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 TantraD
Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 51
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why is that a woman who is in control of her sexuality and knows what she wants is a FREAK..? SLUT? Naughty? or nasty..?

un-be-fukkin-livable that this MYTH of the Madonna -whore still presists

THat men still want an innocent mother for thier children or a ring..
but a bunch they fukked silly before or unloaded in is on he most insideous suppressions of women going...

ALL THOSE parts are in all of us just like you..guys!!!!!!!!
...but religion..society and men like **SOME** of the posters here continue to perpetuate the notion we cannot be both..

SOME get it..they have their lady..in public who is still a LADY in private even as she
explores every possible scenerio in the bedroom..STILL A WOMAN..not
a freak...not nasty...but a WOMAN

and LADIES!!!!!!!!!>>>you are not helping our gender by buying into the notion YOU are a freak if you like sex..like explroing...like it wild and fun
THAT IS NORMAL...!!!!!!!!!!!


V
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 9/2/2009 8:47:46 AM
Personally I like some of both. Variety is the spice of life.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 53
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 8:58:01 AM
Both have their pros and cons. Ideally, there should be a good balance of both. Otherwise, things can get boring (or irritating) quickly. If I had to make a choice though... An angel with horns is better than a devil with a halo. (An 'alo for you Brits.)
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 54
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 9:09:59 AM

and LADIES!!!!!!!!!>>>you are not helping our gender by buying into the notion YOU are a freak if you like sex..like explroing...like it wild and fun
THAT IS NORMAL...!!!!!!!!!!!



Well, I have to agree Tantra..though it is just a saying (or maybe I'm not reading enough into it)...I'm totally comfortable with my sexuality and exploring..and I don't take the 'freak in the sheets' to heart. Sex is healthy and natural and loving and intimate for both men and women & shouldn't be turned into something negative...I get that. But thanks for the reminder =) Peace.
 Brand New Sin
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 55
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 9:30:33 AM
There is nothing hotter than a "good girl"; one that's sweet and innocent, yet can be a slut in bed; for me, and only me.
 scottdehart
Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 56
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Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:08:25 PM
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?

Hmmm...let me think on this one.....(sound of Jeapordy music)...

my answer is......

Yes.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 57
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 12:25:56 PM
I always thought guys like girls who knew when to be sweet and when to be naughty?
 wayfarer4you
Joined: 3/24/2009
Msg: 58
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Posted: 9/2/2009 12:52:53 PM
if by choice I'd rather her be up front NAUGHTY all the time ,showing herself that she is in control of her Naughtyness and able to act on it .....
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 9/2/2009 1:04:05 PM
That is exactly right "mydoggie", and very mature of you to know that at your young age.........

Just as women enjoy men who know where and where to be a gentleman, and when to be that bad boy, so do men enjoy those women who know when and where to be nothing but a lady, and where to be that tramp you so enjoy sleeping with......

Just my opinion.........
 IdoDares1
Joined: 11/19/2007
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Posted: 9/2/2009 2:22:13 PM
Depends on the day of the week.
 Calientecutie
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 61
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 4:15:45 PM
men like sweet, innocent girls outdie the bedrrom...but when they get the female in the bedrrom
they wnt the female to be wild
or to be open mind
if you are religious or a sunday school teacher
they love it
it is a thrill
 r90sboxer
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 62
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:43:55 PM

".....white lingerie kinda girls?............ rough, black lingerie girls?"



Leave the underwear at home and I'm all in........
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 63
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:47:56 PM

why is that a woman who is in control of her sexuality and knows what she wants is a FREAK..? SLUT? Naughty? or nasty..?

Good question. I get so sick of the vanilla/conservative attitudes surrounding this topic. I guess we're all sexual-sideshow-material if we have successfully figured out who we are in this department. (Thank God for non-vanilla men that simply can't fathom such ridiculousness.) JMO
 Zebra Circle
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 64
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Posted: 9/3/2009 6:55:18 AM
I like 'em well-rounded. In other words, a woman who knows how to adapt to the mood and environment. For example, when the mood calls for sweet, then be sweet. When it calls for naughty, then be naughty -- and sincerely believes in each mood, not just an act.
 *Just Jim*
Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 65
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/3/2009 7:26:43 AM
ependa said,
Sex is healthy and natural and loving and intimate for both men and women & shouldn't be turned into something negative...I get that. But thanks for the reminder =) Peace.


Yes, it is healthy and natural,as there are women who know that too without the negative connotations.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 66
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Posted: 9/3/2009 8:09:19 AM

and LADIES!!!!!!!!!>>>you are not helping our gender by buying into the notion YOU are a freak if you like sex..like explroing...like it wild and fun
THAT IS NORMAL...!!!!!!!!!!!




If it's the "normal" condition of women to be a "freaks in the sheets", then why are so many men looking for one? Sexual open-mindedness is not the normal state of most women. Should it be? I don't know. How many men could handle it anyway? I think the words "freak in the sheets" have different meaning depending on who you ask. For some, it may mean she lets him leave the lights on.
 77Angela
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 67
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Posted: 9/3/2009 8:25:17 AM
Why on earth do would anyone choose to be just one or the other???

There are times and situations that call for being "innocent", and others for being "naughty". An adult knows when to do so, and how to enjoy it!
 *Just Jim*
Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 68
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Posted: 9/3/2009 8:39:35 AM

If it's the "normal" condition of women to be a "freaks in the sheets", then why are so many men looking for one?


My guess is they haven't been with a woman in quite a while,
or watching too much porn and think all women should preform like this,or other things a man does when he's not getting any! lol
Sorry charlie, you need to tell yourself and all your buddies, it don't work that way.

And as for lights I like candles for the right glow,pre or post, after glow that is.....
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 69
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Posted: 9/3/2009 10:00:21 AM

My guess is they haven't been with a woman in quite a while,
or watching too much porn and think all women should preform like this,or other things a man does when he's not getting any! lol
Sorry charlie, you need to tell yourself and all your buddies, it don't work that way.

And as for lights I like candles for the right glow,pre or post, after glow that is.....




I get the feeling you think you just said something deep and meaningful. WTF does that have to do with my post? If you need to kiss ass and pretend to be all sensitive and down with your feminine side to get attention, that's fine. I'm not trying to block you. Just leave me out of it.
 Answerman711
Joined: 8/6/2009
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Posted: 9/3/2009 11:11:43 AM
Can't we have a little of both?
 curiosity_27
Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 71
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Posted: 9/3/2009 1:36:27 PM

" a lady in the street, a freak in the bed "


It's " a Lady in the streets ... a Freak in the sheets" ;p

Good try though, but seriously why would a guy want to have a tramp on his arm showcasing her goods to everybody. It only makes sense that a guy would want a woman to devulge all her slutty ways just for him behind closed doors, I'm just saying
 majyk1
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 72
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Posted: 9/3/2009 2:14:28 PM
Thank you TantaD!!! YOU ROCK!!!!

I noticed there was only man brave enough to acknowlege what you wrote!
Every other man and even most of the women are STILL stuck on the whole "nasty, slutty, whore" descriptions. Guess they just dont REALLY understand sexuality and exploration! Bet they'd claim to though.
 srqandy74
Joined: 8/30/2009
Msg: 73
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Posted: 9/3/2009 2:26:34 PM
Pretty much have to parrot the rest of the guys here.

Nobody...ok very few (male or female) wants a "whore" or someone who can't function in public without hitting or flirting with everyone and everything. It's embarassing and unseemly to most people, and usually not the sign of a healthy relationship.

Most men, however, do want the "naughty schoolgirl" in the confines of the bedroom and/or in intimate situations.

How to combine the both?

Try things like "naughty" little whipsers while at a formal dinner or party, for example, or not-so-subtle touches under the table while eating dinner at a public place. done right, you can still be professional/normal at say an office party, etc...while still letting your man know that you have that bad side to you.

I personally love this sort of stuff...It lets me know she's in to me and is sexually exciting, yet she is not out there hanging on to every other guy out there and can maintain some sense of decorum in public.
 TantraD
Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 74
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Posted: 9/3/2009 3:16:27 PM
lets the man know you have that bad side to you


aww jez..I thought you had it srgandy74 but...then...........

so 'sexually exciting" is "BAD"?

Some very good points were made by srgandy that whore..slut etc can MEAN to the man someone who hangs off everyone..flirting and directing her sexual energy to all..not just to him..
That was refeshing from the standard caveman.
"I want a whore in the bedroom..but then she is a freak and so unusual I can't take her to meet mom or give her a ring..
and so I look for a good girl( one who has bought into the "woman dont like it belief"but then I complain I am not getting enough.. and go find a slut for me on the side"


As a viewPOINT..men then( in this belief system) become(symbollically and literally) sexually voracious and predatory and women are supposed to control and civilize them by being pure,asexaul and witholding.Thus an open sexual woman is sinful..bad..evil..a tamp..whore..slut..
whom with the man can "Act' out his animalness...but he should be very wary of such a woman for his mate.

The woman is confused because she is told that if she "liked it" she is BAD...and the man is confused because women who are sexually active and love pleasure are bad..whores..sluts..nasty...dirty and NOT mate material.
He may be further confused because he loves both parts of woman and finds both hot but does not see it as possible for a woman to be both(******some men)

This cultural belief system is so DEEPLY rooted in literature..law..archetype and patterns..that SHAKING them from your personal ETHOS can be very difficult.
The first step to exploring them is recognizing them and I Appauld men and women who do..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Historically requirements for sexual expectations are linked with sex-negative attitudes and attempts to control SEXUALITY IN THE INTERESTS OF SOCIETY.

Control IS THE KEY WORD HERE..

IN PARTICULAR THE CONTROL OF REPRODUCTION IN THE INTEREST OF PRIMOGENITURE OR OTHER DYNASTIC GOALS..

so theses are relatively NEW ingrained belief systems that we see popping up here on this thread ..however basic in their rudimentry explainations.

and HAVE nothing to do with PLEASURE AND LOVE and everything to do with enforced beliefs about WO/MEN..in order to maintain such thing as family lines etc.

Most of the men on this thread have shown themselves to be narrow puritans with very limited knowledge of the sexual nature of human beings..and seem NOT YET READY to deal with the frightening prospect of a truly free sexual open woman..

Their base level instinct and unwilling ness to break old patterns seeks to CONTROL by calling her nasty ..dirty...whore..slut...
afterall...how could SOCIETY then KEEP some baby dollies ..sweet ...innocent
for the big ole boy to teach...corrupt...mould to his specifications?

as well I would like to add.. I have met and talked to many men who also feel THEY are being dirty..slutty and nasty when engaged in pleasure and explorations and thus
choose 1 woman for a mate and one for their dirty deeds...
HOW UNFORTUNATE....


T
 Shaitan
Joined: 7/8/2009
Msg: 75
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Posted: 9/3/2009 3:18:27 PM
Good god I find out how totally odd I am every day!! ..... sigh.....

^T^
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