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Joined: 9/12/2007
Msg: 57
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Personally I love my man hairy, but he knows exactly where I don't like it!
Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 58
body hair
Posted: 9/22/2007 7:19:27 PM

Personally I love my man hairy, but he knows exactly where I don't like it!

Ummm would that be the forehead???
Joined: 6/23/2007
Msg: 59
body hair
Posted: 9/23/2007 12:58:17 PM
How about a woman that shaves her head?? Would you like that?? Nothing wrong with a metrosexual that takes care of himself. Damn no metro in my city.
Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 9/23/2007 1:17:48 PM
Nothing wrong with a little body hair, in my opinion - I like a man who wears it well, within reason of course. :P I also like the clean-shaven men. A hairy, or clean-shaven man, does not a good man make. :P

It does take a bit of an effort when you get into the body shaving I can tell ya. We're talking about some difficult angles, and delicate areas here! :P But, for a guy who appreciates it, I don't mind. One guy returned the favor, as a fun change, and a show of support, and that was great! :P

Not all of us hate it man, don't worry. Good grooming can be important, and preferences are just that - preferences! Don't worry, keep on fishin'. :)
Joined: 7/28/2007
Msg: 63
body hair
Posted: 9/28/2007 12:40:52 PM
It is a matter of personal preference.. You can't generalize. Hair I find:
Attractive: chest hair, arms, legs.
Now the turn off is: back, private areas.
Facial hair would depend on the person that it is on..
Joined: 4/28/2007
Msg: 64
body hair
Posted: 9/28/2007 1:03:02 PM
Hair is sick and gets caught in your throat.
Joined: 9/22/2005
Msg: 65
body hair
Posted: 10/4/2007 7:31:54 AM
The question was asked well what if it were hair on a lady rather than a man,bet you wouldn't like it then.Hmmmm,All my first years of dating all woman I was with or saw in a "magazine",were alot more natural ,and in "private areas" it was great,then it hit the 80's and somewhere in the 80's almost all the ladies shaved it all off or most off,men thought it a fad,but nooooo............I miss the old days,"oh,but its cleaner now",thats a myth,its just that 100% gone is so pediphile ,yuk,yuk,yuk or sometimes ugly,but I still would find a way to enjoy it,I'm not shallow as many here are,the "say one thing wrong,or do one thing wrong,and your gone" people.Some guys really enjoy natural,I don't want chubaka,and it depends there is hairy and then theres "hairy" and soft hair is preferred,and please understand I like really ladies all cleaned up too.When asked it about me,I want to know what my lady likes,thats who I am trying to please,I attempt to please them if I can as long as I'm not embarrassed in public,please,please,no Mike Brady perms,I draw the line,lol,relationships are give and take,you get the sweet with the sour,never ,never,never be with one that won't bend any for you,one cannot love everything about a person,thats just not realistic or natural
Joined: 9/4/2007
Msg: 66
body hair
Posted: 10/4/2007 7:39:55 AM
I say~ do your own thing~ some people like hairy beasts and others do not so, if you happen to have the compatibility in that dept., then .. and that is one less idiosyncrasy to contend with. Can i get an AMEN
Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 67
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Posted: 10/4/2007 8:44:41 AM
Everyone has their own tastes. It's not an "all woman" thing. For every woman that I have meet that will just not touch a man with body hair, I have met one that would never touch a hairless man. I do guess you do say this because you have had bad luck in pursuing ladies that just dont like body hair. This is no reason to go calling men that shave "metrosexual fag dolphins". It would be as silly as calling all hairy men "neardental ape rugs".

In the end, you cant please everyone all the time. I'd suggest you just try to please yourself. I shave my body, not for anyone. I do it for myself. I feel fresher when I shave, and I find it easier to keep my body clean while shaved. Not to mention women don't go coughing hairs when I'm shaved, nor do I kiss them to have my own hair passed on to me... eewwwk....

Ironic is that i read some ladies say that they like men without hair in their privates but hair in their legs, arms and chest. I find that looks very strange and out of balance, I would, if anything, trim my privates and shave everything else.

Anyways, if you don't want to shave, don't. There are women out there that love very hairy men. My mother is one... unfortunately, I suffer the consequences... :P
Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 68
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Posted: 10/5/2007 4:03:09 AM
[Yea many take this to extremes, I still remember the guy who I saw, shirtless washing his car with a full body of 2-day growth, looked like a friggin porcupine.

Talk about a woman not wanting to get next to the pin cushin. The women I know would prefer 'soft' hair to an 'abrasive scouring pad'

Yes, watch what you wish for.

Ladies, I love your hair...
 Asian Invasion
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 69
body hair
Posted: 11/25/2007 1:52:11 PM
I do prefer fully-evolved human-being, chest hairs are absoutely fine, that's pretty much about it!

This is 21st century. Grooming is a norm and etiqutte... It is a big turn off to see some men use their faces as an art exhibition!!!
 Asian Invasion
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 11/25/2007 4:10:02 PM

shaving his legs and ass??

Well, not the legs, but at least, the ass! I like blueberries the natural way, not on his butt!!!
Joined: 10/16/2007
Msg: 71
body hair
Posted: 11/26/2007 9:04:58 AM
I am in the middle with respect to the amount of body hair that I have. But once I knew a woman who hated to touch my back because there is some hair there. For some reason she found it very repulsive, and it was very disconcerting to see a flicker of disgust flash over the face of your partner while making love.

Other threads have addressed this issue, but I am fine with women who have body hair. The uniqueness is intriguing.

Joined: 9/27/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 11/26/2007 9:21:10 AM

no i'm not. besides, i do enough shaving of my face,neck and scalp. and theoretically, if i did dip myself in hair remover, it would grow back thicker and darker, then eventually i'd have to do it every day. and i'm not that vain so i refuse to spend that much time in the bathroom.

sorry but im going to have to correct you.
there are NO scientific facts that being waxed or using hair remover will make it grow back thicker.
people usually think shaving also makes it grow back thicker - reasoning?- when shave you are cutting the hair in a blunt fashion meaning when it grows it LOOKS thicker but actually doesnt grow thicker.
and using wax can retard the hair follicle...having the hair either grow back thinner or not grow back at it would actually be the reverse..
anyways unless your the next wolf man..
i like a guy with some hair.
....on the chest etc..and i find waxing men horribly disgusting..after doing PLENTY of special areas on men..i could tell you a handful of horror stories..
so thinking that some poor woman..*me?* would have to go through waxing these guys..
i think men should keep hair in most parts..
Joined: 6/26/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 11/26/2007 9:27:53 AM
I grew up with a Native American father, so body hair on a guy freaks me out. My dad can't even grow a beard and doesn't have chest hair.

Excessive body hair isn't a deal breaker for me, but I do appreciate it when a guy keeps himself neat and trimmed. As far as what I personally prefer the less hair the better. I like to lick skin, not hack up hair balls. A little hair on the legs is nice, but anywhere else is just annoying to me.
Joined: 8/14/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 11/26/2007 12:34:31 PM
i can see an opportunity for 'couple time' taking turns with the razor: "you do me first."
 Asian Invasion
Joined: 10/14/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 11/26/2007 2:36:33 PM

i can see an opportunity for 'couple time' taking turns with the razor: "you do me first."

I (as a female) must insist, after
Joined: 10/21/2007
Msg: 76
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Posted: 11/26/2007 2:47:09 PM
I DO NOT like a guy that shaves everything... as a matter of fact I don't like a guy that shaves ANYTHING! A lil trimming down south is cool... but I prefer my man to have a lil hair... that way I feel like I'm not molesting a 12 yr old boy! LOL JMO :) I love a manly man!!!
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 77
body hair
Posted: 11/26/2007 5:41:24 PM
running fingers thru curly locks on your head is one thing.

Trying to run the palm of your hand over a hairy back is quite another...

NO BODY appreciates hair stuck between the teeth from trying to nibble on a chest, neck, back or butt.

and while we are on the subject. Brows that stick out 1.5 inches from your forehead isn't pleasant. Nor is the birds nest growing in your ear. And nose hairs are just gross.

I'm surprised you'd ask this question. EVERYONE knows that men are visual creatures. You are all about the 'pretty, well built'....yada yada yada.

If you can be turned off by a woman's weight....I'm thinking we can be turned off by excess body hair.
 homer j simpson
Joined: 11/18/2007
Msg: 78
body hair
Posted: 11/26/2007 8:47:51 PM

My dad can't even grow a beard and doesn't have chest hair.

Your dad and I share the same affliction or luck depending on how you look at it. I can probably count the number of hairs on my chest (it's more than 10 if you are wondering) and I can't grow a beard for the life of me. I actually thought about using Rogaine to grow a beard at one time in my life ... LOL. If I shave what ever facial hair I have and wear a truckers hat, I can easily pass off for a high school kid which is why I still get carded at bars from time to time. I've also met more girls than I can count who have more arm hair than I have. Luckily I have hair on my leg though. My brother actually has a hairless leg. Apparently this isn't that uncommon among Asians.
Joined: 12/27/2006
Msg: 79
body hair
Posted: 11/26/2007 10:48:37 PM
chest hair and stomach hair is okay, so far as I have been told.

A tiny tuft on your lower back..........meh,

the twigs and berries, well either shaved or trimmed and definitely clean.

Upper back hair yuck, so I hear. If you got back hair gett'r waxed shaved or whatever just gett'r done.
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 80
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Posted: 11/27/2007 9:59:04 AM

the twigs and berries,

Joined: 12/17/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 11/27/2007 10:10:05 AM
Well this is interesting, I have never wanted to ask a guy to shave his hair! What kind of girls you hanging out with itsmeaaron? J/k some women like it but not by any means ALL women that is silly to assume! I know a lot of athletes who shave their bodies and it does not mean they are metrosexual!! You are full of generalizations!!!
Joined: 10/28/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 11/27/2007 1:09:43 PM
Holy cow......I can't help what testosterone does to one's body......I might have a few sparse hairs growing on my shoulder blades, a little bit around my lower back and buttocks, some chest hair and some tummy hair and my legs are hairy....Iam sorry, iam not going to shave those body parts, if she can't accept what nature or our DNA structure does to our bodies....well they aren't the kind of woman i won't to be involved with
body hair
Posted: 11/27/2007 3:31:21 PM

If I ever was with a female and she wasnt fully shaved I would pull my pants up and run like a dog.

And you wonder why you're single??
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