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 Rockin R...
Joined: 4/13/2007
Msg: 46
What is cheating?? What isn't??Page 3 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
yep RAM thats called bad karma, unfortunately not everyone believes in those values as the same applies to people who fool around with a person knowing fully well that this person is married. I would never want to participate in that sort of ordeal knowing I was a helping hand in a failed marriage. Eesh don't some people have values. Even if I was married I wouldn't cheat. I have seen too many broken homes b/c of it.

The definition of cheating in my books would be engaging in a love relationship with another mate while still beeing with another person. This involves engaging in a physical and /or deep emotional relationship Even going to the strip bar every week is considered cheating in my books thoug if u go once in a blue moon for a stag then thats ok. If u lust for porn 24-7 then you got problems you are known as a nympho or one in the making. But beeing nympho with your partner is perfectly normal. Your gal may walk funny or your balls may be sore for awhile lol.

Dancing dirty at a bar with the opposite sex who is not your mate is totally wrong.

Its ok to look and have the hots for another person but thats where it stops.

For myself when I became a pof member and got on dates for a few months I often start thinking when I surf on this site, I feel guilty. It feels as if I am cheating even though I am just checking the forums. Why I feel this way is because this a dating site with alot potential fishes checking me out.
 romanticoptimist
Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 48
What is cheating?? What isn't??
Posted: 4/24/2007 8:35:11 AM
Amen to that. If we would each ask our own self, "Would I want to be treated this way?", life would get real simpler, real fast.
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