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 platypus_man
Joined: 8/29/2007
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Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?Page 5 of 13    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13)

I just think the right body that has been well maintained will hold a mans interest, if it's a plain bra and panties as much as if it's a lacy, fancy schmancy attire with all the trimmings.

Right. A good, rare steak by itself on a board will be still be o.k.. But wouldn't you rather have it with a fine bottle of wine, salad, potatoes, and desert? Maybe onions and mushrooms too? Which restaurant will you be more likely to go back to? The 'plain' one, or the one with 'all the trimmings'? Of course, this is one reason why women want to get married, to prevent the choice of 'restaurants'. Especially since those who are 'well maintained' are the rare exception rather than the rule.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 192
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 1/28/2011 2:26:02 PM

the right body that has been well maintained will hold a mans interest, if it's a plain bra and panties as much as if it's a lacy, fancy schmancy attire with all the trimmings.


The "right body" can flatter a burlap bag, just as the bag can make her look gooooood.


I like sexy, fun clothes because they make ME feel sexy and in the mood for some 'good fun'. A woman who is turned on is a 'man magnet'. It's fun to have a 'secret weapon' underneath our street clothes!


Right on! A turned-on woman will have every have the ready and rigid attention of every man in her vicinity, and if girly underthings work that magic, hell, why not invest heavily in the stuff? lol I used to hand out gift certificates to VS for Christmas where I worked- the Management got squirmy about it, but every woman I gave one two loved it. It's not like I picked out the thongs I wanted them to wear, lol, but it had just the right amount of "personal" and "sexy" to get me smiles for a while.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 193
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 1/28/2011 2:43:59 PM

Of course, this is one reason why women want to get married, to prevent the choice of 'restaurants'. Especially since those who are 'well maintained' are the rare exception rather than the rule.


I think what we may disagree on, is what is sexy, when it comes to garments, over or under. I can put on the mans button down dress shirt that he had hanging on a hook in the bathroom, with only a few buttons fastened, nothing else on, and I guarantee he wont be looking for another place to eat. (I did this once)
Improvising is sexxxy as it gets. Remember Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman, when he came home and she was sitting with high heels on and nothing but the shoes and one of his neckties? With the right body, anything works. Even covering up with a few Post Its. One on each nipple and one down dere. We're good to go.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 194
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 1/28/2011 4:42:50 PM

You know..I use to wIsh I was a Fireman..someone is usually glad they showed up when called..being a cop..not so many people were happy when we showed up..and to think, I could have been a Master Custom Corseterer..sigh..the older I get, the more I think my career choices were quite narrow.

No one said life was fair, my Friend. Wouldn't that be an interesting booth at a job fair or college recruiting convention?
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 1/28/2011 4:51:47 PM
lingerie?
I'm not so fussed, you can be wearing a potatoe sack and a pair of old school bunnies ...we'll get naked and rub uglies together....thats what I think
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 196
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 1/29/2011 6:34:35 AM
I've never met a man who expects it or at least communicated this to me. It would simply come up as a conversation piece or when he saw me in it and expressed his enjoyment. Shrug.

I dated a man who loved it as much as I did. We would go shopping together for fun costumes and lingerie - role play, gotta love it. It is fun when your partner shares your interest. So I guess it matters for the two people involved. I don't think would enjoy being with a man who wasn't into that.

Besides, I highly recommend things like this for people whose sex lives are becoming mundane (which happens very very often in today's world - especially for those couples with young children and who are working full time!). Some people need baby steps to start to work on their sex life.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 197
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Posted: 1/29/2011 6:40:13 AM

I also think there is nothing sexier, than being somewhere like a movie theater or restaurant and letting the guy know that I'm not wearing any panties at all. and at the end of the day, if you're giving class A head, then nobody cares what your underwear is like.

OMG!
Um....Yeah! That'll do juuuuuust fine!




I'm more of a fan on a woman with a nice body and a woman who knows how to ooze sensuality...that to me is far sexier than spending money on a bunch of overpriced lingerie.


Hell yeah! I'll go for some boy shorts and a T or one of my buttondowns...


. I can put on the mans button down dress shirt that he had hanging on a hook in the bathroom, with only a few buttons fastened, nothing else on, and I guarantee he wont be looking for another place to eat. (I did this once)




Oh SNAP! ....and a dancers body too!


mixed in with sincere answers, the majority of men said it wouldn't matter if she needed a weed-whacker and could carry groceries in her panties as long as it was someone they were "into."


I would've been in the minority then!
If I have to part the brush to find the garden....the garden isn't being cared for! I don't even want to have to part any weeds to see the flower when I'm gardening!

 gwrrunner
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 198
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Posted: 2/3/2011 7:48:53 AM
love the class a part...lol
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 199
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Posted: 2/3/2011 10:21:04 AM
'Don't expect it, and it doesn't really matter. In fact, I see it as often being a crutch for someone who doesn't have the goods to go "au naturel." Something to cover up, reshape, or distract.


Of course, something naughty for role playing is entirely different.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 200
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Posted: 2/3/2011 11:22:04 AM
As with anything, it's going to depend upon the individual. I've been with guys who LOVE when I wear sexy lingerie, and will take their time to admire it, and others who just want the damn clothes OFF already. It varies greatly.

My current partner loves black thigh high stockings with nothing else, so I'll go out of my way to wear them for him. Another partner I was with recently wanted me to wear stripey thigh highs when I mentioned them, and another told me not to take my boots off. There are things I won't do (like wear 5" heels all day because someone likes them) and things I will, but if you really want to drive someone wild, getting things you know your partner likes, and that he knows you're wearing for him, seems the best way to go.
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 2/3/2011 9:25:08 PM

I like sexy, fun clothes because they make ME feel sexy and in the mood for some 'good fun'. A woman who is turned on is a 'man magnet'. It's fun to have a 'secret weapon' underneath our street clothes!

Sometimes under those dungarees I'm wearing sheer black panties, just for fun. It's my little secret.

And I'm just about always wearing a black satin bra.

Makes me feel good and my lovers like it, too.
 shakeitupbaby2012
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 202
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Posted: 2/3/2011 10:10:31 PM
I wear the really feminine lingerie all the time for myself. Works out great if I'm in a relationship.


and to think, I could have been a Master Custom Corseterer..sigh..the older I get, the more I think my career choices were quite narrow.


Cheer up Ping- many people now form second careers.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 2/4/2011 5:08:13 AM

Cheer up Ping- many people now form second careers.


Hmmmm..
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 204
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Posted: 2/4/2011 11:10:39 AM
^^^ LOL (I know of a custom corset shop, well renowned by they way, that is currently for sale. Might be something you should look into.)

~OT~ I've been reading this with such interest. There are all sorts of "intimate" apparel items that are rarely or never mentioned in these types of discussions and I do wonder if people are not considering them "lingerie" (which I don't either) but intimate, for certain. I have a latex interest. Cat-suits to be exact. I can wear silky things, lace, etc., but I never feel quite as sexy as I do in latex.
 TheToefactor
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 205
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Posted: 2/4/2011 2:14:06 PM
OT~ I've been reading this with such interest. There are all sorts of "intimate" apparel items that are rarely or never mentioned in these types of discussions and I do wonder if people are not considering them "lingerie" (which I don't either) but intimate, for certain. I have a latex interest. Cat-suits to be exact. I can wear silky things, lace, etc., but I never feel quite as sexy as I do in latex.


Please tell me your Cat Woman suit also has a bullwhip included?


RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWRRR!!!!!!!!!
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 206
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Posted: 2/4/2011 5:39:08 PM
Ooohhh. How about a leopard print catsuit? I might just order one for my GF...I showed her one online and she said she's down with it!
 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 207
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Posted: 2/5/2011 7:19:14 AM
I find it kinda funny how some men only begin agreeing with apparel once the women describe what it is hahaha.

Haven't you guys ever bought your special lady a little something at the sex shop? I know I've bought my guy stuff and Kaylie's post is a perfect example of just how much fun it is!!! Sounds like a great day Kaylie!!

Guys - this seems to be showing me that many of you seem to be okay with the status quo of sex. The vanilla wham, bam. Is it up to the woman to introduce these things? Some say you don't need it, but then you get all excited when more discussion is held?

Please enlighten me, as this always reminds me of TV or a movie where you see a couples's sex life faltering and then you see the woman showing up in lingerie as a way to "save" their sex life. What does the man do?! Am I off base here? Or is this an individual thing?
 Arlo_Troutman
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 208
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Posted: 2/5/2011 8:36:50 AM
(kayliecat) Oh and a tshirt for him that says "I could still do PORN". Hahahahahha


What's the big deal? I do PORN all the time: I just walk in, choose the movie(s), pay the rental, and go...

Oh. Not what you were talking about. Never mind, then...

Arlo...
 Pingshooter
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Posted: 2/5/2011 8:49:48 AM
Now this is a true story..I had one item bought for me..it was a little silky sack thing that holds your balls and has an elastic hole for the wang..LOL

Needless to say, we broke up laughing when my late wife decided, JUST LIKE A MAN..it was fine to wear, but when it got right down to it, it was.. "let me at it"..off it came..heh
 CompuG8r
Joined: 10/4/2010
Msg: 210
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Posted: 3/3/2011 5:33:29 AM
Questions that, I, as a woman wonder is, "Do Men Really Expect" a woman to wear sexy lingerie and/or intimate apparel; and, "Does It Really Matter"?


As for me, I don't "expect" it. If I'm in a relationship, it's a given that I find the woman I'm with sexy. I want her to wear what makes her feel good. Of course if she wants to wear something sexy to spice things up a bit, I don't have a problem with that.

I think the birthday suit is the sexiest thing of all. Fashion doesn't get any better than that!
 CompuG8r
Joined: 10/4/2010
Msg: 211
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Posted: 3/3/2011 5:39:24 AM

What's the big deal? I do PORN all the time: I just walk in, choose the movie(s), pay the rental, and go...


You still pay for porn? That's so 90's...
 Beminetonight
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Posted: 3/5/2011 11:30:01 PM
All this fuss over expensive underwear--how about NO underwear.
 itechman63
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Posted: 3/15/2011 8:28:21 AM
It's a nice change up from time to time but there are times that sweats and a pony tail can be just as exciting but not always lingerie and not always sweats and a pony tail. Never stay static.
 pearsonbenny
Joined: 4/11/2011
Msg: 214
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Posted: 4/18/2011 9:40:44 AM
I don't expect it, but I'm certainly a big fan of it! If a girl is gonna put the time and effort into wearing something sexy for me, you better believe I'm going to appreciate it. Whether it gives her a boost of confidence or she just likes how it feels, I find it sexier when a girl wears lingerie more for herself.
 Natgoat
Joined: 3/24/2011
Msg: 215
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Posted: 6/21/2011 10:13:07 AM
It matters to me!
And any kind of Real lady will have a collection... tucked or folded away somewhere.
Anything sultry and sheer...frilly and fancy...leather and lace...
Or just plain Fishnets will do!!
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