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Joined: 6/1/2006
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Confidence in eyes ~ grace in pace and glowing flair ... in the air (I would guess)
Joined: 8/14/2005
Msg: 74
What do men really find SEXY?
Posted: 10/11/2006 3:17:52 PM
A tv commercial just reminded me that I like the look of french manicured nails wrapped around my member. Toes look good too but not wrapped around me... well maybe, dont know on that one. I will have to do some more research.
Joined: 8/16/2005
Msg: 77
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Posted: 10/11/2006 10:41:20 PM
MY boyfriend says he finds me so sexy because I seem so oblivious to my own sex appeal...Im just glad that whatever Im doing unintentionally makes him so happy
Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 80
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Posted: 10/13/2006 4:30:39 PM
i think men find the honesty and sincerity of women to be sexy

oh, and pretty much any woman just being themselves as well.............

what is it that they say, self presentation is inialation (sp)
Joined: 2/7/2006
Msg: 85
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Posted: 10/14/2006 1:28:06 PM
I agree... sexiness is an attitude... don't really matter what you have on it is how you portray yourself. Some women look hot in a hat some without, it ain't the clothes ladies it you that makes them look sexy.
Joined: 5/14/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 10/15/2006 3:28:59 PM
smile that is what I find sexy
Joined: 8/7/2006
Msg: 90
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Posted: 10/15/2006 5:00:03 PM
I like it when the woman feels good about themselves and not always worried about their looks. That is sexy! no matter what size, shape or what ever.

Oh and No panty lines lol....
Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 93
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Posted: 10/16/2006 6:56:56 PM
not all of us find the same thing sexy.One thing I find very unattractive is a stuck up attitude, i dont care what she looks like.there is nothing more euphoric than a woman who walkss by you, and when you smile at her, she smiles back.the ones that look you up and down, no expression, and then look away after youve said hi...very unattractive but thats just me
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 95
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Posted: 10/16/2006 8:15:05 PM
For me its a womans attitude on how they appear along with a scent that will turn my head.
Just a mere quality perfume is enought to send me.
Joined: 5/13/2006
Msg: 96
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Posted: 10/17/2006 9:50:33 AM
I find the eyes and lips to be very seductive eyes, with full natural lips (No injections please!). A warm personality, approachable and intellegent....Nice smooth legs in heels and short skirt is tre sexy...Cleavage is nice when done in a tasteful manner. Tight jeans and a short top with belly showing can be very sexy as well when done the right way. I find so many things that are sexy about women...the way she smells, her hair and the way is falls to her shoulders, her laugh, her voice....I could go on and on and on........
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 97
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Posted: 10/29/2006 12:38:54 AM
Among men horny, and sexy, are almost the same word. The girl who enjoys sex so much that even lousy lovers are reasonably good lovers.

Preening and fashion is just the wrapping paper. HOrny is whats really sexy.
Joined: 5/9/2006
Msg: 100
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Posted: 11/6/2006 4:16:51 AM

Forget what men find sexy. Thats horny horny and horny

Its what men DONT find sexy thats important.

The absoloute turn offs , in order of importance are

1/ The woman who hates sex. And there are plenty of em. Plenty. You hear them talking every day. Griping about pick up lines. Griping about sexon th first date. Gripign about men who want sex. ALL of these things are garanteed to give a woman a worse repuatin that the skankiest of sluts.

2/ The overdressed heyna. The glamour beech. Totally caranky if he bf isn't just so . A relaitonship wrecker as well as a sex wrecker.

3/ The wedding addict. To her sex is only tolereated as a necessarly trail of marriage. She GETS maried. She doesnt love or marry a man. The man is a fashion accessory at the weddding.
Joined: 1/1/2006
Msg: 104
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Posted: 4/24/2007 8:44:45 AM
“hmm This is a great question because everyone should have a different response...

A gorgeous smile, amazing eyes, hair long enough to pull, an uncovered neck, an athletic body, slightly thick thighs.

A girl that likes to hug, cuddle, kiss all night.

Comfy clothes, hoodies, sweats, PJs, thongs showing, mildly revealing tops.

Girls on motorcycles, girls who arent afraid to get dirty, a girl willing to try anything once, a girl that isnt afraid to be herself and loud in bed.

Someone who is honest, someone who doesnt have huge jealousy issues, someone who can see beyond whats in front of her, someone who wants to love and be loved.


This is what the description of the ideal perfect male specimen, right there...

My biggest gripe about what men find sexy, is that most women have all of those qualities however, I've seen more often than not, the nices guy walking out of the bar with the most expensive, tightest girl rather than the pudgy chick sitting off to the side enjoying her drink and girl company. I hear often how much a guy likes a girl with confidence and attitude (not the stuck up kind but the kind where she won't let herself be bullied/pushed around), wears clothing that suits her body type and wears reasonable amounts of make up that's not classified as combate ready camofluash, has a pretty smile and a reasonable head on her shoulder. It's not hard to find to them, honest. Even if it means looking through some extra pounds, those women are out there. Unfortunately, it seems like more of the athletic, gym scholars and model type women are the picks of the litter.

Looks are reguraded as less than personality, but on the street looks definately dominate the two. I love you guys though. There's just something about seeing a guy just about to trip over his own feet over a gal that brings a smile to my face... wither they've made an ass of themselves or not. The whole attraction process (looking on from affar) can be quiet entertaining most of the time.

There are great guys out there who actually do mean what they say (and I believe the comments and opinions here are genuine) so it's just a matter of sitting back being patient and letting the right one walk your way.
Joined: 2/17/2007
Msg: 107
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Posted: 8/30/2007 3:19:12 PM
well i'm a t*t and leg man myself. big boobs are the best. a great pair of thighs complimented with a miniskirt. she should wear a top that accents her boobs but still leaving something to the imagination. and long hair on women is so feminine. but no women that work mans jobs or are into boxing (a mans sport) or martial arts training. and please god no bodybuilders. female bodybuilders are down right ugly.

Joined: 8/25/2007
Msg: 108
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Posted: 12/12/2007 12:56:26 PM
What do I personally find sexy?
Well, a beautiful, smart, strong woman, who isnt afraid to ride or ride on the back of a Harley, is sexy to me. And for some reason a woman in spike heels, jeans, and a t-shirt makes my blood boil, and on a more intimate note, sexy undergarments are wayyyyyyyyyyy HOT! lol


Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 109
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Posted: 12/15/2007 1:06:00 PM
I am so confused and would like to know. What do men really find sexy? Ponytails and ballcaps? Freckles? Cleavage busting through or leaving something to the imagination? Or is it really attitude. I have been told so many times so many things that I can't tell anymore truth from a come on. So, clear this up for me............
Ok then. It's certainly atitude far more than looks.
Among men sexy, and horny, are pretty much the one word. The woman who WANTS sex is sexy.

If you take that one step further the woman who desperately wants sex is desperate and dateless. Thats something of a turn off but nowhere near as bad as a woman who wants nothing to do with sex.

Somebody mentined confidence. Absoloutely. The woman who's desperate doesn't measure up to the woman who wants to get laid and is sure she is going to get laid. This one has an interesting backfire among happily married women. They are getting plenty from their husbands and they are so comfortable with their bodies, and themselves that it turns on other men and they sometimes have to politely tell these guys the time of day.
This is the kind of women that you can ask in a bar "wanna f%^& love" and the answer will be, "No thanks. Just had one."

And step one , attitude, affects step two, behaviour.

The horny, comfortable, confident woman will sit on a guys lap even when there is a chair available because she's more comfortable there.
Women often greet with a kiss or hug. Sexy women greet all guys, not just their boyfriends, the same way. They avoid the unwanted attentions of, well meaning , romeos by chatting about their boyfriends routinely. I used to work with a happily married women like that. I knew all of her husbands sex and sleep habits after a year, although I never met the guy.

She's also more comfortable wearing sexy clothing and isn't wearing skirts that are too short for her comfort zone so she spend the whole day tugging down hemlines. It's not a just mater of wearing sexy clothing. It's how it's worn.

Appearance and decoration are both subtle and a minor afffair. EG I know two grannies who's choice of underwear is satin g strings. But not to make themselves look sexy. They ridemotorcycles and find that satin g strings prevent the old numb bum when riding a thousand kays in a day.

I've known many many girls who have drawn the unwanted attention from amorous males because thier clothing has positively screamed "come hither and f%&*^ me, even when sex was the last thing on their minds.

In the looks department long hair generally looks sexier than short hair. How its worn is not a big deal. And some make up is better than no make up, but , once again dont overdo it.

In the clothing department the rule of thumb is that flesh is sexy. That can range from short skirts, to plunging necklines to bare middrifts. Tight is usualy listed as sexy too but, at a personal level, I prefer loose when the girl is actualy in my arms. Far easier to feel her up and undress her.
Joined: 9/26/2007
Msg: 111
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Posted: 12/30/2007 4:14:58 AM
It's chemical silly. What a man may find sexy on one woman may not be sexy on another. Sexy ain't the problem. That man that chased you all those years, you know the one that just was not for you; He was the one that found you sexy. Most likly you were finding some other man sexy and was after him. Women always want what they think they can't have. heard a lot of wemen take about that guy who chased them all the time through there 20 but just didnot turn her on but now it's a difference story. It's all in the hormones and eyes. Men (good men) need to be needed all he time not just when it 's convenant. It's hard for a woman to be sexy when they don't really like men to start with. Your mother should not have taugh you that the only thing men wants to get in your pants. No we want the same as women. To love and be loved. Kevin
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 112
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Posted: 7/14/2008 10:00:16 AM

Ricandrillsgt says....

no we aren't all taken. I agree with the person that said a woman has to feel sexy about herself. (That is in or out of the bedroom) Style, class, brains, and a great body is a dangerous combo. ..finding someone that deserves it....different story.

So true..............................
Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 114
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Posted: 7/15/2008 7:27:30 PM
A complex answer to say the least........ There is a variety of "sexiness" so to speak. I have know women who are sexy as hell in a ball cap and ponytail and I have known some who are sexy in a elegant dress. It is all about attitude. You see, we all have our opinion on what we like to look at but all men love a confident woman--that is not to say a stuck up bi**& but a woman who has class and knows she has it. It is an air you have. I have known so many beautiful women yet they werent sexy.....and I have know women that just have that something we guys love........
 Capt Lost
Joined: 2/11/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 8/12/2008 7:54:27 PM
Ok this is like a question your mate may ask and there is no good answer for... your in trouble no matter the answer, even if you abstain from answering it, you are wrong.

But if I must say I would have to say Curvy Long Dark Hair Dark eyes Tall Intelligent, is her own person, proud to be a woman.

But on a realistic side, and I don't have a mate. Lol. They're many things that make a woman sexy, her voice, choice of words, giggles, the way she walks, the way she sits, maybe as simple as the way takes a sip of something... I dont think you can really say what in one person you would like because they're so many things that can turn your head and make you smile at the beauty of a woman.
Joined: 12/15/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2009 9:23:33 AM
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Posted: 1/30/2010 3:00:29 PM
nice face
nice thighs
Joined: 9/29/2009
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Posted: 2/2/2011 12:38:36 AM

Girl next door types.
Definitely NOT girls who dress like pornstars.

Yeah, that. Also, a new level of sexy would be if the girl actually had the slightest bit of interest in me, that would be a new one...
Joined: 2/17/2011
Msg: 119
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Posted: 8/22/2011 2:42:11 AM
A woman who is confident and knowes what she wants and not affrade to ask for it or just go after it is sexy as hell
Joined: 2/17/2011
Msg: 120
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Posted: 11/7/2011 11:16:31 AM
I like a lil smile pritty eyes bercause eyes don't lie , a lil tit peeking out, a woman who is not totaly skin and bone , woman who is not affrade to go after a man sexualy
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