ... I see no big threat to it. She is more than responsible about being safe and I know that it is something that she thoroughly enjoys. So in my eyes if she enjoys it why stop her from doing soemthing she enjoys regardless if it is not just for me. I was taught that sharing is good in moderation. hehe ... But not so much into the swinging thing ...
 AnthonyK
Joined: 8/13/2005
Msg: 260
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/7/2007 4:02:15 PM
Are you serious? What a joke! Of course it is!
 harviej
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 261
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/7/2007 4:09:18 PM
Of course oral sex is NOT cheating.
I mean if you're only Talking about it.......
 dustyknight
Joined: 9/14/2006
Msg: 268
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/8/2007 7:53:36 AM
not according to bill and hillary clinton..
 Rythmn
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 272
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/9/2007 12:37:06 AM
duh? no, it's an alternative to cleaning your teeth!
 GuitarGuy_
Joined: 3/15/2007
Msg: 275
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/10/2007 11:59:15 PM
Yeah it's cheating.
 trs1958
Joined: 10/28/2006
Msg: 277
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/11/2007 2:00:51 AM
Some have brought up the subject of Clinton. The thing is...he stated on national TV that...he did NOT have sexual relations with that woman. I just wonder if he then lit THAT cigar and said...but I did not inhale!
 southernhighlander
Joined: 3/30/2007
Msg: 282
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/27/2007 7:14:56 PM
It is not cheating for Democrats, only for Republicans


has clinton said i did not sleep with that intern i was up alnight.
 Patrick70
Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 284
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Posted: 5/28/2007 1:48:43 AM
I personally have a bit more liberal standards on cheating...I've never done it by anyone's standards, I just believe in total honesty, but I derive a lot of pleasure by performig oral sex. I mean if I didn't enjoy it I wouldn't do it, so I would have to say yes, if the s/o doesn't know then yes it's cheating, as for threesomes...as long as the s/o know or joins in, no, it's not cheating...I would actually love to find a woman into threesomes and more, but down south, it's hard to find open minded women...too much religion here.
 roxy127
Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 288
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/28/2007 8:44:32 AM
What a stupid question....!!!!
 Marjabu
Joined: 6/8/2006
Msg: 291
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/28/2007 10:59:50 AM
definitley yes....still considered cheating in my books
 Irishheart
Joined: 9/26/2003
Msg: 292
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 5/29/2007 8:45:33 AM
I dont usually get on these forums but when I noticed this question I had to reply to it.
I dont know the person who asked this question but let me give you you a few words "WAKE UP" Sex is sex, and if your with a partner whom you care for / love, in a relationship, then YES it is cheating. If you just have oral and nothing else..it doesnt matter, you have crossed a line. Im a guy and like every man, I love oral, both giving and receiving, but I wouldnt let some other girl give me oral if I was in a relationship. I know these days have changed and even kids are giving oral as if it were like passing a joint around...thats f*cked up man.
Did Bill Clinton have sex with Monica....duh..of course he did..yes just oral but sex is sex and it is cheating.
 dustyknight
Joined: 9/14/2006
Msg: 296
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/7/2007 7:35:25 AM
yes it is if you leave all of us out..of the loop..lol
raising hand and volenteering...
dusty
 *~MisskriS~*
Joined: 9/20/2005
Msg: 298
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/7/2007 6:18:54 PM
YEAH IT IS CHEATING And fu cked up to do if your in a relationship.
 Baber.
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 301
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Posted: 6/8/2007 1:26:47 AM
"BUT BUT BUT BUT ORAL SEX IS NOT SEX BABER!!!!!!"

Awww... that explains why there's 'sex' in 'oral sex' doesn't it?

I swear some people are so stupid! Sex is SEX, whether it be oral, anal, or just plain ole dirty diggin!

So if you have sex with anyone else other than your partner that's called cheating/aka adultery.


End of discussion right?
 ponygrlâ„¢
Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 305
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/15/2007 8:51:49 AM
if one person in a relationship is having oral sex, phone sex, or cyber sex with another person that's not their partner....hell yeah that's cheating. if both partners are into 3-somes, 4-somes, or group sex then it's not considered as cheating as long as both parties are involved. that's a person's or partner's sexual preference...if you plan on having oral sex with the member of the opposite sex, make sure your partner is involved as well because if he isn't there then it is considered as cheating.

(sorry, i didn't read through the entire thread, just skipped over...i hope i didn't repeat anyone)
 WokkaWokka
Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 308
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/15/2007 3:19:34 PM
no,and santa claus plays poker with me and elvis every saturday night
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