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 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Except for the clitoris, whose only purpose is sexual gratification. Also, it has twice the nerve endings of the penis. :D


we.....llll aaaaactuuuuuaaaallleeeeeeee, there are three other functions of the clitoris less well known :-

1. to test male Intelligence.
2. to test female patience of males looking for it.
3. give sealed section of womens magazines something to write about.

coincidentally OP, has anyone come up with the $4000.00 +$2000.00 ? is there any premium discount? does one have to 'TIP' ?
including VAT?
warranty/guaranty arrangements?
any guild fees?
(para-Legal fees?)
at least for that price supply a range of condoms..... :smile: a cup of tea and a biscuit even?
[for the north americans biscuit = cookie ...well kinda anyways]
 Dodates
Joined: 1/27/2011
Msg: 116
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 6/20/2011 10:06:02 AM
I've recently become fascinated with the idea of an MFM threesome. I'm straight so for me it's really more about how turned-on the woman can get.

I used to think that maybe this would degrading for a woman, but then I heard a "tell all" audio book by Sloane Fox called "Empowerment of a Threesome" where she details what an MFM threesome is like from a woman's perspective. It's interesting that she finds it the opposite of degrading.

Can't wait to try it now!
 Dodates
Joined: 1/27/2011
Msg: 117
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 6/20/2011 4:01:47 PM
Hi M,

I think this actually can be some women's reality, and it's up to her guy to learn how to peel away all the societal programming that makes her feel like she needs to keep her sexuality locked away.

And... I can't disparage anyone who makes a living doing what they love to do, especially if it it's helping others and sharing the knowledge that they've learned.

I say "bring it on!".
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 118
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Posted: 6/20/2011 5:46:07 PM
m_church, don't assume that you speak for all women on this topic (nor any other). I have not done the MFM threesome myself but I can understand the empowering nature of the act.
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 119
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Posted: 6/20/2011 6:45:52 PM
Because I know many people who have done it, and understand the psychology of it. If YOU don't, that's fine, but please don't project your assumptions on me.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 120
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Posted: 6/20/2011 8:34:52 PM
I know women who have done it....and I was involved with some of them....they ALL reported feeling very empowered!

I also know a woman who insists that any male she be in a relationship with accept FFM threesomes! You'd think every guy would jump at that possibility. The reality is most are actually intimidated by it and when it comes down to brass tacks....chicken out!

I have been involved in MFM and FFM/FMF and can say that all were very rewarding for all participants.

As with anything else your own motivations and views will shape the experience.

I'll give you an anecdotal analogy.

Two initially equally successful salespeople hit the sales floor.
One views his customers as marks and himself there to take advantage of them.
The second views his customers as friends whom he is to help and guide in making the best choice for THEM.
The first thinks of themselves as slick and smooth talking, the second as humble and helpful.

Multiple sales cycles down the road....which one do you think feels good about their job? Which one gets the most repeat clients?



You see, if you participated in ANY activity with ill intent, you will likely view that activity in an ill manner as you seem to with most sexual topics discussed on here. On the other hand if you had good will, good intentions and the other participants best interest at heart, your experience might have been more pleasant!

Same goes for those who continue to feel used by sex...they tried to USE sex in exchange for something and didn't get it so they feel used. If they had simply had whatever flavor of sex out of an actual desire to feel pleasure and give pleasure to the other, then they would not feel used no matter what happened to the relationship after....they have the experience and memory!


VVVVVV I'm In sales too!VVVVVVV
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
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Posted: 6/20/2011 8:47:36 PM
Excellent points, jco!

Funny you used that anecdote...I'm a salesperson, type # 2. I love what I do and while I may not get as many initial sales as type # 1, my customers are very loyal and referrals & repeat sales are great. I can't stand slick salespeople so I try not to do that to folks.

Intent, and attitude, are what make or break pretty much everything, right?
 bonniegirl75
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 122
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Posted: 7/28/2011 4:22:49 PM
I was hoping to read some more revealing discussions of mfm threesomes here, instead of all these discussions by people who never have done it.
 T.A.G20
Joined: 7/23/2011
Msg: 123
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Posted: 7/28/2011 4:44:27 PM
Ok personal I can say that sexually I am attracted to the idea. But on a higher level I feel really sick about it cus its in a degrading way. So I can say if its my wife man I could not look at her the same. If it’s just a girlfriend then its like hellyeah (cus I am not going to marry her for sure after that). Plus I know the difference between love and well lust and sex. But at the same time I get a little possessive. I wouldn’t care if my wife showed her body(as in like nudity stuff) but its one of those look but don’t touch things. Its like if it’s my wife you might as well break in to my house and steel from me. cus that is how I’m going to see it and that’s how I will react. In a vary Texas manner. You know they say guys from the south are more prone to fight cus of our sense of respect, pride, and honor. Witch is sad but true. Plus after words she would always be known as the women me and my homeboys either ran a train on or gangbanged. But some guys like that so if you’re a women and that’s your thing then hey to each his own you know.
 TCMAN1954
Joined: 5/19/2007
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Posted: 7/28/2011 5:34:20 PM
you got to quit reading those porn magazines...its starting to effect your dreams
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 125
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Posted: 7/28/2011 7:30:01 PM

I was hoping to read some more revealing discussions of mfm threesomes here, instead of all these discussions by people who never have done it.


That's because these topics get over run by the morality police and the STD patrol...
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 126
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Posted: 7/28/2011 7:45:56 PM

That's because these topics get over run by the morality police and the STD patrol...

Yep, the Moral Police and the POF Disease Posse are active groups, no doubt.

~OT~ To each their own, I'm not built for threesomes that involve me ~ but I'd not tell my SO he's not welcome to participate if he has a need to do so. JMO
 natural88
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 127
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Posted: 7/29/2011 5:48:05 PM
why would a woman want to be shared? especially a married woman. it sounds overwhelming. especially the whole "tag-teaming" thing.
 Darkbutcomely
Joined: 4/20/2011
Msg: 128
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Posted: 7/29/2011 9:57:09 PM

why would a woman want to be shared? especially a married woman. it sounds overwhelming. especially the whole "tag-teaming" thing.


I agree it doesnt sound like good sex to me. It just sounds like she will do anything to please the man she is with. And a really good open marriage will not care where they are as long as they come home. AND they end up with a lot of rule. Just as many as monogamous couples just different rules. STILL rules.
 waxinglyrical
Joined: 7/4/2011
Msg: 129
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 7/29/2011 9:58:05 PM
It's actually something we've discussed (same for FFM). I have no objections.
 tonytemplar
Joined: 5/12/2011
Msg: 130
MFM threesomes and sharing your wife?
Posted: 8/9/2011 12:46:11 PM
anyone interested in doing this?
 lilia4372
Joined: 10/14/2010
Msg: 131
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Posted: 8/20/2011 9:36:12 AM
We've done it and will do it again. Actually it's not really a threesome, after we get to know the guy, we invite him over him and the wife have their fun. Of course there are limits and it is always safe. As for the husband he watches and love it and also when the guy leaves he loves and truly enjoys being second. He's very manly, nicely built and does everything just right for me, however I enjoy experiencing new things and he enjoys sharing that gift with me.

Our experiences don't involve two guys attacking, it's just basically one on one thing. Always looking for new experiences and the right people, we've had some that has failed the attempt but mostly everyone we've met wants to come back and we never see the same guy more then three times.
 maknhistory
Joined: 8/15/2011
Msg: 132
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Posted: 8/20/2011 7:15:42 PM
From a f perspective, I don't think I could share my sig other if in a committed relationship..... not having such at this point-I'm thinking of playing out such fantasies now. I have participated in FMF threesomes before, but never MFM.... which might change in the near future! :)
 want to travel
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Posted: 11/15/2011 11:25:48 AM
I for one find the idea very erotic,and very hot, I do not think I would ever get the chance to do it
sometimes fantasies are far better then reality
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 134
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Posted: 11/15/2011 8:04:20 PM

I used to think that maybe this would degrading for a woman

How could you at any point? lol Would it be degrading for a man to have a threesome with his wife & her gal-pal? In this case, the woman gets two, not one -- she's not losing out, she's gaining. Now, I can obviously see why a woman wouldn't WANT to actually partake, due to jealousy/infidelity issues and all that... but calling it degrading is about the same as calling "doggy style" degrading. A paranoid point of view... which I would assume sometimes would just stem from having issues about sex from the casual perspective in general.
 want to travel
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Posted: 11/16/2011 1:47:43 PM
I think this is the most common fantasy out there, its just that men, do not want to admit it, because they are afraid that they may seem less masculine, and women are afraid that they might be considered to be S..ts
when in reality, a man that can do this, is much more masculine, and self assured , women that can do this are uber feminine, full of confidence and immaginative
 zakone
Joined: 4/18/2011
Msg: 136
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Posted: 11/19/2011 12:15:30 AM
I have no problem with what people do in their sex life...as long as its consentual and dosnt involve animals or children... Then its their buisness.. And i agree, there is deffinatly a difference between love and lust. Love has a component of lust in as it must, but lust contains no (true) love, just gratification, wether it be self or mutual... Not that thats bad either, as long as all parties know the lay of the land and are in agreement.... :)
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 137
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Posted: 11/19/2011 2:47:30 AM

when in reality, a man that can do this, is much more masculine, and self assured , women that can do this are uber feminine, full of confidence and immaginative


Exactly! although there are some who like being humiliated and made to feel inadequate (cuckolds)..most of the HotWife and swinger guys are very confident and so sure of themselves that they are secure seeing or knowing their woman is having fun.

...And they pick up tricks from others and work them into their repertoire ...making them even more capable!
 shinebrightforever
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 138
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Posted: 11/24/2011 9:16:06 PM
I would love to have a mmf so badly
i think its hot and fun and amazing.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
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Posted: 11/26/2011 2:18:47 AM
^^^^ Maybe for you...that certainly doesn't mean that to most of the swingers I know!
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