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 SweetShaker
Joined: 7/2/2004
Msg: 6
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If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity Page 3 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)
I lost my virginity by force when I was 14.
I would love to have that back.

But, then I slept with my first bf at 14... and would have been quite happy to share it with him. We were together till we were 21... and I have no regrets about that relationship. It probably shouldn't have gone on as long as it did... but I'm not sorry about it.
 Sundown32
Joined: 12/25/2004
Msg: 8
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 4/22/2005 4:07:37 PM
Careful RitzNB, Your feelings betray you ;)
 HAHANOW
Joined: 9/28/2004
Msg: 11
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 4/22/2005 5:14:20 PM
<~~~wonders which husband she would choose!
 redneckgirl133
Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 14
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 4/22/2005 5:55:15 PM
Nopr...I lost my virginity to a man I spent 5 years with (16 to 21 ys old)....I`m glad he was my first...redneckgirl133
 Diggy03
Joined: 4/7/2005
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If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 5/11/2005 7:51:58 AM
how can one reclaim something that is gone especially something so superficial as their vriginity?

If I could go back and change my first partner.... considering what I know now... no I don't think so. I think that's a better question.

Everything happens for a reason. Life is an adventure.... best experienced with childlike abandon!!!
 Diggy03
Joined: 4/7/2005
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If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 5/11/2005 7:55:19 AM
bizie

tag..... your it
 Diggy03
Joined: 4/7/2005
Msg: 30
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 NeoRaijin
Joined: 4/17/2005
Msg: 34
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If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 5/16/2005 8:45:03 PM
Right now, I'd reclaim it. MY ex has been extremely cruel to me and I regret giving her that part of me as shes making me feel she never even wanted it
 redneckgirl133
Joined: 11/18/2004
Msg: 38
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 5/16/2005 9:50:31 PM
NJope...my virginity was given to someone I loved and planned to marry..We dated for 5 years and I`m soooo glad he was my first love and first sexual experience..redneckgirl133 I will always have a place in my heart for him...
 Lookingforasweetone
Joined: 5/15/2005
Msg: 43
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 5/17/2005 10:16:31 AM
HECK YEAH I WOULD!!!! i wouldnt be in as much trouble now lol
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 46
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 5/17/2005 12:59:37 PM
My virginity is so far gone that there is no way in hell it can be reclaimed.

And these ladies may change their tune when they realized that he would, perhaps, suck in bed and have no clue how to bring them to ful pleasure.
 Pandy
Joined: 11/11/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 5/17/2005 1:01:29 PM
^^^^ what the frrost man said.
I don't want to be a virgin, and I don't want to sleep with one.
 pavara1
Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 49
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If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 5/23/2005 12:13:36 PM
Well I didn't exactly plan it this way but I'm glad it's how it worked out. I lost it on my wedding night.
 Goldengirl2
Joined: 10/30/2003
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If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 7/22/2005 2:16:02 PM
HELL NO!!! At age 34 with 2 kids I don't want to be telling a guy "oh honey, I really want to but I'm scared cuz I'm still a virgin"........lol I'm proud of my life's experiences..... which have moulded me in the woman I am today.
 dmcr71
Joined: 5/21/2005
Msg: 57
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 7/22/2005 4:31:48 PM
are you kidding????????? NO WAY!
 Melissanicole
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 66
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 7/23/2005 7:07:19 PM
tough question.... If I could keep my sexual maturity and confidence- yes, otherwise- no... Ill settle for being de-flowered, haha
 bucsgirl
Joined: 3/2/2005
Msg: 67
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 7/23/2005 7:07:46 PM
I sold my virginity on EBay!! Oh wait, no, that was the Virgin Mary cheese sandwich!! They didn't have EBay back then....darn! Would have liked to have seen the bidding on that!! hahaha
 d-belle
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 68
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 7/23/2005 7:12:39 PM
I wish I had given it freely instead of being pressured into it. But again, it's part of who and what I am today.
 strongglad
Joined: 8/28/2005
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If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 9/1/2005 11:23:59 PM
i sure would in fact that was one of my greatest regrets. just think how amazing it would be to say to my wife on our wedding night that i was saving my self for you even before i knew you. what an amazing wedding gift. and now i will never be able to give her that.
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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 sleepless_in_Newmarket
Joined: 7/18/2005
Msg: 95
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 9/12/2005 9:41:02 PM
Yes, I would like to reclaim my virginity. That prostitute took me for $160. I could use that money right about now.
 Songblaze
Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 101
If you could do it over again would you reclaim your virginity
Posted: 9/15/2005 10:16:09 AM
I wouldn't.

I chose the man, I chose the place, and I got exactly what I'd hoped for...

He was very sweet, very gentle, /very/ good. I was very shy on the topic of sex, and had never had an orgasm before then. I learned a lot about what I like in bed that night...and the nights following...

I didn't love him, but I have no regrets whatsoever. He and I talk occasionally; thinking back to that August in the Bay Area, I'll admit I occasionally find myself envying his wife.

(He was single at the time, on the rebound actually - I think we were good for each other. Both of us ended up in serious relationships very shortly after our pleasant little interlude together...he got married to the girl he met a month after I left)
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