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Joined: 12/13/2012
Msg: 50
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Maybe some are in certain situations that they don't like and cant get out of at the time,so they are looking for someone who understands that or going thru the same thing as they are. All situations are different,that is why we should really never judge before knowing the real facts,even if we don't agree with things.
Joined: 4/30/2012
Msg: 51
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Posted: 1/28/2013 9:11:39 AM
Mine is 100% legit.

Looking forward to hearing from you, ladies!
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 52
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Posted: 1/31/2013 11:08:39 AM
I concentrate my 'Intimacy' with someone I _Care About_!!
'Intimacy'...?? YEAH!! I'm all for it...but...'Encounters'...?
I'd much rather be 'Intimate' in a _Relationship_!!!
True....there's a LOT of selfish guys out there....just as there's a Lot of 'Golddigger' women, too...
I'm just looking for a nice Lady....that Enjoys Quality Orgasms...
As part of a Loving, Caring, Sharing Partnership!!!
Joined: 11/9/2010
Msg: 53
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Posted: 1/31/2013 11:58:46 AM
Intimacy takes time and mutual respect...
you can have a booty call, or a quickie...
but I think intimacy isn't about a physical presence or 'encounter' but rather a state of emotion.

I think craigslist calls them 'casual encounters"hahah
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 1/31/2013 12:02:28 PM
I should think for obvious reasons no?
Joined: 4/20/2011
Msg: 55
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Posted: 1/31/2013 4:47:47 PM
Why bother? In these forums there is a general assumption that if you do not have looking for Long Term and "Is actively seeking a relationship" then you are just a low down, immoral sinner looking for nothing but a short term sexual relationship. May as well put "friendship" and the bluenoses on here will think you just want a one night stand anyway.
Joined: 1/27/2013
Msg: 56
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Posted: 1/31/2013 6:45:25 PM
I don't have a lot of experience with intimate encounters but I know I can't walk into a bar start drinking beer and wait all day for a woman to randomly show up and say hi, can we have sex. It's more likely the bar owner would become very rich from my continued beer drinking and wishful thinking day after day after day. It's not that women don't think the same way, it's just that they don't know the right time or place and this sight is perfect for that. Saves everyone money because they don't have to hire an escort, and they don't have to worry about hurting someones feelings, or how far the relationship is going to go. What I did notice is that most of the people listing intimate encounters chose to not put in a pic, and I think it's possible on pof for two people to actually go on a blind date. This is not possible on craigslist because everyone ask for a pic and I am skeptical about a site that has to have a pic, I swear that sight wants to frame people, that something is corrupt there. Steal identities, whatever it is I don't trust them. Even the people whom don't have pics won't date without you sending them a pic. They can't meet you somewhere, everything for them is a waste of time.
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 57
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Posted: 2/1/2013 11:09:57 AM
I have been surprised at the number of women that don't know what is actually meant by the use of the term on this site. I have run across many who take it as meaning something EMOTIONALLY intimate not sexually intimate.
Joined: 10/11/2011
Msg: 58
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Posted: 2/1/2013 5:05:09 PM
It is easier for women to have a physical partner than men.

Trouble is if a woman states they want intimate encounters , they will get a joke number of bullshit replies from everyone and anyone.

The genetics of succession dictate a woman needs to find a good mate with good genes to secure a healthy offspring. FORGET LOGIC. If a woman feels like she needs a tall man, to produce tall children (despite the fact that logic dictates we DON'T NEED TO BE TALL ANY MORE) that is the end of it. That is what rocks her boat. Women, ultimately, cannot usually control their base needs (much as men cannot control their base behaviour and end up in jail), this is why it is evident that emotion governs them. Yes, it is a stereotype, sorry, shoot me. It is still true.

Logic is not a woman's ally, this is why some women have messed up ideas of 'strength' and carry on with wife beaters due to low self esteem and a view that the wife beater is an alpha male...WRONG!

It is a shame that some women are forced to hide the truth of their nature. There is nothing wrong with wanting sex. Most people do. The problem lies in the Internet being anonymous and some women having a reluctance to admit their need for physical interaction and thinking they may be dubbed a 'slut' or 'whore' .Simply not true, as we were all born in nature to be sexual creatures for obvious reasons!
Joined: 10/11/2012
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Posted: 2/4/2013 12:43:23 PM
The problem lies in the Internet being anonymous and some women having a reluctance to admit their need for physical interaction and thinking they may be dubbed a 'slut' or 'whore' .Simply not true, as we were all born in nature to be sexual creatures for obvious reasons!

In my case I actually would like to have women who are unashamed of this, in my life...but not as a close relationship, as I don't like to get emotionally close to ANYone...yet I would like to meet women who are unashamedly (sp?) sexual with multiple partners just as a man would like to long as everyone involved takes responsibility for risk factors against disease and pregnancy. Or am i supposed to fake a relationship just to get sex?
Joined: 1/14/2013
Msg: 60
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Posted: 2/7/2013 7:36:34 PM
I love the way you think,keep up the interesting posts.
Joined: 2/25/2012
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Posted: 2/8/2013 4:39:15 AM
Why is it considered having low self esteem for wanting just sex? Everyone has physical and emotional needs and until the emotional needs can be fulfilled, work on the physical. No need to judge anyone. If that is not your cup of tea, then simply move on. And no I am not looking to just get laid!

And another point, there is a thread on here about sexual experience. How the heck do you think people get sexual experience? By sitting there and masturbating and reading up on it without practicing? Just dont be silly and wrap your willy!
Joined: 5/24/2011
Msg: 62
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Posted: 2/22/2013 8:04:16 AM
"So why would a female put "Intimate Encounter" as her reason for being on POF?"

There are some married women who want sex as they are not getting it at home... The husband may be hooked on Internet porn, impotent, or just not interested. The woman does not want to get divorced, but needs something more in her life. There are websites dedicated to this (ashleymadison being the most popular). I have met women from this site who are in this situation....
Joined: 10/11/2012
Msg: 63
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Posted: 2/22/2013 10:11:53 AM
^^^ I would fool around with a married woman, but ONLY if she is in an open relationship and her husband knows of it. I don't believe in doing things behind other's backs and betraying anyone's trust.
Joined: 12/30/2012
Msg: 64
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Posted: 2/22/2013 10:51:33 AM
ONE thing...MONEY.
Joined: 10/11/2012
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Posted: 2/22/2013 10:54:20 AM
It just happened again...I saw an ad posted by a woman, specifically looking for "intimate encounter"...then below, "must not have messaged anyone looking for intimate encounter" I was blocked from messaging her asking's the same thing? Can anyone explain the logic when it's the exact same thing? or is she looking for guys who are searching in the wrong section by accident?
Joined: 2/14/2013
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Posted: 2/22/2013 11:14:42 AM
U lot chat rubbisho:
Joined: 9/8/2008
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Posted: 2/22/2013 11:17:57 AM
There are other sites where this is the expectation of NSA or other... free too... google is your friend
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 68
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Posted: 2/23/2013 10:53:24 AM
90+% of those profiles are fake and it doesn't matter anymore because POF eliminated IE
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Posted: 2/23/2013 2:45:00 PM
Keep in mind that many of the women who are in a dating site and advertise for an intimate encounter are offering themselves as a paid "escort". They're not looking for sex, they're looking for money. And you can get a lot more exposure in a dating site than on the sidewalk.
Joined: 12/15/2012
Msg: 71
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Posted: 2/23/2013 5:34:05 PM
Well stated....Who are these bozos kidding?
Joined: 12/5/2011
Msg: 72
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Posted: 2/24/2013 4:09:52 AM
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