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 Marmite baby
Joined: 5/19/2007
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I'm not into game playing but until you get to know someone its difficult to guage their privacy levels as you could be ignored as a back off signal.. For me the distancing going on will probably result in my not meeting a guy on here next week. A lovely warm message , sent photo, with a you look lovely (like my mum?) followed by curt, cold replies once we'd agreed to meet.Have made it clear that I would understand if he didn't want to meet. Now one rose gone. I realise that dating is like interviewing, but theres no need for the coldness.Think I waslucky in the past in that partners were real life friends before dating.
I think you have to be wise about whether or not its worth saving a non starter but in an established relationship you have to communicate.
Should add that I've been guilty of getting so far and then dropping people.
Horrible. At least I may be kinder in the future.
 soflnighteagle
Joined: 8/12/2009
Msg: 164
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 9/12/2010 7:11:08 PM
If a woman ignores me it means she is either not interested, or she is a game player. Which ever one it is I can say one thing for certain; "I do not want to have anything to do with her." I think this falls right in line with the whole; "If you want to get a woman interested in you, treat her like dirt." So I guess guys like to be ignored as much as women like to be treated like dirt.
 readthedamnprofile
Joined: 5/5/2010
Msg: 165
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 9/12/2010 7:46:42 PM
Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?

Only if he is stupid. Same thing goes for women that chase after elusive men.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 9/13/2010 9:21:51 PM
The last one that ignored me really got my attention.....that air bag will wake your azz up.
 scorpiomover
Joined: 4/19/2007
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Does ignoring a guy really get his attention?
Posted: 9/14/2010 2:31:43 AM
It DID, when women were fine with being approached by a man who they were ignoring.

With women's lib, along came accusations of sexual harassment of women by men. Now, men don't want to approach women who are ignoring them, in case they are accused of trying to force themselves on women. So now, if a woman WANTS a man to pay attention to her, she HAS to indicate interest.

"With great power comes great responsibility." (Uncle Ben in Spider-Man)
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