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 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 51
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Most of the men I know like a 'lady in the streets, but a freak in the sheets'...

I think it depends on the guy, really though. Just like different women prefer different types of men.
 TantraD
Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 52
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 8:46:16 AM
why is that a woman who is in control of her sexuality and knows what she wants is a FREAK..? SLUT? Naughty? or nasty..?

un-be-fukkin-livable that this MYTH of the Madonna -whore still presists

THat men still want an innocent mother for thier children or a ring..
but a bunch they fukked silly before or unloaded in is on he most insideous suppressions of women going...

ALL THOSE parts are in all of us just like you..guys!!!!!!!!
...but religion..society and men like **SOME** of the posters here continue to perpetuate the notion we cannot be both..

SOME get it..they have their lady..in public who is still a LADY in private even as she
explores every possible scenerio in the bedroom..STILL A WOMAN..not
a freak...not nasty...but a WOMAN

and LADIES!!!!!!!!!>>>you are not helping our gender by buying into the notion YOU are a freak if you like sex..like explroing...like it wild and fun
THAT IS NORMAL...!!!!!!!!!!!


V
 scottoliver
Joined: 3/27/2008
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Posted: 9/2/2009 8:47:46 AM
Personally I like some of both. Variety is the spice of life.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 9/2/2009 8:58:01 AM
Both have their pros and cons. Ideally, there should be a good balance of both. Otherwise, things can get boring (or irritating) quickly. If I had to make a choice though... An angel with horns is better than a devil with a halo. (An 'alo for you Brits.)
 Ependa
Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 55
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 9:09:59 AM

and LADIES!!!!!!!!!>>>you are not helping our gender by buying into the notion YOU are a freak if you like sex..like explroing...like it wild and fun
THAT IS NORMAL...!!!!!!!!!!!



Well, I have to agree Tantra..though it is just a saying (or maybe I'm not reading enough into it)...I'm totally comfortable with my sexuality and exploring..and I don't take the 'freak in the sheets' to heart. Sex is healthy and natural and loving and intimate for both men and women & shouldn't be turned into something negative...I get that. But thanks for the reminder =) Peace.
 Brand New Sin
Joined: 2/5/2008
Msg: 56
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Posted: 9/2/2009 9:30:33 AM
There is nothing hotter than a "good girl"; one that's sweet and innocent, yet can be a slut in bed; for me, and only me.
 pub_genius
Joined: 3/18/2009
Msg: 57
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/2/2009 9:33:20 AM
Luckily for men "sweet and innocent" very often turns into "naughty" when they're in bed!

I've known a couple of girls who have seemed so sweet & innocent I felt guilty about kissing them, but they turned out to be very accomplished sexually...!
 scottdehart
Joined: 6/5/2009
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Posted: 9/2/2009 12:08:25 PM
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?

Hmmm...let me think on this one.....(sound of Jeapordy music)...

my answer is......

Yes.
 mydoggie
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 9/2/2009 12:25:56 PM
I always thought guys like girls who knew when to be sweet and when to be naughty?
 wayfarer4you
Joined: 3/24/2009
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Posted: 9/2/2009 12:52:53 PM
if by choice I'd rather her be up front NAUGHTY all the time ,showing herself that she is in control of her Naughtyness and able to act on it .....
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 9/2/2009 1:04:05 PM
That is exactly right "mydoggie", and very mature of you to know that at your young age.........

Just as women enjoy men who know where and where to be a gentleman, and when to be that bad boy, so do men enjoy those women who know when and where to be nothing but a lady, and where to be that tramp you so enjoy sleeping with......

Just my opinion.........
 IdoDares1
Joined: 11/19/2007
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Posted: 9/2/2009 2:22:13 PM
Depends on the day of the week.
 Calientecutie
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 63
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Posted: 9/2/2009 4:15:45 PM
men like sweet, innocent girls outdie the bedrrom...but when they get the female in the bedrrom
they wnt the female to be wild
or to be open mind
if you are religious or a sunday school teacher
they love it
it is a thrill
 r90sboxer
Joined: 9/18/2005
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:43:55 PM

".....white lingerie kinda girls?............ rough, black lingerie girls?"



Leave the underwear at home and I'm all in........
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 65
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Posted: 9/2/2009 6:47:56 PM

why is that a woman who is in control of her sexuality and knows what she wants is a FREAK..? SLUT? Naughty? or nasty..?

Good question. I get so sick of the vanilla/conservative attitudes surrounding this topic. I guess we're all sexual-sideshow-material if we have successfully figured out who we are in this department. (Thank God for non-vanilla men that simply can't fathom such ridiculousness.) JMO
 Zebra Circle
Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 66
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Posted: 9/3/2009 6:55:18 AM
I like 'em well-rounded. In other words, a woman who knows how to adapt to the mood and environment. For example, when the mood calls for sweet, then be sweet. When it calls for naughty, then be naughty -- and sincerely believes in each mood, not just an act.
 *Just Jim*
Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 67
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/3/2009 7:26:43 AM
ependa said,
Sex is healthy and natural and loving and intimate for both men and women & shouldn't be turned into something negative...I get that. But thanks for the reminder =) Peace.


Yes, it is healthy and natural,as there are women who know that too without the negative connotations.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 68
Do guys like sweet & innocent or naughty girls?
Posted: 9/3/2009 8:09:19 AM

and LADIES!!!!!!!!!>>>you are not helping our gender by buying into the notion YOU are a freak if you like sex..like explroing...like it wild and fun
THAT IS NORMAL...!!!!!!!!!!!




If it's the "normal" condition of women to be a "freaks in the sheets", then why are so many men looking for one? Sexual open-mindedness is not the normal state of most women. Should it be? I don't know. How many men could handle it anyway? I think the words "freak in the sheets" have different meaning depending on who you ask. For some, it may mean she lets him leave the lights on.
 77Angela
Joined: 6/20/2009
Msg: 69
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Posted: 9/3/2009 8:25:17 AM
Why on earth do would anyone choose to be just one or the other???

There are times and situations that call for being "innocent", and others for being "naughty". An adult knows when to do so, and how to enjoy it!
 *Just Jim*
Joined: 7/6/2007
Msg: 70
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Posted: 9/3/2009 8:39:35 AM

If it's the "normal" condition of women to be a "freaks in the sheets", then why are so many men looking for one?


My guess is they haven't been with a woman in quite a while,
or watching too much porn and think all women should preform like this,or other things a man does when he's not getting any! lol
Sorry charlie, you need to tell yourself and all your buddies, it don't work that way.

And as for lights I like candles for the right glow,pre or post, after glow that is.....
 Hollowecho
Joined: 1/22/2008
Msg: 71
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Posted: 9/3/2009 9:04:17 AM
Men are paradoxical when it comes to women. In my lifetime I've had male friends and boyfriends who like their girlfriends to be respectable, not slutty (looks-wise and dress-wise) but they like to lust over, drool over and have casual sex with tarty, slutty women; so they told me anyway. Straight from the men's mouths...

As far as I go, when I was a teenager I looked young for my age. In my 20s I also looked fresh-faced, didn't wear much make-up (or none at all). I used to wear an Alice band - which made me look younger still. And dressed like the student I was mainly. My boyfriends, who all had low self-esteems and were all desperate (as I was at the time, and needy) thought I was pretty, but not so pretty it was threatening. They told me I was beautiful to them initially, but later on said "Just pretty" - which was fine. My tutors and landlady often remarked that I was attractive anyway... I knew I wasn't drop-dead gorgeous to most people, but that was cool.

A couple of my exes said "I don't go for stunners because I'd feel inadequate, plus other men would look at me and think "What's she doing with him?". I got that because I also felt that way in the reverse, and it only led to ego-tripping and games whenever I 'had' fancied someone gorgeous anyway (they weren't seriously interested in me).

But my ex boyfriends had all eyed up other women who dressed very provocatively while out with me, tongues drooling. When I asked if they preferred a girl who had it all on display and that confidence, they replied "No, she looks cheap. Women like that are only good for one-nighters, you wouldn't marry them". My dad once backed that up, when I'd been moaning about men's double standards - they'd fcuk "slutty" women, but didn't want a relationship with them. Dad said "That's just the way men are - mind you, some of the ugly women are the easiest lays anyway. Because they're grateful for the attention. Beggars can't be choosers". I said "That's awful, what you've just said". Dad responded "In my own experience it's true though".

In the bedroom, they 'do' want you to be dirty - experimental, and willing to please. I didn't have a lot of sexual confidence because of past bad experience, when in most of my relationships - so the sex was bog-standard, until I met a guy called Gary. Although all the other factors were incompatible, sexually we gelled. And as I fell for him, I let him encourage me to not repress my sexuality - fantasies etc. Although he enjoyed me going 'the extra mile' to keep him happy he didn't really respect me for it - infact he called me a 'dirty biatch' on one occasion. He was pretty dirty himself but because he was a man, he applied a double-standard.

So... men seem to want the naughty, dirty girl in the bedroom but then often will look down on the woman for giving them this. It feeds their 'animal desire' and fantasies, but there's still an oppression about women being sexual. Labels. It seems unfair that men can be as sexual and as experimental as they want and not be labelled, esp if it's within the confines of a supposed loving relationship.

Basically the power balance has not really shifted over the years at all, so I've learnt. Men are still the sexually dominant animals in the bedroom, and women have to tread the fine line between their man not complaining about them being "too sexually repressed/frigid"and not being so confident and sexual as to give them cause to call them "dirty" or "whore-like". Seems to me, going from personal experience, that with many men they can't decide if they want the virginal in their bed, or the sexual

Men like the idea of 'educating' someone who appears sweet and innocent, as someone once told me. My first proper boyfriend's brother said I was "Babelicious and virginal-looking" - I was 23 but looked about 19, and hadn't had a proper relationship with a man before. That attracted men wanting to fcuk me. Power for them...

As a more sexually-confident "couldn't give a fcuk about people judging my sexuality now" woman in later years, no doubt men perceived me as more of a slut/whore - even though some of them admit (even now) to being turned on by the thought of a sexually dominant woman in bed.

To summarise I'd say a lot of men want it both ways.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 9/3/2009 10:00:21 AM

My guess is they haven't been with a woman in quite a while,
or watching too much porn and think all women should preform like this,or other things a man does when he's not getting any! lol
Sorry charlie, you need to tell yourself and all your buddies, it don't work that way.

And as for lights I like candles for the right glow,pre or post, after glow that is.....




I get the feeling you think you just said something deep and meaningful. WTF does that have to do with my post? If you need to kiss ass and pretend to be all sensitive and down with your feminine side to get attention, that's fine. I'm not trying to block you. Just leave me out of it.
 Answerman711
Joined: 8/6/2009
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Posted: 9/3/2009 11:11:43 AM
Can't we have a little of both?
 curiosity_27
Joined: 8/18/2008
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Posted: 9/3/2009 1:36:27 PM

" a lady in the street, a freak in the bed "


It's " a Lady in the streets ... a Freak in the sheets" ;p

Good try though, but seriously why would a guy want to have a tramp on his arm showcasing her goods to everybody. It only makes sense that a guy would want a woman to devulge all her slutty ways just for him behind closed doors, I'm just saying
 majyk1
Joined: 4/26/2009
Msg: 75
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Posted: 9/3/2009 2:14:28 PM
Thank you TantaD!!! YOU ROCK!!!!

I noticed there was only man brave enough to acknowlege what you wrote!
Every other man and even most of the women are STILL stuck on the whole "nasty, slutty, whore" descriptions. Guess they just dont REALLY understand sexuality and exploration! Bet they'd claim to though.
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