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 SweetTnGal
Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 29
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Well I am 45 adn I have been told I don't look it. Age is more of a fram of mind than anything else.

I usually date men that are older..but that's just my preference. I was seeing someone that was 67 and he definatly didn't act it!

Bon
 Hott Buttered Soul
Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 30
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 2:21:12 PM
heck I like being may age.. and looking my age... age doesnt dictate what I will or wont do...

I must say.. those things i still do,.. i do much better now
 Rock City Livin
Joined: 2/24/2007
Msg: 31
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 2:46:39 PM
Let's see I am 32. I have no idea how old I look I've never really asked or been told. I get carded still from time to time. If you ask my nieces and nephews I'm just plain old, but they like my music in my car, well some of it My playful side is very young, but my serious side is every bit of my years.
 Rubanesque
Joined: 3/13/2007
Msg: 32
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 2:55:32 PM
I am in my mid 40's and people think I am in my early 30's. I will admit, I don't look like I am my age and sometimes don't act it, but I am still mature on all levels. As far as sex/dating - it all depends on the person and what you want in a relationship.
I know when to behave and when one doesn't need to. An elder friend of mine always told me "Age is just an attitude". If you act old, you are old.
 harviej
Joined: 12/18/2006
Msg: 33
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Posted: 5/10/2007 4:11:40 PM
I'm only 23, but I have had a hard life.
 sosaysodo
Joined: 3/18/2007
Msg: 34
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 4:27:25 PM
I'm 48 but I look like I'm 47.
 giggleparts
Joined: 10/23/2004
Msg: 35
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 4:36:46 PM
I don't know how old I look, but I do know I look like awesome...

the giggleparts - Circlet of Ego +4
 whitedahlia
Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 37
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Posted: 5/10/2007 4:49:59 PM
I just turned 45, have been told I look much younger, (thanks Mom and Dad!)
I act my shoe size, run with scissors, mostly play well with others, and don't kick and in people's faces. I have also been known to share my bon bons.

WD
 CaughtUPeekin
Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 38
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 5:17:54 PM
Someone guessed -10 years for me recently. Maybe it's because I was walking around with a hoola hoop and a big freezie?
 capegardengirl
Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 39
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 5:28:21 PM
Age is an attitude..I agree you act as old as you feel...Im 45 and get told by others they think Im between 32 and 35.....I love all the things I did in my 20s: hiking, biking, jogging, swimming, traveling, dancing...... minus the racquetball...lol...I was a long distance runner in high school and my knees cant take it anymore...I tend to hang with friends who think young:...I have a 65 yr old friend whos going on 25..She has so much energy I cant keep up with her...People who keep me on my toes that way are are exhilarating to be around
 BreezerGal
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 41
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Posted: 5/10/2007 5:58:17 PM
Altho the calendar says I'm 50, I much prefer $39.95 plus tax!
I don't celebrate birthdays any more...just the anniversaries of my 29th birthday!
I definitely do NOT feel, nor look, as old as I thought that my parents did at 50....I'm 50, going on 40 and thinking that I'm 30.....even all my young friends have a hard time keeping up with me.....
 Moontress
Joined: 12/14/2006
Msg: 43
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Posted: 5/10/2007 6:52:32 PM
You know what's frustrating. When you're mature for your age, yet you look a lot younger. I'm not even sure what a normal 21 year old is supposed to look like these days because too many people (especially in my town) treat their bodies like a garbage chute.
 angelheart3
Joined: 2/3/2007
Msg: 45
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 7:15:27 PM
I wouldn't worry so much about how a normal 21 year old is supposed to look, just be a healthy looking one if you're 21.

As for me? I am 51 - if you look at my pic (which is very poorly focused actually), I probably look close to my age. But in person, I pass for about mid 40's usually. But I think a lot of that has to do with attitude. In terms of how I act, that depends on the situation. I can be serious and even intense which of course is going to reflect on my looks. But conversely, I can also act much younger when I'm having a blast which also reflects on my looks.

Of course it goes without saying that if one takes care of themselves, they'll look healthier and age more slowly.
 youheartme
Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 46
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/10/2007 7:33:06 PM
I still get asked for ID! People think I look almost half my age. My maturity is beyond my age. My life experience is a bit beyond my age in some areas & way behind in areas such as dating & relationships.
 bonzos1
Joined: 2/9/2007
Msg: 47
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Posted: 5/10/2007 7:46:17 PM
Baby Phat 4U....If a guy has problems getting an errection over you then he has major problems...... you are definately meeting the wrong guys.
 painter007
Joined: 5/2/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 5/10/2007 8:09:15 PM
I am 49 look 49 I guess and act.......how Im supposed to......which is just me.
 TigerBlackHawk
Joined: 8/5/2006
Msg: 49
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Posted: 5/11/2007 12:34:37 AM
I got ID carded recently in a club. I think she was checking to see if I was a Senior Citizen.
 CWLiberal
Joined: 3/18/2007
Msg: 50
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Posted: 5/11/2007 12:38:45 AM
I'm 34, I feel and act like I am in my early 20's, and I've been told that I look older. A couple of people have guessed my age to be over 40! When I was 15, people said that I was "like a 10-year-old in a 30-year-old body"! Now I suppose I'm like a 20-year-old in a 40-year-old body! My life continues to get wierder everyday...
 samidala
Joined: 11/17/2006
Msg: 51
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Posted: 5/11/2007 10:33:20 AM
I find this as well.. I dont really look my age and have always been more comfortable with people either younger or older.. I do look younger than I am and have for a long time.. And I find that although I am not immature I am just not at the same point in my life as others the same age..
 browneyesboo
Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 52
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/11/2007 10:43:14 AM
Im happy with the way I look at my age.
Whether I look it or not...is the opinion of people who look at me.
Whether I act it or not...is the opinion of people who hang around with me.
Of course...I do tend to trust the judgement of people who say I look younger than
my age...and I think the people who say I look my age are daft.
 LoveMoose
Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 5/11/2007 11:06:41 AM
I think I LOOK 28, and yet I think I act in a range of ages. I can be completely mature, or mind numbingly immature. ;)
 hockeygal07
Joined: 4/2/2007
Msg: 54
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/11/2007 1:34:57 PM
With my glasses on I look my age (38) but thankfully I don't have wrinkles or age spots yet
Genetics being what they are I am blessed with great skin - my dad is 60 and can easily pass for WAY younger than that (to the point where my girlfriends in their early 40's think he is hot - omg!).

Without my glasses and with no makeup on I look late 20's

Some days I feel 99

Most days I feel my age

Some days I act like a teenager

Most days I act my age (or older)
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 56
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Posted: 5/11/2007 2:25:43 PM
I'm 34 and most people say I look way younger. Might have to do with my personality and behaviour. I play all kinds of games, sports and generally act like a kid. When I take my 5yr old to the playground I play on everything she does. Sometimes she has to drag me back to the car- I'm not done playing on the swing.

I have friends aged in the 30's and some act like they're old fogies and look the part, others act young and look young. There definately seems to be a correlation between appearance and behaviour.
 psuralph
Joined: 4/14/2007
Msg: 57
how old you are vs how old you look/act
Posted: 5/11/2007 2:36:48 PM
I dated a women who was 27 when I was 47. Age does not mean a thing . I if see didnot move away because of job relocation we'd be together today.
 beautiful.disaster 9
Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 5/11/2007 2:56:10 PM
I'm 18... I look 22-23....and I act 14 :D
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