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 disaronno amaretto
Joined: 12/3/2006
Msg: 31
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O.P: Did you just write "fag"? tis-tis
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 4/12/2007 1:06:18 PM

why do women want a guy that shaves all his body hair?? and looks like a dolphin??
Not all women do, so please, don't pitch us all into the same catagory.

I love hairy men, and their body hair can be very sensitive and fun to explore.

By the same token, I may shave my armpits and legs, but I do that for me, not you. The buck stops there, buddy. If someone is so fruited out over a few secondary hairs, they are welcome to move on.

Be yourself.
Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 33
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Posted: 4/12/2007 2:35:18 PM
#1 - a metrosexual is not a fag, a fag is slang for a homosexual or a cigarette, depending on where you live.

#2 - personally, I don't want a completely shaved man, nicely trimmed around the penis is fine. I don't want to be choking on hair if I'm giving oral.

#3 - if a man was completely shaved, wouldn't bother me. everyone has their own idea of beauty and if he liked himself that way, why shouldn't I?
Joined: 3/30/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 4/12/2007 3:01:18 PM
It's a good thing we're all unique individuals! We're not all painted with the same brush and we don't all have the same preferences in what physical traits we desire in the opposite sex. I've had boyfriends that had absolutely no hair on their torso/back except for a few strands around their nipples, and my last boyfriend was hairy ALL over. While that was a new surprise, it wasn't a turnoff and I never would have dreamed of asking him to shave/wax. The hair (or lack thereof) doesn't make the person. Just keep yourself out there, meeting women, and the right woman will eventually come along, who will like/love you and your physical traits just the way you are.
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 4/12/2007 3:22:07 PM
If a girl asked me to completly shave my body Id be "check please"

Sorry but people are social creatures. We live in a society. Societies have norms. Norms, in the case of gender, tend to reinforce natural differences between men and women. Men are stronger, the societal norm is that men be stronger etc. This leads into body hair as well. Since men naturally have more hair, society expects that men... well... have more hair.

Is this good or bad? I think its neither. Its not something nessesarily to rebel against, nor adhere to as if it was set in stone. Its alot easier to go along with society and not be a "freak", so wisdom would have it that guys not shaving and girls shaving would be the best choice for each respective gender. But hey, do what you like, a dolphin man isnt going to harm me, nor a sasquatch woman. Just dont force me to do either, I'll make up my own mind thanks.
Joined: 3/9/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 4/13/2007 11:58:00 PM
Ok to all the ladies who dont like it when a guy has alot of hair on thier body.

What would you do if you met a guy and started to date him, and then after a while you found out he was kinda hairy? Would you just kick him to the curb?

Also, you say that guys who have back hair, its a turn off to you. Well the last time i check'ed my arms are only so flexable. And I dont plan on asking any one of my male friends to shave my back lol. Plus, I've looked into doing the laser hair removal, it was about 800$ to get your back done. And its not even permanent untill the 4th or 5th treatment. So if its that big of a deal, why dont you shave the guys back for him????????????

Plus!!!!! are you still going to be telling said guy,to shave his back or legs when he is 40 or 50 years old?
 disaronno amaretto
Joined: 12/3/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 4/14/2007 9:46:50 AM
^^^Will you be wanting your wife to shave HER legs at 40 or 50?
Joined: 3/19/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 4/14/2007 10:36:19 AM
I myself don't have any body hair.( except in the usual places) but get real ladies. Most men have body hair. Thats one thing that seperates men from women. My advice is, if you want someone who is nice and smooth all over.......... date a woman!
Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 39
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Posted: 4/14/2007 1:12:40 PM
OP, I agree with you. I'd never expect a man to shave anywhere below his neck. This whole hairless fad has gone way overboard, imo. To me men without bodyhair look odd. There are some racial groups that naturally have less or even no body hair, so the women who want bare men should date Mexicans or Asians,

Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 40
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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:46:15 PM
I ain't into dolphins baby!!

Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 41
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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:50:03 PM

I love hairy men, and their body hair can be very sensitive and fun to explore.
By the same token, I may shave my armpits and legs, but I do that for me, not you. The buck stops there, buddy. If someone is so fruited out over a few secondary hairs, they are welcome to move on.
Be yourself.

Exactly! It's more important to me *who* he is, not if he has hair or not...if he happens to have a hairy chest, then it's fun to play with - and yes, even back hair! And if his chest isn't hairy, it can still be fun to play with...the only thing is that *he* has to be the right one I want to play with ;)
 A.K.A. Sweetgin
Joined: 12/19/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:52:57 PM
I think the only time no hair is nice when it has fallen out naturally or was just never there to begin with.

I think the sharp little prickles on a man's chest or groin is just to weird, and chaffy ( new word)
I want to be with a man.....not a groomed super dude.
This new metro sexual breed does nothing for me at all.
Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:11:07 AM
john if you dont think we grow hair as thick then you have never seen a woman's pits or legs unshaven. besides if there are all these wonderful convenient things we can do then why cant you do it too. and by the way i have to shave my pits and legs everyday so you will get no sympathy from me.there are products now that a man can put on his face and it doesnt sting or burn at all. its even in the mens section so you dont have to feel all wierd buying out of the women's products. as for waxing , have you ever tried it? i have and it was INCREDIBLY painful.
Joined: 9/11/2005
Msg: 44
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Posted: 4/15/2007 9:48:48 AM
Msg 48 - compare the size of your face with the amount of skin to be shaved on legs, underarms, and elsewhere on a woman...there's no comparison. Also, nothing is stopping a guy from waxing his beard rather than shaving it. Not to mention that some women, like me, don't use nair or waxing; we do the razor thing - every day. And you obviously haven't inpected women much, as some can grow leg hair thicker and coarser than a guy's...As for a guy, he's *supposed* to have hair on his chest, back, stomach, and sometimes butt...geez, if I wanted a totally smooth body I'd go for women! And no, I'm not into women.
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 45
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:10:27 AM
So if we use the argument that men are "supposed" to have hair on their face, back, legs and the like. How is that argument different when it comes to women? If we werent "supposed" to have hair on our legs, underarms or genitals, then it wouldnt grow there. If a guy is "hairy" and I kick him to the curb because of it, I would have to them make the assumption that I am not truly attracted to that person and hair is probably not the only potential deal breaker in the long run, most likely just a convenient excuse. I will say to these people that say that they are gagging or choking up a hair ball, please! Try not to be so overdramatic! If that is all it takes in a relationship to make you run, you may want to examine your priorities of what is really important. You know like when she has stretch marks from pregnancy and nursing, or when he has a scar from some type of surgery or accident, what then?
And to all of you that say having pubic hair is dirty and gross....Wow! Just Wow!
Joined: 4/5/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:13:41 AM
Ok here I go I know some people are going to dog the daylights out of me for this one, but here it goes anyway. For years I have shaved my chest, stomach, and well other regioins, and since I started weight lifting I am going to go back to shaving my legs and underarms. You know it grosses some people out, but hey to each his own. Body hair on women well I know there is only one place where I would prefer women to have ahir if they had any but hey thats me, and to each his own.
Joined: 5/28/2006
Msg: 47
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:59:15 AM
I prefer men to have body hair. In my opinion, when a man has hair, he appears to be more "manly?" then his male counterparts. Although I am not very fond of back hair, its all part of the package. :D
Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 8/21/2007 1:35:43 PM
I have no problem with body hair......well I am not all that keen on gorilla types though I must admit. Alot of women hate it I know. Narrow-minded and let them go on their way.
Joined: 8/4/2007
Msg: 49
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Posted: 8/21/2007 2:00:33 PM
a man with no hair would turn me off....i am not a lesbian and yes i agree that that is what a man is about....and no i cannot stand metrosexuals...they should just go all the way and admit they are gay
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Posted: 8/21/2007 6:05:45 PM
The hairier the better.

And yes, some women have more hair than men, thicker hair, etc. It's part of a medical condition.
Joined: 5/29/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 9/22/2007 2:23:10 PM
lol body hair...
i dont know if i am ressurrecting this thread or not.. but here goes..

we live in modern times where grooming is necessary...
to say shaving/waxing is gross or w/e is well.. kinda old fashioned to say the least.
metrosexual is a very very broad term...

i am surprised to see that there are some women out there that like body hair.. weird..
Joined: 6/29/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 9/22/2007 2:28:01 PM
I love the analogies some of you have made...really made laugh...

OP with your metrosexual fag that looks like a dolphin...haha. And the never ending forrest comment, that was funny too...

Petting of the dog? Hahaha...

Hair and fur are quite different. Fur is nicer to pat than hair. My old man has a hairy back. I'm a dude and I think it's gross. If I ever get that way I'm waxing for sure.

Besides, think of all the hot women in a salon...yikes
 Winter Sparkle
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 9/22/2007 2:58:47 PM
I love running my hands over a furry man.
Heck I love them non-furry too.

I love them all! :)
Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 55
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Posted: 9/22/2007 4:26:53 PM

I love running my hands over a furry man.

nothing wrong with furry guys
Joined: 5/22/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 9/22/2007 5:29:47 PM
I'm not buying the "women have to, so why shouldn't men" answer. Women do a lot of things we wouldn't want men to do. Me, anyway. I don't want a man who gets mani's & pedi's or wears make-up. I don't want him to use a lot of hair product or wax his eyebrows, and certainly I don't want him to wear high heels!

I think men are supposed to have some body hair. I have my preferences like everybody else does, and OP, for some women that preference is a lot of hair. If you are having trouble getting women, it is't because you have body hair. Look a little deeper.
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