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 punem264
Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 131
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Yuppers I check, I like to see who's viewed me.
 Xavery
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 132
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 4/29/2008 8:48:42 PM
And sometimes it can be really scary to check who has viewed you. I the "thing" on my profile activated that lets me view people but lets me remain as a hidden viewer.
 punem264
Joined: 7/26/2007
Msg: 134
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 4/29/2008 11:56:09 PM
I agree it is fun to view delarosa, it's fishies looking at fishies looking at fishies. If you don't mind me quoting you?
 Temptation50
Joined: 5/13/2007
Msg: 137
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/1/2008 6:43:23 PM
I check out every now and then the newbies that have'nt figured out how to veiw pro's without being found out and yikes!!!
VERY SCAREY.......
 Xavery
Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 138
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/1/2008 9:14:14 PM
^ I found that option by chance one day, but I bet someone else knows. It is way better when you can view people without them knowing you have viewed them.
 energy08
Joined: 8/2/2006
Msg: 147
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 7/2/2008 5:41:02 PM
Yes I check this out once in a while
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 148
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Posted: 7/3/2008 8:56:41 AM
I look at who viewed me about once a month - might click on 2 or 3 of their pics. Its interesting that most of the ones who view me are ones that I never see in the "last x people to check their blah blah near you" section
 Yappy lil Pine Needle
Joined: 4/28/2007
Msg: 151
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 8/11/2008 8:11:36 AM
I check every day. Then I just end up feeling disappointed that so many men have checked me out and not one message.. sigh. I had pics up, then I got all kinds of mail, it isn't fair! I want a man who wants Who I am, not What I have or What I look like!

I am Not bling!

4love
 venusflytrap
Joined: 5/18/2007
Msg: 153
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 8/11/2008 2:49:45 PM
Yes!
I have ended up talking to some great guys who actually have been caught looking at my profile regularly but were scared to contact me (you KNOW who you are!)

I understand it shows if u want to check someone's profile out the first time, but if they keep looking at your pics more than once then they must have some interest.

This feature almost works like a wink if you notice that someone keeps looking (or you can at least put a fact to your next stalker).
 * L *
Joined: 7/13/2007
Msg: 158
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Posted: 8/12/2008 4:55:53 PM
^^^ viewed me so often - one of us went blind !!
 * L *
Joined: 7/13/2007
Msg: 159
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Posted: 8/12/2008 4:56:10 PM
^^^ viewed me so often - one of us went blind !!

lol - ya thats it i posted at myself

gawd what a dork
 lifeStudent
Joined: 2/16/2008
Msg: 163
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 8/22/2008 9:24:37 AM
It is a curiosity to see who's looking, personally I don't spend any time thinking about their motives. No harm in looking, and since we all put ourselves on here freely, looking at each other on this type of forum would not be considered stalking. I do find it interesting that many people seem come across as too perfect, something to be vary of as no one is perfect, except Jesus and maybe the Dalai Lama. It's all in fun, and if some make that magic connection, how wonderful it is too meet someone that trully compliments you.
 shellbell60
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 166
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Posted: 9/1/2008 8:01:45 PM
Of course I look...just making sure you BC folks haven't forgotten me lol...and sometimes I just lurk

OT: hello all, life just isn't the same without you..and i really mean that!
 sassy_grneyes
Joined: 6/12/2007
Msg: 168
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 9/2/2008 11:56:27 AM
Can't say that i do.If someone has viewed me and not left a message of some sort then they must not have liked what they saw or read.Now,if someone adds me to their favorites,then i look.
 Shadow_Man74
Joined: 1/2/2008
Msg: 170
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 9/2/2008 5:39:04 PM
I check, but just out of curiosity. However I've learned it really doesn't mean much since I suspect that a lot of people have that feature disabled and for whatever reason don't want people to know they looked at their profile. I've turned mine off quite recently.
 ~JaneSays~
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 174
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/12/2009 4:50:04 PM
stats and facts and hit the floor
did a quick check and fifty-four

acts like a one who is only ten
a funny chicken, a silly hen

I view and am viewed. Isn't that part of the game?

Cheers
 ~JaneSays~
Joined: 5/6/2009
Msg: 175
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/12/2009 8:56:44 PM
I don't mean to be, but you folks will not leave me alone. Isn't it kind of rude to call someone an attention seeking twit when you are following them around? You added me to your favorites on Sunday, which was to weird.
 sassy_grneyes
Joined: 6/12/2007
Msg: 177
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/13/2009 8:50:18 PM
Sometimes I view them but usually not.I figure if they've viewed me and haven't said anything,then they aren't interested.
 Eclectic Elf
Joined: 12/2/2005
Msg: 185
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Posted: 5/14/2009 2:01:43 PM

Sometimes I view them but usually not.I figure if they've viewed me and haven't said anything,then they aren't interested



hmmm i don't suppose it could be something as simple as .. they look, but can't contact you because they can't get passed your criteria? ie: if they smoke and you have "must not smoke", they live beyond the geographical area some people restrict themselves to, perhaps they are out of the age range you are looking for, they have a green horn growing out of their forehead and you don't want contact from anyone with a green horn.. (and on a lot of the profiles there are a sh*t load of restrictions.

sassy grneyes ... (just using yours as an example) ... i looked at your profile, but im outside your age range

there are all kinds of threads about "geeze why didn't the idiot read my profile" . Oddly enough one can't read a profile unless one views.

perhaps its not as sinister as they aren't interested, but maybe more of a case they are being respectful and are abiding by the profilees wishes..

just a thought

~ee
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 188
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Posted: 5/14/2009 8:21:47 PM
I usually check.
*hangs head in shame*
 icicool
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 189
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Posted: 5/19/2009 11:25:19 PM
I check all the time, in fact I am responsible for all the women that keep shuddering everytime they check their VIEWED me !!

I don't apologize, I can't help it if I am fugly!!


 dustindauncey
Joined: 4/25/2008
Msg: 190
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/20/2009 4:06:36 PM
Yep. I look probably every time I visit POF. It's a useful feature to see more people than what populates in your "My Matches" section.
 Kekun
Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 192
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/28/2009 2:50:54 PM
Sometimes I view them but usually not.I figure if they've viewed me and haven't said anything,then they aren't interested.


I wouldn't assume that. Either the person is not interested indeed, or there is some stuff in the profile that is seen as an eventual dealbreaker, or some restriction, and the viewer has decided to respect that restriction. Also, it can be annoying not having any reply to messages sent after a while, so some people might be just looking and not trying anymore to contact, unless they found a perfect match, then they dare to write again, and zap read deleted
 MsBehavin1959
Joined: 4/4/2009
Msg: 193
Viewed Me..do you check?
Posted: 5/28/2009 3:19:45 PM
I for one love checking out profiles because some of them make me laugh so hard I cry, they are so hilarious So what if someone sees you looking at their profile..does this mean you have to date them, marry them..its kinda like looking at a stranger on the street..they caught your eye and worth another look..nothing more, nothing less. If they are the right one for you, then you connect..its not rocket science..lol Be here, have fun and if you happen to meet someone that sparks your interested say HI
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