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 princesachulaa
Joined: 6/14/2007
Msg: 438
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next time you have a question like that just get a dictionaryt. i cant believe this post has made it this far. i think you are looking for a excuse to cheat and not feel guilty
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 439
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 9/29/2007 6:56:46 PM
is sex cheating? How about if its just doggie style?
I just wanted to know what its like to ask such ridiculous questions. Of course oral sex is cheating. Wouldn't you think its cheating if your partner did it with someone else?
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 440
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 9/29/2007 7:03:00 PM
If you have to ask...
 danno3848
Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 444
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 9/29/2007 9:52:23 PM
As much as I wish there there was a rule that getting blow jobs when you want is OK and has neutral impact to any relationship.. I really dont think so.. I think you tell your partner in Open relations ....
 marshw
Joined: 8/9/2005
Msg: 447
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 9/30/2007 6:49:08 AM

I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!

Received it from you? Tramp! Trollop! Slut!
If you're in a committed relationship; Oral Sex is cheating; kissing is cheating and yes, sadly, even toe-sucking is cheating.


Like most guys say that when they get married that part of the relationship (oral) is not happening

If a guy is willing to settle for a life without it, that's his choice. From my perspective, anything...I mean ANYTHING that's completely absent from a relationship is a problem. If choosing a particular woman means no more BJs/Toe-sucking/Anal/[insert favorite stimulii here] EVER, you have to decide if you want to live the rest of your life without that. If you're not willing to make that sacrifice, you might as well walk away TODAY! RIGHT NOW! Even if there's nothing else wrong and especially if you're in love with her (or him).
 LangloisJ
Joined: 2/28/2007
Msg: 453
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 10/12/2007 11:56:48 AM
Oh ....nah thats not cheating at all....I wouldn't mind if my future girlfriend went around receiving oral sex from the whole city or state for that matter...

OF course its cheating.....anything going on with another partner without the other partner's consent is cheating when it comes to affection and sex....
 owlmedic
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 456
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/9/2007 7:49:41 PM
Dr. Sue put it best years ago......any exchange of bodily fluids is cheating.
 adventurer001
Joined: 12/17/2007
Msg: 464
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/23/2008 9:37:13 PM
Duuuuuuh! In the words of my hero Bill Clinton...I did not have sexual relations with that woman.
 creativelust
Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 466
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/25/2008 11:37:19 PM
so if you and your partner are masterbateing in front of eatch other is it an orgy?
 chickalina
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 468
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:40:23 PM
As long as you don't him? What about if you don't look at him then you won't know who it is and tell yourself "hell I don't know him so it isn't cheating" Ya Wight it IS
 chickalina
Joined: 12/5/2007
Msg: 469
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/27/2008 3:52:16 PM
kick0009 I seriously hope you meant kidding and notg killing - lol What would you do have oral sex and then kill the person so they can't describe you - ACK
 ~LoriMac~
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 475
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/2/2008 12:06:19 PM
Are you seriously asking this??
You need to talk to who ever your dating and find out what she thinks
In my world oral sex is absolutely cheating. I think there are some levels of contact with other people that is not cheating...(hugging, peck on the lips, being flirty, same sex goofing around)

To me cheating involves sexual interest, getting off, private contact....so yes getting and giving is cheating.

what a stupid question
 gjay1
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 476
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/2/2008 1:56:01 PM
darls i cant believe you are serious in asking this question!!! and of course oral,kissing -any kind of intimate touching is cheating-but also you have to expect people to get a bit ratty in replying to you- coz they are all imagining you getting your hands(and mouth!!) all over their partners!! i mean really what you are saying is that you will not respect their relationship and you will have their partners if you want them....no wonder a few people feel strongly about this!!!!
 stephaniezowie
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 477
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/2/2008 7:36:11 PM
not if u don't get off.
 BluEyedGirl28
Joined: 1/1/2008
Msg: 478
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/2/2008 8:06:14 PM
Yes, Mr. Clinton, even oral sex is sexual activity! LOL

If I found out that a guy I was supposedly seeing exclusively had experience oral to genital contact (either guy to girl or girl to guy) we wouldn't be seeing each other anymore.

JMHO:)

Elle
 Mackinac49009
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 479
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/2/2008 11:21:35 PM
WOW! I can't believe this is even on here. Obviously if you're letting someone do that to you, it's cheating. Kissing, touching, doesn't matter who does it, it's obviously cheating.
 totum_spirit
Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 483
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/3/2008 8:12:06 PM
Hell no! Bill Clinton proved that one!!!!
 NorseViking869
Joined: 3/23/2006
Msg: 485
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:56:50 PM
I concidered Kissing Cheating. Yes Oral sex is cheating so is a handjob. Cheating is Cheating. If you are in an open relationship and can watch or join in, then fine, but if not it is still cheating.
 ExplosiveSheep
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 486
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/4/2008 2:44:38 AM
Wow.. this is setting the bar a bit high I would think... Holy crap I would be mad if I found out my partner was gettin it around somewhere else, tell you the truth, I wouldn't even like it if she really needed to find another guy just to "talk to" I mean what the hell am I for if I can't even talk to a woman? Let alone give her oral or whatever else she needs. Believe you me, I'll know well before marriage what her deal is and she'll know mine, I won't be having rings on fingers if one of us is thinkin "oh well a quick bit blowjob/lick out on the veranda with this person won't hurt..." that's pretty brutal..
 heaight
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 489
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/5/2008 12:09:32 PM
this is a silly thread. of course its cheating, and i could never date a girl who didnt believe it was. if my girlfriend had her nipple licked by someone else, id call that cheating too.
 jf468
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 490
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/5/2008 12:18:27 PM
According to a certain ex-president, it wasn't cheating.
 Soul Seductive
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 491
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/5/2008 12:21:51 PM
If you have any tpe of sexual contact with someone outside of your relationship, thats still cheating, oral or whatever!!!
 ruloookingforme53
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 492
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 2/5/2008 12:45:49 PM
Come off it!
You KNOW any intimate physical contact (at a minimum) is CHEATING!!!

Would you be comfortable with your man going down on another woman?
 Irishheart
Joined: 9/26/2003
Msg: 498
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 4/1/2008 9:09:50 AM
huh...I am surprised you even got a gf... I heard that black men dont even like to give oral...
 ob1kanobee
Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 505
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 6/8/2008 6:12:02 PM
One night, as a couple lay down for bed, the husband gently taps
his wife on the shoulder and starts rubbing her arm. The wife turns over
and says: I'm sorry honey, I've got a gynecologist appointment tomorrow and I
want to stay fresh." The husband, rejected, turns over and tries to sleep. A few minutes later, he rolls back over and taps his wife again. This time he whispers in her ear: "Do you have a dentist appointment tomorrow too?"
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