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 smsweendoggy
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 506
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Not if your from Arkansas,lol.
 whothehellknows
Joined: 7/23/2006
Msg: 512
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 8:14:10 AM
If you have to lie about it... it's cheating.
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 9:18:17 AM
I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it!


So, you want to know if having your legs spread with a guys face buried in your **** while you moan and shake is cheating? And you say it isn't?

You might actually be retarded.

If a girl I was with went around letting guys eat her out...all I would say is TOSSED.
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 514
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 10:23:24 AM
Cheating happens when you withhold information from your partner. I think cheating CAN include oral sex, developing a crush without talking to your partner about, kissing someone.... any intimacy that you keep to yourself.

Honesty is the key.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 515
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 10:43:41 AM

Posted By: blondecharmthe3rd on 8/28/2008

Message: Cheating happens when you withhold information from your partner. I think cheating CAN include oral sex, developing a crush without talking to your partner about, kissing someone.... any intimacy that you keep to yourself.

Honesty is the key.


Confessing doesn't make it not cheating. Discussing beforehand what is acceptable in a relationship, and what is not, is how you decide what is cheating and what isn't. Anything that you know your partner isn't going to be comfortable with you doing with someone else is cheating. I have three words that get the picture across very clearly... "I don't share."
 LQTM
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 517
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 12:53:29 PM
If your in a commited relationship,and you even kiss someone else it's cheating(IMO).Somehow oral sex became an excuse for not really having sex.It's now a big thing with teenagers that think they really aren't doing anything wrong.And yes Bill using a cigar was still cheating on your wife.
"I did not have sex with that woman" really? then what that all over her dress buddy
 Blondecharmthe3rd
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 519
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 6:29:37 PM
DaRightGuy...

I said being honest. To ME thats discussing beforehand. I think you are right that afterwards is just confessing unless you have an understanding that allows the afterward discussion.

And I think its very acceptable to say "I don't share". You should never settle for what is less than what you need/want/deserve. Good for you
 MelloDLyn
Joined: 10/25/2004
Msg: 520
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 7:24:22 PM
Yes it is cheating. It is called oral sex! Doesn't matter who is giving or receiving it is still cheating.
 _Red_
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 521
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 8/28/2008 8:00:36 PM
Any action you wouldn't feel confident or comfortable doing right in front of your SO is without a doubt cheating in my book. For this question to even be asked is ridiculous in my opinion.

Anytime you need to question if it's cheating, it most likely is and I always consider how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 526
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 9/17/2008 3:20:05 PM

Is oral sex cheating,the only way it is not is if you can do it yourself.



Thanks... I was feeling guilty.
 jackster121
Joined: 9/2/2008
Msg: 527
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 9/17/2008 4:56:12 PM
If you can't tell your wife what you did, there is guilt and that is cheating.
 BennyCX
Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 528
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 9/17/2008 7:48:11 PM
Youre a cheatin **stard, go to Hell
 phishkev
Joined: 9/19/2008
Msg: 534
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/13/2008 12:05:15 PM
Yes...what next, is a hand jo* in a public bathroom cheating? Yikes!?
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 535
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/14/2008 10:50:06 AM
"Is oral sex cheating?"
Hmmmmmmmm....let me see here.... *sctatches head*
I'm thinking...... *rubs chin*
*stares off into the distance, contemplating deeply*
HA! *stamps foot and claps hands*
I got it!

Yep.
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 537
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/14/2008 11:54:22 AM
what did Hilary Clinton say about it when Billy -boy was caught getting off in the intern's mouth?
 blueeyed_one
Joined: 10/2/2008
Msg: 538
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/14/2008 2:43:13 PM
I think it is cheating, fun cheating though.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 540
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/14/2008 4:03:45 PM
I read somewhere that nowadays the question is no longer when to kiss, but when to go anal. lol

What a stupid question. Really! Giving someone a b-job or whatever and keeping it secret speaks for itself. It's an immoral act and it's cheating. If people can't stay faithful they should stay single forever.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 542
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/14/2008 4:13:40 PM
I can just see that conversation.....
Honey......is it ok if I give other guys blowjobs?
Sure Sweetie......as long as dinner is still on the table at 6!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 544
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/14/2008 4:27:05 PM
You're right.....and I hope I didn't offend anyone that participates in an open relationship.....
Just struck me funny......
but hell.....everything stikes me funny these days!!
 paltchy
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 545
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/14/2008 10:11:26 PM
I think it depends on who you're involved with. I've known a number of couples who define their sexual relationship differently. In some cases, full intercourse outside of the relationship isn't considered cheating. It is only cheating if the encounter is anything more than sexual. I think the big part is that the person you're in the relationship with is on the same page.
 srguy001
Joined: 11/4/2008
Msg: 548
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/15/2008 12:31:43 AM
Hmm I think Lewis Black said it best: "Is oral sex adultery? YES! If CURLING is an Olympic sport, then oral sex IS adultery. " I suppose he then went on to explain that oral sex should be an Olympic sport, so he may not be the best source. He is, however, probably the funniest :)
 Cherish Luv
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 552
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/15/2008 8:24:31 AM
Of course it is cheating on your partner. Granted men who can't keep it in their pants or women who can't keep their legs together will justify it or rationalize it anyway they want to convince themselves it isn't cheating. Do oral sex cheating people forget they can take home VD from oral sex?
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 553
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/15/2008 8:40:55 AM
it's 'cheating' if you LIE about it, or HIDE it..sneak around dishonestly and do it in SECRET..lie about where you really were or what you were REALLY doing?

(card game with the girls, or with the boys? ) :)

an 'open relationship' by definition would not involve lying/hiding..?
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 554
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 11/15/2008 8:44:14 AM
it's 'cheating' if you LIE about it, or HIDE it..sneak around dishonestly and do it in SECRET..lie about where you really were or what you were REALLY doing?

(card game with the girls, or with the boys? ) :)

an 'open relationship' by definition would not involve lying/hiding..?

people seem to have an amazing capacity to 'justify' or 'rationalize' that whatever they WANT to do to get momentary pleasure, is somehow OK don't they?

like the women in a relationship with a man that say having sex with another woman is not 'really cheating' because it's not with someone of the opposite gender..

or it's OK to have' sex with someone other than your partner as long as it's "just sex" , just 'physical with no 'emotional involvement'.. ????

WTF?

I guess oral sex is not cheating because a US President said so?? lol
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