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 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 91
looking for older women but why?Page 3 of 5    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5)

OP. If you can't score with women you own age. What make you believed you can score with the older ladies? Because they are more experience? ( A guys way of saying women who are easy to bed)


OP, Invest in alot of LUBE! Women seem to get dryer the older they get. And most aren't as tight as they were in their younger years. Stick with the younger babes. They look much hotter and are tighter and are much more wetter. Oh the joys of youth.

The joys of getting older??? We recognize that outdated stigmas are usually only quoted by someone who hasn't got a clue.


looking for older women but why?

I have no real idea other than the obvious: we're valuable. Most of us don't worry about the petty stuff, we're comfortable in our own skin, we've learned the fine art of communication that consists of more than what we bought at the mall today and it's very likely ~ we pay our own bills. What's not to like about that? OH, and as is visually apparent above me here ~ these gals look much younger than their years would indicate! Kudos to them all.
 FriendlyTeddyBear
Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 92
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 9/20/2008 7:42:56 PM
verygreeneyez, Why do you think K-Y jelly was invented? For older women who are too dry. No need to insult me.
 FriendlyTeddyBear
Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 93
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 9/20/2008 7:43:29 PM
verygreeneyez, Why do you think K-Y jelly was invented? For older women who are too dry. No need to insult me.
 FriendlyTeddyBear
Joined: 8/15/2008
Msg: 94
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 9/20/2008 7:43:58 PM
verygreeneyez, Why do you think K-Y jelly was invented? For older women who are too dry. No need to insult me.
 hapeenurse
Joined: 5/5/2006
Msg: 96
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 9/21/2008 2:20:16 AM
I'd imagine its the same reason why I tend to go for men closer to my age/a little older. I feel they (as a general rule) have their lives in order ,have had enough relationship experience to know how to act in a relationship and tend to appreciate/respect/value women more.

of course not all "older" people are like this, stupidity and drama don't always discriminate based on age , but for the most part, I've been happiest going out with/dating guys who fall between the ages of 29-41 (I'm 31)

I know when it comes to me personally , I've done a lot in the last ten years and am a vastly different woman at 31 than I was at say , 21. I have a lot to offer someone and happily live a fairly drama free life - I think those qualities are attractive to most.

as for physical attraction, there is something sexy about a person who feels comfortable in their own skin , that kind of confidence (the real kind of self esteem) doesn't typically occur in younger adults.
 StealingPrinceCharming
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 97
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 10/25/2008 2:23:38 PM
Older women have life experiences, know how to respect and care about people, and act properly at any situation. Old women are more independent, confident, self-aware, self-enriched, and more... Good for
 Tungsten Carbide
Joined: 7/31/2008
Msg: 98
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 10/25/2008 4:23:58 PM
When I was 19 I fooled around with a 32 year old cowgirl. It changed my whole life for the better. I highly recommend that you pursue this and don't be ashamed to have a sex drive. I doubt it won't be appreciated.
 Chevguy83
Joined: 2/14/2008
Msg: 99
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/11/2008 3:58:42 PM
Well, I , for one am a young, attractive, blonde guy and have had my share of girls my age or younger. I'm now 25 but for those last 5 years I've been more attracted to women in their late 30's and 40's, even some on their 50's... I was always called an "old soul" by many people, I'm one of these guys who can span generations and fit right in with either end of the spectrum. I also have attracted a few older women in that time frame... I finally did persue a few older women and had a couple of intimate experiences which were wonderful... You older ladies have more to offer in just being you, than most younger girls do with all their effort. My honest only regret is that many older women think "he's just another guy lookin for tail" and that has cut me off many times. I love everything from the conversation and onward. :)
 *~*Royal Majesty*~*
Joined: 8/5/2008
Msg: 101
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/12/2008 1:24:25 PM
It seems to be a "trend". Older women-younger guys.
I don't follow trends nor do I see the attraction in having a "boy toy".

It may be alright for some, but it's not for me. No Thanks!
 english lass
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 102
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/12/2008 1:43:51 PM
i think that it's common interest/attitude that is a large factor in whether or not i wanna date someone... but it's also life experience (which in turn contributes largely to attitude/outlook)

usually it's the older fella's who've been through more, experienced more... but not always, i realize

however, a bloke under 30 - i'm not convinced we'd really have much in common and it's hard enough to find someone like me as it is, ( good or bad similarities, lol)
 BigDMB
Joined: 6/22/2006
Msg: 103
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/23/2008 7:12:56 AM
Alas, the terms "cougar" or "milf" are merely that......they are just words (alright so the second one could justly be labelled an acronym). It is the meaning that society has placed on these words.

It also depends, i believe, upon the maturity level of the people using these words.......I know of a situation where one person was dating an older woman and seemed to be quite happy, but as soon as they left the room the rest of his friends would trash the couple.

I think that while some may put a negative connotation on dating an older woman, the thing to keep in mind is that while she may indeed be older, with those difference in years also comes a difference in experiences (both relationship-wise and sexual) and if the younger party were willing to learn from those experiences, then the younger person will be that much more richer because of it.

Personally I believe that we should all aim to be happy in this life, and if dating an older woman does that for you, than all of the power in the world to you.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 104
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 10/12/2010 2:46:08 AM
hey peeps wot the hell is wrong with older women i seem to find them more attractive also i get on better with older people always have so why is it no older women are interested? they've all got it into there heads younger lads are only after one thing not at all sort it out lady's !

Well, I just don't get why the older women aren't flocking to the OP in droves. Afer all, moron-speak is such a turn-on.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 105
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 10/12/2010 7:28:56 AM
OP- the problem isn't necessarily with older women...most women of the same age as a man are inherently more mature....so if you are with an older woman, esp one that is 10 years older or so she'll likely be light years ahead of you.

so unless you're a man that truly has his sh1t together- the dynamics will most likely be off.

it goes against the natural order of things.


personally i believe that most guys that go for older women do so because at some level they can be easier for the guy to get in bed.

and that's what he's really attracted to.
 ~Azul Ojos~
Joined: 7/2/2008
Msg: 106
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/3/2010 6:11:38 PM
^^^^^Posts 108-110 Do you guys work in unison???

Hilarious, I needed a really good laugh.....

I just couldn't help it......Really....... Hilarious......

Just date, and stop making such stupid comments for goodness sakes...
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 107
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/4/2010 9:54:12 AM

I also tell my young male co workers that all older ladies love the younger men and that they should start asking them out .

Rather broad brush you're using. I won't give a youngin' the time of day and laugh hysterically every time one of them writes me to explain that "age is just a number."

School's out. I don't train anymore.
 hungry_joe
Joined: 6/24/2006
Msg: 108
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looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/4/2010 3:31:17 PM
I date the person, not the age. If the woman is older then me, and there is chemistry and we have commonality of interests there then I will date them. Why you may ask? Because, for me it means that there is a chance of long-term success. Afterall, isn't that what dating is about the eventuality of long-term compatiablity?
 452
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 109
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/5/2010 8:42:50 AM
Its to weird and kinda gross to date someone who could be your kid.Young guys after older gals is always about sex.They deny it but its true.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 110
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/5/2010 5:41:16 PM
*Laugh* Of course it's about sex in 9,9 out of 10 cases. Why would a significantly younger guy want to waste his youth on someone who passed his age decades ago? It really takes a twisted cougar to think even for a second that there's more to it than that. Someone mentioned that it's a trend and I fully agree. Trends tend to go away. Quite frankly I think that both men and women are fed up with it anyway. The porn industry as well as Hollywood has been spreading a lot of immorality over the years and that's where $hit like this is emitting from.
 452
Joined: 11/1/2009
Msg: 112
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/6/2010 9:22:39 AM
I dont care who dates who.Its just weird and gross for me.I wouldnt do it but if someone else wants to then go at it.Its true though that boys are only into old gals for sex.Hes not gonna introduce you to mom and dad and his friends as his girlfriend.Hes not gonna marry you or have anything serious with you.If both are cool with that then go at it.Some people are cool with casual short term flings on the DL.
 SouthBayNative
Joined: 10/15/2010
Msg: 114
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/13/2010 8:13:55 PM

I love how the aging women are desperately fanning the flames of this milf/cougar trend. Older women are really no different from younger women save that they have none of the sex appeal and ten times the baggage.

Not to mention angry, frustrated and bitter because we can no longer attract bloated, pasty faced, greasy haired younger men like you. I had to settle for a 54 y.o. bf who is 6'4" and works out an hour a day, eats three healthy meals, rides his bike and plays tennis. He's skinny but ripped. Tan because he's outside on his bike or washing his car or doing work around the house, sexy as hell. But yeah, darn it I could never attract a younger guy like you.
 thuggogog
Joined: 7/26/2010
Msg: 115
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/14/2010 1:26:23 PM
but that a good call the age but not most older woman want a man there own age or close that not how soicity is working woman go for younger good looking men and that the way it been for a while
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 116
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/15/2010 9:51:03 AM

Not to mention angry, frustrated and bitter because we can no longer attract bloated, pasty faced, greasy haired younger men like you. I had to settle for a 54 y.o. bf who is 6'4" and works out an hour a day, eats three healthy meals, rides his bike and plays tennis. He's skinny but ripped. Tan because he's outside on his bike or washing his car or doing work around the house, sexy as hell. But yeah, darn it I could never attract a younger guy like you.

Bwahahahaha!! I looked at the profile and you're absolutely right, SouthBay. I wouldn't have done this guy for practice even when I was in my 30's!
 femaleconnection
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 118
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/16/2010 10:38:31 AM

I love how the aging women are desperately fanning the flames of this milf/cougar trend. Older women are really no different from younger women save that they have none of the sex appeal and ten times the baggage.


Although I have never been interested in younger men, I will say this....the young ladies still popping out kids have way more 'baggage' then my aged friends whose children are moving out these days....but you keep on thinking what you think...LOL...My aged friends have awesome jobs with good pay, kids leaving home, house paid off and a nice car in the driveway, paid off...no baggage there.

Im sure there arent any older women crying because you feel that way tho...LOL
 Pilose_Wink
Joined: 11/2/2010
Msg: 120
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/16/2010 11:38:28 AM

Its to weird and kinda gross to date someone who could be your kid.Young guys after older gals is always about sex.They deny it but its true.


Really? That’s all it’s about? While I’m sure it happens for sex sake on both sides, that has never been my case. When I was in my early 20’s, I couldn’t tolerate the childish games, tee-hee giggling and the come please me chase game, when I was in my late 20’s, I didn’t want to deal with all of the “I need to get married and have kids” game. Granted, this could have been more a product of my area, but that was what I had to work with at the time.

I have never dated anyone my age or younger, the closest has been 7 years older and I was married for 17 years to an older woman and I can assure you, if I wanted wild sex, I could have done better elsewhere. I guess I’ve have finally come around though, who I’m with now is the same age as me, but she’s still a few months older. The one thing I can say I have learned the most from older women is how to talk and get past the superficial trite B.S. that so many dance around. I must have had something to offer them because they pursued me more than I them.
 RobertKoi
Joined: 11/9/2008
Msg: 121
looking for older women but why?
Posted: 11/16/2010 6:27:52 PM
I could write a novel about younger women vs older women, etc. My conclusion after many dates as well as short relationships with both is that older women play exactly type of games you'd expect from a much younger woman. Maybe they're more settled in life with a house, car, a job, kids old enough to be out their own, etc., but that's basically it. I mean, if those were the goals in life then what's next? To find a younger guy to screw, play around with and justify it by bashing down on men their own age by calling them old, grey and boring? That's no justication because it's a complete lie in the first place. It's not because someone else is grey and boring, it's because SHE is bored with her OWN life and blames it on someone or something else. Her frustration comes out in all kinds stupid shapes and forms, including sleeping around - as if THAT would make her happier. At the end of the day she's just the same old woman she was before she chose that path late(r) in life.

As for baggage, of course younger women have less baggage. They're less scarred, they don't carry around so many disappointments, no man bashing and all that stuff. Even though they don't have the same life experience as an older woman, but hey, some older women (cougars) don't seem to mind that so why should men their age care? Young flesh seems to be more important than common ground and experience in life for these individuals. So yeah, it's 99% about sex. If someone wants to belive that a 15-20 years younger has much interest beyond that I wish you good luck indeed.
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