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 raceguy33
Joined: 7/14/2006
Msg: 191
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For me it's the closeness that I miss. The spooning in the morning when it's cold. I also miss some of the familiarity (sp) that comes with having a partner. Kowing you can come home or see them and talk about the things in your life without having to explain everything because they don't know you well enough.
 randomstoic
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 192
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 10:19:01 AM
Dinner for two.
 happy_steven75
Joined: 1/24/2007
Msg: 193
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 10:45:27 AM
Sincerely loving another person passionately and feeling that in return.....
 Magic_Wabbit
Joined: 9/5/2007
Msg: 194
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 11:08:36 AM
For me it has to be ...physical touch....not sex in particular, but the little kiss on the neck, holding hands...simply touch.
 ashley1861
Joined: 11/6/2004
Msg: 195
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 11:11:49 AM
I am single but in a long term SO kind of relationship. I still miss him when I am at my home and alone. I feel safe and secure sleeping next to him.
In any relationship, when it ends we all miss something that was good in the relationship. Then the next relationship brings new surprises.
In between you might have sex, but really don't feel totally comfortable naked.
In between you don't have the one at home who knows how you like your coffee.
In between you don't know if and when the dates are ever going to call again.
Guys, who folds your laundry so you can mow? Greets you with a drink after a hard day? Babysits your cats? Creates memories with you?
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 196
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 11:43:22 AM
Warm whispers of I love you in my ear with a gently nibble on my lobe.
 Stocker
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 197
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 11:46:01 AM
Talking trash about the inlaws at family meetings? :D
 MsWizard
Joined: 7/26/2006
Msg: 198
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 11:48:39 AM
Probably sounds stupid...but just the quiet time together....I used to write while my husband was reading or something...neither one of us talking but just KNOWING he was there.....I miss that quiet togetherness....
 Marrying Kind
Joined: 10/3/2007
Msg: 199
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 12:32:27 PM
The beautiful things a woman does to the air around her, her voice that sounds like an angel, pleasing her, feeling connected to a better soul, her soft skin, the light in her eyes, having places to go and things to do that really feel meaningful. I could go on, I have to stop.
 .Marc
Joined: 2/11/2007
Msg: 200
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 1:57:04 PM
Someone to cook for/with. As it stands I have to force my friends to let me feed them...
 SunnyTexas
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 201
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 3:45:00 PM
Someone to tell a funny joke to, or someone to comfort if they've had a bad day, cuz it cheers you up to cheer him up..sometimes.

Someone to help me dress the bed or notice the house is clean.

But the worst is the grocery store...ugh...it's so depressing, I just wander around, don't have a list, don't have meals planned, don't have anybody to ask..."Hey...do we need ketchup?"

That kinda stuff...but it's STILL * ALL GOOD * and I love bein' single. But it has it's down times.
 I-Hunt_Cuz-I-Can
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 202
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 4:04:38 PM
Someone to kiss as I walk through the door.
Someone to kiss before i head out the door.
 867love
Joined: 3/16/2006
Msg: 203
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 4:17:17 PM
i miss having my kids around full time. i loved hearing them walking down the street from the school bus. my son would always bring something home that rattled off inside of the school bus as a prize. my daughter would pick up all the citrus that would fall off the trees and cram them into her backpack along the way. -having a kitchen table full of wormy rancid lemons and her asking how to make lemonade... -how about i make you two a pitcher of kool aid instead?
 SunnyTexas
Joined: 9/28/2006
Msg: 204
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 5:21:46 PM
Oh and I miss the "community house shoes" that always stayed by the front door. Ours were Lamb Chops Slippers and they would somehow fit everyone in the house..cuz they were magic, they were for runnin' out to the car, or chasin' a critter away. My husband looked kinda silly in 'em but he had small enough feet to wear them. The Lamb Chops houseshoes on his feet and a shotgun in his hand, runnin' out to shoot a bobcat or coyote was a sight to see. They were also lucky houseshoes when our daughter would wear 'em outside to spy a copperhead.

No need for any now, cuz I got my own that fit perfect. No critters to kill, or snakes. I still think they're magic.
 Charliebrown1563
Joined: 9/23/2007
Msg: 205
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 5:26:45 PM
Making plans together, physical and emotional intimacy from making love to the simplicity of a gentle touch on my shoulder or face that makes my chest tingle inside. Her head on my lap, or mine on hers, the lights down low just being ourselves with out a need for pretense or show. The comfortable silence two can share when they are connected. Feeling at peace just by her presence in the room with me. Being in a crowd but always feeling connected, just by a knowing glance across the room into each others eyes. The feeling knowing she’s got my back, and her knowing and trusting that I’ve got hers. Someone to call in the middle of the day just to say “Hi, how are you, how’s your day?” Someone to call me in the middle of the day just to say “Hi, how are you, how’s your day?” Someone to wrap my arms around while we watch the sunset together. Calling the florist to have flowers sent…….just because. A reason to enjoy valentines day with reservations made for a wonderful romantic dinner followed by…… ( I think you can fill in the blank)

Conversation, laughter, sharing your hopes, dreams, and fears together. Falling asleep in each others arms at night, or on a rainy sunday afternoon snuggled up together. Waking in the middle of the night and looking at her sleeping, peacefully, and thinking to myself…..she’s beautiful. Caressing skin, everywhere, bodies woven together under the covers. Going to the grocery store and feeling like you have a purpose for being there instead of shopping for one as usual. The peace I felt knowing my kids were safely asleep under my roof as I layed my head down each night. Coming home to a house not filled with silence. Not feeling uncertain of the future, happiness, wondering if this is all the better it’s going to be from here on out? Will I ever find someone? Will she find me? Wow I really like her. Will she call me again……….should I call her? Will there be another date?

Someone to love………….someone to be loved by………

I can go on……
 wrobt
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 206
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 5:30:17 PM
I PERSONALLY HAVE TO AGREE WITH YOU. BUT EVEN MORE IS THE GENUINE CLOSENESS I FELT. LIKE WHEN YOUR ASLEEP AND YOUR PARTNER MOVES JUST A LITTLE CLOSER. I MISS THAT SOMETHING AWFUL
 kr8ztwin
Joined: 7/29/2004
Msg: 207
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 6:56:51 PM
just to have someone to be with you instead of having those quiet nights of self thought that never go well when yer lonely

theres a hundred things I miss but in my bad luck of relationships theres a 101 things I don't miss so it keeps me on the single side for now. I'm just waiting for someone to change the "odds" heh
 irish girl in mi
Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 208
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 8:41:37 PM
I miss having someone to lean on, or share good news with...i miss having a best friend...the late night intimate conversations, the ealry morning cuddling before facing the day...the simple things
 ~Myth~
Joined: 6/1/2007
Msg: 209
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/16/2007 10:49:09 PM
The touch . . . the hug . . . the spooning . . .

 lie to me
Joined: 9/17/2007
Msg: 210
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/17/2007 12:03:38 AM
I missed having someone else be strong. I have to be the one 24/7, tow the line, carry the world, get it done, you name it. It gets tiring. It stresses you out. It wears you down. You just want to give up and go live under a rock. To have someone else come into my life and be strong - means the world to me.
 Showmethewit
Joined: 9/9/2007
Msg: 211
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/17/2007 4:00:58 AM
Conversations over morning coffee...someone asking me and really caring how my day was....a hug when I need one.....a kick in the ass when I need that too....feeling connected and knowing it's mutual.....

LOL...and yeah...morning wood too!
 FunFriends2011
Joined: 7/22/2007
Msg: 213
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/17/2007 7:47:32 AM
I miss the friendship I can only have with a man...kissing hello & goodbye...helping with things around the house I (or my girlfriends, fam) can't physically do...the LAUGHTER most of all (in a male/female way)! Intimacy. They way a man holds me in public and private. I also miss the vulnerability a man can expose...means a lot to me. My girlfriends can speak freely about emotions and feelings, but when my SO exposes that to me...it means a lot.

Just a few of my favorite things...
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 214
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/17/2007 7:53:44 AM
I think it is called "companionship", and when single and alone, that can go by the wayside much to often.

Life is to short to not have some companionship in your life, but then again, life can seem even longer if you have the "wrong" companionship in your life as well.

Just my opinion.......
 Meface
Joined: 11/15/2006
Msg: 215
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The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/17/2007 8:06:26 PM
Dirty socks all over the apt.
 iluvparis
Joined: 4/13/2007
Msg: 216
The one thing you miss most when you are single
Posted: 10/17/2007 8:36:11 PM
I miss 2 things:

Having someone you can call and share something that made you think of them...little things just between the two of you....or something funny that you can't wait to tell them.

Being touched....hugs, holding hands.....daily physical contact
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