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 dispatcher936
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 109
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?Page 5 of 11    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11)
So all you crazy men have a partner!!
 maryrachelle
Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 110
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/10/2007 5:00:09 PM
since we are not allowed to address another poster by name seeing as how i got three post deleted already i have to try to do this without using your name . to the man who said he got hard when i wrote tarred and feather and that you come out to new brunswick often , well sorry but i am not into that stuff at all. and please dont say " oh what stuff i dont know what you mean , i only meant i wanted to go out to dinner " yeah right and i will believe that too.the topic of the thread is why are there so many crazy women in this world well there seem to be crazy men too. * points at a certain poster*
 Sheridan46
Joined: 4/4/2007
Msg: 112
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/10/2007 8:34:23 PM
Its ok, you can use my name Mary. I am not ashamed that you arouse me with your sexy talk. Right now as I am writing this I am drooling all over my freaking keyboard.

Why are there so many crazy women in the world? It's simple ... she lays down for the guy, does basically anything he wants, she cooks, cleans, works, tends to the children, does the gardening, and has to deal with the emotional needs of the kids and husband yet fails to get the same in return. Despite all that the man still comes home drunk smelling of perfume, walks past a pile of laundry sitting at the top of the stairs, leaves his plate on the table instead of washing it, doesn't draw his woman's bath once in awhile, doesn't rub her back, doesn't encourage her to open up in pillow talk, doesn't encourage her to lay on her back and rest while her man kisses and licks her p*ssy, doesn't start her car on cold mornings to insure its nice and warm, he oogles other women publicly, subscribes to porno sites instead of using the funds to insure that his wife has the occasional make-over.

Why are there so many crazy women? Because not all men are like me. Trust me, treat a woman with sincere affection and thoughtfulness and she won't be crazy
 freedome
Joined: 7/28/2006
Msg: 113
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/10/2007 8:46:33 PM
Definately got a bad rap man. Don't blame yourself man. Don't take it so personally.
Chicks are Fked all over the place. James Dean is on. Think about it. Hay just be gratefull you didn't end up taking her out. God knows what she would have done to you if you'all didn't click. People come and go. No big shit. Be well.
 bolariphon
Joined: 2/7/2007
Msg: 114
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/11/2007 9:00:00 AM
It has been my experience that alot of women take advantage of the fact it is acceptable for them to be promiscuous,and keep men on the back burner, it has been done to me. I no longer stand inline and wait or allow that back burner stuff to go on, when i suspect it i leave after i say why. I am worth more than just another flavour of the week. now on the other hand I will not give her crap about having male friends either. but if your gut tells you go , leave do not allow your heart or any other parts controll you.
and there are honest women who are morally upstanding who dont stay on dating sites while dating you exclusively. I dont play around with those who still stay online dating sites.
its a bad sign.
 Neysha61
Joined: 7/31/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 4/11/2007 1:02:04 PM
Crazy
crazy for feeling so lonely .........
crazy for crying, and I'm crazy for trying and I'm craaaaaaaazy ..............

for loving youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 116
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/14/2007 12:35:00 PM
You people sound as if there is something wrong with being crazy . . . or as if "crazy" is the same things as being unkind or stupid.

Men do crazy (read "stupid") stuff every bit as much as do women.
 VargaGirl
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 117
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/14/2007 5:58:09 PM
God.. I have totally gone crazy.

Its frustration, its boredone, its being single and not knowing exactly HOW single.

I told my friends I was going to "DUMP" a guy!... They said... "Don't be stupid, you aren't in a relationship".

It is so hard these days to know if you are IN one! It is so true that a lot of men don't want to get emotionally involved with a woman. But I am thinking there are traits about women that frustrate men too.

Such as: Being paranoid about being exploited emotionally. Fearful of being hurt again. Worried that the sex meant nothing! Or if there was no sex, concerned that the lavishing compliments are a plot to exploit them emotionally to get the sex. Just to be told you arent IN a relationship?

It's often a persons past that makes them appear crazy. It's a defence mechanism. Blame the men that came before you for her "insanity".

I blame the girls before me when a guys behaviour is a obviously motivated by hurt.
 klaasvaakie
Joined: 9/25/2005
Msg: 118
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/14/2007 6:20:10 PM
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?

I dont know !

Changes are if I was a woman, I'd ask " Why are there so many crazy men in this world?"

Funny how song's Lyrics speak to me in strange ways, "An Old man sits in the shade of the thorn tree he says, "these thorns are all that are true
life is suffering, suffering is life,
be happy with the small things that come to you
They will come to you, come to you."
 zeaworld
Joined: 3/10/2007
Msg: 119
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/15/2007 1:34:57 AM
The essence of a woman is creative, life-giving, nurturing, intuitive, emotional, sensitive, receptive, responsive, feeling, giving, loving. Hidden Power. Why must we apologize for being what we are, or explain it? When women are abused, misused, neglected, taken for granted and treated with anything less than the highest regard and respect, which has been going on since the beginning of time, men....the result is what you see today. Not women who are crazy, but women who are doing what is needed to restore a balance between the female and male energy. Tthat means we are re-claiming our power and showing it you. Depending on the situation, it can be uncomfortable for you men, and it is unfamiliar... so the first thing you call something that is different and unfamiliar is...crazy. As in anything, love and understanding is the key.
 rhonda_rotten_box
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 120
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Posted: 4/15/2007 2:09:19 AM
you men make us crazy???
lol

seriously though for every crazy woman there is a crazy man believe me
 Middle Georgia Guy
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 121
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/15/2007 2:18:12 AM
My "crazy woman" left and took everything with her...the pots and pans, dishes, food, clothesline, toilet paper...EVERYTHING! She didn't pay any of the bills for which I had given her money, so my car almost got re-po'd, I lost my home cause she didn't pay the rent and the electric company wants $325 to turn the power on 'cause she never paid the power bill WITH the money I gave her to use!

So I'm fed up...I've moved out of my home town of almost 20 years and I'm hiking to DC...why DC? That's where The Wall is...that represents a time and a place when I knew the rules...I knew who was friends and who weren't...I had people to watch my back instead of stab me in the back...

Crazy? Who is crazy? Maybe me, cause I still love the woman and would take her back in a second...
 OxDrover
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 122
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/15/2007 7:10:07 AM
Georgia guy, I read your profile and the above post, I find it interesting that you are in one breath saying "I still love the woman and would take her back in a second" and in your profile you are saying you are "ready" to apply for another position in a long term relationship. What is WRONG with this picture? Those two statements are mutuallly exclusive--they can't both be true.

I do however, applaud your journey--years ago after my first husband left me with the kids (and also arranged to leave us absolutely destitute) I took my two sons and we made a journey camping across the country for the summer. It was a very healing experience for the three of us. I hope your journey is just as productive. I also hope that you will NOT become involved in any romantic relationship while you are still grieving for the old one, because unfortunately most relationships that are "on the rebound" ultimately fail (not all but most).

Good luck, and God bless you, digest and process your past failed relationship and I also suggest an "emotional autopsy" of any failed relationship--see what went wrong logically--sometimes it is 100/0, sometimes 50/50 failure and sometimes 0/100 or anything in between. Take care and may the wind be at your back and the road rise up to meet you.
 lakelady62ky
Joined: 3/28/2006
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Posted: 4/15/2007 7:15:37 AM
I have that one figured out, in the garden of Eden, the Lord created Eve for Adam, and every since he has been creating a crazy woman for each crazy man. Maybe you have just found more than your share. I know I have of men. Lakelady
 Middle Georgia Guy
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 124
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Posted: 4/16/2007 4:55:53 AM

Georgia guy, I read your profile and the above post, I find it interesting that you are in one breath saying "I still love the woman and would take her back in a second" and in your profile you are saying you are "ready" to apply for another position in a long term relationship. What is WRONG with this picture? Those two statements are mutuallly exclusive--they can't both be true.

I do however, applaud your journey--years ago after my first husband left me with the kids (and also arranged to leave us absolutely destitute) I took my two sons and we made a journey camping across the country for the summer. It was a very healing experience for the three of us. I hope your journey is just as productive. I also hope that you will NOT become involved in any romantic relationship while you are still grieving for the old one, because unfortunately most relationships that are "on the rebound" ultimately fail (not all but most).

Good luck, and God bless you, digest and process your past failed relationship and I also suggest an "emotional autopsy" of any failed relationship--see what went wrong logically--sometimes it is 100/0, sometimes 50/50 failure and sometimes 0/100 or anything in between. Take care and may the wind be at your back and the road rise up to meet you.


I do know what you're saying about an apparent contradiction. I'm still very much going through the "I hate her/I love her" thingy...so if you ask me right this very second...yah, I love her...but ask in about five minutes, that'll change too :) Hope that explains the dichotomy because I do not wanna mislead anyone. Still working on the "emotional autopsy", and since I can't change her or what happened, I'm just looking inward at my part in the breakup. AA teaches me to "change the things I can..." and to me that means changing me as I can't change others OR change the past. And I do know what you're talking about rebound relationships...so I'm putting that on the table.

All in all, thanks much for the wisdom, guidance, advice...in the meantime....

I'm still in Georgia heading North if anyone would like to let me give you some sweat equity in exchange for a room/board and a few dollars on the way North!

Jerry
 OxDrover
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 125
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Posted: 4/16/2007 2:01:50 PM
Jerry, Georgia guy, I am glad that you realize you are still in the grieving process over your lost relationship with this lady. It takes "time" and unfortunately many people, whether the "loss" was a divorce/death until the grief is processed--whether you were the leaver or the leavee--jumping into another relationship will not usually be a successful way to resolve the grief, and the problems will spill over into the new relationship, many times to the extent that it is spoiled, etc etc. from relationship to relationship. If you are familiar with AA you know that you must be at peace with yourself, at peace with your past (both good and bad) before you can move on to have a successful relationship with anyone else.

I hope your trip gives you time and opportunity to process these things so that you can come to peace--get over the I love her/I hate her stage so that you can truly heal. Good luck.
 loyal T
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 126
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Posted: 4/16/2007 2:18:55 PM
OP: I didn't get to read every reply here so I apologize if I repeat the input of the woman sounds like she was giving you an excuse of a date to just hope to get rid of you. I wouldn't bother with contacting her to even find out if that was true. Sounds like she is not practiced at how to communicate effectively with someone when she loses interest. I just would see that it was her way of poorly telling you that she has moved on.
 Middle Georgia Guy
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 129
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/16/2007 4:10:30 PM

Jerry, Georgia guy, I am glad that you realize you are still in the grieving process over your lost relationship with this lady. It takes "time" ....


Used to be a counselor with the Charter system before they shut down....relying alot now on the advice I gave others, but I tell ya, it definitely ain't as easy being on "this side of the desk" :)

It was a common experience for people in broken relationships to just go out and "re-create" the relationship, but with a different name and face...and I definitely don't wanna do that.

So what am I lookin' for right now? A friend...a female friend...I've got tons of guy friends, but they're no fun to go to the movies with and I really don't think either Al or Sammy would look good in a skirt!

Again...thanks for the advice...it's always good to be able to "step outside the picture, stand on the frame" and get another perspective of things!
 beachbum07
Joined: 11/25/2006
Msg: 130
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Posted: 4/16/2007 4:25:32 PM
Thanks for the info, I am sure we all think this at times but when you see it in writing from someone else it is enlightening. One issue then is can we find a permanent partner or is that a thing of the past, due to modern culture and technology.
 Middle Georgia Guy
Joined: 3/25/2007
Msg: 131
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Posted: 4/17/2007 1:42:51 PM
I also wonder right now if i can find a permanent partner? Is she out there? Someone tell me she is and it'll just take time to find her...
 Jen3306
Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 132
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Posted: 4/17/2007 1:59:21 PM
I have met men before that i was totally interested then met em an i did let em know i enjoyed em very much an never heard another word when i really tght there cld be something there . So iund where ure coming froms. Had it the same way with guys that u talk to sev months an few from other sites a few years talk to em then all sudden they get jerky on you .
 Del Monty !
Joined: 3/24/2007
Msg: 133
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Posted: 4/17/2007 2:21:59 PM
AMEN !!! AMEN!!! AMEN!!! Couldn't have put it better myself ! Sometimes we guys just want a sandwich,a cup of coffee, and a little female companionship as a change of pace for an evening.....not the outlandishly ridiculous sounding "OH MY GOD I"M NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANY GUYS RIGHT NOW !!!! " At that point I am thinking to myself.....as I glance at her coffee....."one lump,or two?" LOL !!
 Hugmeister
Joined: 3/17/2006
Msg: 134
Why are there so many crazy women in this world?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:27:08 PM
2 rules to live by: 1. Don't try to understand women. 2. See rule #1

This just happened to me. Got past the e-mail stage with this lady and she called me last Thursday night. Right off the bat, she tells me that she has a cold, is losing her voice, has talked all day and will need for us to speak another time. She says she called because she said that she would and wanted to keep her word. We were on the phone for maybe 2 minutes. So, I say that's fine and that we'll speak when she's feeling better. I don't hear from her so I ping her this morning. She writes back..."I didn't think we had any chemistry. I know that I wasn't feeling well but I have to trust my instincts" That's a crazy woman!
 OxDrover
Joined: 7/20/2006
Msg: 135
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Posted: 4/17/2007 2:33:12 PM
The answer to this question is of course--why are there so many crazy PEOPLE in this world?

Rereading the British philosopher Samuel Johnson lately--hadn't read him since Lit 101, he covers this topic quite nicely in his writings, essays etc. One of his characters is a prince who has NO WISHES--because any time he has a wish, it is fulfilled almost immediately. He has NO NEEDS because everything is taken care of. The prince is--you guessed it, UNhappy with his lot. He and a sister and a merchant escape from this "paradise" and go in search of "happiness." They explore cities, countries, and different groups of people that they perceive SHOULD be happy, and find each of them unhappy about something, dissatisfied with their lot in life, with life itself, mean spirited, greedy, hateful, etc etc.

Our ancestors who were "grubbing for a living" day by day, worrying about having enough to feed their children for the night--much less worrying about having enough to last through the winter didn't "dwell" on their unhappiness with things, they had a goal, they worked toward it until they dropped--get enough food for tonight, then and only then, did they worry about food for next winter and work toward that.

We have none of these basic worries--yet we create "worries" out of our abundance, set unreasonable goals, don't appreciate what we have, raise our expectations to where only Bill Gates could meet them---and then we wonder why most folks are crazy? We expect a woman to work outside the home at a "job" shop, cook, transport kids here and there, the man who goes out to work also, has no connection with his family and loses interest in them--the couple soon become a non-couple and the women try to carry on, recouple, etc. repeat ad nauseum.

I'm not against a woman working outside the home, the point is that no one can be everything to everyone without losing themselves in the process--male or female. Trying to "have everything" that we think we need means we have "nothing that we really need," only possessions and we lose the human needs of mind and soul somewhere in the process. Would make anyone crazy.
 Seavoyage
Joined: 1/18/2007
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Posted: 8/19/2007 10:20:16 AM
I did deal recently with two women who had so much drama more than their mamma could handle probably. That doesn't mean being nuts, but you end up acting nuts. I have no time for that especially if they are past their late 20s. They should know how to behave without going on some weird emotional ride. If you are a child, then I understand otherwise I am not interested.:) Lots of women and men out there seriously need to grow up and get a hold of their emotions and drop the drama.
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