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 Flaccid P. Nuss
Joined: 12/5/2008
Msg: 556
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Her : " Hey honey, I 69'd a guy last night and came so many times - but we didn't have intercourse cuz I didn't wanna cheat on you "

Him : " I love you sugar dumpling, how did I get so lucky ? "

 floatman
Joined: 12/2/2008
Msg: 557
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/17/2008 10:28:10 AM
In these troubling economic times, when people's pensions and 401(k)'s are tanking, I think people should give each other some slack and allow a bit of oral pleasure to come their way.
In addition, geopolitical conflicts are also causing a lot of stress and hardship. We must all face these problems together.

Besides, it's fellatio and cunnilingus. It's not like it's the end of the world. You're not killing an entire village of innocents. I say spread the love. The man or woman you're going down on might just have lost their retirement. They need something to take their minds off the hardships that we are all facing.

Your thoughts?



OK, I'm kidding.
 Cogie36
Joined: 10/23/2008
Msg: 558
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/17/2008 5:15:01 PM
Well just ask yourself this.....if you are a man.....would you like your woman to say..... " honey i'll be back in a little while i'm going over to Johns so he can lick me" or being a woman.....would you like your man to say..... " honey i'll be home in awhile i'm going to Suzies for a blowjob".......I dont know about you......but i'd be pissed off...
so for me........its definitely cheating.....
 *topchef*
Joined: 8/2/2008
Msg: 559
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/17/2008 5:39:42 PM
Of course it is cheating.... if you are in a respectful relationship that values trust, integrity and exclusivity. So is letting someone stick their tongue down your throat, fondle your breasts or your package, or other blatantly sexual acts. Rule of thumb....if it is something you wouldnt tell your SO, then maybe you shouldnt be doing it.
 misshoney31
Joined: 12/10/2008
Msg: 560
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 8:10:20 AM
Yes most definitely! It's an intimate sexual act, so of course it's cheating.
 rjncharlotte
Joined: 12/14/2008
Msg: 566
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/18/2008 1:15:09 PM
my thoughts are as follows oral sex is sex, IS HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER CHEATING? , WHAT IS CHEATING? IS MASTERBATING CHEATING ?
 JeremyWillLoveU24
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 569
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/20/2008 3:55:20 PM
yes without question
 flamesfan87
Joined: 12/7/2008
Msg: 570
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/21/2008 12:19:43 AM
Umm...seriously? Of course it is.
 zingwentthestrings
Joined: 11/5/2007
Msg: 573
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 2:16:47 PM
Ahhh, well, ahhh this is Bill Clinton here
ummm, ahh, could someone define cheating for me?
 des_angel
Joined: 11/4/2008
Msg: 575
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/28/2008 5:18:30 PM
cheating is cheating.

That goes for emotional, light intimacy and sex acts.

I say go ahead and cheat on me. Go find a piece of ass better than mine. Go for it.

You might even get away with it. You might get some and never tell me and I never find out about it through other means. But, if you get away with it once, that doesn't mean you will again. Usually when a person gets away with it, they're gonna do it again. And one of these times, you will get caught.

You best believe that once I find out you're cheating on me, I'm gone. No more trust. No more sex. No more girlfriend. No more anything.

So... if you're gonna cheat on me, you better be good at it, and she better be worth it.
 dickwaad
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 578
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:23:31 AM

I say NO, as long as you aren't giving it! I have been in situations where the guy received and it was a pleasurable thing and that was it!


You're profile name says it all...
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 579
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:44:30 AM
Yeah, but is it worth it to you to cheat in any sexual capacity? If so, go for it. But sometimes the significant other may not forgive you so easily.

Like take for instance... this NOT SAFE FOR WORK site dont-cheat dot com. Not for the faint of heart. The pictures are graphic. It's the aftermath of what happened to a man who cheated and she bit off his penis.

So cheat away, but when it comes to back bite you in the a$$ errrr penis, don't act like an innocent victim!


 REDDRAGON.
Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 580
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 7:49:51 AM

Is oral sex cheating?


well riddle me this .....

is masterbating cheating??
 compleat_man
Joined: 10/3/2008
Msg: 582
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 10:21:19 AM
^^


hahah.. Lonestarstar..direct & to the point! :) I like it..
 graniteconco
Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 583
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 2:20:13 PM
i think that the fact that there r people asking questons like this means that the meaning of love and comitment of relationships has gotten lost somewere
 graniteconco
Joined: 11/21/2008
Msg: 584
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Posted: 12/30/2008 2:22:49 PM
oh yeah what is a OPEN RELATIONSHIP??????? a free for all ?????????
 RedSox9
Joined: 12/6/2008
Msg: 585
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 2:23:38 PM
I had a client named Cheryl. Opposing counsel said she'd been with 11 different men during the marriage, and would use the adultery as leverage if we didn't settle. I had to inquire. Turns out hubby went out Thirsty Thursdays and Cheryl went out Fridays. As with most attractive women, she'd flirt and guys would buy her drinks and... turns out three of the guys in question were just friends since high school and NO and five of the guys were real cute and she waas real horny and YES but the other three were just guys who bought her and her girlfriends drinks all night and she kinda sorta felt she owed them something and ended up blowing them in the parking lot but that didn't count. Ergo, the Cheryl Rule: a blow job in the parking lot doesn't count.
 catkin2007
Joined: 12/18/2007
Msg: 586
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/30/2008 2:25:06 PM
Cheating is cheating - period. If you are in a committed/exclusive relationship with someone and experience sexual gratification from someone other than that partner, you are cheating.... period.
 cfb62
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 590
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Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 9:21:12 AM
Yes and WTF... is this some question on an entrance exam at Bill Clinton U?
 dickwaad
Joined: 12/15/2008
Msg: 591
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 10:48:18 AM

Yes and WTF... is this some question on an entrance exam at Bill Clinton U?



LOL!!
 HSJS
Joined: 7/7/2007
Msg: 592
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 1:16:22 PM

is this some question on an entrance exam at Bill Clinton U?


 VictorianRose
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 593
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 12/31/2008 3:30:01 PM
I say yes. What would you think if your man was having oral sex with another woman? Wouldn't you be hurt, isn't that a form of sex. What about going to the movies or something with another woman? Any kind of intimate behavior is meant to be between a couple, if you even question this then maybe you shouldn't even be in a relationship. Sorry, but you wanted an honest responce.
 blondago56
Joined: 8/21/2004
Msg: 595
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Posted: 1/1/2009 12:25:41 PM
Msg. 837.... that is a distgustingly through-the-legal-defense-argued justification....
"she kinda sorta felt she Owed them something"? How about 'THANK YOU' ? Would the Above Said Blowjob not count in The Parking Lot if it was YOUR 'lady' giving it to someone else? Tables (or Mouths) turned, Yes, it IS 'cheating'......
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 599
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/2/2009 8:24:26 AM

If you don't know what is cheating then your an absolute ideot!!!


And here, I though an idiot was one who spelled it "ideot."

 dogman19642004
Joined: 3/31/2008
Msg: 600
Is oral sex cheating?
Posted: 1/7/2009 8:40:04 AM
Loved your answer............dont know how many times I have heard the Clinton reference....LOL
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