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 phine_likker
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 51
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.Page 3 of 17    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17)
^^

or don't, 'not' shaving every day also = no stubble.

reminds me of those stupid "hair replacement" ads they used to have..

some dude: " NOW I can go swimming and feel perfectly natural."

Ummm, couldn't you do that BEFORE your hairweave/plugs?

you could do it bald, you just didn't like people looking at you in a certain way.

somehow the human race survived for millenia without people shaving their pubes; I'm fairly sure it can last longer without it too.


is it partially a fixation on youth (trying to look like you are 12?)


I didn't mean that Britney et al started the shaving thing; I know that, I meant they seem to have made the 'flash' fashionable.
 howtosurvivechaos.com
Joined: 6/4/2006
Msg: 52
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 9:51:48 AM
Nightwing's right, "it's about how you phrase the request."

Demands get an immediate negative response. Otherwise, the demands never end. I would have trimmed up had she been more diplomatic in her request. She was a pain in the ass and I am glad she's gone.

And, in my life I have learned to avoid women who refer to themselves as "goddess" or "princess." They are just way too high maintenance and treat men like servants.
 HoseLuvr111
Joined: 5/29/2007
Msg: 53
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/8/2007 10:58:24 AM
True story here:
An ex g/f of mine had WAY too much pubic hair. For a long time, I tried everything to convince her to shave or at least trim a little, so that it didn't look like Jimmy Walker's head was sticking out of her beaver!!
One day, she said, "fine, if I have to, you do too". I thought, well, small sacrifice!! She shaved and so did I. That was a couple years ago, and I gotta say, I still shave on a regular basis. It just looks and feels better. And for a guy like me who enjoys having his balls licked, women are way more into that with a smooth bag than one with a rain forest on it!!

I say to all men who are considering this: DO IT!! You'll thank yourself and so will your partner. Not to mention much more attention will be paid to your balls.
And since I've been shaving my pubes, I've never seen a curly hair in the tub or on the toilet - it's a win-win!!
 SmellOfPoop
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 54
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/11/2007 2:24:01 PM
Men are no longer men. Most married men all say the same thing: Just say, 'Yes dear.'
It seems to me that these are the very men who might as well be women. I don't believe in being controlling, but I'll be damned if I'm going to be a yes-man to anyone. EVERY male I personally know is like this AND they're the only ones not getting any from their women.
 phine_likker
Joined: 10/25/2006
Msg: 55
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/11/2007 4:48:42 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

way too many men are basically women without breasts!
 Evangelique
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 56
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/20/2007 11:55:14 AM
Well..I might be considered a biatch after admitting this, but I refuse to put up with a bush on my men. I like oral sex too much to have a mound of wirey hair in the way. I want to feel his skin..not his perspiration scented hair in my mouth, or the strays that break free and gag me.
If I'm going to gag on anything, it better be his c*ck and not his hair.

Some women find the scent of a man down there a turn on.. I prefer it to be a clean shaven surface - besides he feels so much more pleasure and intensity without his hair getting in the way of my lips and tongue. Besides - guys, a great way to make your c*ck appear even bigger, is to get rid of the bush!
Trust me - it's just one of MANY tricks of the biz.

However, there is such a thing as decorum - and it goes much further than rudeness and ultimatums. I like to gently introduce the idea, followed by a few reasons why he will benefit greatly.
If, and when he succumbs to my wishes, I will take care of it for him. I am very skilled at shaving my men from top to umm.. err... bottom.
Just make it a fun, sexy and seductive - it can serve as foreplay when done correctly.
 bestcitygirl
Joined: 5/14/2007
Msg: 57
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/20/2007 5:38:26 PM
oh God........women dont care about mens pubes, just concentrate on being a good lover, and clean your house lol
 Evangelique
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 58
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 6/20/2007 5:52:35 PM
^^^^ I love UK men!
 fetish4u
Joined: 4/18/2007
Msg: 59
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/4/2008 11:25:50 PM
I shaved my pubic hair once just to see how it felt.Never again.I never itched so bad when I did this.I hate seeing a woman shave hers too.It looks so sexy when women don't shave down there.
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 60
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/14/2008 6:49:38 PM

I don't understand what this thing is about pubic hair and why men are shaving it.


LOL...aren't you just the cutest thing? What don't you get baby? That for some people, shaving themselves completely bald is a turn on, or that not shaving at all and letting Mother Nature do her thing is a turn on?

I've dated both...shaved and not. I have to agree with another poster who said that people were going down before the advent of "shaving your pubes" and you didn't hear the "I got hair in my teeth" complaint. I think most people just shrugged it off.

Oh...what am I you ask? LOL...not telling. You'd have to be down there to find out!
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 61
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/14/2008 7:01:39 PM
[quoteI guess pubic hair has never been an issue with me. I'm not saying I prefer it or don't prefer it, it's just never been part of any preference with me.

LOL...I don't think some of us would have gotten that from your puzzled question. And good for you about it not being a big issue! There are more important things to be worried about finding down there aren't there???


You're talking to a bi-sexual man here.... lol




Then that doesn't exclude you from looking at girls...does it (thinking I'm missing something...)? LOL...and that was a general you, not YOU you...

Still cute!
 Great Kissing/ Real Love
Joined: 9/26/2006
Msg: 62
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/14/2008 7:36:11 PM
I like how people are being authentic on here. It is all about communication. Anyone that blocks the at flow of communcation and negotiation is abusive and coming form fear IMJ. The bottomline is most people act very emotionally immature and very narcissistic (me, me, me, me, me) without seeing the other's point of view...only through courageous communication can one have real emotional intimacy and that is the only way that great sex will last long-term.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 63
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/14/2008 7:53:07 PM

who wants to be a little girl again?

Good grief. I am still amazed, amused when I read such ridiculous statements. If someone doesn't know the difference between a grown woman and a pre-pubescent girl, hair isn't the problem.

~OT~ LMAO. This thread just gets more and more entertaining as time passes. It's really quite efficient at the "weeding out" process. (Oh, bad hair removal pun there...HA) I'm usually a "no kiss and tell" person, however ~ I'm OK with my reality on this topic: no chia pets allowed (either party).
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 64
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:18:31 PM
What a thread, I don't know whether to laugh or cry. Over 13 months, 8,100 views, and nearly 170 posts; on pubic hair. Is this a beautiful society or what?

OP, watching your posts go from militant to accepting is cool. Nobody ever even suggested I shave; I shave because I want to; and I've never had my masculinity questioned. It's also not a porn, or fashion, thing. I shave because the sensation of touch is so much more enhanced, whether it's with fingers, tongues, or feathers; things will drive you nuts (no pun intended) that you couldn't even feel if you had hair. I'm with you on the "demand" thing though. The fastest way to assure I will NOT do something, is to demand that I do it. As far the as pubes go, they're on you dude. You can obviously do what you want, but I would suggest maybe shaving them, or trimming them up real close, seeing how much different the sensation is when they were being "attended to", and make up your mind from there.

verygreeneyez -- would you mind emailing me your "secret" regarding achieving the smoothness of "oriental silk"? Thanks.
 Rythmn
Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 65
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/14/2008 8:47:20 PM
a wise man once said: "forgiveness is the key to happiness and enlightenment". look familiar OP? i believe it's on your profile. to forgive means to let go. as per the above thread, i'll take his word for it, you appear to be adjusting.

it's not for me to comment upon anyone else's pubic hair. i have way other priorities on my list of meetups. however, i will say about seven years ago, when this new "fad" was brought to my attention by my kids and confirmed by their physician that indeed this was the new "way to go", i was horrified.

in my generation, this meant going to another country and meeting a prostitute who tried to look like a little girl! it was a definite no no. trimming was one thing, shaving all off was another. well, i 've learned that all this has changed. and for some, there are "practical" reasons. i was lectured "on the topic" by a few male buddies. we were supposed to be in an al anon meeting, but we cheated as they thought it was so funny that my eyes almost popped out of my head. at that time, about three years ago, it was conclued that the guys were 5o=5o on this topic! i think it varies by age, purpose, ethnicity, et al. they were all in their 30's and 40's. oh, to be young again....they were too funny!

it sounds like you were hurt by this woman or maybe had really poor communication. i have learned we can only work on ourselves and look good for ourselves. so, i hope your pubic hair focus group has led you to where you need to be. i do hope you trim the toe nails. ... just joking. ...well, maybe not. i think overall women like a man to take care of himself. that has as wide a latitude as it does with women. not every man likes a made up woman. some, however, think nothing of fake boobs. it varies.

given you more important concern, just be sure "the next one" likes dogs. to me, that is a way more important requirement.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 66
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/14/2008 9:36:34 PM

I don't understand what this thing is about pubic hair and why men are shaving it.


Because women seem to go for it thses days (or at least prefer a good trim). Let's face it, if guys tried to _understand_ what women wanted instead of just saying, for example, ``What the hell, I'd rather get laid and receive more and longer BJ's than worry about a patch of hair nobody but me wants to see,'' guys wouldn't live long enough to get laid. If I get more mileage out of shaving it, what the hell do I care about a patch of hair that hurts if it gets caught in a zipper?
 ripley65
Joined: 2/8/2008
Msg: 67
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/15/2008 5:56:10 AM

YOU HAVE TO CHANGE WITH THE TIMES.


^^ that is correct,,,to a point. You dont HAVE to change and some wont.

Who cares where it started whether it was porn, or just someone bored one day and decided to rebel and shave all their pubes off and inadvertantly started a trend! Doesnt matter. What does matter is....that it is soooooooo much nicer with it off,,or off in certain areas only (top very shortly trimmed, bottom part shaved). For those of you that are hanging on to all that hair ~ wouldnt it be kinda nice that your lovers dont have to stop every few secs to remove the hair out of their mouths (both genders)??

Im personally not a fan of the total bald look. A nice VERY short trim on the top (those long hairs tickle the nose lol), and smooth on the bottom (yes guys, that means shave yer boys! lol)

JMO tho.
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/15/2008 6:20:54 AM
Change with the times? Says who?

I am so glad I'm not a sheep.
 sniperbull
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 69
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 7/17/2008 1:53:26 PM

Me, I could care less if a woman shaves her bush, armpits or legs. And have always thought that this expectation of women was grossly unfair and sexist.



I feel the same way. i think its completely absurd that society causes women to feel out of place when they have hair anywhere... i personally feel that nothing is more attractive than a natural body, and we were all born with hair...
 passionteman
Joined: 3/7/2005
Msg: 70
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 9/4/2008 7:27:57 AM
I trim my pubs on regular basis and also have shaved as well. I don't see any problem with doing that and it has nothing to do with my manhood i.e. I still have a Penis and not a Vagina.

And......................


Have my sexy deep voice.


And.........................

There are no lice living there either. :)
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 71
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 9/4/2008 9:23:55 AM

My preference is for a shaved scrotum and well trimmed everywhere else. I will ask, might even offer to do it for you, but would never make it a demand or ultimatum. Just know that with out all the extra fur, I'm more apt to spend way more time in that zone with my tongue then if it's au natural.

Oh.. and I always say please.


No. 1 BBY, I take the identical approach to women. I also cater the drinks. There is all kinds of potential along this path. I also try to lead by example, because maximizing skin to skin contact hones the edge, I wouldn't expect my lover to relish any hair (the pubic variety seems the most difficult to dislodge) in her mouth any more than I do, the rest periods to remove are a most unwanted interruption, and I don't much like any obstacles to full access.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 72
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 9/6/2008 8:38:58 AM

God created most of us with hair on our "private parts". What's the big deal. BE HAIRY, BE PROUD!


Awww, deb815, you're such a babe! why'd ya hafta play the "intelligent design" card?
WHOOOOOOSH! (air deflating tires). lol
 Beminetonight
Joined: 3/3/2008
Msg: 73
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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 9/6/2008 9:04:40 AM
My gf and I are all natural in the crotch area. We've talked about how some people have this desire to shave, or have their partner shaved, but we ended up saying "No thanks".

Well actually it was more like NO THANKS.
 TampaRays
Joined: 7/12/2008
Msg: 74
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 11/22/2008 2:09:54 PM
A guy shaving just seems a littly sissy.
 ohthereugo
Joined: 2/12/2008
Msg: 75
I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair.
Posted: 11/22/2008 3:13:20 PM
Some of these are funny comments had a good laugh .

Glad i live in Australia our women arnt like the ones you described .well there are some hehe

Funnily enough i like the look of American women . HAVE CHECKED THEM OUT ON HERE PICS THAT IS .

Man if you dont wanna shave then dont . Now if you fall in love with a lovely woman i bet you shave your pubes .

Shaving isnt sissy or less manly its a choice .

And your choice may be a bit sissy lol . Only pulling your leg .
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